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Robert Harmon Obituary

Harmon, Robert L. 87, called to his eternal rest by our Lord, from his home in Chesterfield, MO early Easter Morning, April 20, 2014. He was the beloved husband of Carolyn Harmon (nee Metzger) for 62 years; dearest father of Barbara Keogh (Geoffrey), Nancy Norath (Don), Celia Homsher (Jeff), Julia Rizzo (Michael), Mindy Wakefield, and the late Robert L. Harmon, Jr (Trish); dear grandfather of 16, and great-grandfather. Robert was born in St. Louis, MO, attended Univ City High and graduated from Washington Univ where he was a member of Beta Theta Pi fraternity and Omicron Delta Kappa honor society. He was the son of the late Jess and Lela Harmon, and brother of the late Roger Harmon. During WWII he served as a Lieutenant in the Merchant Marines. After college he worked for IBM and became manager of offices in Nashville and Chicago. He returned to St. Louis as Asst. VP of McDonnell Douglas Corp., to help start a new division, McAuto. Later he became Corp VP of Civic Affairs. Throughout his life he participated in many community affairs and on several boards such as MO Bapt Hospital, Jr Achievement, Washington Univ Alumni & Travel Committees, Urban League, Care & Counseling, St. Louis Boy Scout Council, Ladue Schools, Bank Building Corp., and Clayton Rotary. He was a member of Bellerive C.C. and Crystal Downs C.C., in Frankfort, MI where he spent many summers. He served as Moderator of Delmar Baptist Church where he met his wife and his children were raised. He had an insatiable love of travel, visiting all the continents and journeying around the world. Of all his achievements at which he worked the hardest and was the proudest, was his role as a father, grandfather, husband, and son. He was indeed Da man for all seasons. We love you Pop and will miss you greatly! Services: Visitation from 4-8 p.m. on Thurs., April 24, at Bopp Chapel, 10610 Manchester Rd. in Kirkwood. Memorial Service 11 a.m. Fri., April 25, at Delmar (Dayspring) Baptist Church, 1001 Municipal Center Dr., Town & Country, MO 63131. Interment 9:30 a.m. Fri., at Valhalla Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Delmar (Dayspring) Baptist Church, MO Bapt Hospital, 3015 N. Ballas Rd., St. Louis, MO 63131, or Dogwood Farm Sanctuary animal rescue, PO Box 53, Troy, MO 63379. www.boppchapel.com



Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Apr. 23, 2014.

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Allan Brennecke

May 1, 2014

A great guy, an old fraterity brother. Wish Blessing to his family

Lori (Keirle) White

April 28, 2014

Ms. Harmon and Family,
I am just learning of Mr. Harmon's passing. I am so sorry for your lost. His smile and that deep thunderous laugh was always welcoming as well as comforting to me. I know this is a difficult time for all of you. May God wrapped you in his tender care and replace your sorrow with the loving memories of times you all shared together.

Robert and Laura Danes

April 26, 2014

Carolyn and Bob have been dear friends since we came to Delmar in 1969 - I as Minister of Music. There is no place to begin listing all the wonderful things Bob has done for others over the years. But the one thing that we will always remember is that when we lost our daughter, Jo, the Harmons sent us the key to their home in Michigan, saying simply that we needed to be in a new place to begin healing. It has been our pleasure to see them over the years when they visited Barbara and her family in Thousand Oaks, CA, and they were here for our youngest daughter's wedding in Malibu. We know that your large and dear family misses you intensely. They must be comforted to know that you have passed on to eternal life. Your days on earth were numbered, but you filled them with incredible acts of kindness and charity to so many. The coming year will bring tears with every passing family holiday, but the blessings your shared will ease their pain. How fortunate we have all been to know you and love you. Death never takes that away.

Joni McConnell

April 25, 2014

Thoughts and prayers are with Nanc and her family. I am sorry for your loss.

chuck elliott

April 25, 2014

i'm unable to attend the services today. i will always remember bob as a good friend and a good boss

April 25, 2014

Carolyn and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you today as we remember Bob's many kindnesses to us back in 1986 when we first met you at Delmar. He made a lasting impression on us as a man of high accomplishment coupled with humility and authentic charm. Doug and Terri Vancil

Christmas 2013

Mindy Wakefield

April 24, 2014

I sure will miss your smiling face, Dad!

Pamela Hays-Hagstrom

April 24, 2014

What a zest for God, Family and Life. The example set for all was wonderful!
Peace and prayer be with the family. Our hearts are full of fond memories.

Shirley Burton

April 24, 2014

Christian love and prayers to Mrs. Harmon and family. Years ago, I broke my leg @ McAuto, was in hospital room with a lady named Dorothy, when she found out I worked for McAuto & knew Mr. Harmon was our V.P. She said "you tell Bobby, you were in the hospital with me, I was his Father's secretary and we always called him Bobby. When I returned to work, I wrote Mr. Harmon a little note per Dorothy's request. He called me and shared his love for Dorothy. He was delighted to get the note and expressed his concern for my healing.

April 24, 2014

Carolyn and Family...My sympathies to all. As a former member of Delmar, I remember Bob well. He was unforgetable! A really sweet happy man...
Patricia Stark Holmes

Marion Wheeler

April 23, 2014

I first met Mr. Harmon when he chose me to be his secretary in 1967. I learned so much from him that helped me in my future positions as an executive secretary. He was not only my boss, but I considered him a good friend. My sincere sympathies to Mrs. Harmon. I pray her sadness will soon turn to wonderful memories of a wonderful husband.

Jim&Dianna Ross

April 23, 2014

Dianna and I shall always cherish the fond memories of Carolyn and you. Truly wonderful people. You will be remembered as a man of integrity, high values, dedicated to excellence, respect for others and a family man. In the spring of 1968, you were my first contact at MCAUTO as a USAF Officer touring MDC. You Introduced me to Guy Rose. You were very caring at some of my darkest times. I will always remember your fond wishes for Dianna and I when we married in Feb 1985. You are at eternal peace with our Lord. Love Jim and Dianna Ross

Erv Schmitz

April 23, 2014

Bob, god blessing you and hold you close to him. I always remembered you kindness in our meetings at Health Systems.

Jim Merlo

April 23, 2014

God bless you Bob. I will always remember you with fondness.
Jim merlo "MCAUTO"

Carolyn Finnegan

April 22, 2014

Uncle Bob always had a smile on his face and lit up the room. What a legacy he has left to those he knew. I'm so thankful to call him my Uncle. Now he is with Nana, Pop, mom and dad and I know we will see them all again soon.
All my love to you Aunt Carolyn and to the cousins.

Carolyn Harmon Finnegan

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