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Bodil Gilene Hudek

Bodil Hudek Obituary

HUDEK, BODIL GILENE
Born on September 26, 1984. Left us July 4, 2003. Cherished daughter of Gary C. Hudek and Melinda Mae Culjis. Loving sister of Jorgen Hudek. Beloved granddaughter of George J. Culjis, Jr., Gilene R. Culjis-Larson and Sonny Larson, Salvador Cruz Carrillo, Melvin Hudek and Mary E. Dunn. Adored great-granddaughter of Willie Mae Pryor. Loving grand-niece of La Moine Catlin and niece of Lisa Culjis, Grace and John Hudek, Wendy and Greg Hudek, Gail and Mark Hamilton, Donna Welter, Shelly Hudek and Elana Luciana. Precious cousin of Shannon and David Goose, Courtland Sommerville, Savanna Larson, Sara Bankert Lindsey and Randy Hudek, Chris and Rob Hamilton and Lisa and Ron Welter. Preceded in death by great-grandfathers, C. Gilbert Pryor and George J. Culjis, Sr.; uncles, Stephen A. Culjis and Chris Hudek; cousin, Sarah Goose. To honor Bodil's love of animals, donations may be made to the SPCA, 6201 Florin-Perkins Road, Sacramento, CA 95828 or an animal charity of your choice. Interment will be private. The family would like to thank the staff of Sutter Amador Hospital for their dedicated care of Bodil and the consideration given to them. Gratitude is also extended to Pastor George Stathos, Calvary Chapel of Amador, Pine Grove, CA for his most comforting presence.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jul. 9 to Jul. 10, 2003.

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221 Entries

Heather Allen

July 5, 2025

Miss you, Bodil. It's so amazing how some of your mannerisms shine through my daughters. It makes me "see you" even when your not here. Love you, and I'm so grateful for our friendship.

Melinda Culjis

July 4, 2025

Well, it´s quiet night. The fireworks are going off. I watch some beautiful ones and I don´t watch them because I cry but this year I did I love you honey and I miss you and I know you´re right by my side and I know you´re happy and God`s probably keeping pretty busy luv mum

Grandma Gilene

July 4, 2025

Hi Bodil, we all still miss you. Always will. Often I wonder what you would be like. Know you would be married with kids. How many and what they would be like. I´m sure they would all be as wonderful as you. Grandma misses you, but I will be there to see you soon. I´m 84 now and plan to live to 100 so as fast as time goes it won´t be long. Love you so much sweetheart! Grandma

Melinda

July 4, 2025

Good morning Bodil it´s Fourth of July morning.mum still in bed it´s been pretty rough 22 years. I still feels like yesterday. I miss you and I don´t know if I want to do the parade. Don´t think I´m really into it but really sounds good to me. Is food and quietness. I don´t know Mom´s not awake yet. You´re so loving and you´re so missed and I wanna thank you for everything you´ve ever done God for me, grandma and Jorgen.and your friends. put this out there for a few of your friends to let them know that grandma`s book was still up and see what happens. I don´t know they´re all grown up and big Ollie Road that was very nice. It´s too late for Mom and Day, you know her never know which direction I´m gonna going right now. Something in the crockpot and Ernies tequila margaritas that sounds really yummy to me. No people just me and my kitty. I love you, baby girl. You´re so missed and so loved love mummy

Holly

July 3, 2025

Thinking of you, as always... hard to believe we´re coming up on 22 years. Hugs to Melinda and Heather

Melinda Culjis

July 4, 2024

Melinda Culjis

July 4, 2024

Melinda Culjis

July 4, 2024

21 years it´s inference day and as you know it´s been a hard month for mum. There trying to get me out to the parade today. I don´t know. I love you. So very much and mum misses you and all that you were :-) I love you

Melinda Culjis

July 3, 2024

Good morning Bodil.21 years tomorrow.There are just no words.Mum steal holds your memory in her heart with all the wonderful love you carried in your heart.Luv mum. You know what I said this morning I ment it.

Melinda Culjis

February 28, 2024

I love you.Mum

Melinda Culjis

February 13, 2024

It mum.I have been thinking about you . Miss you so much and I often wonder who you would be today.Your kind and loving heart would be the same.Your integrity for what is right would be the same :-).I guess that’s all a mother needs.Hugs and kisses to infinity and back

Heather Allen (Fetterley)

July 3, 2023

20 years without my best friend. All of our lives changed when we lost you. Miss you so much Bodil.
-Heather

Heather A.

