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Thomas Becker Obituary

Thomas A. Becker, 64, Lancaster, died July 26, 2009, at Lancaster General Hospital, where he was a patient since Friday.

He is survived by his wife of 22 years, Darlene A. (Harwick) Becker.

Born in Reading, he was the son of the late Edward L. Sr. and Virginia (Shoustal) Becker.

He was a 1963 graduate of Mt. Penn High School. He was owner/operator of Target Pool Service in Lancaster since 1987.

He is also survived by a son, Gregory A. Becker of Wernersville; three daughters: Melissa L. Becker of Reading, Rhonda L. Wolfe of Lancaster, and Keri L. Kratzer of Jim Thorpe; two brothers, Edward L. Jr., husband of Sharon Becker, of Omaha, Neb., and Richard Sr., husband of Barbara Becker, of Pottstown.

Also surviving are six grandchildren: Kyle Kochel, Jaxon Kochel, Amanda Becker, Nicole Becker, Dustin Kratzer and Autumn Kratzer; and two great-grandsons, Joshua and Jondell Alvarez.

Services will be at 2 p.m. Friday in the Auman Funeral Home, 390 W. Neversink Road, Reiffton. Burial will follow in Forest Hills Memorial Park. Friends may call from 1 to 2 p.m. Friday in the funeral home.

At Tom's request, a tribute and memorial will be held poolside at 1 p.m. Saturday, Aug. 1, 2009, at Tom and Dee's home, 383 Carter Moir Drive, Lancaster, PA 17601. Feel free to be late as Tom would be, but not as late as Dee would like him to be.

Online condolences may be made at www.mem.com.

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Published by Reading Eagle from Jul. 28 to Jul. 29, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Becker

32 Entries

Dee Becker

August 22, 2009

Honey, you were truely my deepest love and my best friend. You always brought the best out of me. These last couple of weeks without you have been the hardest days of my life. I come home to share my day's experiences with you and I miss talking to you, so I settle talking to your picture. The only difference is you can't talk back. You will be with me in my heart till the day I can join you. I love you now and always.

Wendell Funk

August 3, 2009

I was deeply saddened to learn of Tom's passing. He was a kind person and a reliable businessman. I was blessed by his professional services over the last 11 years. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.

Billy Brooks

August 1, 2009

In Tom I had a father, friend, teacher, mentor, and playmate. He taught me how to always strive for perfection, yet to enjoy it along the way; to work hard and play hard; to live life to its fullest... oh yeah, and how to beat people in darts left-handed! Thank you Tom and Dee for all you have done in shaping the man I am today. I love you.

Scott Neff

July 31, 2009

Dee,

I am so sorry for the loss of Tom. Needless to say, I enjoyed working for him over the years. Many good times were had with him on the job. I always thought it was funy how he expected me to remember pools by the customer's name, even though I probably was only there once or twice throughout the years. Just a little thing that makes me smile when I think about it. He did expect us to take pride in our work and to build and care for a pool like it was our own. I will always carry that work ethic with me. It was clear he enjoyed what he was doing, which made him a joy to work with and for. He will be missed by so many. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask, even if its something little like needing something heavy moved. I'm close by, especially if I'm at work. :-)

Liz Tout

July 31, 2009

I was shocked and saddened to hear about Tom. Your family holds a special place in my heart, and I remember now his kindness and wonderful sense of humor. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Love,
Liz

tara lilly hunsberger

July 31, 2009

hi dee its tara i am so sorry i know it will be forever trying to move on with out tom. he had the best personality and humor. we loved him deeply. i know i should be at the viewing and funeral! if it wasnt so far and with the kids (i would be there) i love you and i am thinking about you and how hard this is going to b for you.the morning will be forever i am sorry i am not there. i will never forget him. u r all family to me and i loved him like a uncle! the rest of the family i am so sorry for your loss!!! there is nothing i can really say. its not ok and it wont ever be ok!! tara lilly hunsberger

Loren Todd

July 31, 2009

Dee and Family,
Our deepest sympathies for the loss of a father, husband and friend. I will always cherish the many times that spent together. I will always remember the times Tom beat me in poker, darts, golf...etc. I could never win. He will be greatly missed! Please call if you need anything!

July 30, 2009

The Becker Family,

Tom was a great man, pool guy and friend, He was always there for us when we needed him, and we will miss him very much. Our thoughts are with you. Autoshowcase of Neffsville , Jason, Lori & Dave Layton

Donna & Ed Lilly

July 30, 2009

We will never forget you Dear Friend
-We miss you Already-
Such good times and so much fun over the years. (Many, many good years.)
Thank You for your Love and Friendship and Thank you for All those Wonderful
Memories,
Love, Donna & Ed

Chris Hanna Family

July 30, 2009

To the Becker family - Our Thoughts and condolences go out to you . Tom was an extremely nice guy , a guy who made everyone feel good within his presence . He was always friendly , always made you feel very welcome in his company . Always quick to smile and laugh , with great respect ; We will miss him greatly...

