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Lavinia Randolph Johnson Allen

1931 - 2020

Lavinia Randolph Johnson Allen obituary, 1931-2020, Chesapeake, VA

BORN

1931

DIED

2020

Lavinia Allen Obituary

Lavinia "Lynn" Randolph Johnson Allen age 88 went to be with our Lord on April 3, 2020. Lynn was born in Baltimore, Maryland to John and Isabelle Johnson on September 23, 1931. She grew up in Princess Anne County with her mother and stepfather John E. Drinkwater. She graduated from Oceana High School on June 9, 1949. Lynn married the love of her life Edward L. Allen on December 3, 1949. They proceeded to have and raise four children. Lynn worked at Sunny Brook Day School for 20 years. She attended Scott Memorial United Methodist Church throughout her adult life.

Lynn is survived by her loving children Marta, Michelle, Tim (Donna), Robin and her husband Joel; her grandchildren Robin, Kelly, Jordan and wife Christina, Morgan and husband Thomas, Catriona, Breannen (Quinn), and Sidonie; great grandchildren Landon, Gabrielle, Kellie, Julianna, Jensen, Kaia, Gabriel; and great-great grandson Liam. Lynn will also be missed by her furry friends Jack, Buddy, Mac, and Betty.

Lynn was a loving wife and a caring mother who "anchored" the family. Lynn enjoyed reading, sewing, cooking and gardening. In her later years she enjoyed spending time with all her grandkids. Also, a special thank you to Joann and Jean from Medi Home Health and Hospice for their care and support during our time of need.

A memorial service will be announced at a later date. Express condolences to the family at www.altmeyerfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 12, 2020.

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Michelle Allen

April 20, 2020

It was a sad day in my life to lose my Mom...no words can describe the feelings or acceptance that she was no longer here with us...then as I was going through Dad's stuff I stumbled upon her choice for the back page of his Memorial Pamphlet a poem written by Mary Elizabeth Frye:

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the star shine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave bereft
I am not there.
I have not left.

And I realized that she wasn't gone but all around me.

Momma I will miss you dreadfully but know that you and Dad are always close....

Your Loving Daughter Michelle

Robin Lester

April 12, 2020

My grandmother without her there would be no methank you for your life and how you loved your family Thank you most of all for my mother Michelle Allen May you rest easy in heaven, Lanky has been waiting for you.

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