July 3, 2022

Miss you more than ever.

mum

August 17, 2021

I planted 10 trees in Bodils memory. Those trees will give 40 people oxygen.

melindaculjis

August 17, 2021

Well mom just got 10 magical trees planted in the forest for you and the baby animals and the forest of course. I am excited. I man will plant your to trees. I will get something, lol I am sure for 100 bucks lol. I wanted to do it. Must keep you living on. Subject close to your heart. Worth every penny. Tell God Thank you for everything. luv mum

Love your Mum

Planted Trees

Mom

August 17, 2021

Your little brother made something for your 18th heavenly anniversary, Your life time. Its just filled with love Bodil.

Heather A.

July 3, 2021

Miss you Bodil

Melinda Culjis

November 27, 2019

Hi baby, Its late and I should be in bed but I cant sleep . Its been 16 years now and all your friends have grown up into beautiful women with children. This last year I took a lot out on them. They all still love me. I don't know what it was unanswered questions to wondering what you child would be like or his or hers smile would look like. Jorgen is convinced you would be Vegan. So am I. How you hated animals being killed for food. Jorgen is confirmed. He tries to get me to convert but its hard. Thanksgiving this week. Grandma is in Hawaii for 5 months so its jorg and I and your empty chair. We know you will there in spirit.I just wanted to say. We Love you and you are missed terribly bad. Watch over us.Luv mum. To infinity and back. I put a poem up. I love it. Helps me stay strong.Happy thanks Giving Bodil.

Melinda culjis

November 22, 2018

Bodil its Thanks Giving and it is almost over. Everyone was happy and that's all I wanted is nobody to be sad. I think Grandma got a little sad. I have sat here by myself for my birthday and Thanksgiving. I don't know. 15 years and 4 months and you still haven't left my side.Thanks you.I love you. Tell Jesus and God Hello for me.

Melinda Culjis

April 8, 2018

Well so much for that kiddo.

melinda Culjis

April 8, 2018

I love you Bodil..Mom Is going to rest. She has to get up before dawn to clean.

Melinda Culjis

December 4, 2015

A candle of magic for you little one. Luv mum

melinda culjis

May 27, 2015

Out of candles :-) so heres one for the day. Love mom

Melinda Culjis

May 27, 2015

Hi Bodil, Mom again. I have had a rough week.Not feeling it I guess. Filled out some job applications. I am just sitting here thinking about you as always. ;-), I was watching ghost whispers lol grandma told me to watch it. ;-).Just kinda way down today.Mommy just wanted to write again and tell you. I love you and miss you so.

Melinda Culjis

May 22, 2015

Hi Sweetie, Mom ;-) This week I have been through so much so fast. lets see I graduated and Mommy walked the stage. Yes a real graduation. Bodil even though time stopped Forever on July 4, 2003. I whispered in your ear and told you I wouldn't quit. I would live and being it your 15 year mark this year. That's along time for us being apart.apart. Bodil I am living and i kept going and I am not slowing down this train for nothing. Mommy has kept another promise. I could have not kept going if my daughter taught me the biggest lesson in life. I can hear you whisper to me: Dont Hate mommy!. Your huge heart for life and love and honor and courage. Mommy has held on to your strongest convictions starting at such a young age. I hold your hand in Knowledge and life even through tragedies.Seem to be making it.The bravest women I know is you child.I didn't to do bad for a parent.Love Mum

melinda culjis

May 9, 2015

Well, I guess I will write you again, I will leave out how you were not the average child.The fact you wanted to find missing children and get them to their familys at a very young age. Most girls your age would want to play barbie. I am so proud to be your mother. Everyone is fine. Brother is doing much better, Daddy is happy, grandma is calming down.Court is going to aunt Shannon's finely. Less work for grandma. I found this picture of you and Shannon. Bodil you are just jetting up this rock . Aunt Shannon posing for the camera. I can just here you saying : Aunt Shannon lets get to the top there is magic at the top or something out of the box. No fear child even when you were young.I found your old science book on Einstein. Remembering always that you were going to be a scientist when you grew up. Science was in your blood. A secret not many that knew you knew.Between you and I Bodil your were the greatest scientist that ever lived. ;-)Well time to work on my resume. I love you and missing you.I know its may and I hope you are soaring over those wild flowers and just absorbing all the smells and beauty. This my second May Day writing. I guess the first didn't pass. That's okay it's was probably best. Love you and Peace out! Mum

melinda Culjis

May 8, 2015

This is for you baby!
I love you and miss you.