July 30, 2009

Dee,
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Remember that we love and care about you and are here for you today and always! Love, Annmarie & Patrick

Jane & Bruce Pokorney

July 29, 2009

The Becker Family,
We have known Tom since he installed our pool 20 years ago. We have always felt like more than customers and I believe Tom felt the same about us. He was a wonderful person who could always be counted on to do the right thing and to be there if you needed him.We were shocked and saddened to learn of his passing.We will truly miss him. We extend our sincerest sympathies and our deepest prayers to all of you. Bruce and Jane Pokorney

Brad Nau

July 29, 2009

Tom...you were the best...we had some great talks...a few good laughs...but not enough golf. You taught me a lot about a few things...it was always great to see. I will miss your laugh and your sincere dedication to your business...again...you were the best...and my family was better because we knew you. Thanks for everything Tom...you left too soon.

Mr. and Mrs. Brad Nau and Family

Anthony & Vivian Colatta

July 29, 2009

Sorry for your loss. Tom was our neighbor in Leola,Pa. and did our pool work. Please accept our condolences. He will be missed.

Philip Zimmerman

July 29, 2009

Tom helped us with our watery problems for the last fifteen years. He was so caring and careful. We send our condolences to his family. Louise and Philip

Margo and Paul Steiner

July 29, 2009

Words can't express the loss we are feeling right now. We'll never forget the fun, family times we shared together. Tom's sense of humor could bring a smile to everyone he met. You are always welcome to the Poconos for a visit. Santa has tears in his eyes. Margo and Paul

Missy Riehl

July 29, 2009

I loved Tom so much. I have the best memories of him. Some of my greatest memories are from our days at the Pool Store. He always made me laugh. He would make a complete fool of himself just so someone else would get a laugh. I remember the time (there were many) that he was running late for an appt because he was in his office cutting out little pictures of his own face to hang from the ceiling of the store. It made us laugh for days. He was like a father to me and he will be missed.

Donna Gehr

July 29, 2009

We are so shocked and so very sorry for this terrible loss, but we feel so blessed to have known Tom and to have had him in our lives. He was like a father to Missy, and Dee, you were her "other mother" You were both so good to her and gave her so much joy as she grew up with you, and around your happy family. He was always smiling and as a result making others smile, He will be missed, but the impression he made on others will never be forgotten. Peace to all of you!

Missy Riehl

July 29, 2009

I loved Tom so much. I have the best memories. He was always like another father to me. Some of my greatest memories are from all our fun times at the Pool Store and hanging out at your house on Farmingdale Road! He would make a complete fool out of himself just to make someone else laugh. A great man.

MIKE DIAMOND

July 29, 2009

Sorry to hear of Tom's passing,remember him from Mount Penn High..my prayers are with you ..

Bruce Kasper

July 28, 2009

Becker Family,
Tom was one cool guy in high school. His nickname was "Doc" because he was the only guy who could beat everyone's score playing the pin ball machine each week at the local hangout. We all thought he would one day get a doctorate degree in PinBallology. The memories of his ability to sell anything to anybody was his gift. I will always cherish our friendship during those high school years. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Ellen Lance

July 28, 2009

When I read of Toms passing my memory went back to the times when I lived in Pennside, Tom was a friend of mine...I have not seen Tom for 50 some years but I have thought of him over the years especially when I return to the Reading area..To Toms family, you are in my prayers....

Samantha Evans

July 28, 2009

Darlene and family,
I am so sorry about Tom, I remember as a kid when my parents where married hanging out with you guys. They will be memories I will keep dear to me.
Samantha Evans (Milt's Daughter)

Nancy Hafetz

July 28, 2009

Becker Family

I was so sorry to hear about Tom. We went all through high school together and had such a great time. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

July 28, 2009

To Tom's family,

I am so sorry to hear about Tom. I was a high school classmate and was very fond of him. Although it has been many years since I have seen him, I will always remember him. My thoughts are with you.

Hannah Spayd Smith

July 28, 2009

Dee and Family..

Such a shock to read of Tom's passing. We went all thru school together and he was always loved (especially by the girls!) He was such a sweetheart. My thoughts are with you. God Bless.

Sandy Kolb Deeds

bonnie freyman

July 28, 2009

Darlene,
We are so sorry to hear about Tom. Tom was a very special man and always would be smiling when we are not. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Steve/Bonnie Freyman

Bryan Leithiser

July 28, 2009

I will miss you Tom

July 28, 2009

Tom.

May you rest in peace. You were always a good friend. My heart goes out to you family.

Butch Cohen

Barb (Svanda)Schuler

July 28, 2009

Dear Dee
My sincere condolences. Tom was a very special person. May he live in your heart forever, he will be truly missed by all who knew him. My thoughts are with you.

Lucille Gross

July 28, 2009

Dee and Family
Such a loss, I loved Tom's humor. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

July 28, 2009

Dee
So very sorry to learn of your loss Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time
Love Nick and Ginny

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