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Thomas J. O'Connor, IV
Suffolk - Thomas Joseph O'Connor, IV, left us May 6, 2013. Thomas was born on June 18, 1976 in Suffolk, Virginia. He will be loved and deeply missed by his parents, Tim and Helen Johnson, his father Tommy O'Connor, his brothers, Jamie and Jett Johnson, his sister Sadie O'Connor, and his living grandmothers, Alice O'Connor and Anna Johnson. Thomas will also be missed by numerous aunts, uncles and cousins, as well as dear friends, the latter of which there are too many to count.
Thomas graduated from Nansemond-Suffolk Academy in 1994, before going on to study at James Madison University. Thomas came from a family with a long tradition of Scouting. He grew up in Troop 1, years later receiving his own Eagle Scout Award from Troop 30. Always the avid outdoorsman, Thomas lived and worked on the water on the Eastern Shore of Virginia. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping, and, most of all, spending time with his friends and family.
A celebration of life will be held at his home at the Boy Scout Amphitheater directly behind Johnson's Gardens, 3201 Holland Road, Suffolk, VA on Thursday, May 9, at 11 a.m. Please wear comfortable clothes and walking shoes. Family will receive friends following the service.
A Boy Scout Scholarship Fund has been set up in Thomas' name. Memorial contributions may be made to the Thomas J. O'Connor, IV Memorial BSA Summer Camp Scholarship, c/o MSUMC, 202 N. Main Street, Suffolk, VA, 23434. R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home and Crematory is assisting the family. Condolences may be registered at www.rwbakerfh.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on May 8, 2013.

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Cheryl and Mike Goins

May 14, 2013

Helen, Tim and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Thomas. Our thoughts and prayers are not only with you today but in the months to come.

Linda & Howie Soucek

May 11, 2013

We join others in offering our heartfelt condolences, along with our love and prayers.

Theresa Chick

May 9, 2013

Dear Helen & family,
Our family is so very sorry for your loss and God bless all of you through this time.

May 9, 2013

Our hearts hurt for you and your family! Our prayer is that you will feel the loving arms of God wrapped around you during this time! You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Betty and Marty Burgess

May 9, 2013

Tommy and family, We were shocked and saddened to learn of Thomas's death and we send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

May 9, 2013

Dear Tommy,
I was so sorry to learn of the death of your son, especially one so keen on the outdoors. Please accept condolences from all of us on the Cape Charles Historical Society Board.

Marion Naar

Deidre Dickens

May 8, 2013

Helen, Tim, Jamie and Jett,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of your dear Thomas.

Dena Harrell Bailey

May 8, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear about Thomas's death. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

May 8, 2013

Kathy and I are so sad for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Love in Christ,
John and Kathy Boothe

Kelly Lee

May 8, 2013

Helen and Tim,
I am so sorry for your loss. You all and your family are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the coming months.

May 8, 2013

Tommy, so very sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of you and your family. Joni Joyner

Tracy P. Carr

May 8, 2013

Helen and family; I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and heart go out to you all. May God keep you close and safe.

Theresa Williams

May 8, 2013

I am so sad to hear about Thomas. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Suzy Kennerly

May 8, 2013

Tommy,
So so sorry to hear about your loss. Words can't begin to express my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

JOANNA MELITO

May 8, 2013

THE MELITO FAMILY SENDS THEIR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO YOU NOW AND IN THE FUTURE....GOD BLESS.

Tony Deena and Danielle Cordero

May 8, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss, we send our deepest condolences.

Bobby Smith

May 8, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss.may god be with you all.

Meredith Restein

May 8, 2013

Thomas was a dear friend and a wonderful person, who will be deeply missed by our family and so many here on the Eastern Shore. You are in our thoughts and prayers, and we are so sorry for your loss. He will be in our memories, always!

Jim Gordon

May 8, 2013

My words are inadequate and my heart is broken. Peace be with the families and with Thomas.

JoAnne Carr Woolard

May 8, 2013

Tim and Helen.....So very sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jimmy Parks

May 8, 2013

Tommy, so sorry for your loss,I will be thinking and praying for you and your family.

Betty Scott

May 8, 2013

Dearet Tommy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May God keeps his loving arms around you.

Linda Eure

May 8, 2013

So very sorry to hear of your loss. I still remember coaching Thomas in T-Ball at SYAA. He was my star player that year. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Linda Wiggins Eure

Susan and Brent Holmes

May 8, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

May 7, 2013

Our thoughts are with you. We have walked on this path and it's very hard.

Dean and Sarah Carter
Oldsmar, FL

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