1983
2017
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james bement
May 28, 2025
hey dad, its me James we all miss you so much, but I am okay now, I have coped with my depression and I finally let you go. I also helped my sisters cope with it as well. we love you dad.
Mike Vanburen
December 24, 2024
Seven years have passed, and the weight of your absence remains. Time moves forward, but the memories we shared are etched in my heart. Though healing is a journey, not a destination, I find solace in cherishing those moments. Your spirit continues to inspire and guide me. May peace find its way to all who feel your loss.
I love you big brother.

Your daughter (Mini you) Hailey
November 28, 2024
HI dad it's Hailey, It's November 28th 2024 It's been 7 years without you and Today is Thanksgiving. I wanted to just do a check up and update you on life you know? So I made the Albany high dance team and I preform on December 10th. I also got into placement in July and its my first big holiday in placement. I haven't talk to any family today and it's just hard not eating with family anymore. But I'm 15 now and I miss you A lot and I love you so much.

HI DAD I MISS YOU SO MUCH It's been 5 years I'm 13 and I'm on the volley ball team and I'm gonna join the football team next year for you I miss you so much and I have a volley ball game in a hour and a half I'm gonna make you proud a
Hailey Fenton bement
December 12, 2022
jessi bement
January 21, 2022
HI James its you nephew Jessi i just wanted to say i love you like Hailey did just say i hope you have a good time in heaven
Deanna Rivera
November 28, 2017
Still so unbelievable
He was a lovable young man with a huge heart!
His kids were his #1 priority
He loved life and everyone in it
I miss him dearly and he left 3 beautiful young kids behind that will live on through his spirit...
With all my heart ..I Love U dearly..untill we meet again ! And I just know grandma was so happy to meet with her messy Marvin again
Love u DeDee
John Muschko
November 27, 2017
Very sorry to hear this news. Glad to have had the opportunity to learn and grow through working with this young man.
David Arnold
May 26, 2017
so sorry for his Family. Kids will miss him a lot & so will Cathy & I.
Bev Keane
May 24, 2017
So sorry for your loss JR will be missed by alot of people ,he was a very great guy to his friends I would like to let you know how we appreciate the help that he gave Rob ,he said to me the day before he passed that he would always help Rob that just let people how true he was to his friends ,He will be missed I'm so glad he had his children with him before he passed.He loved his children with all his heart.RIP JR
Julie Kemp
May 24, 2017
I have known James for many years. I knew him from Boces and I have stayed in contact with him since.... He earned a lot of respect from me when I found out he was raising his kids on his own. He was a special kind of DAD to do it on his own. He will be missed and I am sending prayers to all his family. RIP James...
Renita Rivera
May 24, 2017
Oh my, my poor cousin. You're definitely going to be missed with your crazy self we had lots of good times, never bad! Watch over your baby girls & Lil J.R..give grandma a kiss for me & catch up on memories..I love u & R.I.P your favorite cousin RENITA
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