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Cynthia Durst Obituary

4/12/1961-8/20/2013 Cindy passed away on August 20th in West Sacramento at the age of 52. She was born in Woodland and raised in Hungry Hollow, north of Capay. As an active member of the Esparto High School class of 1979, she excelled in academics, sports, activities and friendships. Cindy graduated with a BS in Agricultural Economics from UCD in 1983 where she was a member of the Alpha Phi sorority. She worked for many years at the state office for the USDA's Farm Service Agency and later at the California Society of Certified Public Accountants. Cindy took great pride in being a member of pioneer farming families and enjoyed the yearly family picnics. She leaves behind her mother Jean A Durst, her sisters Susan Richter (Mark), Heidi Aoki (Darrell), brother Fritz (Ann), nieces Elizabeth Richter, Molly Durst, and Katie Aoki, and nephews Taylor Richter, Garrett, Patrick and Nik Durst. She was preceded in death by her father Oscar Durst, Jr. Graveside services are scheduled for September 14th at 10 am at the Capay Cemetery. Donations in her name may go to the George W. and Isabel M. Story Charitable Fund, c/o Esparto Unified School District, 26675 Plainfield St., Esparto, CA 95627.

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Published by Sacramento Bee on Sep. 5, 2013.

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Tina Carepenter(Rose)

December 22, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Had such good memories of her in school, a really wonderful soul!

samuel totten

October 30, 2013

I am absolutely devastated to hear of Cindy's death. I only knew her for one short year but it was an intense year as I was her English teacher her senior year at Esparto High School. Cindy was one of my best students at Esparto (incredibly bright, extremely talented, and a hard, hard worker) and one of my all time favorite students (always cheerful, always polite and sweet, and just an all around nice human being) in my 34 years of teaching at the junior high school, high school, and university levels. It was a true honor to have taught her during and to have gotten to know her. I know it's a cliche, but I truly thought that her inner beauty seemed to match her incredible outer beauty. My heart goes out to her family and all of her friends.

Suzy and Bruce Tadlock

October 11, 2013

So sorry for your loss. May the Lord be with each of you and give you the strength to get through this sad time in your lives. Cindy is in God's hands now. You will see her again.

Mark Taylor

October 3, 2013

Dear Durst Family, we are sad to hear about the passing of Cindy. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. We have many warm memories of Cindy and the family.
-The Taylor Family (Brenda, Doug, Carey, Mark and Robin)

Joe & Nancy Gnoss

September 20, 2013

On behalf of the Gnoss family, we extend our sincere condolences to the Durst family. Our kids went thru school with the Durst children. A wonderful family.

Stacey Sathis(Pike)

September 19, 2013

Oh my gosh!! I am so sorry to hear about Cindy. I have the most wonderful memories of her from high school. She was very special and wonderful soul. This is a sadder world now. Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathies.

Michelle

September 16, 2013

Sharing special memories and understanding. Cindy is in the arms of her father, and I hope that knowledge makes it easier for all those who loved her.

Steve and Sue Lampman

September 15, 2013

Dear Durst Family, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. With deepest sympathy,

Kathryn Douglas (Feeney)

September 14, 2013

I'm deeply saddened to hear of Cindy's passing. We were childhood friends and classmates from Mrs. Bolton's kindegarten class through our sophomore year at Esparto High School, after which my family moved away and we lost touch. From our earliest days Cindy was a star, a standout amongst us academically and by every other measure. Somehow her gifts didn't invite resentment from her classmates; everyone counted her as a friend. Throughout all our school years together I knew Cindy to be an exceptional, beautiful girl, full of fun, wit, humor, kindness, talent, and promise, and I will forever remember her this way. My deepest condolences to her mother, Fritz, Heidi, and Susan, and all of her friends...you are in my thoughts and prayers. May she rest in peace.

Betty Ann Downing

September 13, 2013

Fritz & Heidi, I was deeply saddened to hear of Cindy's passing. My apologies for being unable to attend the service - I hope that you find comfort from those who surround you with love and support during this difficult time.

September 13, 2013

Very sad to hear of Cindy's passing. I knew her for only a short period during my time as an exchange student in the late 1970's. She was always great fun to be around and I retain some very special memories of that time. My thoughts are very much with the Durst family at this most difficult time.

September 12, 2013

My condolences to the Durst family. Cindy is in many of my fond EHS memories- especially her bright smile. Liz MacLaughlin Peters

Vicki Darling Benedict

September 11, 2013

My sympathies to the Durst family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that the good memories and the love of family and friends will sustain you through this difficult time.

