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O'SHEA FORT WORTH, TEXAS - John Thomas Tom O'Shea, D.O., 73, passed from this life to the next on Tuesday, Oct. 11, 2011, after a courageous struggle with cardiopulmonary disease. Service: Private family services were held at an earlier date. Memorials: In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate that gifts me made to the Susan G. Komen Greater Fort Worth Affiliate, P.O. Box 101328, Fort Worth, Texas 76185; or The Oakridge School, 5900 West Pioneer Parkway, Arlington, Texas 76013. Tom was born April 28, 1938, in Detroit, Mich., to John Hubert and Rita Hill Sheedy. He was raised in nearby Garden City, along with his sister, Patricia Ann, and graduated from St. Mary's High School in 1957. Tom was a gifted student and star football player when he suffered a gunshot wound that would require the amputation of his leg just below the knee. This would prove to be the seminal event that would lead to his dedication to medicine and healing others. Never one to be deterred by setbacks, Tom became the first in his family to graduate from college, in 1961 from Eastern Michigan University. Inspired by osteopathic medicine's altruistic approach to treating the patient, he then attended Kirksville College of Osteopathic Medicine and graduated in 1965. While completing his three-year residency in pathology at Garden City Hospital, he met his first wife, Nancy Marie O'Shea, the mother of his three children whom he wed in 1966. Upon completion of his residency in 1971, he accepted a position with Fort Worth Osteopathic Hospital and became a resident of Fort Worth for the rest of his life. He served at Fort Worth Osteopathic Hospital as the chief of pathology and director of clinical surgery until his retirement in 2004. While at the hospital Tom also served as chief of staff, a director of the board, and as a faculty member and professor at the Texas College of Osteopathic Medicine. It was during this brilliant 33-year medical career that he served his calling to fulfill his Hippocratic oath and thereby helped in the healing of tens of thousands of people. Having been divorced for several years, he met his current wife, Debbie, in 1987. They fell deeply in love and were married in 1991 and were devoted to one another until the end. The family was very blessed by the addition of Debbie as she was not only a wonderful wife and family member, but proved to be an extraordinarily compassionate caregiver to Tom's parents who preceded him in death. She was there at every moment for Tom as his health began to decline and her love and dedication never wavered. The rest of the family will always be eternally grateful to her. Tom was a founding organizer of the Oakridge School in Arlington from which all three of his children graduated. He placed an enormous emphasis on education and all three of his children went on to graduate college with two receiving post graduate degrees. He enjoyed fishing and boating, was an avid reader, a huge sports enthusiast - particularly football, and loved his German Shepherd, Shadow. He leaves behind a tremendous legacy of perseverance and accomplishment and has touched the lives of many. While he is now at peace with the Lord, he will be dearly missed by those countless friends and family who love him. The family especially thanks our dearest friend, Bianca Pastore, and Roy Lowry for their unconditional love and support through the past 20-plus years, and many more friends too numerous to include. Survivors: Wife of 20 years, Debbie O'Shea; children, John Christopher O'Shea and wife, Kathleen, Erin Noelle O'Shea, Heather Marie Ford and husband, B.J.; sister, Patricia Ann Lary; loving niece, Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub and husband, David; grandchildren, Aidan Marie and John Patrick O'Shea, Annie and Jack Ford; Debbie's family, mother, Ruth Smith; and brothers, Nyal Smith and Jerry Smith. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Oct. 16, 2011.

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Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2020

9 Years Ago All Of Our Lives Changed Forever Not A Day Goes By That we Do Not Think Of Something Funny You Said A Song You Liked Or Just Your Presence In Our Lives,,, We Love You Jeannie Patsy & David

Jeannie MARIE Eichenlaub

June 21, 2020

Uncle Tom Happy Fathers Day In Heaven I Have So Much I Wish I Could Talk With You About!!!! We All Miss You & Love You So Much Catch A Big One Today,, I Love You JEANNIE

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2020

Happy Birthday In Heaven Not A Day Goes By That We Don't Pray You Were Here With Us,,,Especially Now We Love You More Then Words Can Ever Express

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2019

It's Another Year Gone By My Still Breaks when I Think I can Not Hear Your Voice Anymore,, You Were Always Just A Phone Call Away!!! I Know Understand We People Say The Wish Heaven Had Visiting Hours!!!! I Love You & Miss You Beyond Words!!!! Jeannie Marie!! Have A Good Day Fishing,,

October 11, 2019

Still missing you!

