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Jeffrey Arnold Obituary

ARNOLD JEFFREY "Hole" ARNOLD Of Prince Georges County, departed this life on Wednesday, October 31, 2007. He is survived by a loving wife, Vickie Harrell; three children; a beautiful mother, Marie Coley; four sisters, one brother and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and friends. Visitation Saturday, November 10, from 9 a.m. until hour of service 11 a.m. at New Smyrna Missionary Baptist Church, 4417 Douglas Street, NE. Interment Mt Olivet Cemetery. Services by BIANCHI.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 6, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Arnold

91 Entries

Helene from BFI/ Republican Svcs.

October 31, 2023

Hey Jeff. Wishing you were here. It is now 2023. Years later from my last entry. I wondered about you a few days ago. I remembered how you were such a protective giant for the women on the job. Though I am no longer on the job, your deeds and kindness have always stayed with me. Thank you for showing me the true character of men. You were a diamond among many.

God Bless and know that you are still very much loved and missed.

Louis "Keith" Avery

June 30, 2021

Hey Jeff,
This obviously is long overdue, we met through our mutual friend Rick, all yall were on the Seat Pleasant boxing team. All I remember about you was, I always thought you were a cool brother that always looked out for your younger bro Derrell. What has me here today is that we have now lost Lil Tony, Rick's younger brother, the guy that had epic battles with Derrell back in the day but wasn't able to sprout like Derrell did. Well now you two will meet and chop it up. This is long overdue but never too late. Rest in Peace Warriors until we meet again.

November 5, 2008

Hey Jeff,
I know you'd be happy to know we got our first Black President. Wish you were here to rejoice with the rest of us!

Helene A

October 31, 2008

Hey Jeffrey, It's me again. Here we are, one year later and it is still rough and hard to believe you are not here. It feels like you are just away somewhere and we are expecting you to return to work but we do not know when.
I think you'd be pleased to know that some of the the guys at work had a prayer session this morning in your honor.. I had just made the tail end of the prayer but I made it. It was about 6:15am when the prayer was said and I hope that God heard the prayer in your favor. Mr. Harvey said the prayer and it was about 10 or so people.. Kenny B was using his bullying ways to get people to gather around for the prayer..,smile. Saying " Come on yall, get up on this prayer for Jeff"... LOL!! God bless his soul he is a good person and means well. Folks remembered you throughout the day. GOD I WISH YOU WERE HERE! The world is not the same without you. Ms. T misses you dearly. Ms. T. please stay strong it will get better dear with each day. I saw your entry in the paper today. I pray that God removes your grief and soon. Jeff would not want that for you. Jeff, you rest in peace and maybe there is such a thing as reincarnation..LOL! Boy, I wish there was such a thing in your case. Kim called today and asked about you and what was going on. You know Kim, the one that use to curse you and bless the lord in the same breath.. It's been a rough day today, and it's comforting to talk about the things you did and express how people remembered you today.. I use to tell you all the time that you were like silk amongst sand paper.... Well now, you are resting and covered by an ocean of silk...... the oceans' name is GOD! Please God rest him in your arms...Amen.

Trina

October 31, 2008

Hey Holey Hole, you have been heavy on my mind and heart a lot lately. I found out about your passing only a few months ago so the thought of you not being here is still new to me. The world has lost a special person but God has gained an Angel. You were truly a special person and you will be missed by all who know and love you. It has been a pleasure to know you, rest in peace Jeffrey Arnold, I know you what your saying right now "don't be using my government name" (smile). If love could have kept you here you would have never left you are truly loved and missed by many. Alright Holey Hole you rest and you and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm signing off Trina Boo as you liked to call me.

October 27, 2008

My life will never be the same without you....I miss you so much I still can't believe I will never see you again....It's hard but I must remain strong...It's hard losing someone who meant so much I just want to let you know thank you for being apart of my world...thanks for allowing me to see a different person...thanks for your patience and understanding and love...and most of all thank you for opening your heart and allowing me to love you....I love you always and forever...

