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Theodore Roche Obituary

Theodore E. Roche III 77, of Indio, CA passed away unexpectedly on Saturday November 29, 2008. He was born in San Francisco on July 13, 1931, a son of Theodore J. Roche Jr. and Kathryn M. Roche. He married Karen Harrison on May 9, 1981. Ted is survived by his beloved wife Karen of 27 years; as well as two sons, Theodore K. Roche IV (Carolyn) of Santa Barbara, CA, and Christopher E. Roche of West Hills, CA; one daughter, Andrea J. Allred of St George, UT; two stepdaughters Jamie Hirsch (Mark) of Yorba Linda, CA; Janet Lonich (Mike) of San Clemente, CA; one sister, Ruth Dull of Auburn, CA; four brothers: Robert B. Roche of Lafayette, CA, Randall H. Roche, S.J. of Los Angeles, CA; Donald J. Roche of Los Altos, CA, and Jerry Roche of Fountain Valley, CA. Other survivors include his grandchildren Chae, Alaina, Bailey and Colby Allred; Shaun and Kellie Roche; Lia, Stephen and Kristen Lonich and Mary Jane, Kyle and Casey Hirsch. Ted is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews, cousins and dear friends. Ted was raised in San Francisco, CA. He graduated from Tamalpais School for Boys in 1950 and later attended the University of San Francisco. He served in the US Army as a member of the Anti Aircraft Missile Battalion (NIKE) and also was a member of the US Naval/Air Reserve Unit. He started his working career in the auto industry as a salesman for the family owned Roche's Lincoln Mercury Dealership in North Hollywood, CA. He continued in sales most of his working life where he won numerous awards and accolades for outstanding sales. Ted was a longtime member of the SF Olympic Club, an accomplished athlete all through school, and an avid sportsman who enjoyed hunting and fishing. However his passion as an adult was golf. He and his wife Karen are members of the Shadow Hills Country Club, Indio, CA, where they played in numerous tournaments with their friends and co-members. Ted's proudest moments were speaking about the many accomplishments of his family and especially of his grandchildren. Ted will be dearly missed by all that knew him. He was a member of the St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church in La Quinta, CA. The Funeral Services will include a Viewing and Prayer Service on Friday, December 5, 2008 located at the FitzHenry Chapel, 82-975 Requa Ave, Indio, CA 92201, with family viewing from 4:00 to 5:00 PM; friends viewing from 5:00 to 8:00 PM and a Prayer Service and Celebration of Ted's life open to all commencing at 6:30 PM. A Resurrection Mass will be held at 11 A.M. on Saturday, December 6, 2008 at the FitzHenry Chapel, where Father Randall Roche S. J. will officiate. A reception will follow at the Roche residence 40456 Camino Montecito Indio, CA 92203. Burial Services will take place on Monday, December 8, 2008 at 11:00 AM at the Riverside National Cemetery, 22495 Van Buren Blvd, Riverside, CA. In lieu of flowers, the family has asked that memorial contributions be made to either of the two following charities: The Center for Ignatian Spirituality, 1 LMU Drive, Suite 900, Los Angeles, CA 90045 or the Bea Main Learning Center (for underprivileged children) Make donations out to: Sr. Gabi Williams, OP, 82870 Yosemite Dr., Indio, CA 92203.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Dec. 3, 2008.

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Marilyn Malone

March 20, 2009

Ted will be certainly missed.....I am "Christopher Roche's Aunt Marilyn.....Ted and my husband that has passed away, knew and loved Ted very much.... he was best man at my wedding in 1959......and I think a very nice person to know.

clifford washington

December 20, 2008

Please forgive me, I violated protocol to presume to speak for Deborah Quinn without her permission. I am doing research on Chief Quinn at her request but she reminded me that given that, she still must speak for herself. But I believe that the sentiments are consistent. I really hope you all find comfort and help from Our Lord Above. May God Bless you all. Pardon my mistake in such a hard time.

clifford washington

December 20, 2008

Deepest sympathy on behalf of myself and Deborah Quinn. Theodore the second was a good friend of her grandfather, William J. Quinn, who he knew well from the days when Quinn was SF Chief of Police and Mr. Theodore II was President of the Police Comission in the 20's and 30's. I happen to go on the internet to read about Mr. Theodore Roche II and learned of the unfortunate, untimely death of your loved one, Theodore III. I am Deborah's ex-husband but we remain good friends. Again, deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, though we have never met.

ralph kraft

December 5, 2008

Ted - Our most sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. We shall honor your Dad and remember you and your family in our prayers. Peace be with you.

Rosine Collins

December 5, 2008

Dear Karen, Ron and I are so sorry to hear about Ted's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. We will miss his happy, smiley face whenever we ran into him. He will surely be missed by everyone.

Tony Chavez

December 5, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

AL & Monica Cruz

December 4, 2008

Dear Karen,
We are sorry to hear about Ted. Our condolences to you and your family.Ted will be greatly missed by us especially his great charisma and funny sense of humor will always be with us. God bless Ted may he rest in peace and our prayers are with you always.

Shel Arnot

December 3, 2008

My condolences to Ted's family, including brothers and sister Ruth. We all grew up together in San Francisco and I even bought a 1960 Comet Station Wagon from Ted about that year. May he rest in peace.

Richard Marmion

December 3, 2008

Karen, Richard and I love you and it is so hard to express how sad we feel for you right now. Ted was just a neat guy. Fun to be with and always upbeat. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. Richard always looked forward to golfing with Ted they always had fun together. We want you to know you are family to us and always will be. Love you, Richard and Pam Marmion

Janna Dixon

December 3, 2008

Dear ones, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss that smile, the laughs....I will never get John to go to another business dinner without his buddy going too! We are crying with you. Janna & John

Beth (Lauters) Edmonds

December 3, 2008

Aunt Karen:

I was so sorry to hear about uncle Ted. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers

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