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Sue Ford Patrick

1946 - 2020

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Sue Patrick Obituary

Sue Ford Patrick, 73, retired senior Foreign Service Officer, died on July 6, 2020 in Pompano Beach, FL, after a brief struggle with pancreatic cancer.

Sue Ford Patrick was the eldest of three children born to Oscar and Mildred Ford in Montgomery, Alabama on November 9, 1946. Education was deeply valued by her parents. In Montgomery, she attended Chisholm Elementary, St. John the Baptist Elementary and St. Jude College Preparatory School before transferring to Madonna Academy, a private, Marianist high school in Hollywood, FL. In 1963, she graduated from Madonna Academy as valedictorian.

Following high school, Sue attended the College of Notre Dame of Maryland, America's oldest Catholic women's college, graduating with a BA in History in 1967. She then pursued graduate studies in US Diplomatic History at the University of Virginia. Five years later, she joined the US Foreign Service as a junior diplomat. During 32 years of diplomatic service, she rose to the senior ranks, becoming a career member of the Senior Foreign Service. Her assignments included Thailand, Kenya, Cote d'Ivoire, Rwanda, Haiti and South Africa, as well the State Department and Pentagon in Washington, DC. Her languages are Thai, Swahili and French and Afrikaans.

In addition to her earlier graduate studies at the University of Virginia, Sue later received an MA in African Studies from Boston University and an MA in National Security Studies from the National War College in Washington, DC.

As her diplomatic career progressed, she took on increasingly challenging assignments. In Kigali, Rwanda, she served as Deputy Chief of Mission, where she sought to make peace between the warring factions in the years preceding the Rwandan genocide. In Johannesburg, South Africa, she was the first woman to serve as the US Consul General. At the Pentagon, following the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991, her efforts played a key role in shepherding former Warsaw Pact countries into the orbit of NATO and Western democracy. Then, as diplomat-in-Residence at Morehouse and Spelman colleges in Atlanta, she led the State Department's efforts to recruit talented college graduates to join the US Foreign Service while teaching a course in US diplomacy. After she retired, Sue undertook an assignment as Advisor to help negotiate a peace agreement between the government of Senegal and warring factions in the Casamance region of Senegal.

In retirement, Sue turned her focus to her local community of Pompano Beach. She founded the Palm Aire Student Enrichment Group, a collection of forty volunteers who tutor children weekly to help them reach grade-level proficiency. She was also a member of the city commission's Educational Advisory Committee, where she provided counsel on public education matters and monitored the actions of the Broward County School Board on behalf of city residents. Sue Ford Patrick leaves to cherish her memory, a loving husband: Henderson Patrick; two children: Lauren Patrick and Ibrahima Patrick; her mother: Mildred Ford Carter.

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Published by Sun-Sentinel on Jul. 19, 2020.

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Yolisa Nkabinde

July 13, 2023

Its been 3 years and your absence is still felt. Love you forever my mom.

With love,
Yolly

Yolisa Nkabinde

July 6, 2021

Mommy Sue was my mentor along with her husband, way back when I had won a scholarship through the SSP in Johannesburg, South Africa. I didnt know that both Sue and her husband would become like my very own parents.

She was serving as a US Diplomat then and I can tell you how much I was treated like her very own baby! I had a double set of parents and it made me so sad when they had to move to another country.

I later on reconnected with my parents Sue and Henderson, and I can tell you that I still feel God's love for me through them.

Mommy, I will truly miss you and want you to know even as you're resting in the Lords presence, that I love you and will continue to do so forever.

With love,
Yolly

David Ballard

October 24, 2020

Sue was my boss in Rwanda for a year. She was a good boss, and a better person. I was saddened to learn of her death, but I wouldn't be writing this if she were not a memorable and valued colleague whose impact on many like me was so positive, even remembered decades later.

Patricia Kushlis

September 3, 2020

A mutual Foreign Service friend just emailed me about Sue's death. I am so terribly sorry. My late husband Bill and I were friends beginning with our early Foreign Service days in Thai language training. Her wonderful humor, quick wit, willingness to speak truth to power, friendship and warmth were intrinsic to Sue. I will miss her deeply. Henderson, Lauren and Ibrahama, please accept my deepest condolences.

Ely Raveloson

July 26, 2020

Chers Henderson, Laureen et Ibrahima,
De tout coeur avec vous dans cette douloureuse épreuve.
En illustration de sa belle personnalité, sa volonté de mobiliser et réussir une action de charité dans le jardin de votre résidence à Tana, une vente-expo d'objets et d'articles artisanaux en faveur de la communauté religieuse des Soeurs malgaches de Bon Secours.
En mémoire également, lors d'un dîner convivial offert par le couple Patrick, une hôtesse pleine de sympathie à l'égard des invités composés de ministres, d'amis et de moi-même, alors directeur au ministère des Affaires étrangères de Madagascar.
Que son âme soit en paix auprès de l'Eternel. Je lui dédie les versets du Psaume 23, 1-4 : "L'Eternel est mon berger... quand je marche dans la vallée de l'ombre de la mort, je ne crains aucun mal car tu es avec moi ".
A vous sa chère famille, le verset du Psaume 43,2 : " Toi, mon Dieu protecteur....envoie ta lumière et ta fidélité, qu'elles me guident".
Toutes mes sincéres condoléances. Que le Seigneur vous fortifie.
Avec ma compassion éplorée et mes amitiés
Ely Raveloson
Tana-Madagascar

Rosanne Moore

July 22, 2020

Lauren,

I am so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. I am so grateful to have known her in all the years that I have known you - which has been practically my entire life. Your mom was such a sweet person. I’m praying for you, your dad and brother and the rest of your family during this difficult time. I love you! Please know that I am here for all of you. My parents send their condolences to your family as well.

FRANCIS DAVIS

July 19, 2020

WOW, READ SUE'S "STORY" WHILE READING THE PAPER TODAY. WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENTS - A CLEAR CUT CASE THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER ! I NEVER MET HER BUT I HOPE DURING HER LIFE PEOPLE STOOD UP WHEN SHE ENTERED THE ROOM . FROM A MARINE WHO KNOWS WHO TO RESPECT -SEMPER FI. 7/19/20

Bob DePathy

July 19, 2020

A good friend saw Sues passing and notified me. Sue is the sister of John Ace Ford. Ace was my best friend and teammate at Chaminade College Preparatory High School in the 60s. We were the schools 3rd graduating class. John was also a great athlete and pushed us all to be better. Sue was a phenomenal person. Whenever reference was made about his big sister, it was just WOW! She was so smart, a terrific person, of outstanding character and integrity. She was the kind of person who made a positive difference in all the lives she touched. My prayers and deepest condolences go out to the entire Ford-Patrick family. God Bless

Paulette DAngelo Vitale

July 19, 2020

I had the humble pleasure of being in the Chaminade-Madonna Alumni Hall of Fame with Sue. Our last annual meeting in Hollywood was filled with conversations of her educational efforts in Pompano Beach. I couldve listened (and learned) from her for hours. She truly made her mark in and on the world.

MJ Laguerre

July 18, 2020

Aunt Sue, my heart is saddened by this unforeseen situation. You will be missed. Thank you for your words of inspiration though out my life. Love always

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