Helene A

October 23, 2008

Hey Jeff, this is Helene, your co-worker... WOW, I still can't beleive it. I miss laughing at your jokes and cracking up when you knew I was having a bad day. I often wondered what I'd say to you if you were here. It's coming up on one year it's hard to except you not being here. I've heard so many things and I feel like I'm getting to know more about you in death than in life and still.... I feel so blessed to have been in your presence. I did not know who you were back then but I do now and I feel just the same as then.... You were, and still are, a God-send. I believe you are not here now because I feel that God needed you for something else. You in my eyes, were what a man should be. You had the most profound respect for women and I use to ask you to multiply yourself so that I can give a few of 'YOU' to some of my girl-friends that deserve a good man. LOL! It's coming up on 1-year and It is still rough when someone talks about you. I now know that you had my back 'literally' in dispatch. I thank you my big brother. You were my guardian Angel and I had no idea that you were. Thanks for having my back!! I remember you defending me when one of the guys disrespected me... Thank you! Jeff, you tried to save the world and couldn't and it seems that it pained you more that you couldn't You were just '1' soldier and it takes many to save the world. If you were here now.... I would say to you... It's okay..to be loved.. its okay to rest... It's okay to take time for you... And know that you are loved even if you did nothing for anyone.. But, you did a lot for many and that is worth more than all the riches in the world. May God be please with you, keep you ,and give you much needed rest in your beautiful soul... R.I.P Jeffrey Arnold..... yes, I said your whole name! For now, "Ima do you like the farmer did the potatoe, plant ya now and dig ya later!" You are truly missed. Peace Jeff.

RONISHA CRAWLEY

September 30, 2008

HEY DAD THIS UR LIL GURL NISHA...I MISS U SO MUCH DAD..I CANT EXPRESS HOW MUCH I MISS U.I JUS WANTED TO TELL U HOW MUCH I LOVE AND MISS U...EVERYDAY I THINK AND DREAM ABOUT U... I JUST WISH YOU WERE HERE TO SEE ME BECOME A WOMEN..IM GROWIN IN SO MANY WAYS...IM DOIN GREAT IN SCHOOL..I HAVE ALL A'S...U ALWAYS KNEW I COULD DO IT HUH..I MISS U CALLIN ME EVERY MORNIN BEFORE SCHOOL TO TELL ME"HEY NISHA HAVE A GOOD DAY AT SCHOOL..I LOVE YOU..CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME"MAN I REALLY MISS THAT..EVEN THOUGH YOUR NOT HERE PHYSICALLY I KNOW YOUR HERE WITH ME EVERYDAY..I THINK THATS WHAT KEEP ME GOIN..IM NOT AS STRONG AS YOU BUT I TRY TO BE AND KEEP MY HEAD UP..I LOVE YOU DAD AND MISS U SO MUCH..XOXOXOXO UR BABY NISHA

June 15, 2008

HAPPY FATHERS DAY LOVE TAMMY AND TAE

C A M

May 15, 2008

Jeff

I knew I was feeling you this week (more than usual) for some reason, then I realized it was your b-day. I remember your 19th bday! Wow, so many years you have been in my heart.
You are thought of continuously....

MY BABY

May 11, 2008

I JUST WANTED TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND THAT I LOVE AND MISS YOU AND THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY. I JUST CANT BELIEVE IT! I STILL SMELL YOUR COLOGNE , I SOMETIMES HEAR YOUR VOICE AND EVERYDAY AT NOON I JUST WISH YOU WOULD BE WALKING IN THAT DOOR EVERYDAY IM SOMEHOW REMINDED OF YOU. THIS FEELING IS TERRIBLE , I HEAR SONGS THAT REMIND ME OF YOU, I CALL YOUR JOB EVERYDAY TO HEAR YOUR VOICE ON YOUR ANSWERING MACHINE TO FEEL CLOSE TO YOU , I LOOK AT YOUR PICTURES EVERYDAY AND IT KEEPS ME GOING I REALLY MISS YOU I MISS OUR FRIENDSHIP, OUR TALKS, AND LAUGHS I MISS ALL YOUR JOKES AND PEP TALKS, I SIT AND READ ALL YOUR EMAILS AND TEXTS THAT YOU SENT ME I READ THEM OVER AND OVER AGAIN IT HELPS ME TO GET THROUGH THIS ROUGH TIME BUT THINGS WILL GET BETTER I KNOW THATS WHAT YOU WOULD TELL ME. IM VERY GLAD THAT I HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO SHARE A PART OF MY LIFE WITH YOU I LOVE YOU!!!!!