melinda Culjis

April 16, 2015

My daughter, I just want to let you know that I love you.I think of you and what you be like now.Would you babies and married or would you be in service?Grandma and Jorgen our good. Your girls are all grown up and living life to the fullest.I am proud of everyone of them. I graduated Lol I have no idea what I am going to do. Lol mom's been hanging out in compassionate friends alot this last year.15 years in July baby.It is by far not easier.I wish you here for your brother.I know you are watching over all of us. I just wish we didn't have to age.lol I love you.Bodil you have made a impact on so many lives. Sure you know that.My best friend besides grandma ,Jorg,and daddy has been so good with grandma and I.So you can blow him kisses.He loves and misses you so very much. I have kept my promise about your brother. LoL. He is as stubburn as you. :-).I have not wrote in awhile. The cross outside your room in the field on JULY 4th. I knew you were in good hands.Thank you for holding me that day.I so heard you loud and clear.I love you my baby girl. Holding up to the meaning of your name. With respect and dignity,kindness and alot of love. Every thing you were and still are. Peace out Mum.
LOL LOTS OF LOVE

Holly

February 12, 2015

Thinking of you today! Some of our friends are needing extra presence and comfort this week as another Rio friend has gone, so visit them and comfort them Bodil. I think of you often. I havent written in a while but you are NEVER forgotten. Love you sweet girl

AnaMaria Cruz

January 25, 2015

I love you!

Melinda Culjis

August 25, 2014

Hi, Dilly ;-) mommy just wanted to write you and say thank you. People have so backed up and i almost can think again. Joined a new group, Its wonderful. I feel so grateful that we got a 18 years some don't even get that as you know well. Just touching bases. School starts today ;-). dont you have some place to be ;-) Love mom.

Melinda culjis

July 19, 2014

Hey baby. Its been tough lately. Of course I am the big looser as always ;-). I miss you so much. I want you to know. I never gave up on you or quit believing in you. You have to know I will always cherish you forever. I love you. Mommy

July 4, 2014

Blessings

Melinda Culjis

July 4, 2014

I love you Bodil. Jorgen is smiling today Grandma said. We must of did something right ;-). Tell Everyone I send my love and Thank you. See you in my dreams and the passenger seat of my truck LOL.

Melinda culjis

June 23, 2014

Hey Baby, I love you so much and as heather said. Thanks for being on our side. We love you and miss you so much. As always baby you hit the ball out of the court and tell Heather that is name flows with perfection. if she doesn't you will kick her in the shin LOL. Happy 4th of July baby. Peace out MOMMY. Oh and my other best friend is hurting bad right now.Watch over your baby brother please. I love you.

Heather Allen

June 22, 2014

I haven't written to you in almost a year! You know what kind of year I have had! All my years get crazier and crazier but more peaceful and humble too. Thanks for always reminding me that I need to do better and be better and that you still to this day are in my corner. Alivia was very close to sharing your middle name....but really, there is no one comparable to you so let's let that slide :) love you Bodil, you changed my life, I miss you dearly.

natasha breedlove

June 19, 2014

Hey pretty lady just thinking about how thankful i am about you introducing me to Marco we have 3 buetiful children thanks to you my love well i miss and love you and am always thinking about you

September 28, 2013

Hi, baby
Its mommy, Happy Birthday. I spent three days on making you a Birthday present, and it took a lot of time and a lot of thought to do it, I am so sorry this town shredded it apart. I too, like Grand ma wonder how things would be, I know you still love your shoes and probably still be in with Long ;-),and still fighting with your brother LOL. I love you baby. Bye for now.

September 27, 2013

Well my dear sweet girl, yesterday was your 28th birthday. How much I miss you. Wonder all the time what you would be doing with your life and what you would look like. I'm sure you would have given me great grand kids and would be pretty like your Mother. I hope you have found Grandpa by now. We miss you both so much and Grammy too. You are always in my thoughts and I love you very much. Grandma

AnaMaria Cruz

September 20, 2013

Thinking of you ????? I miss you friends.

August 24, 2013

Hey Kiddo
Its mom, I have not wrote in a long time, It is very clear to me that people are not what they seem to be., Jorgen is doing good. Grandma too. Me, I am not so hot. Something I treasure and that is you and it seems to be, they got you too. Just tried to open a aim account. Been through the ringer. I just wanted to tell you I love you and I really miss u. I love you Mom. Peace out!