Jeannie Eichenlaub

June 16, 2019

Happy Fathers Day In HeavenI Love You & Miss You More Than Words acanthus Express,,,,,,Love Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2019

Uncle Tom Happy Birthday In Heaven It's Been 8 Years Since You Left usNot A day Goes by That I Dont Wish I Could Just Talk To You 1 More TimeI Love You With All My Heart & Soul,,Your Loving Neice Until We Meet Again,,,

JEANNIE MARIE EICHENLAUB

October 14, 2018

Uncle Tom My Still Breaks When I Realize Your Not Here With Us,, But We Know Your Up Above Watching Over Us As You Always Did When You Were Here With Us! What I Would Give To Hug Your Neck Just 1 More Time,, I Love YouJeannie Marie

Jeannie Eichenlaub

June 16, 2018

Uncle Tom It's Fathers Day,, I Can Never Thank You Enough For All You Taught Me In Life! How To Live Love Laugh,,I Can Never Ever Replace The LoveYou Showed Me Could TRuly Be I Miss You So Much Every Day,, What I Would Give To Hear Your Voice 1 More TimeI LOVE YOU TO THE MOON&BACKSuch A True Honest Loving Gentelman & A Scholar,,Thank God We Took The Trips Took The Pictures Wich you Never Wanted To ,,, Memories For Ever All My Love Your Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2018

Happy Birthday❤The Most Incredible Man I Have Ever Known,So Proud To Call You My UncleLove You&Miss You, Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

June 18, 2017

Happy Fathers Day❤To My Sweet Uncle, The Man That Always Belived In Me!!!! I Love You More Than Words Can Ever Express, Have A Great Day, Love Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

June 1, 2017

Uncle Tom, Missing you As Always, Just Some Days Are Worse Than Other, Just Remembering Goodbyes Are Not Forever Goodbyes Are Not The End,,They Simply Mean I Will Miss You Until We Meet Again!! ALl My Love Jeannie Marie !!☮❤

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2017

Uncle Tom, Happy Birthday To You, I thought about you with Love today, But that is nothing new, I think of you in silence,and often speak your name, All I have are precious memories and pictures in a frame, Your memory is a keepsake & Legacy wich I will never part!! God has you in his hands I have you in my Heart,,,All my Love your Jeannie Marie ☮

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 16, 2017

Uncle Tom Happy Easter, I just played my Easter Bunny you and Debbie got me years ago,,I miss you so much more than words can express,But you are always in our thoughts and prayers, Iam taking care of Moma just as you asked me to and Our Sweet Debbie!!!! I will be watching wicked tuna today wishing you were here to fish with me,,,,All My Love Your Jeannie Marie ☮

Jeannie Eichenlaub

December 9, 2016

Uncle Tom, We Have A Shinning Star For Christmas, Every Time I Walk Past It Or See The Sun Make It Glow, I Have A Special Memory Of You,,,,,Since You Have Been Gone I Have Not Wanted To Celebrate Any Hoildays , But This Year Your Dear Sweet Debbie Helped Me Realize How Selfish That Was Of Me, So I Know Every Time I See The Shinning Star You Are Watching Over Us With All The Angels Up Above

Jeannie Eichenlaub

June 18, 2016

Uncle Tom ,Happy Fathers Day To You, It's Never The same Without You Here With Us.....But Every Day We Thank The Lord For Everything We Were All Able To Do With You Here With Us ,All The Good Fun Times We Shared As A Family,But Iam Eternaly Grateful For All Of The Values You Instilled In Me, Telling Me When I was Right Or Wrong, Always Being There For Me Not Just As An Uncle But As The Father Figure I Needed Growing Up, You Will Always Be My Hero I Miss Our Talks So Much, Just Know Iam So Proud To Be Your Neice, I will Keep All The Promises You Asked Me To Take Care of With Debbie And Mom, All My Love Jeannie Marie xxoo

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 27, 2016

Happy Birthday To You, We All Miss You And Love You More Then Words Can Ever Express, But We Hold On To All The Precious Memories We Have And Photos You Never Wanted To Take!! But Something Has Happend That You Are Still Doing Unbelivrable Things !Moma has Had Some Heart Problems And Had To Have A Pacemaket Put In,And As soon As Soon As Your Precious Debbie Heard,She Was On Her Way Here To Help, She Is such A Incredible Strong Loving Woman No Wonder You Love Her So Much, It Is As If An Angel Came To Help Me I Could Not Do This Without Debbie!,,,,,,We Love You Have A Good Day Fishing !! and Thank You So Much For Bringing Debbie Into Our Family!! your Loving Neice Jeannie Marie XXOO