Tae-Tae

May 11, 2008

Happy BDay Jeff its Tae I just wanted to tell you that Im so sad right now because we had plans for this day remember and now you are gone!!!!!

May 9, 2008

I know its a few days early but I wanted to wish you a Happy B-Day. Miss u much!!!!

Tae-Tae

April 24, 2008

U may be gone but you will never be forgotton.. you are now in a place where you are safe im so sorry you had to leave so early we are doing fine me and moms i miss you and so does she i always will keep you in mind and most of all i luv ya!!!!

MELISSA SHORT

April 18, 2008

WE LOVE YOU DADDY AND WE MISS YOU. WE THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. WE KNOW YOUR LOOKING DOWN ON US AND YOUR WITH US EVERYDAY. WE WILL MAKE YOU PROUD OF US AND WE WILL STICK TOGETHER.
LOVE YOU DADDY
RONISHA, MANIAH & LIL JEFF

MY BABY

March 15, 2008

WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS HOW I FEEL SO IM NOT GOING TO TRY AND EXPLAIN MOST IMPORTANTLY YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU JEFF I LOVED YOU THEN AND NOW, I MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH I JUST CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE GONE I WILL CONTINOUSLY LOVE YOU AND THINK OF YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN I WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT WE HAVE AND I KNOW IM SPEAKING OF PRESENT TENSE WHEN I SAY HAVE BUT I GUESS IM STILL IN DENIAL ALWAYS LOVING YOU UNCONDITIONALLY, LOVE ALWAYS
P.S NOW I FINALLY GET WHAT YOU TOLD ME SMILE:)

c j

March 6, 2008

words CAN NOT express how much i miss my friend.. I can not stop thinking about Jeff... I keep thinking to myself that i will not see that smile and hear those funny jokes anymore... NO friend will EVER take the place of Holey Hole... I have lots of memories to hold on to...even the one's when he wanted to beat my boyfriends up as a kid..Jeff was a big brother to me..he would always ask, are you OK? Is anybody bothering you? Do you want me to beat them up? how funny that is.... I remember the joy rides in the RED truck back in the day...boy did we have some fun times up on 58th... I have never laugh so hard, fooling with Jeff....I use to look forward to fathers day b/c if i haven't seen Jeff all year, i knew i'd see him there... this fathers day will be rough!! however, i will celebrate in his memory.... I refuse to erase my emails from Jeff, when i read them, all i can do is laugh because in every email he would say "what's up Ugleeee" LOL!! MAN! how i miss him so... I miss you, from: one of your lil sisters from around the way....

January 19, 2008

Hey Shorty,

Guess Redskins fans aren't the only one not watching there team in the playoffs and super bowl. I thought the cowgirls were going to take it all the way for you at first

Miss u like crazy

Tammy Allen

December 1, 2007

To the Arnold/Coley Family:

I know some time has past since the passing of Jeff, but I'm still very sad. My prayers and thoughts are still with you especially over this holiday season. I have so many fond memories of Jeff, but my biggest one is that I had such a crush on Jeff in James Madison Junior High School, and he was such a nice guy. I always remembered him and my brother "Rev. Darrell 'Kit' Terry" hanging out together and joining the same boxing team. Remember God is with you, and only HE can bring healing.

Tammy (Terry) Allen - Upper Marlboro, MD

November 28, 2007

You are missed.

