Frederick P. Lenz Jr.

Frederick Lenz Obituary

FREDERICK P. LENZ, JR., age 87, entered into eternal rest Thursday, Sept. 17th in Stratford. Born in Stamford, CT, September 1, 1922 to the late Frederick and beloved Anna Lenz, Fred was a longtime Stamford resident and former Mayor from 1973 to 1975. Fred attended school in Stamford and as a young man later attended the Holy Ghost Father Seminary. He later joined the U.S. Merchant Marines. His first marriage was to the late Dorothy Gumaer of Stamford. They had one son, Frederick "Freddie" P. Lenz, III, who predeceased his father April 12, 1998. Fred went on to marry the former Joyce Payson Slavin, originally from Braintree, Mass. He began his business career as an account executive in New York City with Advertising Age. He also served on the Stamford Board of Reps from the 1st District prior to becoming Stamford's Mayor, followed by a career in real estate sales. Well known for his charismatic personality, parental advice, contagious smile and captivating blue eyes, Fred is survived by four loving children, Peter Slavin and wife, Ileana of Wilton, Daniel Slavin of Virginia Beach, Pamela DiMartino and husband, Joseph of Shelton, Lisa Arsenault and husband, Stephen of Stratford, along with six grandchildren, Christopher, Lauren, Dale, Kelly, Zoe and Rachel and three nieces. Rest in peace Dad, Grandpa and Uncle Freddie, we will always love you. A Memorial Mass will be concelebrated by Reverend Monsignor Edward R. Surwilo, Pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, 1200 Shippan Ave., Stamford and Reverend Monsignor William A. Nagle on Saturday, October 10, 2009 at 10:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations in his memory are made to The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Rd., Branford, CT 06405 or Our Lady Star of the Sea School, 1170 Shippan Ave., Stamford, CT 06902. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Pistey Funeral Home, 2155 Main Street, Stratford.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Advocate on Sep. 20, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Frederick Lenz

14 Entries

Bill dooley

November 8, 2022

Fred was a dear friend in Los Angeles. Lots of fun times golfing or just talking

Bill dooley
Dennis, Massachusetts

October 1, 2009

hi joyce this is sandra pitt simandi, larissa and malcolm pitt's daughter. i just spoke to peter and he told me the news about fred. i remember him from the stamford yacht club. my love to you, sandra

Adrienne Rea

September 27, 2009

Dear Pam , Dan, Peter, Lisa and Joyce

I am so saddened at Freds Passing. Growing up with the Lenz's and Slavins indeed sculpted who I am today. 40 plus years of friendship Pamela, and all because your Dad brought you to our neighborhood all those years ago..
I will never forget his beautiful blue eyes and knowing smile. He was always able to cajole us kids into doing what he asked just by flashing that smile! Remember how he always got us to stop what we were doing and go to Confession at 4'oclock on Sat afternoons?
He was a great Man, and I am Blessed to have known him for all these years.
May he rest in Peace and May God ease your sadness.
Much Love, Adrienne Rea

September 23, 2009

Lisa, Pam, Peter & Danny

So sorry to hear about your loss. My dad's been gone for 18 years already but when I think of Fred and Elmer together I can only smile. I can hear the sirens on the Mayor's car as it drove down Estero Boulevard in Florida, I can still see my dad's "sewer 1" license plate that he proudly displayed after Fred's nomination. I remember recording the radio spots. Those guys had so much fun together! Lots of late nights, lots of laughs, lots of fun! 87 years old. Amazing. I'm so sorry I did such a lousy job at staying in touch. God Bless Him and I hope you all find comfort and strength in each other to help you through what I'm sure is a very difficult time.
peace,
Jane Kozanski Jordan

September 23, 2009

Peter and Danny,

Requiescat in pace.

Steve Terenzio

Polly O'Brien Morrow

September 21, 2009

Dear Lisa, Pam, Peter and Danny,

Remembering your father brings such a smile to my face and joy to my heart. I can't help but hum "Cece My Playmate."

I was so blessed to have grown up as your neighbor and friend and to have known your father's warmth, concern, and good humor.

It was wonderful when he became Mayor of Stamford. And I was so proud when he appointed my father as Commissioner of Public Works. I remember Dad telling wonderful stories of the good that your father and his administration did for Stamford and its citizens.

Wishing you all peace and love on the journey ahead.

Frank Soldano

September 21, 2009

I was sorry to read that Fred had passed away. My sincere condolences to his family. I had just started a year or more with the city, when Fred became Mayor. He was very likable and considerate to all. He made a good Mayor. He will be in our prayers.

sharon konspore

September 21, 2009

With sincere condolences Sharon Konspore

If I remember correctly my Dad Stuart Konspore called Mr. Lenz 'SNOW WHITE"

Rest in Peace

Mike Vacca

September 21, 2009

Lisa & family,
I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I remember our 6th grade graduation at Rogers School & his presence made it all more special as he was our Mayor. God bless him & all of you during this difficult time.
In sympathy,
Mike Vacca
Rogers class of 1974

Bruno Giordano

September 21, 2009

Special condolenzes to a speial family,which stuck by their man through thick and thin . The life of a politician is sekdom rewarded here on earth, and seldom understood or appreciated. Fred was a good man, and will be justly reward by the God above. May he rest in Peace. Bruno Giordano

Linda

September 21, 2009

It will be the little things that you will remember, the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter. And although it may seem hard right now, it will be the memories of these little things that help push away the pain and bring back the smiles. My sincerest sympathy in your lost. May the peace of God guard your heart and give you comfort in these difficult days.

September 20, 2009

Dear Family,

I am sorry that Frederick passed away. I too have lost loved ones in death. What has given me comfort are the words in the Bible that tell us that soon "all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." (John 5:28,29)

Yes, you loved one can live again on a paradise earth. I hope this has given you comfort in your time of sorrow.

Sincerely,

Escrever

William Lockwood

September 20, 2009

Lisa Pam Peter & Danny
I'm so very sorry To hear about your dad.
I always enjoyed my talks with your dad. I have often thought about your family and look back on those times fondly.
My family will keep your familys in our prayers
Billy Lockwood Clarksville Tn

Billy Lockwood

September 20, 2009

Lisa & Peter Danny & Pam I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I always enjoyed my talks with your dad.
I know what he ment to you lisa, My family will have you in our prayers.
Billy lockwood
Clarksville TN

Showing 1 - 14 of 14 results