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GREGORY T. BAK

GREGORY BAK Memoriam

GREGORY T. BAK 8/6/1984 - 3/28/2003
Yet, though I cannot see thee more, 'Tis still a comfort to have seen; And though thy transient life is o'er, 'Tis sweet to think that thou has been. Mom, Dad, Ellen, and Family

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 28, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for GREGORY BAK

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55 Entries

March 28, 2013

Sincere condolences are gently extended to you. May the Comfort from God's Word "give you peace always by all means".
2 Th 3:16

June 6, 2007

still praying

Lindsay Parker

April 22, 2004

Not a day goes by that we don't think about Greg. He is in our hearts forever. We will always remember . . .

So much love.

Sevan M

April 21, 2004

It's really hard to talk about something that's constantly on your mind, something that constantly aches your heart. Something i am yet to accept as reality, and I don't think i will untill the day I can face it and understand it. Sometimes it makes me really miss the past, all the memories and I wonder everyday if those times crossed his mind seconds before...

Time goes by all that's left is memories and love so let's love one another and not forget our frienships.

One love, One heart

One mind full of memories...

Greg you are always my boy yo,

Much Love

Emily Saulsgiver

April 20, 2004

Greg is continually remembered in love and friendship. Our hearts and minds cannot let go of our friend. You are so very much missed, GTB.

Ben Foster

April 15, 2004

It is so very hard to explain something that is on my mind constantly. Memories are what keep Greg alive inside of me, helping me celebrate his life everyday. Thank you for the Memories.

Love Ben Foster

Victoria Bodanyi

April 8, 2003

Dear Greg-

You are such a brilliant and beautiful person; thank you for touching my life, and so many other people's lives. We are all very blessed to have known you and to have shared fun times with you. You made the job of being captain a little bit easier, even when you counter-acted what I was trying to accomplish. I love you and I miss you, may your stay in heaven be great.

To the Bak family-

Thank you for sharing your wonderful son with the world; he was such an amazing person and he touched so many people's lives. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

All my love,

Victoria Bodanyi

Sarah Bowman

April 7, 2003

Greg,

It has been almost two weeks since I first learned how you had left this world, and until now, I was left utterly speechless. The words have finally found me:

Your life has left a profound mark on everyone you ever met, became friends with, played sports with, and shared membership with in a club. I am left now with the memory of your ever-present smile and gentle personality; I am glad to have known you those four years at Edison - everyone was glad to have known you, and we are all thankful for the footprint you have made in our lives.

Your smile, a soft hug

Sincere and genuine,

Presence of grace,

Beloved friend and brother;

Touching the soul,

Leaving behind tear stained cheeks,

Crying.

Happy, we know you are in heaven,

Among the angels, resting in the clouds.

Ryan Albritton

April 2, 2003

Greg, A true friend and mentor both on and off the soccer field. I remember when I first played a year up in NCSL for the Blaze and although I was the youngest on the team (everyone was driving except me)you always took me under your wing like an older brother and led by example. Although I can't verify this, I'm sure you and Ben provided the coach with enough input which helped me become a starter on the team. It was a great learning experience and I thank you friend. Someday we will meet again and I hope & pray I can repay the favor and take you under my wing. God Bless you Greg from me and the entire West Springfield Varsity Soccer Team. - Ryan

Dadly Cordero Teran

April 2, 2003

The other day I was talking to a friend of mine from our class about Greg, and while at the time it seemed that we were somewhat distant, listing my work with him made me realize that together we had served our school and our community throughout the four years at Edison.

Whether it was playing for the JV soccer team, competing with the Academic team, or helping lead the National Honor Society, Greg held an active role in some of the most memorable events in my life.

I understand Greg was pledging a fraternity. Being Greek myself, I can safely say he would have been a valuable addition to the Greek society and a model example of the Fraternity Man.

It is, of course, with a heavy heart and a bruised soul that I extend my condolences to the entire Bak family. Despite these difficult times, they can rejoice in the knowledge that Greg was an honorable and respectable man.

