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October 14, 2013
I miss you my sister. I can't believe a year has gone by. I miss our talks when I visited you and was subbing at St. Mikes. I miss our dinners together and movies.

Although These Candles May Drift Away, Your Presence Will Never Fade
Angelica Trujillo
May 11, 2013
Betsy Tapia affected my life significantly. She always stood by her strong words with a smile and true sincerity. Her strength and love helped me get through any of the hard times and I don't know where I would be if I hadn't ever had Ms. Tapia in my life as a prestigious teacher, but also as my close friend. I love you so much Ms. Tapia and I know that you are in heaven with the Lord watching over all of us. Rest in Peace and you will always be deeply missed. Siempre y para y siempre. Te Amo
Kristen (Bober) Davis '96
November 1, 2012
Ms. Tapia was a fantastic teacher and touched my life. I would not have made it through high school without her. My deepest condolences to her family and friends. She was one of a kind!
Rebecca Cesario (Slota)
October 21, 2012
My condolenscences to the family. I enjoyed Ms. Tapia as a teacher when I attended St. Mike's from 1984 to 1986. I had her as a Spanish teacher and remember reading Bless Me, Ultima. I also remember her class parties during which we celebrated Spanish heritage. I asked my mom to prepare Posole. (My mom is from New Jersey and of Polish descent.) Ms. Tapia commented that it was the best posole she ever had, especially for a gringo. Made us all laugh! I know St. Mike's will miss Ms. Tapia.
Dolores vigil
October 21, 2012
MY sincere Condolences to the Tapia Family.Betsy was one of a kind
I enjoyed her friendship,I will truly miss seeing her and Deserae,Love is like a cicle it never ends.rest in peace.
Mardell Trujillo
October 18, 2012
I have so many wonderful memories of the Tapia family living around the corner from us in Casa Solana. You are close to my heart and in my prayers! What a blessing Betsy was to the young people of Santa Fe! ~Mardell Ortiz Trujillo
Pamela Bowker
October 18, 2012
Kathy,
When I told my daughter Ginger about Ms. Tapia, she couldn't stop crying. Ms. Tapia was Gingers teahcer in 1999 and 2000. If it wans't for Ms. Tapia, I don't think Ginger would have made it through St. Mikes. I knew her too and Betsy was a remarkable person. She will be truly missed. I know how close you and her were. My deepest condolences. God Bless
Pamela Bowker
Gloria Mier
October 18, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Tapia family. Betsy was a dear friend and I will miss our discussions, her laughter, and the love we both had for the young people of Santa Fe .
Rest in the arms of the angels, my friend.
Jodie Wheeler
October 17, 2012
David - My deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your sister. May you find peace and comfort knowing that you are in the thoughts and prayers of others.
Mandi Anaya-Mendoza
October 17, 2012
My sincere Condolences to the Tapia Family.
Ms. Tapia was a wonderful teacher and great influence on her students. She expected the best from her students because she wanted all of us to succeed. Rest with the Angels Ms. Tapia. You have left a legacy in teaching at St. Mikes and will be sorely missed.
Mandi Anaya-Mendoza
Class of 98
Renee Mendiola
October 17, 2012
Ms. Tapia you will be missed. One of my toughest teachers but also one of best teachers. May peasce be with you and your family.
Jose & Tina Archuleta
October 17, 2012
Rest in peace. Our deepest sympathies to Betsy's family she was a great teacher and wonderful person.
Karla Romero & Family
October 17, 2012
Dearest Kathy, David, Steve, Robert, Monique & Deserae
My deepest condolences to all of you for your loss. Betsy was truly a remarkable individual who definitely left her mark in this world. What a legend! She will be missed dearly by all of us who loved her and by the thousands of students whose lives she not only touched, but inspired to be better human beings. May the many happy memories you shared with Betsy help you to heal and keep Betsy forever in your hearts. May she rest eternally in the arms of our Father in heaven.
Diana Lozada
October 17, 2012
Rest In Peace Betsy! You will be missed but will live forever in our hearts. Dear Tapia Family, I love you all so much, my heart breaks for you but know you are all in my prayers. God Bless!
The Lozada Family
Dave Martinez
October 17, 2012
Betsy had a definite postive influence on the scholarly habits - and the lives - of those of us fortunate to have her as a teacher. She knew how to get the best out of her students by demonstrating that it was okay to step outside of our comfort zone.
My prayers and thoughts of comfort go out to her family and friends in this time of great loss. She will be dearly missed and revered by all.
May the Lord rest your soul, Betsy Tapia - we love you.
Dave Martinez
Class of 1996
Grace Valdez
October 17, 2012
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
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