Denise

November 28, 2007

Mr. Coley:

I am a strong believer in God and I believe all things happen for a reason. All the media attention on Sean Taylor's murder has caused me to reminisce on my Hole and remind me of that awful day in October. Thats why I visited this site today. When I read your last entry, I wept because I recall our conversations about your boxing career. YES...he was so very proud of you and what you accomplished. His biggest regret was knowing you whipped Oba Carr!!! After I viewed the tape with Jeff, I certainly agreed :) You won that fight. Just know that he IS PROUD but wants you to want the fight. He was your #1 fan. Please feel free to get my # from Cassandra. I pray that you find the answers you are searching for.

Kenny Boo, Pumpkin, Di

November 24, 2007

To Derrell, Ms. Marie and Family,

We will sincerely MISS Jeff(Hole) and we send our Deepest sympathy out to you and your family may GOD Bless and hold you in his prayers always. Jeff and Derrell was and are like Family to us. May you find comfort in knowing that friends share in your time of sorrow. There is no way to fully understand the pain you and your Family is going through now.

Hole~ We still can't believe you are gone but you are at Eternal Peace now, you can rest knowing that each of us will hold and cherish the memories you bestow upon us.

Miss You, Kenny Boo, Pumpkin & Di,

Thank You for everything, Di (LOVE YOU)

Lil Sister Deidra

November 22, 2007

To my heart from your little sister
Deidra I will always love you, yes God said it was time to come with Him, but you are still with me and I will continue to talk with you each and every day, you won't ever hear me say that I have one brother I will always 4-ever say two because that's what God gave me and that's what I'm going to keep. Jeff what kind of person was this that did this to you, I have so many questions that I need answers for, please talk to me and answer all my questions, who? Jeff who? Did you know the person, I have so many, I will wait until you answer all my questions, I won't rest until you tell me everything. I don't want to stop writing this letter because I feel like I'm really talking to you and I don't want to leave you. Jeff I go back and forth cry one minute and I laugh another, I keep getting pain in my chest it's from stress I know, I just miss you so much sometimes I don't know what to do, I pray, I talk to you sometimes I feel you are so close that I get scared sometime, I'm sorry, I don't want to but I do, I feel that your right beside me sometimes and the feeling is so strong. No one can ever take your place never, that's just like Jesus know one was able to feel His shoes.

I will always take care of Momma, don't worry about her I got her she's my heart just like you are,she's always first for every thing, you know how much I love Momma, she's doing okay, she have this strength that's amazing to me, we made promisess to each other, she promised me that she won't get sick and I promised her that I will always be happy, because she is so use to seeing me laugh and smile just like you, yes I do cry because I miss you, I know I'm jumpping from one thing to the next because I always got so much to talk to you about, people always say that we were twins because we look so much alike and we both laugh and you would say shoed we ain't know twins and I would say yes we are, and we laugh I love you for so much stuff, most of all for you being my brother, I will always talk to you, I will always trust that you will protect me, I will never disrespect you and won't ever let anyone else disrespect you, if you didn't want things to happen when you were here that same things won't be happening now.

Jeff remember if you told me to get somebody I got them, that's because of the love we shared, just like Derrell, you would call me downstair and say Deidra, Derrell said he can bet you, I'll say know he can't then you will say let me see who can bet, then you tell me you better not hurt him, I'll say I'm not, but I would bet the mess out of him anyway, Jeff I can go on and on it's 40 years of memories between you and I, I was with you for 40 years, it seem a long time but it's not long enough. I love you with my heart,mind and soul, rest in peace big brother

November 21, 2007

Jeff,
I sincerely loved you,

R.

November 21, 2007

You will truly me miss. LOVE YOU.