May God bless Gregory T. Bak and his family.

Davidson Hulfish

April 1, 2003

Dear Bak Family,

Nothing can be more painful than the loss of a son. Greg was one of the good ones. His soul, his heart, and his smile will forever be missed. He touched so many and we were all better off having known him.

I knew Greg as a classmate at Thomas A. Edison High School. His amazing demeanor and the amount of respect he had acquired from his fellow classmates was astounding. Greg had a certain charge about him that only few acquire. He was entirely selfless and altruistic in everything that he did. You couldn’t help but look at him and know that he was someone special. Greg was everything that a friend, brother, or son should be and I will forever have a great degree of respect and admiration for him.

Again, I am so sorry for your lost as is the entire class of 2002. The world may have lost a saint, but I know that heaven has gained an angel. It gives me great ease and a feeling of security to know that he will be watching over us all. I will forever miss you my friend.

With love and sympathy,

Davidson Hulfish

Robert, Sheila, Ryan Albritton

April 1, 2003

Tom & Joan, Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family at this most difficult of times. Greg was a true leader and inspiration for all. No words can express our sorrow. God bless you, your family and Greg. Love, Bob, Sheila & Ryan

Helen Mae Reisner

April 1, 2003

I was saddened by the news of your son's death. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Also please know that, when Tom returns to work at the AO, the services of the FOH Health Unit and EAP are available. Please let me know how I can support you. Again, my condolences to you and yur family. - Helen Mae Reisner, Nurse Coordinator, Federal Occupational Health at the Thurgood Marshall building.

Cammy Crane

March 31, 2003

Dear Bak family,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Although I did not know Greg well, as you can see, he effected the lives of many people at Edison and beyond. An intelligent and hard working student, Greg always had something interesting to contribute to a conversation. He was a great person and will be remembered as such. My heart and prayers go out to you.

Amy Duncan

March 31, 2003

It’s hard to look at a room full of elementary school kids and be able to determine in which chairs sat the greatest contributors to our future. But with an unspoken agreement, even a group of rowdy students knew one thing - Greg Bak was destined for high achievement. So as we parted our separate directions for high school and college, we all aspired to the greatness we knew that Greg would achieve - until that one day when we would meet again, and our own accomplishments would not pale in comparison.

Sitting down and writing this has made it real to me what a great loss we all have suffered. I share in your grief and send my love, respect, and condolences to those who were as fortunate as I, to have known Greg. With every warm smile, drive to excel, or goal achieved – there will always be part of him with us. Those bright eyes and that infectious smile will be forever missed – and Greg, so will you . . . May this wonderfully talented and greatly admired young man, be forever remembered in our hearts.

Kelly Duncan

March 31, 2003

Greg,

Knowing you since elementary school, I have only the fondest memories of our childhood mischief. In the days when I still thought boys had “coodies,” I was somehow able to move past that way of thinking and you proved more than worthy for me to have let down my guard. While our school paths took us in different directions, I was always excited to meet up with you at band events and was happy to receive word of your many accomplishments. I was proud that you were excelling in all of your efforts. Although we lost touch as the years went on, you remained in my thoughts, as you will continue to do so. I hold you in such a high regard and you will truly be missed. My heart is with you as well as with your family and friends.

Mandy Theis

March 31, 2003

Greg,

You were always the person I always wished I could be. Intelligent, bright, creative... the list is never-ending and could never do you justice. When I first moved to Alexandria I was terrified that I would never meet anyone I could relate to, and then I met you, Greg. We may not have caught a movie together, but the memories of the many shananigans you, Noah, Mike and I attempted in English class will never be forgotten. You made me feel at home in a foreign school, and I will always be greatful to you. You are in my heart always, Greg.