Holly

August 6, 2013

Hi Bodil,
It's been a long time since I have written you in here, but I have been thinking about you a lot lately... Lots of changes going on in my life & just wanted to let you know you're in my heart?

Heather Allen

July 3, 2013

It has not been an easy 10 years without you. You are missed so much and so irreplaceable. I love you dearly and will always hold you close to my heart.

melinda cujis

January 8, 2013

hi baby, I found the strangest thing a museum and it says please contact some doctor named Bodil lol I dont know were a this stuff comes from, Mommy misses you and I love you.

melinda culjis

December 26, 2012

Love you
Mommy

November 23, 2012

Bodil mommy loves you and your brother so very much, I am speecheless please keep your brother safe, I know you do. I love you,Thank u

Heather Allen

September 26, 2012

Happy Birthday Bodil!!! I love and miss you. I'll never forget you my friend.

Melinda

July 24, 2012

Well dilly, we are at a cross roads here, Mommy has some really big decisions to make, I have pretty much made them. I love u more than anything besides jorgen and God, so I really hope that this is a good decision. Hang tight and dont leave my side child not for one second!

melinda

July 23, 2012

Had a really really bad 4th this year. It had got to be the hardest ever. I collapsed, It just doesn't get easier, But your brother and grandma were troopers and there to catch me, I love him so much.Daddy was pretty good too, Until the other night.The growl came out, I think it was out on a few of us after shocks.But were okay. I love u and miss u.Say hello to that man we eat the chocolate Easter eggs with ;-)and Murphy he better been on my side this round!

melinda

July 23, 2012

Good morning Bodil, Mommy loves you!

13th birthday and she had a pink bow in her hair

Melinda

July 14, 2012

uncle court

Melinda

July 14, 2012

her soul

Melinda

July 14, 2012

Besty we call her silient one

Melinda

July 14, 2012

another besty

July 14, 2012

February 18, 2012

I was reading September 25,2005, I was telling u to dance, I also had a in memory in the bee told u to dance, I will never forget it, We had the biggest lighting and thunder storm out of the blue caught the weather people off guard, Mom and I just looked at each other and said Bodil is shaking her booty LOL. Something else my child.

melinda culjis

February 18, 2012

We will have peace Bodil gilene Hudek.

I promise u that. Love mommy

melinda culjis

September 28, 2011

Well My Child u have out done your self again :-), I know I did not right on your birthday, but its hard for mommy some times, I am strong for Jorgen because out of anything in the world, I know how much u loved your baby brother,and I am watching over him along with U. You have so many that love and miss u and hold u so close to their heart. I love u baby and mommy just really misses u all the time still. I know u are right here standing over my shoulder clinging to me :-), happy birthday Bodil

Heather Allen

September 26, 2011

my love, my angel, my friend, Happy Birthday!! Although I always try to celebrate your life on this day and always, you (&my brother) are the only things in my life that break me. There is always that feeling that there was something I wish I could have changed or could have done better or could learn from and take to the future. I don't know why every year feels like the first year without you. I guess I am lucky to have so many vivid memories of you that only you and I share. Happy Birthday Bodil. this year I am getting a gift rather than you, thank you Bodil. RIP BODIL, I LOVE YOU BIRTHDAY GIRL!

Heather Allen

September 16, 2011

Hello Bodil, I think I am officially in touch with all the girls now! We all love and miss you so much. It really is bitter-sweet because we are all reminded that we are down a friend, one that bonded us to one-another. I wish you could be here I've been thinking about you so much and I just want you to know that. I was at dinner with friends the other night and one of them had so many mannerisms that you have, I started laughing at her because it reminded me so much of you. You're definitely missed Bodil, the small things are still noticed everyday. I love and miss my best friend, you'll always be near and dear to my heart Bodil.

Heather Allen

August 7, 2011

Bodil, I love you and I miss you. I wish you were here. I don't understand why things are happening the way they are. I know you know what I mean, this is all so crazy and unfair. I hate being in this situation and I wish you were here to talk with me about it. You were an amazing person. I think of how you lived your life, both the good and the bad and it will always play out in my mind. It's a joyous struggle, I just want you back Bodil. RIP, I love you

AnaMaria Cruz

August 7, 2011

I love and miss you always. Wish you where here with me.