September 11, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

My Condolences,

Ron Bei

Charlie Schaupp

September 10, 2013

The Dursts were my parents best friends and our close neighbor. Cindy was great person. My heart goes to her Mom Jean and Fritz, Suzie and Heidi....They are wonderful people and a great family…this is a loss for all of us.

Cris Rominger

September 10, 2013

I'm very sorry to hear of Cindy's passing. I remember Cindy well from high school - always beautiful, funny and intelligent. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.

John Hughes

September 10, 2013

As a South African exchange student working for the Doherty's and on occasions for the Durst family in the late 70s, my memory of Cindy was a bubbly, self confident and an oustandingly lovely person. my heartfelt condolences to the Durst family during these sad times

Patti Martinez-Gottlieb

September 10, 2013

Totally stunned to hear of Cindy's passing. I went to school with her until l had to move after my sophomore year. I remember playing every sport we had plus 4H. I feel terrible that l haven't been in contact with my Esparto classmates and hope that l am invited to the next reunion. As we just experienced how life is just too short. My prayers go to Cindy's family and friends.

John Gallardo

September 9, 2013

On behalf of the Gallardo family, I extend our sincere condolences to the Durst family.

Carrie McCormick - Yuhre

September 9, 2013

It was a privilege to had been one of Cindy's friends. Growing up in a small town has a way of creating so many friendships and childhood memories. Cindy was a very special person, she always had a big smile and enjoyed life.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Durst Family, I'm so sorry…

Julie (Lopez) Oppenheimer

September 9, 2013

Each & every one of the EHS Class of 79 was fortunate to know Cindy as their friend. Her enthusiasm & intelligence, her beauty, smile & sparkling eyes will never be forgotten. My sincere condolences to Mrs. Durst, Susan, Fritz, & Heidi

Ermelinda Angulo

September 8, 2013

I will always remember Cindy's beautiful smile and how she always treated everyone in high school fairly. I saw her only at our high school reunions, but it was always a pleasure to be around her. My sincere condolences to her family. Cindy was beautiful inside and out. You are in God's hand now Cindy.

Shelly Lewis Emery

September 7, 2013

As I think of my second cousin Cindy, I have many terrific memories; learning to cook and sew in 4-H, feeding baby lambs, playing basketball and volleyball together, Durst Family picnics and Thanksgivings, and all those days riding the school bus to town and back! Most of all I remember how welcoming Cindy was when I joined her third grade class mid-year after my family moved from Woodland. She will always hold a special place in my heart. Hugs to Jean, Susie, Fritz and Heidi.

Dawn Bailey-Wunder

September 7, 2013

I will always remember Cindy and her beautiful smile. She will always be remembered when I think of our journey from kindergarten through high school graduation. She was a good friend to so many and I will always remember the "tuna boat" and chinese fire drills. The journey would never have been the same without her,I am so very glad I had the chance to know her. Memories of her make me smile! My heart goes out to her family.

Susan Errington

September 6, 2013

This is such sad news at the loss of Cindy. She was a childhood friend. Knowing her all of my childhood I know she could only have great things in her future. That future has been cut to short. May her family cherish all their memories of her. May God be with them in this very difficult time. Cindy you will always be remembered.

Jackie Baker-Kuhn

September 6, 2013

I don't have many childhood memories that do not have Cindy in them. She never accepted how special she was or how much she was loved. Peace be with you my friend.

Liz Hromada

September 6, 2013

I am so sorry about Cindy's passing and my heart goes out to all of the family. I met Cindy when my family relocated to Hungry Hollow from Orange County and Cindy and I became best friends!! Sadly we lost touch when I left for college and she had another year in high school...but the wonderful high school memories will never fade! I spent some time looking thru our yearbooks last week and boy did we have some fun!

James Kuhlman

September 5, 2013

I am deeply saddened by the loss of my ex-spouse Cindy. She wrote me a note that read:
"Jim: Always believe in yourself and your dreams will come true. I believe in you and I love you. I will always love you. Cindy"
I will always love you too, Cindy.

Robert Molleur

September 5, 2013

I am very sad to hear of Cindy's passing. I will always remember her willingness to help with whatever task was at hand, reminding us of computer backups or loading new complicated software. She was always there when we called from the county office. All I can say is that by her toil she sure gave back more to the world than what she ever took from it.

Chris Lauppe

September 5, 2013

I remember Cindy through her work with Farm Service Agency. I especially enjoyed seeing and listening to her at state training conferences. She was pleasant and energetic and a kick to listen to. I grew up with her Durst girl cousins in Grimes. I am very sad to hear of her passing.

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