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GEORGE DECKER Obituary

GEORGE W. DECKER George W. Decker went to be with the Lord on Sunday, March 26, 2017 at the age of 83 with his loving family by his side, following a long illness with COPD. He was born February 22, 1934 in Kaufman County, Texas, the son of Aubrey Allen Decker and Tressie Mildred Friday. The family left East Texas and moved to Midland, Texas and George grew up there. At the tender age of 17, he enlisted in the Air Force. He met and married the love of his life, Arlene Sonsteng, while stationed in Montana at the Great Falls Air Force Base. Arlene was the daughter of a Montana homesteader. George will tell you his greatest accomplishment in life was his marriage of 63 years and his 5 children, 8 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. He loved and enjoyed spending time with his family. Upon his Air Force discharge he returned to Midland. In 1961, he moved his family to New Mexico. Following various occupations he retired from the New Mexico Department of Corrections in 1990. He was preceded in death by his son, Glenn Curtis Decker, his parents, two brothers and a sister. Survivors are his wife, Arlene; daughters and son-in-laws, Glenda (Ed) Stephens, Gayla Delgado and Brandee (Marshall) Martinez all of Santa Fe and Gina (Don) Bell of Albuquerque. Grandchildren are Sherry Stephens, Shauna Eason, Michael Delgado, Steven Stevens, Bradley Martinez, Paige Martinez, Mariah Martinez, Nathan Martinez, and Great Grandchildren Dylan Jaramillo, Daija Jaramillo, Jonyce Cordova, Jerrod Delgado and Jade Delgado. He has one sister in Ballinger, Texas and many cousins, nieces and nephews who reside in numerous states. George was a man who wore a number of hats. However his favorite hat was a good old Texas cowboy hat called a Stetson. He enjoyed construction work, mechanics, building furniture and other woodworking projects. He loved the outdoors and at every chance he had he would slip off to fish or hunt. He was a social gentleman and liked to visit and share a story. He enjoyed a good joke and a boneless prime rib steak cooked to his perfection. As the disease progressed he became skilled at controlling the television remote and could give you an update on the news and weather as well as the sport team standings. Please join the family for a Celebration of Life on Sunday April 2, 2017 from 2:00-6:00 PM at the Fraternal Order of Police (FOP) in Santa Fe. Graveside services will be held at the National Cemetery on Monday April 3, 2017 at 10:30 AM.

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Published by Santa Fe New Mexican from Mar. 28 to Mar. 30, 2017.

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GLENDA STEPHENS

March 22, 2025

Thinking of you today Daddy. I love and miss you very much! Everyone loves and misses you so very much!

Glenda Stephens

March 22, 2023

Hello in Heaven Daddy! Now it has been six years since you left your tired body, but I still feel you so often in my life and my days. I feel your presence and I know you are wonderfully well. That makes me so happy! We all miss being able to hug you and Mom especially misses sharing her life at home on Camino Chueco with you. In God's perfect timing we will hug you again. Much love Daddy! Please keep looking over us that are still here in this physical life!

Brandee

March 22, 2022

5 Years where has the time gone the pain is still there aching in my heart. Your presence is missed every single day. So much has changed since you left us. This year is a big hard year for me you now have a beautiful healthy great grandson that i wish you could see but dont worry he will know all about you as he grows up. Your Grandson has matured into a wonderful young man you would be very proud of and will be graduating High School in a couple months. You told him before you passed that you wanted him on his graduation day to throw his hat high in the sky so you could touch it. He will do that for you. I love and miss you so much.

Glenda Stephens

March 22, 2021

What a beautiful reminder today of my Daddy, as this popped up in my email inbox. There were so many people who loved him. I miss him so much. But am so grateful he was not in the nursing home during Covid and us not able to see him. I am grateful he didn't linger longer on this world and experience Covid and the shutdowns. Thinking of you and sending Love to you in Heaven Daddy! I Love when I feel your presence!

Brandee Martinez

March 23, 2020

Dad you are missed so much. 3 years have flown by but it still seems like just yesterday that you passed. I love you and miss you terribly. Continue to rest in Gods Kingdom until we meet again.

Brandee Martinez

March 13, 2018

Its almost a year that you became my angel and yet it just seems like it was yesterday. Life is not the same without you I miss you every second of everyday. I love you daddy cant wait to see you again.

M Martinez

March 6, 2018

Not a day goes by that I don't think about you!! I miss you dearly grandpa I cant wait to see you again!<3 I love you!

City

April 4, 2017

Gina, Mrs Decker and all the Decker family My deepest condolences to you and your family may you find peace in God and know Mr Decker is smiling down upon you God Bless
Joseph, Loretta Archuleta

Berlinda Garcia

April 3, 2017

Arlene and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to all of you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Glenda

April 3, 2017

I love you Daddy, I am happy God placed us together in this world and I will always cherish our family memories. I will see you and Curtis in heaven again one day and until that day comes, I will look for you in the stars and clouds of the sky, listen for you in the wind when it blows, and imagine you in the joyful playtime of children.
I love you Daddy! XOXOXO Glenda

Charles Kesler

April 2, 2017

George Decker was one of the finest men I have had the priviledge to share a fishing trip with or share a laugh with. He is at peace now in God's Heavenly Kingdom and no longer suffering. May God fill you, Arlene and family, with the love and memories of George to comfort you during this sad time.

April 1, 2017

So glad we came to see him and he knew us.blessings to all love your family

Brandee Martinez

April 1, 2017

My daddy was one of a kind such a gentle soul. With a heart of Gold who adored my mom and us kids. He will be greatly missed by so many he touched so many lives. And all who met him loved him. He always had a captivating smile and a joke to tell. Daddy you took a huge piece of me when you left, but I know that you are free from pain and suffering and in Gods Kingdom waiting for us. I love you daddy.

connie rodriguez

March 31, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mercy Castillo

March 30, 2017

What a wonderful tribute. Felt like I knew him. My condolences.

Gayle/Floyd Johnson

March 30, 2017

Our sympathy goes out to you and your family, Arlene. We pray for God's comfort to surround you at this sad time.

Brenda and Ken Allen

March 30, 2017

What a beautiful obituary for your daddy. He is was truly one of a kind. Keep those wonderful memories close to your heart and continue to share them with your children and grandchildren. Sending you all my love.

Marty Buchsbaum

March 30, 2017

Arlene, Brandee and the entire Decker family, I offer my condolences and sympathy. I remember first meeting George at the "old" Rancho and soon learned what a tower of strength and honesty he was, never lowering his standards or backing away from a principle held dear.
Take comfort that he is in good hands, healed and free in the Lord's kingdom.

Laura Haefer

March 29, 2017

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Sure wish I could be with you all to share in the celebration of Uncle's life. Love you!

Bridgett Alvarez

March 29, 2017

Gina and family, my sincerest and deepest condolences for the loss of your dad. I know he was an important part of your lives and always will be. May God bless you during your grieving and remind you of all the good memories. Love you Gina!

Rhonda Mitchell

March 29, 2017

Arlene, Gina and family. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. May God comfort you in the coming days.

ND Chavez

March 29, 2017

Sorry for the loss of your Dad! May he rest in peace

Cheryl Thorp-Maes

March 29, 2017

Gayla and family, my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Dad, Grandpa and Great Grandpa.

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