AnaMaria Cruz

July 4, 2011

I'm thinking about you, missing you and always will love you.

AnaMaria Cruz

April 19, 2011

Hello my friend,how I've missed you. I always have such a hard time getting into your guest book.I'm so computer illiterate. You know ,for awhile I tried to forget about you and just hide your memories somewhere in my brain, where I can never find them. Even with my two girls and the craziness and sadness that has been a part of my life for way to long, I just never could forget you.Whom ever said, "Time heals all wounds!" couldn't be more wrong, kuz when you truly love someone and genuinely care about them,time only makes it worse.I always wondered what could of been if things where different. I miss you so much, I know I just can't get rid of you,but I would never want you gone. The pain isjust always there and it will never go away.lol. I love you , nite nite.

Heather Allen (Fetterley)

April 9, 2011

Well my dear, I know you see my life unfolding from above and I know you are here with me but I sure wish I could see your shining face! I burst in to tears on the way to work the other day because I was unable to share my good news with you. I am now thinking of all the things we went threw growing up and how I know you know how I feel right now. The world works in mysterious ways and can truly be so unfair. I can think of so many terrible things I've experienced and I surly could throw myself a huge pity party, but I'm not. I am so thankful for the good times. I cherish my memories with and of you. I'm so thankful your mom is still a part of my life, she keeps me closer to you and she may not know it but she's helped me grow and keeps me from loosing my mind. I love and miss you very much Bodil.

MELINDA

June 30, 2010

Well My child, we are almost to anther 4th of July, I just want to say you are so loved little one and my mommy misses u so very much. I think of all the things that u did not have a chance to do since your life was cut so very short, I am so very sorry, what i do hold onto is everything every smile, every tear , every scream. and all your sillyness.. I hold on to the day they put you in my arms to the day I had to release you with all the love I have Bodil, I know you are close to me always.. Oh ya We are going to leave a message for Anna Anna call me 519-6694. Heather posted your face on face book, caught me way off guard, but we all had a good cry together, Jenny too :-) they love you so much little one.Jorgen is all grown up, The 4rth is still very hard on him and grandma, but they get through it. We have a puppy now u know LOL,his name is Tank :-) he has been the best medicine for Jorgen since he lost his sissy.I know you are watching over him like a hawk and i want to thank you one more time Bodil for watching him when you were with us and now. I love and respect u so much my child and mommy is so very proud of u KISS KISS :-) MOMMY

Heather Allen

May 13, 2010

Hi Bodil, I love and miss you!

melinda culjis

May 11, 2010

Hi Honey, wow it has been so long since mommy has came in here. I think about you everyday and talk to u all the time. I love u Bodil not much going on Jorgen is doing great and i know u are watching over him. Mom is just going to school and going to school lol. I love you baby girl and i really missed u on mothers day could not get u off my mind. hope u are having fun soaring with the heavins.

Love mom

Heather Allen (Fetterley)

February 19, 2010

Bodil,

I feel like I have been talking to you so much lately. I love you dearly and miss you so much. I find tears coming out of nowhere and I just wipe them away without crying but with some kind of pain I can't describe. You have helped mold me into a strong woman with a great deal of compassion and love. I miss you so much Bodil. I love you and I thank you for being amazing and guiding me in the right direction for so many years.

Heather Allen

September 24, 2009

MY BEST FRIEND!! I love and miss you so much Bodil. I truly miss hearing your voice. I should have kept your old cell phone in service just so I could hear your voice (and probably a song) on your voice mail. You completely brighten my day. I have been going through some emotionally draining times lately. I've lost someone and am losing someone else and they do not even realize it. I try to share your life with other so they understand better why I feel certain ways about things. Whether is compassion, friendship, love or sorrow you really have been there in so many ways for me over the last 22 years. We go way back and I will continue to bring you into my future Bodil. I bought cake mix, new baking pans and chips and salsa to celebrate your birthday on Saturday. I miss you dearly, Keep watching over all of us. I think I can speak for a lot of us when I say that we could use some extra guidance lately. I love you and miss you. I wish I could tell you personally but Happy 25th Birthday Bodil.