D

Derrell Ccoley

November 20, 2007

jeff this is your lil brother Derrell.Jeff it's something i have to ask you only because i never like boxing and i only boxed for you.Jeff you need to answer this do i fight another day or do i stop at "38-2-28ko;s". you never let me know how good i was as a fighter.I only did this for you.only waiting for you to tell me i was a good fighter. but the closest you ever came to saying i was a good fighter. was when you would tell me {derrell} if you train hard can't nobody beat you. but jeff i train hard. so was you saying no one could beat me or where you saying if i train harder can't nobody can beat me.jeff this what you got out of me from boxing as a kid i had "100" fightes i only lost "4".As an adult i had "40" fights and i only lost"2" and still never heard you say i can fight. So do i say thanks or do i kick your butt when we meet again. jeff i"m asking you what to do. i'm wating for you to answer me. hole your my friend,my brother,and my couch.jeff after this talk between me and you i will be able to make up my mind on what to do.If i do fight again that's all i have to do is look in that coner and know that you are there with me, telling me to do my best and train hard,hard,hard. JEFF I LOVE YOU. Big brother as i sit here and write this i'm trying not to cry.I know you are looking down on me telling me "punk stop crying".but im looking up at you saying come do something about it.i love you holey coming right from coley....

Derrell Coley

November 19, 2007

No words can express how I feel, but I would like to thank you all for everything from a card, call and even a shoulder to lean on. If possible I would like to personally thank each and everyone of you, please feel free to call me at 202-210-8138 whenever time permits. Thanks again for keeping my family dear to you'll hearts and especially my brother Jeff. He will truly be missed by all who loved him dearly, but never forgotten. Peace and Love Derrell

sugar (boy) chew

November 15, 2007

daryl sorry for your lost.give me a call sugar (boy) chew. 443-254-3470

Kristal Downing

November 15, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Niecy Givens

November 14, 2007

Jeff, The last time we talked you said "bye" and now you have gone to take your place in the Heavenly sky. I will miss you. All I have is memories. Peace and Love to you.
Niecy Givens, Capitol Heights, MD (now in San Diego, CA)

November 13, 2007

Ms. Coley, Derrell, Mrs. Arnold and children: I pray that God will comfort you during this difficult time.

Derrell: Thank you for putting me back in touch with Jeff. I ran into you a while ago at Fridays in Bowie and I asked about Jeff and you called him for me. We kept in contact and I am so very grateful for that. He was such a beautiful person with a beautiful spirit. He was a great buddy and he kept me laughing all the time. So thank you again for putting me back in touch with my friend whom I will truly miss.

T

Nikki

November 13, 2007

I was in "awe" when I heard of Jeff's passing!

To the family...I sincerely pray that the Lord's peace that surpasses all understanding lift the burden from your heart as you move forward without Jeff's physical presence.

Heidi

November 12, 2007

Somewhere in my life I was told that in every bad situation there is something good that can be pulled from it... as I sit and think about the loss of Jeff I relized that God must have had something very important for him to do...

Do not stand by my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints upon the snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain and
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am that swift uplifting rush,
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand by my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die.

To Jeff's wife, children and family be strong, have faith, and believe Jeff's doing big things up there...

Derrell, be to Jeff's children what he was to you...

Diana Chambers(Givens)

November 12, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of Jeff Arnold from the Givens/Chambers family from Balsam Street (now in San Diego, CA). Niecy and Eric always remember building the tree house in Capitol Heights and Eric falling out of the tree breaking his arm when Niecy took the stairs off because the guys wouldn't let her come in the tree house after she helped build it - wow, those were fun times. We will all miss you Jeff!

DAWN ZACKERY

November 11, 2007

JEFF, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS A KIND, GENTLE, LOVING AND RESPECTFUL MAN. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.

da barber shop crew.... tony

November 11, 2007

me and the guys will miss you Big Jeff aka black hole from the 'barber shop..i will miss talkin and joken to you about the games and 'em cowboys, hang in there man til we meet again

Denise

November 10, 2007

First, I'd like to extend my prayers and deepest sympathies to Jeff's family. Undoubtedly, everyone @ BFI knew me as Holes' "road cat". Over the years, I've had the pleasure of being his confidante, personal chef,& most of all his close friend. I miss being able to talk to you every day. I wore your favorite Dallas outfit today, just like you told me to. You're truly irreplaceable my friend! Until we meet again; Godspeed.

