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Paul Decker Obituary

Paul Decker

Estell Manor - Paul Decker, 69, of Estell Manor, NJ, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, November 22, 2018 surrounded by his loving family. He was the beloved husband of Carol Lee (Lovisone) for 46 years; a devoted, loving father to Kriste Decker of Newfield, NJ; Lauren (Brian) Shanklin of Dover, DE, and Steven (Jeniece) Decker of Rahway, NJ. He was the adored Popo of Dana and Samantha Shanklin and Jordan (JJ) Decker. Survivors include his beloved brother Robert (Bob) of Estell Manor and sister and brother-in-law Lois and Dennis McGee of Idaho; brother-in-law and sister-in-law Don and Claudia Lovisone of Vineland, NJ; Aunt Mary (Tootsie) Lovisone of Vineland, and his faithful companion, Jakey. He is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, great nieces, and great nephews along with many wonderful and supportive cousins and friends.

He was predeceased by his parents Robert H. Decker, Sr. and Elizabeth (Cook) DeWoody, his sister Madeline Decker Lorence, and sister-in-law Pati Decker.

Paul was a graduate of Vineland High School Class of 1967, Cumberland County College, and Glassboro State College. He was an Industrial Arts teacher specializing in Printing and Photography at Vineland High School 11-12 for 33 years. He and his wife also co-owned a typesetting business, Create-A-Graphic. At age 40, he became a commercial clammer and continued doing that for the next 27 summers. He always loved being on the water and being outdoors. Running, chopping wood, crabbing, fishing, and biking were his favorite pastimes. In his younger years he also surfed, played baseball, and hunted.

When his children were younger he coached soccer, softball, baseball, and basketball. You could always find him cheering them on from the sidelines.

He was a former member and co-chair of the Estell Manor Zoning Board and a member of the Vineland Education Association, the NJEA, and NEA.

His biggest joy in life was spending time with his family and especially his three grandchildren who held a special place in his heart.

Relatives and friends will be received on Tuesday evening November 27th from 6:00-8:00 PM at the Pancoast Funeral Home, 676 S. Main Rd., Vineland, NJ, and again on Wednesday from 9:00-10:00 AM. His funeral liturgy will be celebrated at 10:30 AM at the Christ the Good Shepherd Parish--Church of St. Isidore the Farmer, 1655 Magnolia Rd., Vineland, NJ, with burial to follow in the Sacred Heart R.C. Cemetery. For those who wish, memorial contributions in Paul's name may be made to www.pancan.org (Pancreatic Cancer Research). To email condolences or tributes, please visit www.pancoastfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Daily Journal from Nov. 26 to Nov. 27, 2018.

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Irene Salcito

March 4, 2021

Mr. Decker was my homeroom teacher and graphic arts teacher in 11th and 12th grade. I was one of 2 girls in his class. He was my absolute favorite teacher. He had a great sense of humor and was well liked by my class. My prayers go out to the family. He will be missed.

Angel Rosado

December 11, 2018

Paul was a great teacher and mentor to me the four years I had him for graphic arts. He pushed me to be better at printing and helped when I joined the workforce. We kept in contact through the occasional call at Christmas when he sent me a card. I will truly miss his friendship and know that God has set a place at the table for him.

Robin Daplyn

December 1, 2018

I taught with Paul for many years at VHS and we were alter boys together at Trinity Episcopal Church. I just recently found out about his passing. I am heartbroken that we have lost such a fine man. Paul always seemed to be upbeat in all the years I knew him. My condolences to the family for losing such a big part of your lives. Rest in Peace my friend.

November 29, 2018

I'm so sorry for your loss. As you remember your love one, may your treasured memories and Almighty God comfort your broken hearts. (Psalm 147:3)

Norman Timberman

November 27, 2018

It is with deep sadness that I extend my sincere condolences to the Decker family. I first met Paul, when I was employed by Standard Publshing as their cameraman, stripper and plate maker. Paul was working his way thru college and worked part time with me in the camera department. I taught him everything I knew about camera work, stripping and plate making. He in turn taught me some things he learned in college. I will always remember Paul as a sincere and upright young man.
Sadly,
Norman W. Timberman

Dawnne Howarth

November 27, 2018

To Kriste and Her Family,
I am so sorry that you lost such a good and honorable man, so young, so soon...

Linda Johnson

November 27, 2018

Kriste, we are so sorry to hear about your dad. Please know that we are thinking of you at this very difficult time. Prayers for you and your family.
Bob and Linda

Ernie Messing Jr

November 27, 2018

My condolences to Paul's family . I haven`t seen him in years, but remember as kids growing up .Paul was always a nice guy to everyone. RIP Paul.

Deb Sterchele

November 26, 2018

I was so sorry to learn of Paul's passing. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you during this difficult time.

Christy Miller

November 26, 2018

So sorry for your loss! You are all in our prayers at this tough time....Christy Miller, Rusty Garrison & Kaelyn Canup

Bonnie McCann

November 26, 2018

Dear Carol and Family, I was so sorry to learn of Paul's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Tim Curley

November 26, 2018

Mr. Decker was one of the teachers who I recall as having made a difference in my life. It was a joy when I ran into him a couple of years ago and was able to tell him that he had very much a positive effect on my life. I hope the memories he leaves can help sustain his loved ones and continue to guide them as his teaching did for me. So sorry for your loss.

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