Mandy Theis

Kim Paschall

March 31, 2003

Dear Greg,

I will never forget the small things. Always the gentleman, you always walked me to my door, even if you were running late for curfew. Or how you always seemed to call me first. How about when you took me to Prom... or when we just hung out in Old Town. It's always the small things that mean the most. Those memories will always be with me, I only wish there could have been more. You always seemed to share a part of yourself with me, that made me feel honored to be your friend. You were an inspiration for us all, I will never forget...

To Greg's family, I can only imagine the pain and loss you must be experiencing. My heart goes out to you, and I'll keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephen Gaspar

March 31, 2003

Greg,

Our years of friendship produced some of my favorite memories, and these memories will stay with me forever. I consider myself very lucky to have known Greg; a diligent student, devoted athlete, and most importantly, a true friend. My thoughts and prayers are with Greg and his family now. You'll be missed by us all, buddy; may you be at peace.

Kevin Chen

March 31, 2003

Greg, I don't know what to say. You were the smartest guy I knew at Edison. When did we first meet? I believe it was in 10th grade gym class. We were organizing some kind of game of starcraft, i believe. The years at Edison High School were the best years of my life, and I regret not getting to know u better. But no matter what, I wish you the best, Greg.

Christine Carroll

March 31, 2003

Greg,

There is no one like you in the whole world. You touched my life and the lives of so many, more then you know. You were genuine, smart and funny, someone with a pure heart. I feel like our friendship had just begun, and your life already affected mine forever. There is a hole in my heart and the hearts of everyone that knew you that will never be filled. You are irreplaceable Greg Bak, I will never find another person like you in a million years. Although you are gone, you will never be forgotten, we will carry your memory with us in everything we do, and you will shine through the people who love you, the people you touched. I miss you Greg, I hope you know how much you meant to us.

“You’re in the arms of the angel, may you find some comfort there”

Kari Deputy

March 31, 2003

Bak family,

At a time like this it is difficult to know what to say. No words can possibly express my sympathy and sorrow, but hopefully through sharing my memories of Greg, you will know what a great friend he was to me.

Greg was one of my favorite people at Edison, and I told him that often. From history class junior year where we began our close friendship, to talking almost every night about everything and anything, to senior year soccer games where I embarrased him by yelling his name and waving signs in the air :), he established a place in my heart. I admired Greg for everything that he was. You raised an amazing son who has left his mark on me.

His memory will remain always, and the class of 2002 will never forget the guy who gave his speech at graduation with his favorite sunglasses on.

I send this with my deepest sympathy to your family, and my lasting love for Greg.

Becca Hall

March 31, 2003

To the Bak family,

I knew Greg in high school and college. I'll miss the sparkle in his eye and his playful smile. I pray for your strength and comfort in the following days.

Karen Martin

March 31, 2003

It was with great sadness that I received the news of Greg's death. As I see his face, remember his smile and recall his voice, I am overwhelmed by the inadequacies of words.... I pray that God will provide strength and comfort for each of you--his family and his friends. Greg touched the lives of so many of us at Edison High School. His sense of humor, his quick wit, his intelligence always brightened my class and my day. God bless and keep you. Karen Martin

Nitin Bhagi

March 31, 2003

To the Bak family,

I want to offer my deepest condolences for your loss. On March 28, this world lost a truly great and brilliant young man. One of Thomas A. Edison High School's finest graduates, Greg Bak was truly a good person and deserved so much more in life. I only hope that Greg knew how much he was loved and respected by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. Rest in peace Greg.

Tessa York-Dreer

March 31, 2003

Dear Bak Family-

It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. When I think of Greg, I think of how lucky I am to have known him. He was an amazing person, with every talent and ability imaginable. He touched every person he encountered. My heart goes out to you all, and anyone else he ever came in contact with. We all mourn your loss.

Tom & Pam Herman

March 31, 2003

To the Bak family-

Our deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your son. Our son Will was a hallmate of Greg's at William & Mary.

Please know that your family is in our prayers.

--The Herman Family

Sean Smith

March 31, 2003

To the Bak family,

A son has been taken from you, so I can not imagine the pain that you feel during this time. I can only offer my condolensces to you.