Eternally....Niecey

Chris Forte

November 10, 2007

Sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family. May God Bless You All

neshia brown

November 10, 2007

my heart goes out to lil jeff and cybil (son mother) hang in there and keep the faith

Apryl N. Featherston (Peaches)

November 10, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cecil smith

November 10, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

kimmy hemphill

November 10, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Lil Jeff keep the faith and you will see your father again, he was such a good father figure to you, my heart goes out to you at this time, be strong god gotcha back love you

kelly jackson

November 10, 2007

my heart goes out to big Jeff's kids, mom and family, most of all to big Jeff's son (lil jeff) and his son mother (Shonda) i knew how close big Jeff was to the both of you may my deepest sympathy goes out to you on your lost R.I.P. Big Jeff until we me again...your smile will definely be missed

kent and 'em

November 10, 2007

Thanks Jeff for showing us how to be men and stand on our own. I still look up to you and Derrell as my big brothers. I still want to grow up and be just like you!

Gary "Debo" Johnson

November 10, 2007

Jeff, you gave me the name Debo. A name that will stick with me forever. In your honor, I christen my race car "Debo" I'll miss our morning ritual. A true friend for life. Until we meet again, peace.

DAWN

November 10, 2007

JEFF, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERD. YOU WERE ONE OF A KIND. THE EFFECT YOU PUT ON MYSELF AND EVERYONE ELSE IS UNFORGETABLE. I WILL REMEMBER YOU AS THE SWEET,FUNNY,OUTGOING,"SPORTS LOVING" MAN YOU WERE.I ADMIRED YOUR STRENGTH AND HOW MUCH YOU LOVED AND ADORED YOUR FAMILY, ESPECIALLY YOUR CHILDREN.WE LOVE YOU HOLEY HOLE,UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN,MAY GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL. WE GIVE SPECIAL PRAYERS TO RONISHA,LIL JEFF AND MANIAH.

Z. Williams

November 9, 2007

To Derrell and Family. I am truly sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I know it's hard now, but your days will definitely get brighter. Just continue to lean on your faith.

Shelley Seivert

November 9, 2007

Derrell and Family-
I am so sorry for your loss, Jeff will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful friend and a fantastic person.
Kept in my thoughts always-

cathy lamar

November 9, 2007

Jeffery you are going to be missed. To the family, my prayers go out to you. God is there for you, just call out to him.

Barbara & Merle Dixon

November 9, 2007

To Deidra and Coley Family,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your brother and son. May God's loving arm embrace you all during your time of grief. Be strong and stay lifted in Jesus love and faith. My prayers and spirit are with you.

Willie Byrd (Dee-Dum), Earl Bryd (Man-Man)

November 9, 2007

To the Coley and Arnold Family: Our Hearts and Prayers are with you in your time of need may God Bless you all.

Quisha

November 9, 2007

Jeff(BFI)You will truly be missed. May you rest in peace.
To the Family: May the Lord comfort your hearts in this time of need.

A Friend

November 9, 2007

Jeff will be missed for his great smile and kind spirit. May God's peace and love bless and keep the family in this trying time. We will all meet him again in Glory.

Veronica Squirrell

November 9, 2007

To The Family:

Our condolences and heartfelt sympathies goes out to the you. Whenever you see a shinning star, it will be Jeff's beautiful smile looking down upon you. May you find the peace & strength from God that will get you through this difficult time. Jeff was like a brother to Eric and he will cherish every memory from growing up in Maryland Park. I will always remember his beautiful smile and wonderful sense of humor. We love and miss you Jeff.

Darrell, Eric wants you to be strong and do not hesitate to call him if you ever need someone to talk to.

