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Erwin Dela Pena
June 10, 2025
I was looking for people I hung out with in High School. Mark and I hung out quite a bit. We lost touch after high school but I remembered him from time to time. We had quite a bit in common. Carrie Kiel was one of our common friends and I remember our late Friday nights hanging out at his house listening to music and just talking about our futures. I'm sorry he's gone and knowing 13 years later saddens me, but memories still live on. I hope his family continues to find peace. Prayers to the almighty for the family. God Bless.
Dee White
May 14, 2025
Dear Mark
This the second message I am sending, the other one disappeared. You have been in heaven for 13 years now and you are still really missed. You have Mike up the in heaven with you and my brother and sisters are with you now to. I am going to be 85 on my birthday in a few weeks and boy am I ever slowing down. Ethan will be graduation from the UW in June and Brandon is still working for the government. Harry and Cindy have been ill and the are doing pretty good, Jim and Julie are both still working, Jim has 2 years to retire. Mark I really miss you and love you so much. By for now, will write again soon
Love you lots,
Your mom.
Dee
Dee White
May 14, 2025
Dear Mark,
Another has gone by. You have been up there in heaven for 13 years
Dee White
May 14, 2024
Good Morning Mark,
Here I am again, its been 12 years you went to heaven, and alot has happened.
Its been 5 years since Mike joined you in heaven. You both are missed so much.
I sold your hour last year and split the money with Harry , Jim and I. We talk about doing that and it was awesome gift from you.
Brandon is working for the us government and Ethan is in his 3rd year of collage
And I will be 84 in a month, sure have slowed down and having a hard time accepting.
Harry bought a new truck and Jim is going to Alaska for work for a week.
Will close for now and remember how much you are loved and missed, give Mike a big hug and i miss him so much
Love to you Mark for ever
Mom
Dee White Mom
May 15, 2023
Mark,
Here it is 2023 and you have been gone 11 years and you are still really missed. We talk about you and we laugh about the funny things and I love you so much. You now have Mike up there with you, and how I miss him too.
All my love you both and I miss you both so much
Love you always
Mom
Dee White Mom
May 14, 2022
I think of you every day Mark. I talk about you, laugh about some of the funny things we did. I just really miss you.
Love you Mark,
Mom
Dee White
May 14, 2019
Dear Mark,
I tried to write before, but this page could not be found, A lot of time has passed and a lot has happened.
Mike has gone to heaven on March 18th 2019. I know you are all together up there. You are up there building something and planting lots of flowers.
Do not like being here in this big house by myself but I will stay here, lots of wonderful memories here.
Harry & Jim are doing ok, Harry is on some new medicine and really hope it helps his pain and Jim's doing some traveling with is job. Brandon is just finishing his 3rd year of collage and working and Ethan is going to be in the 11th grade in the fall and will also start is first year of collage.
I still have your house and its rented and looks nice. Had to put a new heater in it and a new hot water tank
and painted it all inside. looks great.
I love you and miss you lots, and tell Mike I miss him so much and love him lots to.
Mom
2019
Dee White
March 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Mark,
Today you would have been 52 years old. We sent you balloons to you up in heaven and we put 2 balloons on your red maple tree and put flowers under the tree for you.
We still miss you so much, I think about you every day.
I think we will be going to Seaside this month to see the couple that lives there, they have been there almost 2 years now.
We put new carpet in there for them and bought a new refreg, for them and a new vanity and toilet. Now I want to go and see how nice it looks.
Mike has been very ill this year and things are hard for him to do, but Harry and Jim and Brandon and Ethan help, which we are so thankful for.
6I will be 75 in a few months, how I got so old so fast, I have a hard time doing somethings now and I get so tired so fast.
But we just keep on trucking and do the best we can.
You will have been gone 3 years next month (April) and we have not got over your loss, but I keep talking to you and yes I shed a lot of tears still.
Have to go for now
All our love Mark
Mom
Dee White
April 17, 2014
Hi Mark,
Today you have been gone from us for 2 years. We miss you so much. This is still so very hard for me. We put flowers on your red tree and some balloons on the tree to. We have some more balloons to send to you in heaven, but the weather, rain, they will be a day late,. We are getting the pool fixed, new liner and new safety cover, I think this is the last time will spend money like this, but the boys will use it for a few more years.
I am going to close for now and will write soon. Mike is ok, waiting to get his hip fixed. Harry called today to say hi, Jim is ok for now.
We miss you so much Mark, love to you always.
Mom
heaven
Dee White
March 2, 2014
Hi Mark,
Today is your 51st Birthday and we have been thinking about you all day, but we do that everyday. You are loved and missed so much by your family.
I just wrote this long note to you and I lost it all. So I will try again.
Jo called this morning to share birthday wishes to you and to Cory. It is his birthday also today. She lit a candle for both of you today. Harry called today to see how we were doing. Jim is doing good, hes trying to keep up with the boys and wow they sure are going. Brandon will be 17 soon and Ethan will be 11 in August.
I had a dream last week about you. You asked me to come and visit your new home to help you put your things away and we had long talks and had such a wonderful time. When I woke up I was so happy to see you laughing and smiling with me. You seamed so happy. It meant a lot to me Mark.
I love you and miss you so much
Have to go to bed now so I will write again soon.
