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Trina Bertaina Obituary

Lodi, CA

Trina Marie Bertaina

Oct. 29, 1954 - Aug. 28, 2008

Trina Marie Bertaina, beloved wife of Phillip Brown, devoted and loving mother of Johnathan Bertaina, and loving and beloved daughter, sister, and friend, went to be with the Lord her God on August 28, 2008, surrounded by her family. Trina was born in Stockton to Alice Yates-Bertaina and John Bertaina on October 29, 1954. She attended Trinity Lutheran School and Church, Stagg High School (class of 72) and graduated from the Delta College Nursing Program.

After living for many years in Linden, Trina lived in Salinas and Santa Cruz, California, before retuning to Stockton, where she was employed at the University of the Pacific School of Engineering. For the last several years, Trina has been a homemaker and stay at home mom in Lodi, where she lived with her husband and son, Johnathan. Trina is a member of St. Peters Lutheran Church in Lodi.

Trina was preceded into heaven by her fathers, John Bertaina and Robert Fouts. She is survived by her husband Phillip Brown; son Johnathan Bertaina; mother Alice Fouts of Salinas; grandmother Genevieve Stirnaman of Lodi; brothers Joseph Bertaina (Sofia) of Marina, Robert Fouts, Jr. of San Diego; sisters Becky DeMartini (James) of Linden, Sharon Rohrer of Elk Grove and Karen Fouts of Granada Hills. Trina loved and took great joy in her nieces and nephews, Angela, Cassandra, Giovanni, Gina and Toa Bertaina, Kristen and Micheal DeMartini, Robby Fouts, Jennifer Ott, Brian Johnson, Nicole Bradley, Shaun Rohrer and Erica Lastufka.

Friends are invited to join the family for a celebration of Trina's life on Tuesday, September 9, 2008 at 2 p.m. at St. Peters Church, 2400 Oxford Way (corner of Oxford Way and Lower Sacramento Road), Lodi, California. Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

Memorial Contributions may be made to St. Peter's Lutheran Church, 2400 Oxford Way, Lodi, CA 95240.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record from Sep. 5 to Sep. 7, 2008.

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Wayne & Carla Hose

September 10, 2008

Phil, we are so sorry for your loss. The funeral was so nice and honored her in a lovely way. I hope that brings you some comfort. I hope that you find peace in knowing that you were lucky to have had such a loving wife. Love, Wayne & Carla

Mary Yates

September 10, 2008

Trina - I'm glad we got to know each other again. You were my sweetest cousin, and I'm going to miss you.
Aunt Alice - My prayers are with you and Joe and Becky.

It's easier to leave than to be left.

Mary Yates

Virginia Fuller, Lillie, David and Dale Hobson

September 9, 2008

Joe, Becky and families

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May your many memories of your beautiful sister bring you comfort. We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Pennie Reynolds

September 8, 2008

To Trina Family and Sister Becky!
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was a friend of Trina's for many years. And we lost contact going through our divorces. But I loved her and have many pictures of her and I.I ran into her about 2 years ago and she was so happy. To be married and to have her son. And I saw Becky just last year to you Becky I know you lost more then a sister you lost one of your best friend and if you ever need any thing please feel free to call. I know how much it hurts to lose someone you adore and love so much the pain is so deep my thoughts and prayers our with you Becky. My daughter called me today and told me. Both my son and daughter loved her she spent christmas eve a couple times with us and spoiled my children. My daughter called me when she did I was so sad to hear. Just this last labor Day weekend my neibors up at my cabin they all ask me what happen to Trixie&Dixie that was our nick names up at my cabin because her and I were silly. I felt so sadden because I always loved her wish I could of said good bye. I know she is with the lord now and she is in a really good place. Your in my thoughts and prayers I am going to try to make it to her celebration. I was just in a car wreck and I don't live in lodi. But I really would like to be there for her. All miss her silly laugh and beautiful smile as I am looking at pictures of us up at my cabin. Love In Christ Pennie Reynolds Rancho Murieta Ca.

Linda Vaughan

September 8, 2008

Dear Alice and family,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I know this is very painful but remember Trina is in the Lord's care and in peace. Take care.

Tammy & family Weishaar

September 7, 2008

Dear Alice, Joe, Sofai, Bob, and all the rest. I am deeply touched by you all, as you share so much love for each other in your time of sorrow. I know your deep strength comes from Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. What a blessing you all are for each other at this time. May Our Lord continue to bless and abide in you all.
Our love and prayers, are with you.

Sheila Benzon

September 6, 2008

Alice, Joe, Becky and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Trina and I were best friends in high school and for many years after, but somewhere we went in different directions and lost touch. I have thought about her often, the fun we had together, her mischievous smile, and how she was there for me when I lost my father and also when I had my son. She was on my mind the day she went to God. She still lives in my heart. My deepest sympathy to all of the family. Sincerely, Sheila (Brenneise) Benzon

Terry Breakfield Meadors

September 5, 2008

To Trina's family

May God wrap his arms of comfort around you at this difficult time. Trina was one of my friends at Trinity and even though I have not lived in Stockton for several years, when I think of my years at Trinity, Trina is always in those thoughts.
You are in my prayers.

Rueben & Mafa Rose and Family

September 5, 2008

Alice and family we love you and sorry we are not able to be with you at this most difficult time. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Take Care and God Bless you. With much love, the Rose Family

Priscilla Conk

September 5, 2008

To The Family of Trina,

I got to know Trina when we both worked at the Sheriff's Department. We had the chance to become friends for a short while, but in that short time. I will always remember Trina and the fun we had. I will also remember her as a kind and caring person with such a great exuberant smile & laugh. I pray that God will give you the peace that all of you need at this time. With much sympathy, Priscilla Conk.

Richard Kent

September 5, 2008

Alice, Joe, Becky and the rest of the family, I am very sorry for your loss and I send my deepest sympathy. I will always remember Trina as a warm caring person, whose smile I will never forget.

Christopher Vigil

September 4, 2008

"The world is always a sadder place when a true fighter in life loses a battle." When I think of Trina, I will always remember that she smiled no matter what day I saw her. Everyone I know will miss Trina dearly, but I will always remember her defiant smile, and while she has left us, wherever she is.. she most certainly is smiling.

Jeff Kent

September 4, 2008

Alice and family; I am saddened by your loss. Please accept my sympathy and condolences. I will always remember Trina as a kind, patient, and gentle person.

gretchen kendall

September 4, 2008

I am sure there is sadness with your loss of Trina, but also great joy in knowing that Trina is at home with her Lord. Trina was such a special blessing and such a special gift from God. Having known Trina and her family from the early years at Trinity Lutheran Church and School in Stockton. Throughout Trina's illness she certai nly put up a good fight and the Lord saw that her work with us remaining was finished. I will be in S.F. with a medical appt. on the day of Trina's Celebration of her life service, but know that my prayers are with the family as well as my sincerest condolences. Praise God from whom all blessings flow.

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