Heather Allen

July 9, 2009

I love and miss you Dilly. I haven't written because I usually cry my eyes out....my eyes hurt. I love you. I wish I could see ur face and hear your voice. I cant say it enough, if it wasn't for you I wouldn't be where I am in life, thank you for being my best friend

Melinda Culjis

July 7, 2009

Hey little on I wrote july 4th in youre book they did not print it but I know you still heard me. Looks like Anna got married and had another little girl good for her. I miss you and I love you and oh ya no more Johnny Ray. Kisses and Hugs and thanks for coming to mommy. I love you Tah tah love for ever. Mommy

anamaria cruz

July 4, 2009

Wutz up gurl,
cant believe its been such a long time since you've been gone, still hurts like it was yesterday. i wish u where here with me, oh i miss u so much, i wish my girls could have meet your crazy self. just wanted to let you know you'll never be forgotten and your always in my heart and thoughts. love you always
anamaria cruz
xoxox

melinda culjis

June 20, 2009

Hey Baby
it has been such a very long time scince I have came in hear. Mommy carries you in her heart and soul everyday. I miss you so very much sometimes the pain just gets unbarriable. I just keep going on Got Jorgy, He is turning out to be such a handsom young man looks just like daddy only taller LOL. I just heard Heather is getting married on July 4th, geuss thats her way of having you as her matron of honor. watch over her little one.Mommy has a new boyfriend Johnny Ray. I could here you know giving me a time about his name LOL. I have been working and going to school to become a nurse, Its a long haul let me tell you. Seee you in my dreams baby,mommy loves you until the ifinite. Hugs and kisses. Mommy

Heather

March 21, 2009

Miss you Bodil!

Gilene Culjis-Larson

January 4, 2009

HAPPY NEW YEAR Little One. Oh how I love you. We had a good Xmas. Very different from when you, Aunt Moine and Grammie were here. But, it was still Xmas. You know, you were with us. Did you like you flowers and balloon? I was out walking in the yard today, and stopped at your little sign I bought for the fence. It says "We left room in this garden for angels to dance." Have you been dancing there lately? I love you so much Bodil. Stay with me.

Grandma

Heather Baldasano

December 31, 2008

I'm blessed to have you look over me for another year. i love and miss you. Life is changing and i'm glad i still feel your presence in my life.

auntie shelly hudek

October 4, 2008

bodil happy birthday sweety,as always im late ive been very sick,as u know,i no you no/ becuz,i know u are seeing me through all of this,and i know youve been watching over me,really& i want to thank you4 that.,i miss you kiddo,so very much!!love always auntie shelly

Melinda Culjis

September 28, 2008

Happy birthday Bodil Glene Hudek,
I woke up before dawn on youre birthday this year, and I sat and listen to the silence and looked out the window, I reflected on the sky and the first snow the day u were born in Tahoe and youre incredible beauty when you arrive and then i flashe on youre daddy and the amazement in his eyes and the love and all of the sudden he yelled WELCOME TO THE WORLD BODIL GILENE HUDEK! LOL and at that point we knew he made a decision on what youre name was going to be. Baby girl I just wnat to say that i know the world got hard and ruff, but you took it with more grace and courage than most people could have ever done. You smiled , you danced, and most of you did not hate. Me as youre mother knows that I did not fail you, as a parent, That you learned the most important thing in life and trust me little one that cannot be mastered by many people, i love you so very very much. Happy 24th..

Love Mommy

Gilene Culjis-Larson

September 26, 2008

My precious Bodil: This is Grandma to wish you a very very Happy 24th Birthday! I cut you roses today and Mom bought you beautiful flowers. I so wonder what I would be buying you for your Birthday. Clothes, baby clothes, a gift to share for you and your husband? Would you have a husband and baby. Who knows. Maybe you would be a college graduate. Well I know one thing, you would still be smilling, laughing and DANCING! I love you my baby girl, you are always in my heart. Stay with me. Love Grandma

Heather

September 26, 2008

Happy Birthday Bodil, i miss you everyday

Heather

August 16, 2008

Bodil,
Oh how i miss you my friend. Please give me strength and give me hope and give me forgiveness. I wish more than ever you were here. i love you so much. Come to me in my dreams girl, i need you. I love you so much. Watch over me and help me see that i'm making the right choices in my life. You've always been one of the few that really could see me for me and understood me. I miss that bond Bodil. I'm so thankful for my years with you. I love and miss you.
~Your best friend Heather

Joseph Baldasano

July 5, 2008

hey bodil,
This is Joe, your best friend heather husband. I guess what brings me here is your connection with my wife. I know you dont know me but i feel like i know so much about you. You mean so much to heather. She misses you so much. Our relationship has been better but i guess you take the good with the bad. She has been going through a rough time lately with her lose and some big changes in our lives. I guess i'm just asking you to watch over her and give her the strenth she need right now, i know she is so strong already but it never hurts to have alittle help.Heather means the world to me and you mean the world to her. I'm not real good with expressing myself alot of the time so it makes it hard on her, but i know she turns to you for support. She is lucky to have had someone like you in her life, and you are just as lucky becuase let me tell you, she loves you so much!! Keep and eye over her becuse she means so much to me. It was nice to chat with you and i hope to stop by again some time soon to say hello.

