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US Navy Ret. Rear Admiral E. Paul Rucci

1929 - 2020

US Navy Ret. Rear Admiral E. Paul Rucci obituary, 1929-2020, San Diego, CA

BORN

1929

DIED

2020

US Rucci Obituary

Rear Admiral E. Paul Rucci, US Navy, Ret. February 4, 1929 - June 22, 2020 San Diego Rear AdmiralPaul Rucciwas born inWaukesha, Wisconsin, February 4, 1929. He passed away on June 22, 2020, with grace and dignity, surrounded by family. The son of Mr. and Mrs. Sam J. Rucci he grew up in Waukesha and lived a tremendously purposed life honoring family, friends, God, and country. After receiving his M.D. degree from Marquette University School of Medicine in 1954, he married his true love Elena, whisking her away, embarking on a prestigious 30-year career in Navy Medicine. His family loyally followed him from Pensacola, Florida, Malta, Great Lakes, Illinois, Kenitra, Morocco, Washington D.C., Camp Pendleton, Long Beach, Norfolk, Virginia and San Diego, California. His distinguished career began as a Naval Flight Surgeon, and practicing Obstetrics and Gynecology; he served as Senior Medical Officer, USS HANCOCK (CVA-19) in 1968 and 1969 during the Vietnam War.He departed from daily practice as his superb leadership and mentoring talents emerged. After serving as Executive Officer of Naval Hospital Camp Pendleton, he reported to his first Commanding Officer assignment at Naval Regional Medical Center, Long Beach California, in 1974. He was promoted to Rear Admiral in 1977 and served on the staff of the Commander-in-Chief, U.S. Atlantic Fleet, Norfolk Virginia, prior to reporting as Commanding Officer at the iconic Naval Regional Medical Center, San Diego in 1980, followed by becoming the first Commander, Naval Medical Command, Southwest Region.In addition to the Legion of Merit, RADM Rucci wore the Meritorious Service Medal, the Navy Unit Commendation Ribbon, the Navy Occupation Service Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal, the Humanitarian Service Medal, the Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross Unit Citation and the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal.Once a scratch golfer (6 holes in one), Paul was known for his professional tenacity, integrity, loyal friendships, and dedication to his family and country. He greatly valued his long affiliation with the Miramar Men's Golf Club and his many friends there; He was also a proud member serving on the Committee of 100 for the preservation of Balboa Park. His greatest and proudest legacy was the family he leaves behind: sons Peter (wife Linda), Bob, Tom and John (wife Alesha); grandchildren Erica, Dana-Rose, Mackenna, Hayley, Sam and Georgette and great-grandchildren Leo, Gia, Joe and Crosby. He now joins his beloved wife of 62 years, Elena, with God in heaven, proud that the family he and Elena created will continue to grow and endeavor to follow their example of elegance, dignity, and values. He is also survived by his brother, Joseph, of Waukesha.He was held in the highest esteem by all that knew him, was an aspirational icon, a mentor and provider to his entire family and will be greatly missed every day. Today's sorrow is greatly outweighed by the knowledge he has rejoined his beloved Elena. It was truly a blessing and privilege to be his family.In lieu of flowers, the family recommends donations to the USO, Navy Relief, and Humane Society. Paul's family extends their sincere gratitude and respect to the amazing and caring staff at Naval Medical Center San Diego.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jul. 5, 2020.

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Barbara rau chrisman

December 16, 2023

Much belated but I am so sorry to hear of the passing of both your parents. My father, Capt Robert Rau was a dear friend and I grew up knowing your family from afar. My Dad was with your parents in Malta and we have movies of the three of them there. My Dad convinced your Dad to come to Morocco when my Dad was CO of the base there. I even babysat you boys a few times when you first arrived and before your Mother hired help. Both of your parents were effortlessly elegant and a role model for others. I grew up admiring them and still do! My condolences to you all... they were superior people and will be missed.

Patricia A O´Connell

December 12, 2023

I like to remember I met Captain Rucci when I and 5 other corpwaves from Great Lakes Illinois were stationed Long Beach Ca at Naval Regional Medical Center, Long Beach California, in 1974. I remember him a positive leader.

Darwin & Patricia Ludi

June 29, 2022

Dr. Rucci will forever be a part of our family since he was the physician that delivered our daughter while being stationed at Camp Pendleton in 1971. Capt. Rucci at the time was regarded as the best physician at the Camp Pendleton Naval Hospital. As a 2nd class Navy Corpsmen at the time(working in the hospital laboratory) I had the choice of physicians who would deliver our daughter. He was the best choice and our daughter is now a professor teaching computer science at North Texas State University in Denton, Texas. RIP Dr. Rucci.

Darwin Ludi & Patricia Ludi

January 11, 2021

I know I am late to send condolences but better late than never. Captain Rucci was the OB physician that delivered my daughter at Camp Pendleton on Oct. 27, 1971. As a Corpsmen I was told that I could choose the physician to deliver my daughter. One of the Pathologists in the laboratory where I worked Capt. Rucci noting he was the best. He was the best and was very comforting to my wife. I will forever thank him for not only his service but also for being a comforting individual. God Bless and RIP SIr.

Joe Rucci

July 18, 2020

You are all in our heart and prayers. We love you all.The best brother and friend.

Larry and Jean Nelson

July 8, 2020

To the Rucci sons and families, Peter, Bob, Tom and John
Jean and I are very sadden by your loss of the Boss, friend and golfing hero

Larry Nelson, Capt MC USN RET

Keith D Reinking

July 8, 2020

The ultimate Leader, Friend and co-worker.
I worked with Paul as a Past President of The Miramar Mens Club and the Buick Golf Tournament for over 20 Years.
His everlasting Smile and ability to listen are just a few examples we will miss about him. May your next Tee Time be with Friends, many Birdies to come.

Duane James Hill

July 7, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Vincent Marchetti

July 7, 2020

Thank you for being a friend for the many years we spent on the Committee of 100, and for the wonderful poker games I played with your fellow officers and doctors. You were the greatest!! Vince Marchetti

Joe and Mary Medina

July 6, 2020

A best friend, classic family man, golfer supreme and a mentor to young and old.

Barry Parker

July 5, 2020

He was the epitome of an Officer and a Gentleman. Always a pleasure to be around. Loved his smile. I wouldn't be in the Men's Club if it weren't for him and our encounter 12 years ago. Fair Winds and Following Seas Admiral.

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