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Mildred Folmer Obituary

Folmer, Mildred Jane (Clark)

Mildred Jane (Clark) Folmer, 85, passed away on Friday, September 29, 2017 at Elcor Nursing Facility. Daughter of the late Frances (Schoonover) and Arthur Clark, married for 64 years to Richard Folmer who predeceased her on April 28, 2016. She was also predeceased by three brothers and three sisters.

Mildred is survived by her children, William Folmer and Rebecca A. (James) Kowulich; grandsons, Joseph and Michael Kowulich; brothers, Fritz (Mary Alice) Clark and Ted (Laurie) Clark; and sister-in-law, Mildred Clark.

Mildred worked at the Arnot Ogden Medical Center for 20 years and after retiring she took care of her grandsons until they went to day care. She also spent many Sunday mornings taking care of babies in the nursery at Lighthouse Baptist Church. Mildred was a loving wife, mother and grandmother who will be missed by all who knew her. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Lighthouse Baptist Church, 209 Gardner Rd, Horseheads, NY 14845 or the North Presbyterian Food Pantry, 921 College Ave, Elmira, NY 14901.

Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, October 3, 2017 from 5 PM to 7 PM with a funeral service to follow at 7 PM at Olthof Funeral Home, Inc. 1050 Pennsylvania Avenue, Elmira. Burial will be in the Ashland Cemetery, Wellsburg, NY on Wednesday, October 4, 2017 at 11 AM. Pastor Richard Hack will officiate. Mildred's tribute wall may be signed at www.olthof.com

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Published by Star-Gazette from Oct. 1 to Oct. 3, 2017.

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Mrilyn Gordon

October 9, 2017

I worked with Millie at Arnot She was a joy to know..Just look at the smiling picture here. Millie was always smiling.

Lynn Rounsville

October 5, 2017

I also worked with your mom at the Arnot Ogden. She was such a caring hard worker and I also fondly remember her wonderful sense of humor. My condolences to you.

CHARLOTTE SPIKER

October 5, 2017

I WORKED WITH MILDRED AT THE ARNOT WE HAD A GREAT TIME WORKING TOGETHER, SHE WAS ALWAYS SMILING AND HAPPY, GOD BLESS YOU ALL CHARLOTTE SPIKER

Ray Taylor

October 4, 2017

Remembering Mildred by her wit and good natured humor. So glad our parents had such good friends for so many years. She will be missed.

Ray Taylor

October 4, 2017

Remembering Mildred by her wit and good natured humor. So glad our parents were such good friends for so many years. She will be missed.

Mary Anne Rosplock

October 4, 2017

I worked with Mildred at the Arnot when I was an aide, and we put in many a night together. I remember she was one of the kindest, and one of the funniest people I ever worked with. I still remember her funny jokes and dry humor! She was truly a great lady.

Ann Steinhilper

October 4, 2017

Becky and family-
We are so sorry to hear bout Mildred's passing. I remember your mom fondly. Our parents shared many years of friendship which is a gift. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Ann ( Taylor) and Bruce Steinhilper

Gary & Jeannie Caccia

October 1, 2017

Bill, Becky and family, we are so sad to hear of your mothers passing. She was such a sweet wonderful person. Many memories of your mom and dad.

Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May the Peace of the Father give you strength to face the days ahead.

Joanne Fiori

October 1, 2017

Dear Becky and Family,

We are with you as you celebrate the life of your wonderful mother. Some of my fondest memories were of the times we spent at your house just having having fun as high schoolers. She was always so kind to me. I know she's in heaven with your dad.

Love, Joanie, Terry and family

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