Edward Vincent Calo, 57, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, March 12, 2011 in Oxnard, California of brain cancer.
He was born in Newark, New Jersey, grew up in Maryland and was in the Air Force during the Vietnam War. At a young age Ed developed a love for flying, sailing, skiing and golfing. He had his pilot's license, loved to travel and was an active member of Channel Islands Yacht Club. Ed had a true love for life and all it has to offer. He adored his friends and developed and maintained many friendships through the years. All that knew Ed will carry a part of him with them.
He is predeceased by his parents Vincent and Theresa Calo and survived by Connie, his wife of 22 years, sisters, Nancy Christensen (Paul), Dana Winkler, brother, Robert Calo (Mary) and nieces and nephews.
Ed will be missed by his many friends and extended family. On April 23, 2011 there will be a burial at sea followed by a memorial and celebration of life at 1 p.m. at Channel Islands Yacht Club, 4100 Harbor Boulevard, Oxnard, CA. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Roze Room Hospice of Ventura.
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Nancy Calo
March 21, 2025
Missing you every day, Ed. You brought great joy to all who knew you. There´s an empty hole in my heart. I love you. Noo
Helene Keddington
March 21, 2023
Every time I walk Seabridge I think of you my friend . You created an amazing community
and I had the best time working by your side .
You are soo missed ...
Hope Heaven is as beautiful as we imagine .
Nancy Calo
March 21, 2023
Miss Ed every day.
April 23, 2011
Connie, It is so hard to believe. The crew in Park City is so sad to hear that Ed passed. It has been eight years since you moved to California. I have missed you both. I will remember all of the great times we had here. Big Hug, Stephen Elrick
Bill Wilson
April 19, 2011
What a shock to read about Ed's passing Sunday morning. It brought back memories of great and happy times we shared on the docks and in the harbor. That brought a smile to my face and warm feelings in my heart. Ed was a good man and it was an honor to know him. He will be missed. Connie, my thoughts are with you.
"Bathrobe" Bill s/v Night Song
Deborah Tyhurst
April 8, 2011
I am so sad for all of us, but most especially Connie at the early passing of Eddie and will hold tight to the memories for comfort. A recent memory of Eddie right before the holidays was witnessing the absolute adoration of Connie when purchasing a necklace to surprise her with for Christmas. The look on his face and that big gleaming smile were priceless & he told me he was such a lucky man. It is so hard to say good-bye to someone who was so full of love...
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be.
So He put his arms around you and whispered "come with me."
With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you slip away.
Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.
Until we meet again, peace & prayers, you will be missed.
"Daabra", AKA
Jann
April 2, 2011
Connie, My heart goes out to you! I know that GOD had a much bigger plan for Ed and you will be watched over by our good Lord and Ed. Please find peace in this poem that was recently given to me when my momma passed away:
The Next Room
Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!
Much Love,
Jann Huling
Dave Coleman
April 1, 2011
Eddy you will be missed. You met Connie through me and I met Jill at your wedding. Even though our paths took different directions later in life, the years we spent as friends in Park City skiing. golfing, drinking and eating at Adolf's and Green Street will remain great memories in my mind forever. . I will hoist a Volka Cooler in your honor this evening and recall all the great times we shared. Then I will hoist another!!
Lori Emerson
March 29, 2011
E.D. - You, Connie and myself shared so many, MANY great times and laughter. The late night chats, guitar sessions, afternoons at the Rudder Room (fav picnic bench aka 'Switzerland'), you had a nickname for everyone! I will always remember the 'Summer of Twelfth Night' sailing every Wet Wednesday, opening champagne when we placed 5th (yes, 5th!!) our best finish! Taken too soon, maybe GOD needs sailing lessons or perhaps a bridge built? We'll take care of Connie, just keep watch over us til we meet again. "Love you, mean it" - L.T
Richard Sherlock
March 29, 2011
Although we didn't know each other long, there was an instant love and caring we had for each other. There is a space in my heart that will always be there for you.
Lei Eberhardt
March 28, 2011
Your smile brightend up all of Seabridge and you will always be remembered there. Your vision, your enthusiasm and your friendship to those of us who came looking for guidence was treasured. I will never forget our sightseeing tours as you shared your vision. I will see you again in heaven with that warm, friendly smile that took you through the life that was cut so short. Lei Eberhardt
mike ries
March 28, 2011
one nice man will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. R.I.P.
Dana Winkler
March 28, 2011
I see you in the sparkle that touches the edge of the sea, I see you in the crisp light on the snow. I feel you when the sun warms my cheeks, and when the tides softly flow. You were the rock that held me up, in my youth you were always there. Your strength and your fearlessness were the safe place; without you, what would I have been, or where? Oh Ed, your shining light was so dear to me, you were my first hero. I miss you and love you, so please wait for me, because sometime I need to say thank you.
"I give you this one thought to keep -
I am with you still - I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the sweet uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone -
I am with you still in each new dawn"
lil sister Dan
March 28, 2011
Bobbie and I are saddened at the news but relieved Eddie is finally at peace. I will cherish our version of "Father and Son", and all the other songs that were our time together. Love to you Connie....Tyler and Bobbie Franks
March 27, 2011
God hold you and keep you Ed. There's a hole in my heart that will only be filled when I meet you in the great beyond...give Mom and Dad a hug...I'll see you in eternity. Love always, nanoo
Helene Keddington
March 27, 2011
My dear friend, I cannot tell you how much you are missed. Thank you for all the fun times and for a great friendship. Some people touch our lives in such a way, that they can never ever be forgotten. YOU are one of those peope. I will be there for Connie and Max just like I promised you and I will see you again one day. GOD Blesss you Ed ! Happy Sailing Buddy!!
March 27, 2011
You're forever in our hearts, Ed. Peace be with you...
Jim and Danielle
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