Heather

July 4, 2008

Once again....I love you so much and i miss you so much....i wish I could pick up the phone and call you...but i can't I love you and am thinking of you!

melinda culjis

July 3, 2008

Hi Little one. I just went to a meeting and all of the sudden i felt sick. I felt the loss of you and i felt the lost of Bret and Dilly I did not like it, I miss the friend we made together, I miss him I miss you and one more time i am sick to my stomache and shaking. I love you and now jorgens car is broken so i have to get that fixed, ust cant win. I know i have alot of baggage and i know i get jealous easy but, I am feeling realin alon. I know Jorgen but you know he handles everything differently. I falling apart. Mommy doesnt feel to hot tonight. I love you so very much.
love mommy

Heather

July 3, 2008

I love you bodil...i miss you...i can't stop thinking about you...

Melinda culjis

July 2, 2008

My goodness Bodil Mommy has alot to say today. done cried some more.
Trying to get off the pitty pot and tryign tohold onto youre strenghth. I need youre help.
Love Melinda

Melinda culjis

July 2, 2008

Hi Bodil
Gosh mommy is tired and teary and nervy, I was sent on a hour and half wild goose chase today. That was no fun. I ended up just coming home.ust to dan tired. I miss Bret.I miss you.Mommy is just tired today. I am so sorry I did not get you today five years ago. I am so very tired you had to go through what you did, I know you would be looking at me with youre finger in my face going it was my choice mommy.But as a mom and a parent it was my job to protect you oh god how i tried god itried so hard Bodil.Everything just got so crazy Like they are now.thank you for the little white squerll, Cant spell tomany tears. but the first hing i thought of was you, and how you would just ooooooooo and awwwwwwwww over it. I need memories of you life I need trees and animals and musc and you visions and youre dreams, I need to eat chocolate eastereggs under the cross in heavin in my dreams and you them to me. Thanks. I need to be held and allowed to let you live on in any for of Matter. I geuss all I needed was a man that could understand that. I man that tried not to mislead me to the best of his abilities. I had expectations and I geuss I just picked the wrong man. thought i didnt. but i geuss i did. Drove bye grandmothers today and there was a big yellow volks wagon bus infront of her house. lol. Mommy really got hurt Bad this time. got to go brush my teath, I am Falling apart.I tried to think of all the good things when i get to the point i am at right now. I love you and tell Jesus
Hello, and I send my love to him to and my thanks for allowig me to have you as long as i did on this earth.

Love Mommy

Melinda Culjis

July 1, 2008

Hey Bodil,
Tomarrow is the day that our new journey i life began. to be honest with you my hands are shaking lol. I been talking with god. Work is good couple of good jobs came in in the last few days hours, waiting for my truck to pass smog. Jorgen is good. He has been a trooper. You taught him well. Grandma went out and bought you the reddest japaniese maple she could find. We are lanting it in the front yard. You know grandma the tree hugger so I am sure it is a beutiful tree. I miss you so and i know you are up there in youre little Red dress blowing kisses to all and dancing that bodidlly beat. and yes baby Mommy can hear you loud and clear.... I love and I always will and nobodey will ever take you or jorgen from my heart. We all love you so very much and the short time you were here with us. I just want to know how important you were and still are to the world and your friends and family. You have taught so many people so many different things, and you make me so proud. I am very honered to be youre mother in this life and the after life. You are the truest of best friends. Its youre time to fly baby and mom and jorg and all you love will be fine. LOL Mark just scared me and said my truck did not pass smog, Oh my gawd Bodil my hands started shaking, I hung up on him, He called back and said laughter is good for the soul IT PASSED! Tell god thank you. LOL I thoguht i was introuble there girl. Love mommy grandma is on her way to pick me up tell God thank you for watching over us. Love you babygirl.