Jeannie Eichenlaub

March 27, 2016

Happy Easter, I JustbPlayed My Bunny It Still Sings,We just Talked To Debbie & Bianca, We Got A new Puppy Her Name Is Lady You Would Love Her!,,,,,,Well I know You Have A busy Day Ahead Doing All The Great Things Above As You Always Did When You Were Here With Us,,,,,,,,,We miss you more than words Could Ever Express! Just Know We Cherish All Of Our Heartfelt Memories And photos You Really Did Not Want To Take !,,,All My Love Your Niece Jeannie Marie XXXOOOJEANNIE

Gene Edwards

January 2, 2016

It's with thoughts of your kindness that I lift a cup o' kindness to you, Tom

Jeannie Eichenlaub

December 31, 2015

Uncle Tom Happy New Year, Not A Day Goes By That You Are Not Thought OfbIn Some Way, It May Be something Funny You Would Say A T V Show But Your Always With Us!,,Dear Sweet Debbie She Is such An Inspiration To Us All , I Can Just Hear Her Voice or Get Advise And She Makes Me Feel Better,,,,,You Would Be so Proud Of My David He is So Good To Mom They Feed The Birds Together ,Tell Everyone I Love Them And Give All The Puppies A kiss from Me!,,,,,All My Love Jeannie Marie XXOO

Jeannie Eichenlaub

December 5, 2015

Uncle Tom, The Holidays Are Here, But They Are Never The Same Without You Here ! We Are Just So Blessed To Have All The Memories And Of Course Photos Of All The Precious Moments We Were All Able To Share With You! All My Love Jeannie Marie XXOO

Jeannie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2015

Uncle Tom , I Just Want You To Know That Every Day IAm Truly Gratefull That You And Debbie Were Able To Show Me The Meaning Of True Love And Happiness ! Love Jeannie Marie

Jeanne Eichenlaub

August 22, 2015

Uncle Tom What I Would Give To Talk To You at This Momenet! Iam Sending You A New Little Angel My Sweet Minky, She Will Be There With You And ALL Of Our Other Loving Animals I Know You Will Take Good Care Of Her All My Love Jeannie Marie Xxoo

Jeannie Eichenlaub

June 21, 2015

UncleTom, Happy Fathers Day To You, The Man That Taught Me So Many Things, I Can Never Thank You Enough I Miss You So There Are No Words To Express How I Would Like To Pick Up The Phone And Hear Your Kind Loving Voice On The Other End, I Love You, I Will See You 1Day Fishing, Your Loving Niece Jeannie Marie XXOO

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2015

Uncle Tom Happy Birthday To You, Life Is Just Not The Same Here With Out You With Us And Never Willl Be,Debbie Is Just Lost Without You,But I Promise You I Will Always Keep My Promise To You To Watch Over Debbie And Moma I Have The Strength And Loving Ways You Always Taught Me To Have Thru The Good Times And Bad And Can Never Thank You For All The Great Times We Were All Able To Share With You.......Are Hearts All Have A Void That Will Always Be There But We Know You Are Watching Over Us From Up Above....Love Jeannie Marie Patsy David &Minky XXOO

Jeannnie Eichenlaub

April 5, 2015

Happy Easter To You I Just Played My Easter Bunny That You And Debbie Got Me!,,,,We Have Blue Birds Red Birds And So Many Squirells ,,,,We Love You And Miss You , Your Jeannie Marie Patsy David And Minky XXXOO

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

December 24, 2014

Uncle Tom, This night is for you and Debbie......You are always in our thoughts and Prayers.....We Love You ! Jeannie Marie David &Patsy.xxxoo

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

November 20, 2014

Well Hello There, The Holidays are Approching And They Are Never The Same Here Without You Here With Us".........Debbie Is So Strong You Would Be So Proud Of Her As you Always Have Been, Iam Taking Extra Care of Mom With David's Help......What I Would Do To Just Hear Your Voice 1 More Time.........-All My Love Your Loving Niece.....Jeannie Marie Xxxxxxooo

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2014

Uncle Tom, It's Now Another Year Gone By Without You Here With Us .....So Much Has Happend Since You Have Been Gone, But Not A day Goes By That You are Not Thought Of In Some Type Of Way,,,,,,We all Miss You So , Debbie Is Such A Strong Loving Caring Person , She Has All The Same Qualties as you, To Make You So Proud......We Love You and Miss You...Jeannie Marie Patsy & David XXOO

