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Jeremiah Behan (Age 70)  
A leading Washington, DC area construction finance banker, died April 28, 2020 at his home in Easton, MD. The cause was amyotrophic lateral sclerosis.For three decades, Behan worked with builders to provide funding for commercial and housing construction central to the transformation and growth of Washington and its suburbs.In 2016, he retired as vice president of commercial lending at Main Street Bank in Fairfax, VA. He also had served as senior vice president for construction lending at Greater Atlantic Bank in Reston, VA. and as senior real estate lending officer at Virginia Heritage Bank in Tysons, VA.Behan married Darcy Lee Whitson in 1980; she survives him. He also is survived by their daughter, Alexis Behan, of Los Angeles, CA.; their son, Patrick Behan of Bethesda, MD.; his sister, Sarah Costello, of Phoenix, AZ.; his brother, Patrick of Tucson, AZ.; and his sisters-in-law, Dawn Whitson of Ocean Pines, MD. and Diana Laguna and husband Ramon of Orlando, FL.Born and raised in Syracuse, NY, Behan attended local schools then earned a BS in Commerce from Niagara University in Lewiston, NY. After college, he relocated to the District of Columbia, where his sister, Sarah, lived; he found work for two years as a sales representative at the Shaw Walker office furniture store then on Connecticut Avenue.In the late seventies, Behan went to work for a small homebuilder in Arlington, VA. He ended up working nearly four years as a carpenter, building and framing homes for several independent Virginia and D.C. contractors. This experience, he said, taught him builders' concerns and perspectives that-in his banking career-helped him work effectively with clients.A loving father and husband, Behan always was happiest when with his family. He cherished spending time with his wife Darcy, especially taking long walks. He was an avid reader and enjoyed fishing. He had been a talented high school athlete, playing basketball and football. He was an ardent fan of the Yankees, and enjoyed watching college basketball, particularly University of Virginia, where his daughter, Alexis attended. He especially loved attending games of the St. John's College High School basketball team which is coached by his son, Patrick.There will be a private celebration of his life at a later date.

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Published by The Washington Post on May 3, 2020.

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Diane M Mantle

July 6, 2020

I remember him when he was 15 yrs old. I think we all called him Jeremy back then. I knew then that he would grow up and be the best husband and father any girl could ask for. I met him through his brother Bill back then. I am sure he will be missed. So sorry to hear of his passing.

Wally OHern

July 6, 2020

Had a great childhood growing up with Jerry..: we had so many great times thru high school... my condolences to his entire family. Rest In Peace my old friend!

Roger Bourret

May 6, 2020

Condolences to Darcy and family. I only knew Jeremiah for a couple of years in the 70's but Bill Barrett kept me up on your life. I truly enjoyed those days hanging out with him having crab and beers. He had a great satisfying smile and a spirit to match.

Sharon

May 3, 2020

Rest In Peace, Jerry. Jerry and Darcy are wonderful neighbors, and he will be missed by all of our neighbors. I pray for strength for Darcy, Patrick, and Alexis as you grieve his passing. May you and the rest of your family find comfort in each other as you share good memories of Jerry. God be with you.

N. S

May 3, 2020

My deepest sympathy to the family of Jeremiah Behan. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will give you strength and courage to cope with your grief.
Psalm 94:17-19

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