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Wendy Lynn Raeder

1939 - 2010

Wendy Lynn Raeder obituary, 1939-2010, Dover, OH

Wendy Raeder Obituary

Wendy Lynn Robinson Raeder of Chelsea, Mich., died Jan. 20, 2010, after a courageous battle with cancer.
Wendy was born Aug. 13, 1939, in Evanston, Ill., to Myfanwy Braun Robinson and Joseph J. Robinson, now deceased.
Wendy was a dedicated wife, mother and daughter. She is survived by her sons, Kevin (Laura) Raeder of Boulder Colo., and Andrew (Kathleen) Raeder of Evergreen Colo.; her daughter, Kristen (Rob) McFate of Chelsea, Mich.; six grandchildren; her sister, Heather (Jan) Dick of Marysville O.; her brother, Barry (Sally) Robinson of Columbus, O.; brother-in-law, George (Patricia) Raeder of Akron, O.; and 12 nieces and nephews. Her husband of 43 years, J. Paul Raeder, died in 2004.
Wendy graduated from Dover High School in Ohio, where she was a member of the National Honor Society. She attended Ohio Wesleyan University, where she was selected for Mortar Board senior women's honorary, was elected Student Council secretary, and was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority. She earned her bachelor's degree in English, education and psychology in 1961. She went on to earn a master's degree in guidance and counseling at the University of Michigan in 1964.
Wendy was a member of Mensa, and was president of the Ann Arbor area alumnae chapters of Mortar Board, Kappa Kappa Gamma, Pan-Hellenic Council and the Republican Women's Club.
She served on the Ann Arbor School Board and several city committees, as well as serving as recording secretary for the Ann Arbor Women's City Club, and as Republican City Committee secretary, and Chair for wards and precincts.
As part of the NOMAD group, Wendy and Paul enjoyed international travel and hosting friends from other countries. Wendy's enthusiasm for arts and crafts led her to make macramé and wall hangings with her sister Heather for the Ann Arbor Winter Art Fair for many years.
Wendy earned her professional credentials as a Certified Meeting Planner and coordinated geophysical sciences, safety and health conferences for ERIM and NSF.
Wendy was an active member of Zion Lutheran Church and superintendent of the church's Sunday School program when her children were young.
The family requests that memorials be sent to Zion Lutheran Church, 1501 W. Liberty, Ann Arbor, Mich., 48103, The Wellness Community, 2010 Hogback, Suite 3, Ann Arbor, Mich., 48105, or Washtenaw Literacy Council, 1100 N. Main, Ann Arbor, Mich., 48104.
The family received friends Friday, Jan. 22, at Muehlig Funeral Chapel and a service was held on Saturday, Jan. 23 at Zion Lutheran Church at Ann Arbor. Burial followed at Forest Hill Cemetery at Ann Arbor.

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Published by The Times Reporter from Jan. 27 to Jan. 28, 2010.

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Bob and Sandra Rogers

April 24, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Carol and Al Metty

February 16, 2010

Hi Kristin, Andy and Kevin,

We are so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing and send our sympathies. She surely taught us all how to be brave and fight. I know the past few months became very difficult for her but she never complained. She enjoyed life and keep very busy doing all her favorite things.

We are down in Florida for the winter and just heard about it. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Carol and Al Metty

January 31, 2010

Deepest sympathies. Lynn and Dee Gordon
DHS classes of 55 and 58

January 29, 2010

To Heather, Barry, and all of Wendy's family:
Our deepest sympathies go out to you with Wendy's passing. I remember her as one of my "cool" babysitters when i was a child in the neighborhood and remember well all of the good times I enjoyed visiting and playing at your home "up on the hill"! I cant get over how much her picture here reminds me of, and resembles your mother so very much!
May God be with you and bless you all in this dark hour.
Tweed(Vickie) Vorhees
Dover, Ohio

January 28, 2010

I was saddened to learn of Wendy's death and her battle with cancer. I remember the good times growing up in Dover and New Philadelphia, Ohio , visiting Wendy and Heather with my sister Vici and working with Joe at Marlite. Wendy certainly had an interesting and productive life, for which we are all grateful. Pat and I send our condolences to all of the members of her family.

Victor and Patricia Anderson Marsh
Canton, Ohio

January 28, 2010

I want to express my deepest sympathy and condolences to the Raeder family, and, especially to Heather and Barry. I have known Wendy since childhood and have always had a great deal of respect for both her and her family.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Dave Weinsz

January 22, 2010

Dear Kevin, Andy, and Kristen,
I send my heartfelt condolences in the loss of Wendy, your wonderful mother. After we arrived in Ann Arbor she and I spent time together because both of us belonged to the alum group of KKG sorority and both of us also belonged to the AA Mortar Board alum group. In addition we would attend activities at the Ann Arbor (Women's) City Club. I will miss her big smile and friendly presence.
Lee Meyer, Upsilon Chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma

January 22, 2010

Andy and Katie:

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family during this time.

Nate and Jackie

Nancy C White

January 21, 2010

Kevin, Andy and Kristen.
This is a sad time for all of you and for many of us who considered your Mom to be a good and loyal friend. Our friendship scanned many many years and right up until she left us she was a source of up to date information about the world we live in as well as her struggle with her disease. She fought the inevitable with such courage and tenacity that one had the feeling if anybody could beat this disease it would be Wendy. I shall miss her a great deal but know that she is happily reunited with her beloved Paul.

Izabella Bobowski

January 21, 2010

Andy and Family, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Having just lost my father (Jan. 8) I know the heartache you feel. My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Izabella Bobowski (Pioneer '83)

January 21, 2010

Andy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Having just lost my father (January 8) I know the heartache you face. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Izabella Bobowski (from Pioneer '83)

Jim Mizer

January 21, 2010

To the Raeder Family: Wendy was a high school classmate of mine. Having just lost my wife to cancer also, I know of the heartache and struggles Wendy surely had to endure. Please accept my sincere sympathies. May God grant you his peace at this difficult time

January 21, 2010

Kevin, Andy,and Kristen,
Our thoghts and prayers are with you. Your mother was a wonderful friend . We will miss her but she is with your father now and will not have to suffer anymore. Maryann and I had many years of friendship and good times with your parents. Watching you all grow up and the after game food and drinks and the trips to the lake were so enjoyable.
God Bless,
Tom and Maryann

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