Greg was a good friend that I am proud to have. He was a shining star, destined for greatness. He has left a lasting impression on all those that he encountered. Whether he was loved or liked he had everyones respect. From the halls of Edison to the campus of William of Mary Greg will leave his lasting impression and memory.

When I think of Greg and can only smile. He has left so many good feelings and memories, that I will cherish always. Greg will live on forever through spirit and memory.

Greg, Be easy!!

"The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil.

Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death." - Isaiah 57:1-2

Lindsay Parker

March 31, 2003

Greg,

There is no one like you. You touched my life and so many in a way that I don't think you knew. You got me through long classes by making me laugh. You were the best spades partner ever, even though I had to shuffle for you. I never had to bring a pencil to class because you always lent me one, as long as I returned it. Your laugh was contagious. I have known you for 9 years now and I have nothing but love and respect for you. You are as real as they come. I hope you know how much you truly mean to me. I miss you so much and I will never forget you because you are a part of me. You are loved, Greg.

Michelle Grillo

March 31, 2003

Greg,

I did not know you all that well but by seeing you in almost every one of my classes at Edison, you definitely left an impact on my life. Reflecting upon my troubled feelings, I can not even imagine what your family is going through. My heartfelt sympathies are with them at this unimaginable time.

Jessica Ruge

March 31, 2003

Dear Bak Family,

I would like to send my deepest condolences on the loss of Greg. I know that there is not much that I can say now to ease your pain, but I would just like to let you know what an amazing person Greg was to me. I became friends with Greg last summer through lifeguarding and kept in close contact with him ever since. He was an incredibly amazing friend...funny, caring, witty, intelligent, and athletic. What I will remember the most about Greg, though, is the great love that he had for his family and friends. I will never forget how Greg would go out of his way to ask how my day was going or to give me a phone call or hug without asking, he could just tell it was needed. He had an incredible way of connecting with others that I will always admire him for. The world has lost a great person. Greg will always hold a special place in my heart. I will always miss him and love him dearly. I would like to thank you for having raised such an amazing young man who touched my life in the way that he did. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Megan Foster

March 31, 2003

Bako Taco ;-)

You will always be apart of the Foster family and my adopted little brother. Remember: any lecture I gave you was only because I loved you. I know that you will live on in our house and hearts forever. You have certainly touched all our lives and we will all smile when we think of you.

Much love for you,your parents, and sister.

Ashley Wilson

March 31, 2003

Mr. and Mrs. Bak,

Greg and I went to preschool together and then to elementary, and middle school. Outside of my family, I had known him longer than I knew anybody my age. We rode the bus together for years and spent a lot of time talking, but now that I look back, it wasn't nearly enough. I had such respect for Greg, his brilliance, and his sly sense of humor. I will miss him and keep his memory always. Please know that my thoughts and the thoughts of my family are with you.

Richard Roopan

March 30, 2003

Dear Bak Family,

My deepest sorrow goes out to you on the loss of your truly great son.

When I think of Greg, I think of not only a friend, but a leader. He was always the most willing to help. He was somebody I looked up to, somebody who could lift you up when you were down. He provided comfort and laughs when needed. The smile on his face was enough to brighten your day, but he didn't stop there. He was captain of both the cross country and track teams last year, which I also was a part of. He was always there to help me out when I needed it. A hard worker, an excellent athlete, and an all around awesome human being are what I think of when I think about Greg. Greg, I will never forget the times we spent together, from cross country to "smart jones," you were the definition of a good human being.

carol paniagua

March 30, 2003

I am sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can help ease the pain that you feel. I did not know Greg very well, but I had class with him and saw him almost everyday for all of my HS career. He was one of the smartest people that I knew and he truly inspired me to be a better student and athlete. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayer are with him and his family.