All Our Love

Eric & Ronnie Squirrell

Angela "Tuey" Parker

November 9, 2007

To the Arnold/Coley Family. Words can't express how heart broken I was when I heard this sad news, because the "Black Hole" was my dog growing up in the neighborhood. But I am honored to be able to hold on to the memories of the parties, cookouts, etc. in the neighborhood where we had the best times. We have truly lost a soldier from around the way. He was such a pleasant and caring person. May God continue to bless your family during this very difficult time, but also remember that Jeff is now your guardian angel until you meet again. Peace and Love forever.

Carla M.

November 9, 2007

To Derrell, Deidre and the rest of the family my heart and prayers go out to you in this time of sorrow. Derrell I appreciate the salute you gave to Jeff last night. Just to see that smiling face again lets me know he is alright now. He's at peace! I knew Jeff before he was "Black Hole" and all I can say is he will be missed and thought of always! Peace and Blessings to you all.....

Dionne Little

November 8, 2007

Derrell & family,

My deepest condolences to you and your family. May God be with you all at this time as you grieve the loss of Jeff. Continued prayers & blessings.

Love, Dionne & Nikki Little

Nina

November 8, 2007

TO THE ARNOLD AND COLEY FAMILY

YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU ALL.ALL I CAN SEE AT THIS VERY MOMENT IS JEFF SMILING AND JOKING,HE ALWAYS KEPT ME LAUGHING I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT ABOUT HIM AND THAT'S THE WAY IT'LL ALWAYS BE.TO HIS MOTHER MAY GOD CARRY YOU WHEN YOU CAN NO LONGER CARRY YOURSELF,DARRYL BE STRONG LIKE I KNOW YOU CAN I'LL BE PRAYING FOR YOU.TO HIS KIDS MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU ,MAKE DADDY PROUD.TO HIS WIFE,I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MAY GOD BLESS YOU AS WELL.

R.I.P HOLELY HOLE YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED!!!!!!!

GHOST

November 8, 2007

To The Family
God sends angels in time of need, to help us when we grieve.
You will constantly be reminded of His love, when you sense angels sent from God above.

Jeff, You will be missed but never forgotten.

ShirleyT aka TeenaMarie

Carla Hart

November 8, 2007

TO THE FAMILY OF JEFF ARNOLD, I REMEMBER JEFF WHEN HE WENT TO SCHOOL WITH MY BABY BROTHER DAVID & TRAMIA HART. I HAVEN'T SEEN JEFF IN A WHILE BUT HE WAS ALWAYS A HANDSOME AND VERY RESPECTFUL YOUNG MAN TOWARDS ME AND WOULD ALWAYS GREET ME WITH A HUG. I TO SHARE YOUR PAIN, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP HIS FAMILY STRONG AND SURROUND YOU WITH GOOD MEMORIES OF A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN THAT I KNEW. CONTINUE TO HAVE FAITH THROUGH OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST. BE STRONG DARRYL AND CONTINUE YOUR MISSION. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! MUCH LOVE

Mona

November 8, 2007

Jeff,

I don't know exactly where, to start. My brother, my friend. I can't express how I my heart hurts to hear of your passing. I can't wait to get see you smile again.

Love

Audrey Wyatt-Simpson (Capitol Heights)

November 8, 2007

To the Arnold and Coley family, I send my deepest sympathy and sincere condelences to your family. May GOD BLESS and KEEP you all in your time of great loss.

TSW

November 8, 2007

Ever since I heard the news of Jeff's passing, Derrell and family have been heavily on my mind. Prayer is powerful and you haven't a clue how many souls are praying for your family in this time of bereavement. May God strenghten you and give you peace.

Yvette

November 8, 2007

To The Family,
My Heart is with you. What a PLEASURE to have known JEFF! He will truly, truly be missed!

November 8, 2007

I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I had the greatest respect for Jeff and will always remember his remarkable sense of humor.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you with lasting memories.We can never be separated from those we love, because God leaves us with lasting Memories & Love that doesn’t pass away.

It was a honor knowing Jeff.

