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Palmer Short
January 15, 2021
Pat found something in me that resulted in a long friendship. I wish knew what is was. When she became bedridden I would stop off after visiting my Josh who was suffering from dementia. I would stop at Subway and get her turkey breast sub and a pastry . I would keep her laughing with anecdotes . One day I was exhausted and dozed off. When I awoke. She jokingly said boy you are something else falling asleep when you are supposed to be keeping me amused. She never forgot and reminded me periodically. When she was able we would sit on the porch and recite poetry . I gave her a copy of my favorite book A River Runs Through It by Norman MacLean. She loved it. I'm so glad I was able to be with her in her last days. We found out a lot about each other. I'm reminded of the last line of a poem. As long as I live they will live also for I'm a part of them. I miss you Pat you made feel important.
March 7, 2018
I met Pat at our wedding at the Oldest House in St Augustine in April 1990. Don't recall the meeting, too many people. But when I came down permanently in 1991 it wasn't long before Pat and I became fast friends when I became associated with the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of which Pat was one of the founders. Pat had a great sense of humor and we spent many an hour on her porch telling stories about her growing up in Steinbeck Country and me growing up in Andy Griffith country. Later when she became bed riddden I made a point of visiting as often as possible. I dozed off once and she never let me forget it laughing each time she mentionedit.I'm going to miss those porch talks.
Tom Padgett
January 27, 2018
My condolences to the family. I knew Pat and John Griffin back in the 1970s and have fond memories of them both. John was instrumental in my choice of archaeology as a career.
K Jones
January 26, 2018
Dear Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Thinking of you all.
With love and prayers, always.
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