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Mary Lee Estes

1942 - 2021

Mary Lee Estes obituary, 1942-2021, Kenai, AK

BORN

1942

DIED

2021

Mary Estes Obituary

Mary Lee (Colston) Estes was born Sept 11, 1942 in Houston, Texas to Mary Virginia (Boyd) Colston and George Lee Colston. She died September 19, 2021 in Soldotna, Alaska, surrounded by the love of family and friends. She was 79 years old.
Born and raised in the Tomball, Texas area, Mary attended Texas Woman's University, where she majored in English and met her lifelong friend, Linda. Upon graduation in 1964, she and Linda moved to Crownpoint, New Mexico where they both taught at the Navajo Reservation. After two years, Mary moved to Alaska on another adventure "on my way around the world," she said. She got a job teaching special education at the "Kenai School" in 1966. (She was the first Special Education teacher on the peninsula!) In 1967 she met Don Estes at Larry's Club (at the restaurant, NOT the bar, she insisted) and they married in 1968. Mary's job as a special education teacher turned into a position as librarian first at North Kenai Elementary, then Kenai Elementary and finally Mountain View Elementary, retiring in 1996. Her love of books, reading, storytelling, elephant jokes and all things Texas is legendary among her family and a whole generation of students who attended those schools. Even after retirement, Mary spent many years volunteering and subbing in local schools before "snowbirding" in Las Vegas to enjoy retirement, be closer to extended family, and work on her many projects.
The self appointed memory keeper for the family, Mary will forever be remembered as a voracious storyteller, creative scrabble player ("Texas Rules!"), and fierce protector of all her kids. Her gregariousness, imagination, patience, kindness, thoughtfulness, and unconditional love for her family and friends will be sorely missed. While Mary never made it around the world, she created a world of love, laughter, adventures and stories with her family, friends, and the students who were lucky enough to know her.
Mary is survived by husband of 54 years, Don Estes of Kenai, Alaska; Daughters Dawn (Bryce) Choate of Kenai, Audrey (Tracy) Alfson of Houston, Minnesota, and Cindy (Bryan) Goforth of Boise, Idaho; Grandchildren Rachel (Mike), Alex, Hailey, Madison, Kennedy, Brylee and Adalynn; Great-Grandson Jameson; Sister-in-Law Cecilia (Cecil) Colston; Dear friends Linda (Ross) Heiland, and Anne (Don) Ritter; and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews, and many, many loving friends.
She is welcomed to Heaven by her parents, her brother Cecil and sister Barbara, and the ancestral family whose stories she has so lovingly collected and preserved over her lifetime.
In honor of Mary, her family asks you to put a book in the hands of a child: donate books or money to your local library or school; or at the very least, at every opportunity, gather the children around you and share your stories.
There will be a Celebration of Life held on Saturday, August 6, 2022, at the Nikiski Community Recreation Center.
Open House from 11-1pm with a program beginning at 1pm. Bring your stories to share while enjoying food, fun, and games. All are welcome.
The family will be accepting donations of new or gently used children's books and cash donations to support a love of reading, writing, and storytelling for area children.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Peninsula Clarion on Aug. 3, 2022.

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Monica Heath

August 8, 2022

Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. I worked with Mary at Mt View and will be donating the first ten Hank the Cowdog books to the Mt View Library in her honor.
Take care

Linda Raemaeker

August 8, 2022

Mary was a wonderful person & I always enjoyed her stories and her wit. As an educator, she was devoted to student improvement and success. I will always remember the laughs and community projects we worked on together as members of Delta Kappa Gama, Lambda Chapter. She had so much love & pride in her family, children & grandchildren. I am so sorry for your loss. Dawn, she spoke fondly & lovingly of you, your siblings. Don & her grandchildren- you all were her joy. She will be missed

Evelyn

August 3, 2022

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Awesome lady. She was the librarian at North Kenai El when I went to school there.

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