Love to you from your family always
Love you Mark, HAPPY BIRTHAY MARK
MOM
Dee White
September 2, 2013
Well here I am again.
It sept 2, 2013 and the sun has been out all summer. Brandon has worked hard to help Papa fix the pool deck. After 20 years the wood needed to be replace. Now Mike is staining it. We are having a new roof put on this week, after 23 years I guess it has to be done. Had to put in another heater for the pool, thats the third one. the boys really enjoy it. Ethan has been alot of help this summer with moving the wood around to the back yard. Sure glad Brandon and Ethan are so much help to us.
We are going to Seaside next week to meet the new couple that are renting your house. Sure hope they stay for awhile.
You have been gone for 15 months now, and its not any easyer for me.
I miss that happy voice on the phone, telling me hi and I love you mom. Mike missy you too We talk about all the fun and laughs we had.
Have to say good by again for now Mark,
I love you lots
Mom
Dee White
June 9, 2013
Well Mark, here I am again,
Today is my birthday and I am now 73 years old. I just keep plugging along.
I had a nice day, but a quiet one.
Will write about it next time as I am very tried now.
We miss you Mark and I thnk about you every day.
I love you Mark,
Mom
Dee White
May 27, 2013
May 27th 2013
Well here I am again Mark.
Today is Memorial Day and yes we are thinking about again, we think about you all the time.
Today is Mikes Birthday too, he is now 67, wow where have all the gone.They have been wonderful years.
Mike ad his lung sugrey and his is doing really well. I am very thankful for that.
Harry is doing ok, but he still ill and Jim is doing ok, still keeping the boys busy. Brandon and Ethan come and help in the yard. Brandon has really worked hard to help keep the yard up for Papa. Ethan he helps and he is just learning.
Your house is being rented right now, and I am thankfull for that.
Have to say good by for now love and miss so much.
Mom
April 7, 2013
Well Mark,
Today is Sunday April 8th 2013, You have been gone almost a year now and how I do miss you. Everyone misses you so much.
Brandon turned 16, wow, Ethan broke his fingers playing basketball.Harry has been ill and Jim is working and keeping up with the boys.
Mike is going in for Lung surgrey on April 16th, at the University Of Washington. He should do well with it.
Your house is in my name now,I promised you that I would save it and I did. Have to go now and we all miss you so much,
Love,
Mom
March 8, 2013
my sweet mark its just like yeserday you and jay had your first birthday, 50 wow we all love you so much and we miss you and that big smile of yours,paint the heavens with the angels,i love you so very much, auntie gloria.
March 6, 2013
Well Mark,
Here it is March and you would be " 50 "
We joked about it last year as I would have 2 sons in there 50s. You received your ARP card in the mail, I even said I got to buy it for you. We sent you balloons to heaven for your birthday, we let them off on the deck. Mike is doing pretty good, just for his surgrey in April.
We sure do miss you Mark.
Love and miss you,
Mom
November 22, 2012
Well Mark,
Here I am again. Today was Thanksgiving and Mike went to Jims for dinner as I have been so sick with a cold so I stayed home. Brandon & Ethan was glad he came.
Today my friend Sandy passed away from lung cancer, she said when she got to heaven she was going to find you and give you big hugs from all of us.
We still miss you so much.
Love
Mom
August 11, 2012
Well Mark,
Here I am again, Its been almost 4 month since you have left us. And I still miss you so much.
I am still working hard on everything and not quite out of the woods yet, but almost, I hope and pray everyday that I get everything done. Yes we have you house rented and that Will help alot. We miss you so much.
Love you
Mom
June 20, 2012
Well Mark,
Yes you have left us and now you are in heaven and I miss you so much. My heart is so broken. I know I told you I loved you all the time , so I will say it again, love you and miss you so much.
Mom
June 1, 2012
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of a wonderful young man! Our hearts go out to Dee and Mike and the extended family and friends. ....remembering when Mark was little and drew pictures for me.....! ! Our love...Sue and Dave Christopherson
May 30, 2012
My Dear Sweet Cousin, I Love and Miss you more than you will ever know...I think of you everyday and everyday your so missed...Love you always and forever.. Laurie
Lee and Pat
May 29, 2012
We are so sorry for your lose. It is so hard to lose a loved one, especially a child. But know he loved you and he knows you loved him very much. And you will be together again. Our prayers will be with you.

This Marks quilt that I made for him. He truley loved it.
Mom
May 28, 2012

Mike & Mark
May 28, 2012
May 28, 2012
my little mark my nephew,i can still see you painting your pictures as a little boy you always loved art, i knew you would be a artist,now you will be painting with the angles my sweet boy,i love you and will miss you forever, love you auntie gloria.
Cindy Gregory
May 21, 2012
I hold many memories of Mark growing up near the SeaTac airport. Babysitting him from about 4 years old. JP Patches, chicken noodle soup, ice cream sandwiches, lots of summer fun. And I will never forget the stitches when he tipped back in the chair and hit the corner of the cupboard. I loved all the boys. We kind of grew up together, didn't we. Fast forward many years. Yes, it was great to see the grown up Mark at a wedding. He made me promise not to tell any childhood stories. ;)

Great picture of Mark
Dee White
May 21, 2012
Renee Foote
May 21, 2012
I am so very sorry for your Loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family!!!
Love Renee
Dee & Mike White
May 21, 2012
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say good-bye.
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God knows why.
Our hearts still ache in sadness,
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know...
We love and miss you so much Mark.
Mom & Mike
Mom
May 20, 2012
I love and miss you so much
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