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FRANK WARE Obituary

WARE, FRANK HOLMES - of Rockford, IL - A quotation Frank Ware kept on his desk expresses what was, perhaps, the guiding principle of his belief system: "Nothing exists that so fills and binds the heart as love does."~ Umberto Eco. The quotation is etched into a picture frame containing an image of Frank and the love of his life, wife, Lorraine Hoover, on the Jersey shore of Cape May, their special place. Lorri died Oct. 10, 2010. Frank joined her on another beautiful shore on Sunday Feb. 13, the eve of Valentine's Day. Frank Holmes Ware was born in Hammonton on Dec. 8, 1946, the eldest of seven children of Frank and Virginia Ware. Young Frank was the family jokester and storyteller, often scaring his younger siblings with gruesome tales and pranks inspired by the mythical "Jersey Devil." Educated in a two-room schoolhouse in Nesco, Frank went on to attend Oakcrest High School, graduating in 1965. Frank left New Jersey to attend William Penn University in Oskaloosa, Iowa, earning a BA in English with minors in psychology and history. He subsequently earned his MSW from the University of Iowa. When he came to Janet Wattles Center on Feb. 13, 1989, the agency was on the brink of financial ruin. As president/CEO for 22 years, Frank turned the organization around. When Janet Wattles affiliated with Rosecrance Health Network on Jan 1, 2011 Frank became senior vice president and chief operating officer for Mental Health Services for the organization. He also was an adjunct assistant professor in the School of Social Work at the University of Iowa. Frank was comfortable with and accepting of people who were social casualties, people who had fallen out of the mainstream because of drugs and alcohol or mental illness. He was a visionary for mental health services, a respected administrator and leader of national stature. He is survived by daughter, Courtney Ortel of Rockford; siblings: Nancy (Bob) Pelekoski of Ocean City, NJ; Martha Ware; David (Michele) Ware both of Hammonton; Estella Domenico, William Ware, Robert (Linda) Ware, all of Nesco; sister in law: Lavonne (Dan) Johnston; bother in law: Terry (Jenny) Hoover all of Davenport; nieces and nephews: Crystal Domenico, David and Michael Ware, James Ryan; William Domenico all of Nesco; Christian (Tanya) Kerr of Winnebago; Nikki Kerr, Mikaela Hoover, Jim Hoover and Leila Lorraine Deaver, all of Davenport. Frank was predeceased by his parents; in laws: Ardeth and Walter Hoover. A visitation will be held at New Columbia United Methodist Church in Nesco on Wednesday Feb. 23, from 10:00am -11:00am. Services will follow at 11:00am. Lorri's cremains will be interred with Frank at the historic Batsto Cemetery in the Pine Barrens they loved. Memorials may be made to the Frank H. Ware Fund, c/o Janet Wattles Foundation, 526 W. State St. Rockford, IL 61101. Arrangements are by the Carnesale Funeral Home, Hammonton, NJ. (www.carnesalefuneralhome.com)
Published by The Press of Atlantic City on Feb. 19, 2011.

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George & Missy Vaughn

February 22, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Kathy Ellis

February 19, 2011

Ive known both Frank and Lorri since the mid 70's. We first met when they both worked at Linwood, the original pterodactyls. I later worked for them at AMI in Rock Island. I learned so much from Frank (from both of them) about myself, how to work with other people, how to live, how to laugh, how to love. I had the honor of having Lorri for a best friend and have some amazing memories I cherish everyday.I do remember how Frank could appear so serious and sometimes distant, but I will never forget the look on his face when he and Lorri went on their first date and from then on every time she walked in the room, even after years of marriage. He was absolutely "smitten" and it was obvious how much he loved her from that first moment. Frank had a great sense of humor, he was loyal, sentimental and he loved his family. He had a rare ability to cause those around him to want to change and to continue to create change. It seems like every person who has had contact with either Frank or Lorri professionally or personally always have something kind to say. Frank and Lorri are already missed so very much, but have left the world a much better place because they were here.

