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Timothy Teevan Birchall

1972 - 2017

Timothy Teevan Birchall obituary, 1972-2017, San Francisco, CA

BORN

1972

DIED

2017

Timothy Birchall Obituary

San Francisco, Calif. - With the heaviest of hearts and unbearable sadness, we announce the passing of Timothy Teevan Birchall, 45, of San Francisco, on Sunday, Oct. 8, 2017. He lost his short, hard fought battle with cancer on that Sunday afternoon surrounded by the people who loved him.

Tim was born in New London, at Lawrence & Memorial Hospital, to Louis and Gloria Birchall on June 25, 1972. He graduated from Waterford High School in 1991 where he served as class president for all four years. Upon graduation he moved to Indiana to be with extended family. After a year, he drove out west to California where he made his home. Tim worked as a pre-school teacher for several years in the San Francisco community where he lived and was loved by all of his students and families alike. He was a trained and established psychic, medium and healer as well as a massage therapist with an avid clientele. He was also the creator and owner of RockStar Crystals and Gems in San Francisco.

Tim was preceded in death by his late father, Louis Birchall; and stepfather, Kenneth Smalarz.

He is survived by his mom, Gloria Smalarz of Waterford; his longtime partner, Phillip N. Walker of San Francisco; brothers, Patrick Birchall of Groton and Adam Smalarz of Waterford; along with nephew, Connor Birchall; niece, Brianna Birchall of East Lyme; and niece, Haley Smalarz of Waterford. Tim also leaves a large extension of family and friends in Connecticut, Indiana and California.

Not only did we lose a son, brother, uncle, cousin, partner, teacher and mentor, but one of the most kind and gentle souls anyone has ever met. There are very few people that will touch our lives the way Tim did. His presence was larger than life, his positivity contagious, but what most will remember him by was his huge heart. As we sit and mourn the loss of this incredible human being, I cannot help to think that Tim would want us to celebrate his life. He once said to me during a difficult time the famous words of Dr. Seuss, "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." This is exactly what he would want all of us to do. Don't cry because he's gone, but share stories, keep him alive in our heads and hearts, smile and laugh, and simply enjoy the memories we have of him. We love and miss you, Tim. You were taken away far too soon.

Services will be held at Harkness State Park in Waterford at a later date to be determined by the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Nov. 5, 2017.

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Susan Judson, cousin and friend

October 31, 2023

I miss you so much Tim. I miss your beautiful smile and your contagious laugh. I miss your heartfelt kindness and gentleness. I miss seeing how children were so deeply drawn to your beautiful energy and your incredible love of life. I miss your hugs. I miss our long conversations. I´m sad that you missed the last six years. And know, You were/are missed every day. I love you Tim

Susan JUDSON

October 30, 2020

Tim, There isn't a day that passes that I haven't thought of you. I miss you terribly. This world most definitely feels your absence. Your "niece" just got her driver's permit today. Please watch over her and all in her path. I remember so clearly the Christmas she recognized your eyes in your ! She was just 3. Now it's been 3 years since you passed on. I love you so deeply my sweet cuz and I'm still watching out for your gentle but clear visit. Xxxooo

Susan JUDSON

October 30, 2019

Hi Dear friend and cousin, I'm sitting here in SF, feeling a little lost without having you to call or to visit. Actually every time I come to the city I feel this way. Then, eventually I am awakened to or maybe, by, your spirit, in noticing all the beauty and magic this city holds. You loved this place and knew how to spread that infectious love and appreciation of yours. Thank you.
I miss you every day Tim. I love you. Time for a walk now..xo

Pacifica, CA - A mini road trip we took in mid May, out of SF.

Susan Judson

November 6, 2017

Rodeo Beach, Marin Headlands - One of Tim's favorite places.

Susan Judson

November 6, 2017

Tim and Aunt Grace

Susan Judson

November 6, 2017

Susan Judson

November 6, 2017

Tim, I miss you terribly. We all miss you. I do not want to accept you are gone. And ultimately I know you are not, as your amazing spirit, gratitude for life and your courage will continue to live on in the lives of all who knew you. Particularly so in the hearts and memories of the many children you've taught over the years. You have left a light, many lights burning brightly forever more. I love you cuz, xo Susan

Annette Herlihy

November 6, 2017

This was the most beautiful and truthful obit I have ever read so true in every word...I am so grateful to have seen and received a wonderful hug from him at his moms birthday last year...I sometimes can still feel that hug and hear that wonderful laugh...my heart is aching....

Tom Bonnie Barnes

November 5, 2017

Timmy was a beautiful & gentle soul. So very sorry for your loss. Prayers &love to all the family .

Tom & Bonnie

Heather (Lemanski) Lammers

November 5, 2017

Pat and Family, my deepest condolences on the passing of Tim. His infectious smile will truly be missed. Love, light, and aloha to you all.

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