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William L. Selden
William L. Selden, a businessman, philanthropist, sportsman, dog lover, innate comedian, husband, father and grandfather, died on February 5, following injuries sustained in a skiing accident. He was 70. Bill lived an incredibly full life that brought him around the globe in the pursuit of many passions and rewarded him with a trove of great friends and stories. Bill will be remembered for his uncompromising integrity, incisive wit, love of travel and adventure, and immense compassion and generosity.
A native New Yorker, Bill grew up in Manhattan and graduated from Browning College Preparatory School. Bill earned a B.A. from Dartmouth College, where he thrived as a member of the soccer and ski teams. Bill then served with distinction as a Captain, Military Intelligence Division, in the United States Army and later returned home to earn his M.B.A. from Columbia University. Bill's professional career brought him from New York to Indonesia, San Francisco and scores of other countries in Europe and Asia, and included leadership positions at E.F. Hutton & Co., Shearson Lehman Brothers, Eastdil Realty, Bankers Trust Company, and Sunbelt Communications. In 1991, Bill co-founded Sterling Investment Partners, a private investment firm based in Westport, CT, where he served as a Managing Partner and as Chairman or Director of numerous companies, including Aavid Thermal Technologies, American Buildings Company, Cambridge International, Euro Outlet Malls, Miller Heiman, Tidewater Holdings, U.S. Maintenance and Washington Inventory Service. Bill spent the final twenty-six years of his life in the Westport community.
Bill's wide-ranging philanthropic interests included a focus on giving back to America's service members, dogs and his beloved Dartmouth College. Bill served as a director of the Marine Corps Law Enforcement Foundation until his passing. Bill was also a longtime supporter of the Guide Dog Foundation for the Blind and America's VetDogs, an organization that trains service dogs for military veterans.Bill enjoyed many sports, but especially sailing, tennis, baseball and skiing. An avid and expert skier, Bill cherished his time on the mountain. He first learned to ski at five years old in Lake Tahoe and immediately fell in love with the sport. His passion for the slopes lasted throughout his life and brought him to the Institut Le Rosey in Switzerland, Dartmouth, and a bevy of ski trips with his friends and family.
Above all, Bill was devoted to his family – his adoring wife Jane and their two sons, Joe and Josh, of whom he was immensely proud. They traveled together regularly, most often to ski, and enjoyed numerous spirited family tennis matches. In his quieter moments, Bill preferred just to be at home with his family, listening to New York baseball on his antique headset while playing with his four-legged best friends.
Bill is predeceased by his parents, Ellen Selden and Walter Selden; brother, Peter Selden; and nephew, Lucas Kaempfer. Bill is survived by his wife, Jane; sons, Joe and Josh; daughters-in-law, Courtney and Dominique; grandchildren, Cooper and Ellie; cousin, Joey Kaempfer; and niece, Annie Kaempfer. They all love and miss him immensely. He was one of a kind.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Bill's honor to the Marine Corps-Law Enforcement Foundation (https://www.mc-lef.org/) or the Guide Dog Foundation for the Blind (https://www.guidedog.org/).

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Published by Westport-News from Feb. 18 to Feb. 23, 2018.

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February 26, 2018

May the God of comfort, give you the strength in his word at Romans 15 : 13, for your loss.

February 23, 2018

To the Selden Family: my name is Tom McGraw and I work for Dartmouth College and also knew Bill as a young man back in the 1960's as my parents were good friends of his mother, Ellen. I also remember his brother Peter. I recall spending time with Bill while our parents were visiting and we were told to entertain ourselves. I remember Bill as a kind and gracious person - someone whom, being 6 years younger than him at the time, I wanted to be like. I had an opportunity to speak with him in connection with a Dartmouth matter several years ago and found that time had not changed these qualities. He remembered me and my family well. I am so saddened to hear of his passing and send you best regards and my deepest sympathy for your loss. Tom McGraw, Hartland Vermont and Dartmouth College

Kevin Butler

February 22, 2018

To Jane, Josh, Joe and all Bill's family: Bill will greatly missed. May
the love of friends and family carry you through this difficult time.

Gerry Bush-Jaffray

February 19, 2018

Dear Jane and Family,
I am shocked and saddened and so very sorry
for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort and as the Irish say, may he be in heaven a half hour before the devil knows he's dead.

John & Linda Coleman

February 19, 2018

We are shocked & saddened to hear of Bill's passing. He was one of a kind & a true character with a wonderful sense of humor. In the 65 years we knew him he never changed. He will be deeply missed & our hearts go out to Jane & the family.
Linda & John Coleman

February 19, 2018

Jane, Josh, Joe -
With heavy heart and deepest sadness I send thoughts and prayers for loving memories of your Bill. May peace and comfort be yours over time.
Fondly,
Penny Wickey

February 18, 2018

Much love to all the Selden's and extended family during this very sad time for you and everyone who had the distinct pleasure to know Bill. He truly was one of a kind.
Steve and Ann Mason

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