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Thelma Cole Obituary

Thelma L. Cole ESCONDIDO -- Thelma L. Cole was born in Idabel, Oklahoma on 6-17-1926 to Earnest and Alice Johnson. She was the seventh of ten children. She moved to San Diego in 1955. Thelma met and married King Pride Johnson. From this marriage, she became a mother to Milton Johnson and a grandmother to Jocelyn Johnson Harris. Although their union ended in divorce, she and King Pride remained life long friends. In 1976, Thelma married the love of her life, Troy Cole. They were married for 29 years until his passing in 2005. Thelma accepted Christ at an early age and served him faithfully until Tuesday morning, 8-19-2008 at 4:45 am, when he called her home to eternity. She was a member of Rancho Bernardo Baptist Church for more than 30 years. Thelma graduated from Slater Rosenwald High School. She obtained an Associates degree from Langston University in Okla., a Bachelors degree in Early Childhood Education from San Diego State University and a Masters Degree in Early Childhood Education from United States International University. Thelma taught school in the San Diego Unified School District for over 10 years. She owned and operated Tri Care Child Development Center for over 20 years and also taught at Palomar College. Thelma's love for children, lead her to become a foster parent to over 100 children throughout several decades. Thelma leaves to cherish her memory, her son Milton Johnson, Dennis Moore Jr., granddaughter, Jocelyn (Clark) Harris; great- granddaughter, Juliana Faith Harris; daughters, Denise Island, Marcella Howard, Tieast Moore and Cindy Ellis, Brenda Holland; her sister, Earlene Jordan; and a host of grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her mother, Alice and her father, Earnest Johnson; her husband, Troy Cole; brothers, John H. Goody, James; and sister, Eda B. There will be a viewing between 4 - 8 p.m., Sunday, August 24 at Alhiser-Comer Mortuary. A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m., Monday, August 25, at Alhiser-Comer Mortuary. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com
Published by North County Times on Aug. 23, 2008.

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Eddie Ross

August 25, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Kathryn Hughes

August 25, 2008

Thelma,
You were an inspiration to all at RBBC. Thank you for living a life that reflected Jesus Christ our Lord. Praying with you will always be my special memory.
Kathryn Hughes

Terry & Nadine Roberts

August 25, 2008

A neighbor and friend of God

RJ Lisondra

August 24, 2008

Ms. Thelma,
Although I did not know you as well or see you often, you were always as radiant as the sun when my sister Marady and I visits you. Warm and inviting, you always had a way with words. Thank you so much for those significant moments, Guiding words, and unconditional friendship.

George Vega

August 24, 2008

Dear Mom: 18 years ago when we met I knew god brought to this earth an expression of his love, his open and caring heart, which is you a mother and a gift of unconditional love to all in this life . I have been so blessed with the oppurtunity to have had you in my life, thoughts and heart. I will miss you always and look forward to the next time we meet when the sun rises in our eyes and our souls kiss a new day. Just as your candle has burnd to its end i will always light a new, in your name. With love mom "Always". George.

Ginny Johnston

August 24, 2008

I consider it an honor and a true blessing to have known you. You were one of God's brightest lights and I know that you ignited many others to follow Jesus. You will surely be missed.

Ruth Blank

August 23, 2008

Thelma has been such a lovely inspiration in my life. It was a beautiful privilige to be able to sit with her for a few weeks, chatting, watching TV, and just receiving her love, while giving her my love. I especially loved praying with her each time - she became the highlight of my week! Heavan is rejoicing that God's child, Thelma, has finally come home! And I am sure Troy is too!

Marady Wilson

August 23, 2008

Mama Thelma,
Thank you for all you have done for me and my family. Malia and Zerrick Jr. will miss you so. You have been my mentor, friend, my mom and my Guardian Angel. You will always be Malia and Zerrick Jr's grandma. We love you and We will miss you so much.

nyman al

August 23, 2008

To the Cole Family

God Bless!

Al & Doris Nyman
Oceanside, Ca

Deadra Hall

August 23, 2008

Thelma our friendship was brief, but my love for you will be forever. See you when I get there.

Clark Harris

August 23, 2008

Mom, you will always be in my thoughts and my heart. Thank you for being an wonderful mother and grandmother to my wife, Jocelyn. I value all the knowledge and experiences you shared with me for many years. Thank you for being you.

milton johnson

August 23, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Jocelyn Harris

August 23, 2008

We will miss you mom, I love you more than anything. Thank you for raising me and being a great mother and a great grandmother. Juliana will always know who her grandmother is.

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