February 19, 2011

We've known Frank since Wm Penn College days.We've lost a dear friend & advocate & will miss him greatly.Our condolences to you all.Jim&Barb Koolick(Seattle)

Gerry Klump

February 18, 2011

I work at SVA with Christian Kerr, Frank's nephew who has shared some wonderful personal stories of Frank and Lorraine and their life and dedication to others. People like them are few and far between.

Sandra Goodson

February 18, 2011

Frank Ware was my second cousin but I never met him. I didn't know him and now wish I had...My Mom, Martha Sullivan, said it all: "A relative to be proud of." The obituary says He respected and loved societys' casualties. It sounds like He wasn't angry or disgusted at their appearance or behavior. Instead he realized they deserved to be treated as we treat those who are physically sick in our society. Mental illness and addiction are brain chemical imbalances NOT personality disorders.

It sounds like Frank Ware, spent his entire life fighting to educate others about this truth of the matter. Kudos to his mission and his big heart! Hugs to all who had the privilege of knowing him and will miss him.

"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." ~Kahlil Gibran

Scott Kilgore

February 18, 2011

My name is Scott and I have been a client of Janet Wattles for many years. I had the great fortune of speaking with Mr. Ware for quite awhile last Friday when I was volunteering at the Resource Center. He told me of some of the challenges he faced while working in Rock Island, the story of a man who was petrified of leaving a hospital that was shutting down, and how he changed that person’s life by transitioning him back into the outside world. I was in awe of Mr. Ware. He had something deep inside him that can not ever be taught. He was without a doubt the most passionate, dedicated man I have ever met since I was born. We spoke of recovery and reform and networking, but when he spoke about the recent affiliation with Rosecrance, and all the greatness that could be achieved for those suffering from dual-diagnosis disorders, I could, literally, see the excitement in his eyes. I know in my heart Mr. Ware could not have been a more committed and dedicated champion for those like me suffering from a mental illness. His wisdom and knowledge and un-relenting compassion to the mental health field he so greatly loved has not only benefited me, but tens of thousands of others! His efforts and dedication will not ever just disappear because he is no longer with us. He has left behind a huge army of people that will make certain his name and his work, and all that he accomplished in his great and mighty career, will not ever be forgotten.
Rest in Peace, Sir.

Diane Gassett

February 17, 2011

I've spoken to Frank a couple of times at Janet Wattles....he was a very nice man...My condolences to his family

Leon Mazza

February 17, 2011

Dave and Michele, My condolences and prayers on the death of your brother.
Uncle Lee and family

Tracy Franklin

February 17, 2011

Frank Ware, was the nice and caring person and very personable and very knowable man. I did go for services at Janet Wattles and when I would see him very professional like with the center. And will greatly missed by many.Sometime god takes the people when needed to be with for other purposes that don't understand. With love to the family and also prayers. May the lord bless at this time. Love Tracy Franklin.

Franny D'Auria

February 17, 2011

There is no one to replace Frank Ware.
He was one of a kind who never had a bad word to say about anyone. Always looking for the good in everyone and everything. He will be missed.

Mark Heyrman

February 17, 2011

Frank was an inspiration to me and to everyone else in the mental health community. It is difficult to imagine the world without him. He was my hero.

Martha Ware

February 17, 2011

Dear Frankie,
Coming from a large family,we all knew this moment, never spoken out loud, would someday come.
It was not surprising to me, that you again would lead the way, this time to Heavens gates.
We all so looked forward to those rare trips home. You always made the common day to day events, a new adventure, from the wood rides to Quaker Bridge to climbing the firetower at Batsto.
One of my warmest memories of those trips home, were the tales told by a bonfire, which turned into a traditional event during all trips home,even in the mists of the humid, summer evenings in South Jersey.
In the tradition of Jen and Stella, you became the family storyteller. The
tales of Basheabe the witch, the Monkey Hole, the Highway Man -Joe Mulliner, and of course, the Jersey Devil, were passed on, to a new generation.
Dearest Frankie, know that those stories will continue after you, and know that those precious ones, who are still to come later to this earth, will hear those tales.
We await your final journey home, and have a spot overlooking Batsto Creek await you and your beloved Lori.

Love, Muffie

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