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Gary L. Paxton  Gary Lee Paxton, 58, died at home in Salt lake City on July 16, 2002, of kidney cancer. Gary was born December 23, 1943, in Atlanta, Georgia, to Calvin Nilson Paxton and June Leon Meyers Paxton. He graduated from Irvin High School in El Paso, Texas, in 1962 and matriculated at the University of Utah that year. Member of Sigma Chi and recipient of the Grand Consul's Citation in 1994 for "great service to the Fraternity." He served in the North British Mission for the L.D.S. Church from 1965-67. Married Barbara K. Rees on August 12, 1968, in the Salt Lake Temple. Graduated from the U of U with B.S. degree in 1968 and J.D. degree in 1971. He was commissioned a second lieutenant at Fort Lewis, Washington, in 1968, and honorably discharged as a captain, field artillery, U.S. Army Reserve in 1976. Received Salt Lake Association of Community Councils' 1994 Good Neighbor Award for his part in efforts resulting in the expansion of Sunnyside Park. Practiced law in Salt Lake City for 29 years. Gary leaves a strong legacy of patriotism, appreciation for the outdoors and respect for his fellow men. Survived by wife, Barbara; mother, June; brother, Douglas; and by three daughters, sons-in-law and seven grandchildren: Michelle and Jon Roderick (Matthew, Nathan, and Emily); Patricia and James Christensen (Jayne, Scott, and Kate); and Susanne and Allan Flandro (Marley). Preceded in death by father and grandparents. A memorial service will be held in the Orangerie at Red Butte Garden, 300 Wakara Way on Saturday, July 20, 2002, commencing at 11:00 a.m. Friends may greet the family one hour prior to and following the service. No flowers please. Instead, Gary requested donations to the Cancer Wellness House, 59 South 1100 East, Salt Lake City, Utah 84102. The family thanks healthcare professionals at LDS Hospital Bone Marrow Transplant Clinic, the staff on East 8, and hospice and home health caregivers.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jul. 18 to Jul. 20, 2002.

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Dorothy Mendenhall

July 29, 2002

Barbara & Family,



I'm very sorry to hear about Gary. I worked with Gary at the law office for 10 years but left 5 years ago. Gary was always so kind and thoughtful to the staff. My sincerest condolences.

Leonard and Kathryn Romney

July 26, 2002

Dear Barbara and Family: We just received a note from Tony Morgan regarding Gary's untimely passing. We send our sincerest condolences and prayers for your well-being and comfort. Love, Leonard and Kathryn Romney

Richard Lee

July 21, 2002

To the Paxton Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Gary was an inspiration in his integrity and his passion for living.

Suzanne Larsen

July 20, 2002

Gary's father and mine were great friends for many years. I remember Gary from the time we were small children. My father was

George Labrum, and I know Gary's mother will remember. My condolences. Gary was my age and I have often wondered what life held for him.

Suzanne Labrum Larsen

Steve and Anne Stewart

July 20, 2002

Dear Barbara and family,



We learned of Gary's passing from a close friend who called yesterday. I will remember him with fondness because of the years we spent practicing law together and the great times we had skiing the powder at Alta. We're very grateful that we stopped by about a month ago and were able to visit with you before leaving for British Columbia.



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



Love,



Steve and Anne

Chandra Walker

July 18, 2002

Dear Michelle and Family,



I wanted to express my sympathy for the loss of your father. May the Lord bless you in this difficult time.



Chandra Walker

Ernest Jiron

July 18, 2002

Gary and I attended Irvin High School together. He was our football team's quarterback. I played basketball, but trained together in the off season. He is remembered well by all.

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