Heather

June 24, 2008

Bodil I love and miss you! I was looking at the picture of us on our first day of Jr. High last week...I don't care what anyone says we were so cool! I feel like I'm running....I don't know why or what too. I'm looking for the honesty in my life....especially back at home. I feel like I never know whats really going on and I hate it. as if 5 years haven't been hard enough without you. You will continue to be one of my closest kept secrets when it comes to my mind and heart. I feel like you guide me and have had such an impact in the way I live my life. I don't know where I would be without you...wait I do I'd be in carmichael, the part of carmichael that brings you down. The best person in that city is your mom and I think about her all the time. I wish I could hug you and tell you that i love you. I miss you so much...I hope that you see my grandparents up there and tell them that I love them. I just miss my friend so much...

Melinda Culjis

June 23, 2008

Hey Bodil,
Its mommy, I miss you so very much and i am under a great amount of pressure right now, on top of the world I also broke up with my boyfriend and that is very painful. Jorg is out looking for a job could you help him out. Please. Anna is ready to have kid two :-). Mathew is fine but we dont see him much. you know youre nephew. Mommy has been crying all week over everything. I try to invision you dancing around me pointing youre finger at me telling me like it is and to be nice, LOL. People are not making it to easy thow. I love you baby and you are my strenghth and mommy will do what god put me on this earth to do, I just have to find the energy and the strength to do it nd the courage. People dont like to listen thow. As you and God and the heavins know. I am just so very sad right now. My picker is definately broken LOL. I thought i had my prince, such is life as L would say. I love you little one.

melinda culjis

February 24, 2008

Hi baby

its mom,and I am not well, Things are closing in on me, and i am frighten. I miss you so much and i am ust laying here in my bed thinking about you, Its been such a very long time scince you have moved on.but for mommy it seems just like yesterday. I need you my little one, I wish you were to make me smile and cuddle upp to me. I gotta go i love you baby.

Mommy

Heather

January 7, 2008

I love you Bodil. i'm constantly thinking of you lateley. Thanks for keeping me grounded and greatful.

Holly Wayman

November 27, 2007

Hey Bodil, It's Holly. Sorry I haven't written you in forever. Life gets crazy sometimes and I don't have the internet at my house, really no excuse. Bodil, it seems that lately I am losing someone close to me every 3-4 months and it's hard. The holidays are here, and I find myself missing you, my Grandparents, my Uncle. It's really hard some days. I wish you were here to tell me they are all okay and tell me about Heaven and how wonderful it is up there, that might make it easier to deal with to KNOW for SURE what it's like. I have this friend named Troy that has cancer right now too and he's real sick, the MD's say MAYBE 90 days left. He has 3 young kids and a wife, and I don't know how they are going to take it when his time comes. Please ask GOD to make sure he gets into heaven with you. I think of you VERY often! I heard Juvenile again last week and started crackin up thinkin' of you dancin' in your room while we got ready for the night, and Jorgen busting in on us and you telling him to "go away!" gosh that was so long ago now... Do you even remember? I bet you do. My prayers are with your family over the Holidays. I love you Bodil, come see me in my dreams K. XOXOXO

Anamaria ciobanu

October 28, 2007

i luv u

Gilene Culjis-Larson

October 4, 2007

Hello my precious girl! Your birthday just past but on that day I could not write. It was a beautiful day and you were in my thoughts all day. Grandpa & I talked about the fact that you were 23 years old and could not believe how the time goes so fast. We remember the day you were born so well. Oh honey how I miss you. I love you so much and can't write any more. Be with me. Love Grandma

ANAMARIA CIOBANU

October 2, 2007

BODIL, SORRY FOR GETTING LATE TO U BUT HAPPY BIRTHDAY. DANG UR GETTING OLD..LOL LUV YA

Heather

September 29, 2007

Like your mom I didn't forget about your birthday. It was a hard day from the time i turned on the morning news. i love and miss you. I have definetly been trying to avoid my emotions for months now and its hard for me to write because i cry and i hate crying. I miss you so much and i'm sorry its been so long since i wrote you. I love you so much Bodil. Happy Birthday

Melinda Culjis

September 28, 2007

Happy Birthday Bodil

Hi Baby, mommy did not forget about your birthday, infact you were the only thing on my mind. This year was alittle hard for mommy, I was a little bitter and really had nothing probably very nice to say. But I am better today, and I miss you, wow big 23 years old. You are so beutiful my precious child, and I love you so very much.
Love mommy!

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