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John Ruddy Obituary
CHARLTON/BARRE - John D. Ruddy Jr, 62, passed away peacefully in UMass Memorial Health Center University Campus surrounded by his family on Friday, February 26, 2021 after suffering a stroke.
John is survived by his loving wife, of 33 years Mary (Bercume); a daughter Candace and her husband James of North Brookfield; a son Nicholas of Charlton; a daughter Mackenzie and her husband Daniel of East Brookfield; 3 granddaughters Manhattan, Reese and Reilly; many siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles. He was predeceased by his father and sister, Elaine Hibbard.
John was born July 6, 1958 in Ware, MA to John D. Ruddy Sr. and Beverly (Bostrom) Wentworth. He was a 1976 graduate of Quabbin Regional High School. John served in the United States Marine Corps from 1976-1979 and was honorably discharged due to injury. After serving in the USMC, John became an EMT and also worked at the USPS in Springfield from 1985-2006.
John was an avid New England sports fan and especially loved Ted Williams, a Marine himself, and the Boston Red Sox. He loved to collect sports and military memorabilia. He enjoyed spending his summers with his wife at their campsite at Sutton Falls Camping Area in Sutton, MA.
Family and friends are invited to calling hours on Thursday, March 4,2021 from 4-6PM in Pillsbury Funeral Home 96 S. Barre Rd., Barre. Funeral services will be private. Burial with Military Honors will be in Worcester County Memorial Park in Paxton. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Wounded Warrior Project or disabled veterans of America.
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Merle Bingham Jr
February 23, 2023
Knew John in his younger years where he was a dynamic young man always on the go, great sense of humor and always willing to help others. RIP John,
Dale Davies
March 13, 2021
I´m sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Wes Pettit
March 4, 2021
Nick and family. I'm very sorry for your loss. John was a very good man. He was asked to make incredible sacrifices for the country and he overcame the challenges that caused. He made his family the priority and I will always have a lot of respect for his character.
Marguerite & Richard Crevier
March 4, 2021
Dear Mary and family, we are so very sorry to hear of Butch's passing. I worked with him on many occasions with the ambulance squad. He was also a part of the snowmobile gang. He was truly a sincere person who loved you all very dearly.
Katie and Fran Carey
March 2, 2021
Mary and Family ,
So sorry for your loss, John was a great classmate. We will miss seeing him at our reunions may he rest in peace .
Brian young
March 2, 2021
Graduated in 76 with John spent 6 years enjoying his friendship and fun at Quabbin. He was there for everyone will miss his laughter.
Donald Beaulieu
March 2, 2021
Semper Fi John, Peace be with You, and prayers to your Family
Ron and Barb Newton
March 2, 2021
Our deepest sympthy and condolences to the family of John. John had a great sense of humor, his dedication to his family, his community, and his country will live on in our hearts.Rest in Peace Brother.
Nick Treadwell
March 1, 2021
Sorry for your loss. I loved talking about the Corps with him back in the day. Semper Fi Brother.
Robert Lapati
March 1, 2021
I remember that John would come to all the soccer games, he would call me burger because l would slide and tackle and he said I would make hamburger out of the other team. I loved that guy and I will never forget him. RIP my dear friend John.
Rick Lindsten
March 1, 2021
They called us Starsky & Hutch Senior year in High School. Great friend.
Rick St George
March 1, 2021
One of my closes friends growing up. One hell of a guy. Rest in piece my friend you will be missed
Rick St George
March 1, 2021
One of my closes friends growing up. One hell of a guy.
Merle Bingham Jr
March 1, 2021
Our condolences to family. I remember John in high school, great guy alway funny with the jokes. RIP
Diane Klem Wright
March 1, 2021
Many fond memories of John. Sincere condolences to the family.
Deborah Kane
March 1, 2021
Many days spent with the Ruddy family on Ridge Road in Hardwick. Sending prayers and love to all. RIP Butchie
John skowyra
March 1, 2021
R.I.P my friend!! So sorry for your loss. New John in my younger days! Baseball etc!God Bless!!
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