June 23, 2014

Uncle Tom, I Saw This And Thoght Of You......Those We Love Don't Go Away, They Walk Beside Us Every Day, Unseen, Unheard, But Always Near,Always Loved Still Missed And Very Dear......Love Your Neice Jeannie Marie.XXXOOO

June 15, 2014

Uncle Tom, Happy Fathers Day To You,We Watched The Worlds Largest Catch Yesterday They Were Fishing in Canada It Reminded us of You.....I Think The Perfect Words To Describe What You Are To All Of Us Is The "Louie Armstrong" Song Of What A Wondrerful World.........You Have Always Made Us Who Love You So Feel Like The Words In That Song........Tell Grandpa And Smitty Happy Fathers Day.....All My Love ,Jeannie Marie xxxxxxoooooo

Jeannie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2014

Uncle Tom It Has Been 4 Years Since You Have Been Here With Us To Celebrate Your Birthday,As I Have Stated Before It Will Never Be The Same Here Without You......I Just Thank God Every Day For You Bringing Debbie Into Our Lives, She Loves You So, And Is So Strong In So Many Ways....Also You Would Be So Proud Of My David Taking Such Good Care Of My Mom...We all Just Take 1 Day At A Time.....We Love You And Miss You, Have A Good Day Fishing....Your Loving Niece..Jeannie Marie, XXOO......

Jeannie Eichenlaub

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas To You, I know you have some extra work to do today as you have some new angels to take care of,The holidays Here Will. Never be the same without you here with us But you just keep doing all the great things up there as you always did here wich is filling people's hearts with joy, I love You and Miss you more than words can ever express.......Your Loving Neice Jeannie Marie.........

Jeannie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2013

Uncle Tom, I can not believe it has been 3 Years since you left us...Your Absence is with us all every day in some type of way,,,,,,,,There has been so much happen this year, But I never realized how much I took for granted just being able to pick the phone up and just hear your voice,,,,,,,You are Truly missed by all of us that we're fortunate enough to always have you in our lives......I know You will make sure to get Grandma and Ruth to Bingo on time,,,,,,I will be thinking of you as always and all the wisdom you were able to instill in me.....Don't worry about Debbie and Patsy I Will always Take care of them just as I promised you,,,,,Give everyone a hug and all our Puppies to,,,,,I Love you....Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

June 16, 2013

Uncle Tom, It's Fathers Day and it's never the same since you are not here with us, But I have so many great memories and pictures to keep you close at heart ......Iam just so happy and feel so blessed to have been able to have all the good times we have shared together, Iam truly Blessed to have had not just an uncle but the most loving caring generous man in the world as my uncle ....I may not be able to pick up the phone and just here your voice and know that the wisdom and kind words you always spoke to make any situation better, But I have you in my Heart in a special place not only as my uncle but like a Father figure I never had growing up...Any one can be an uncle to a niece but no man could ever be what you will always be to me......Give Grandpa Smitty and Pop Ike all a hug.........We love you ,Jeannie Marie David & Patsy.

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

March 31, 2013

Uncle Tom , Happy Easter I Still Have My Easter Bunny That You and Debbie Got me Several Years Ago That Sings Happy Easter Texas Style...If The Fishing Is Good Today I know You Will Catch the Largest one......We all Miss You More Than Words can Ever Say.......Your Loving Niece Jeannie Marie.....XXXOO

Jeannie Eichenlaub

December 23, 2012

Uncle Tom this is our 2nd year without you here the holidays will never be the same!,,,but I know your up there taking care of everyone as you always did here with us...and probably watching some football to, you are in all our hearts and thoughts every day I just thank the lord for all the great memories we all have , I love you and miss you so much!,,,,,your loving niece Jeannie Marie

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

October 11, 2012

My dear sweet uncle Tom, I can not believe it has been a year since you left us....My sweet puppy Tommy came to see you this week and get her wings I know you will take good care of her.Your smile your sweet spirit and all the great things about you live on in the hearts of all who love you so much, not a day goes by that I do not think of you in some way, I am keeping my promise to you to watch over Debbie and Mom the best I can, I hope you have a good day fishing, we love you.......Jeannie Marie Patsy and David."

Patricia Ann Lary

April 28, 2012

Tommy just wanted to wish a happy birthday, I feel sure you are doing great things for everyone up above, as you always did when you were here with us, not a day goes by that I do not wish I could just have 1 more hug, but you just take care,, I Love you Patsy.