Gustavo Castaneda

March 30, 2003

I cannot seem to find the words to express how I feel about the loss of a good friend. Greg was a great friend with a lot of potential, and deep down inside he had a great heart. My condolences go out to the Bak family, and I am truly sorry for this great loss. Greg... you will always be remembered and we will miss you my good friend. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Michael Geoghegan

March 30, 2003

Greg, I don’t know what to say. You were a true friend. You were always there to lend an ear and to give advice. I will miss all the fun things we used to do. Whether it be going to the movies, snowboarding, or just hanging out and talking. We had some good times, and I’ll never forget the time we spent together

Mr. Bak, Mrs. Bak, and Ellen, you have my deepest condolences. Greg was a great person and was loved by many.

Justin Kalvin

March 30, 2003

Memories of you inhabit every part of my mind. That will never change. We had great times in elementary and middle school. Some of my favorite memories come from things we did and said during breaks in sax playing during band class, you always could make me laugh. I am so glad that I got back in touch with you. Time moves so fast and I was afraid that when I moved five years ago it would sever a great friendship, but you proved me wrong. Thank you for being the guy you were. Greg, your journey hasn't ended here.

Ben Foster

March 30, 2003

Mr. & Mrs. Bak and Ellen, I am sorry for your loss of a son and brother. I am praying for you through this time in your life.

My Feelings for this amazing person are so very hard to express. Since meeting Greg my junior year in high school and spending many hours with him, we only grew closer building a valuable friendship. Without that friendship I wouldn't have these great memories of Edison, soccer, and amazing bound. Ever since I met Greg he wore a huge smile on his face, as many of us can attest. We can only remember the good when the name Greg Bak is said. Remember these good times as we celebrate his life. I am sorry the world has lost a person with such great potential.

Sincerely, Ben Foster

Stefanos Missailidis

March 30, 2003

Dear Greg,

I don't even know where to start. It is still very hard for me to believe that you are gone. I have known you since my freshman year at Edison, where we played soccer together on the JV team. I have always looked up to you, first as a friend, and as our relationship grew, as a brother. You, Sevan Mehrabian, and Ben Foster are the greatest friends anyone could ask for. From the late nights of playing fuzball together at your house, to our Ski Trip over winter break, we have made so many memories together. Now with you gone there will be a missing piece to our friendship. The smart, witty, and funny kid who all of us had complete respect for is now gone forever. I only wish you were still here with us, for our time together was so short.

Before writting this entry, I read through the entries that others had written, and was not surprised at all by how many peoples lives you have touched. My prayers go out to the Bak family, and I will continue to live my life in dedication to yours.

Love,

Stefanos Missailidis

Priscilla Martinez

March 30, 2003

Greg,

Even though we weren't friends at all during high school, I always thought that the people that you run into in life are still part of you in memory and heart. I and many others admired your intelligence, your talents and your personality. I feel honored to have announced your name during every soccer game you started in. Even though you're not here, your name will still echo through Eagle stadium in my memories and in those who were present to see you.

Attending Edison establishes a family,

Upon graduating is like leaving the family,

Losing you is like losing a brother.

Ture Phillips

March 30, 2003

Greg was a good man, a hard-working man. I apologize for not coming to the service, but I send my deepest condolences to you and your family. I have lost family members close to me and it's not easy to move on with life losing someone you love. Death is hard to accept, but he is in a better place now and I wish you and your family the best.

Mahfuz Sultan

March 30, 2003

I am fairly certain that my words may seem hollow and empty given the impact that Greg has had on me and a multitude of others. Many, including myself, can attest to his brilliance, wit, and sincerity; however, what particularly struck me was his ability to touch people even when his encounter with some of them was brief. I feel that my friendship of almost 3 years with him was all too short and an empty place in me that he started to fill will be left untended. All I can say in that regard is that I will cherish my memories with him until memory serves me no more and hopefully the dreams he had will vicariously manifest themselves through the actions of those that he touched so that the impact he had during his life will not appear to have been in vain.