Jeannie Marie Eichenlaub

April 28, 2012

Uncle Tom today is your special day; In all of our lives and hearts now and forever. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! God gives us each a song to sing ,a life to live ,a joy to bring, a path to follow, and a dream to dream. I thank you for always teaching me the true meaning of all these things... I will see you fishing.....Your Loving niece Jeannie Marie

JEANNIE MARIE EICHENLAUB

January 15, 2012

UNCLE TOM I KNOW THAT YOU ARE SENDING DEBBIE BIRTHDAY WISHES FROM UP ABOVE TODAY....NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT WE DO NOT THINK OF YOU IN SOME TYPE OF WAY, WHAT I WOULD GIVE TO JUST HEAR YOUR VOICE 1 MORE TIME, BUT I WANT TO ASSURE YOU THAT I WILL DO MY BEST TO TAKE CARE OF DEBBIE AND MOM AS YOU HAVE ALWAYS ASKED ME TO, AND TO MAKE YOU PROUD OF ME, HAVE A GOOD DAY FISHING WE LOVE YOU JEANNIE MARIE PATSY AND DAVID.

Peter Jr. Glaab

November 2, 2011

Dear Debbie andFamily:
Judy and I were highschool classmates of Tom (John to us)and Patty and we had so many great times together at school functions and several parties. We were great friends with his parents and had wonderful times with them as well.I (Pete) spent many nights at their home in Garden City, Mi.rather than driving back to my home in the country after many fun events with Tom, Pat and our good friends. I have thought of Tom so many times over the years and wished he could have attended our various class reunions,but can appreciate his many commitments. One of the most important days of my life was the day of his accident because his original plans for that day was to be with myself and other friends at my house in the country and oh how I always wished that would have been the case.
I do expect to see him again.
May God bless you and your family and I am pleased that you had the "good times" with him.
Sincerely,
Pete and Judy Glaab New Boston, Mi.

Dr. Glenn Calabrese

October 20, 2011

I remember Tom well and have thought of him often. I often sat with him in the doctor's dining room at Osteopathic and loved his dry sense of humor and comments on our daily lives as physicians. He will be missed.

Barby Anderson

October 18, 2011

Dear Tom,

I know you are reading this from above. I want you to know that I am so thankful that you and Debbie had such a full and wonderful life together. Debbie shared many funny and loving stories about you and is a dear, dear friend to me as you know. I will do my best to help her through her great sadness. You have moved to a glorious residence above and will be greatly missed by many.

Debbie, my dearest friend,

You brought light and love into Tom's life and I know he is watching over you from above. The joy and laughter you both shared will live in your heart forever. I am here for you my friend..... always.

October 17, 2011

ONe of my earliest friends in Fort Worth... served as a friend and guide for many endeavors...you will be missed. Dennis & Cindy Shingleton

Kathy and Dave Winter

October 17, 2011

Dear Debbie,
Our hearts go out to you over the loss of your beloved Tom. We remember him as kind and generous with a keen sense of humor.You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Roy Lowry

October 17, 2011

In memory of my friend Tom,
How do you adequately thank someone who served as mentor in my medical school years and good friend who recruited me back to Ft. Worth to practice here. Your legacy was so well stated by you children and family at the memorial.Your integrity and competency in medicine was without question.Your broad range of friends and influence in the community was admirable.
My world will not be the same without the ability to share thoughts, feelings and laughter about the crazy details of what medicine has dealt to us all.
I am most thankful to have counted you as a wise and faithful friend. May God's welcome to your spirit be a joyful homecoming.

Tami Rush

October 16, 2011

Dr. O'Shea was always such a kind man, with a great sense of humor. He will be missed.

Lynn Macon

October 16, 2011

Dr. O'Shea will be missed. He was a wonderful employer, and he truly cared about his family, friends, and employees. My condolences go out to Debbie and the entire family. May the peace of God be with you now and forever.

Myra & Irwin Schussler

October 16, 2011

Debbie,
So sorry to learn of your loss. Tom will be missed, but his memory will always be there.

Happiness

Debbie O'Shea

October 16, 2011

Jeannie Eichenlaub

October 16, 2011

My dear sweet uncle Tom, you were not only my uncle, but my mentor and the person who made me the woman I am today. I'll see you one day fishing....:). love forever..Jeannie Marie

Debbie O'Shea

October 16, 2011

My dear Tom...You shall forever be in my heart.....

Gene H. Edwards

October 16, 2011

He was a good friend and client, a man who stood up for what he believed.

With condolences to his friends and family.

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