Mike Poling

March 30, 2003

Dear Bak Family,

There are no words I can say to ease your pain, but only thoughts I can give to help you understand further the extent Greg impacted the lives of myself and all those who were lucky enough to know him. Greg and I became real good friends, really quickly and for this I am thankful. He was funny, athletic, friendly and intelligent, and there is no measure for the amount I respected him. The world lost a great person and someone truely special and will never be quite the same. I will miss Greg deeply and will carry his memory with me in all I do. I can only give you these thoughts, and my prayers, and wish for you all the best in this time of loss.

Stewart Bishop

March 30, 2003

Greg -- A decade is a long time in the right perspective, but now that I look back, the time we had together went by too fast... I'll never forget your witty smirk that seemed to be a concrete part of your personality. I'll see you around, my friend.

Claire Angeli

March 30, 2003

Dear Bak family,

I offer my sincere condolences for your loss. I think that you should know how Greg affected those around him, even those who did not know him very well. I know Greg only from running at Edison with him. During that time we talked some, laughed and had a good time. I admired his many good qualities, from his witty humor to his ability to balance so many activites and excell in all of them. This year, I thought of him often and remembered him with a smile. I never spent any time with him except for the hours at practices and meets, and he was never my best friend, but, none the less, he has made an impact on me for the better; I am glad to have known him. I pray for you all, and thank you for Greg.

Most sincerely,

Claire Angeli

Noah Flaks

March 30, 2003

All of my thoughts and sympathies cannot be expressed in words at this time. Wonderful thoughts and memories of times with Greg will be cherished by me and everyone else that Greg has ever known. Greg is and always will be remembered as a true friend and a great person.

Nathaniel Fraser

March 30, 2003

Dear Greg,

What great times we had playing soccer everyday during recess back at Springfield Estates, swimming for the Cruisers every summer, having our nerf battles in your basement, and jamming on our saxaphones during band. I wish we had stayed closer through high school - seeing you a few times a year at soccer games and track meets just wasn't enough. You were always such a great guy, and we all miss you so much.

Your friend forever,

Nat

Kyle Barry

March 30, 2003

The Bak Family,

I only knew Greg a few years, but I feel privileged to have known him. I am sorry for your loss, and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

-Kyle Barry-

Nicholas Saldivar

March 30, 2003

To the Bak family,

Although I have only known Greg since middle school, he was a great friend to have at Twain and I wish that I had kept in better touch with him throughout high school. Greg and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. A candle in the Notre Dame grotto will shine brightly for you and your son.

Nick Saldivar

Kate Geier

March 30, 2003

Mr. and Mrs. Bak and family,

I am truly sorry for your loss. I went to Edison with Greg, and although we were never close friends, I always respected and admired him for his humor, intelligence, and genuine sincerity. My thoughts are with you.

Meghan Jones

March 30, 2003

Greg,

You really were a great person, and I only wish I could have let you known that more. You really made me strive to work harder back at EHS. You are an inspiration and you are truly missed.

Meghan Jones

Sheerine Alemzadeh

March 30, 2003

To the Bak family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone at Edison High School realized Greg's great potential. He was one of the smartest and most talented members of our class. We will all miss him for what he was and what he could have been. Your family is in all our thoughts and prayers.

Joan and Art Flaks

March 30, 2003

Joan, Tom, and Ellen,

Our family has so many wonderful memories of Greg-dating all the way back to when Greg, Noah,and Joey were in second and third grade. How cute they were!! We are making a video tape for you compiling some old movies and will get that to you as soon as possible. Please know that our deepest sorrows are extended to you all. We cannot know how you feel but we are all here for you whenever you want to talk or just need a shoulder.

Joan and Art

Edison High School Cross Country Varsity Team 2001

Susan Kirby

March 30, 2003

Greg, we have such great memories of you. From Travel Soccer to Edison High School Track, we will always remember how spirited you are and how you always inspire everyone around you to be the best that they can be. We've attached our favorite picture, this is our memory of you! The Kirby Family

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