Shelly

Donna Reese Jacobs

November 8, 2007

Jeff may you rest in peace my brother. I ran into Jeff and his family earlier this year. It was good to see that smile. That will be my memory. To his wife and kids, God be with you. I can only imagine the pain that is in your hearts right now. To his mother, brother and sisters, be strong. Know that your "Capital Heights family" is there for you. In case I do not make the Service, I am sending a hug of comfort your way.

Stacey Norman

November 8, 2007

To the family
You are in my prayers, I still can't believe it! It was such a pleasure to have a friend like Jeff (Hole), he was always smiling and had a joke to keep you laughing. Blackhole will never be forgotten and will be truly missed!

A FRIEND

November 8, 2007

JEFF I WILL MISS YOU, WORDS CAN'T EXPRESS THE WAY I FEEL. TO THE KIDS AND FAMILY, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU CLOSE. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN...U DIG....

Rhonda Green

November 8, 2007

Jeff you will be truly missed, you were always a good friend to me, Marcus and Malcolm. Rest in peace Holey Hole!!!

Blk Tim

November 7, 2007

To The Family:
Sorry to hear about your lost of Jeff and my heart goes out to you family. Darryl "DC" Coley stay strong and focus cause you need to be there for your family.
Much Love Peace!

Ebony Johnson

November 7, 2007

To the Family,

Our prayers, thoughts and condolences go out to you all. May God continue to comfort you through this difficult time.
Try hard to remember the good times and those times will be everlasting memories. Jeff was a beautiful person and he will be missed by many.

LOVE
Wayne, Daisy and Ebony Johnson

Roy Payne

November 7, 2007

When I heard from a visiting friend to Massachusetts about your passing, I couldn't not believe it. I am still in shock!!! I remember days of talking with you after derrell and I would have heated sparring sessions at hillcrest. Although I left the area in 1997, I never forgot those conversations and the experience I got from your brother. '

My heart and love goes out to your family. Rest in peace my brother!!

Kisha Brown

November 7, 2007

I'm still at a loss for words...

The phone call that I received on my way to work didn't seem real!

I'm going to miss my friend dearly! We've had some GREAT times and some not so great times, but through it all we remained friends! I could always count on Jeff to bust through my chirp saying..."What's up blacker than me!" and I'd say..."Nobody is blacker than you and STOP bustin through my phone!" LOL! He NEVER stopped and I'm so happy that he didn't!

I will continue to keep the family in my prayers; especially the children.

Darryl, stay strong...your mom needs you more than ever!

Respectfully~

November 7, 2007

MAY GOD BE WITH YOUR FAMILY.
AND VICKIE BE BLESS AND GOD
KNOWS AND CARES FOR YOU STAY
STRONG.

WENDY TRICE
GREATER WORK INTERNATIONAL CHURCH

Rev. Darrell K. Terry Senior Pastor Faith Fellowship Community Church

November 7, 2007

Many years have past but I remember the you as my friend and how we celebrate our birthday's together. We extend our love and prayers to the family.

Rev. Darrell Terry Senior Pastor Faith Fellowship Community Church

November 7, 2007

I certainly offer my prayers to you in this time of trouble. "Let not your heart be trouble, Jesus said I go to prepare a place for you.

MMM MMM

November 7, 2007

To the Family of Jeff:

I would like to send my condolences to you all. Jeff will be missed. He was a good person with a big heart. You are in my prayers.

Shanita

November 7, 2007

To the Family:

I am truly sorry for your loss. I knew Jeff personally and he was always a pleasure to be around. May the Peace of God that surpasses all understanding comfort you in your loss. Trust in the Lord and he will bring your family through this difficult time.

Cequan Richards

November 7, 2007

Darryl Coley And Family
May God Bless You And Your Family Always And Be With You,Jeff I Pray Your Children's Spirit Will Be Guided By Angel's And Their Souls By The Word Of The Lord, R.I.P Hole.You Left Suddenly For No One Knew God Has You Now He Will Take Care Of You.

Kim (Shields) Lee

November 7, 2007

My condolences and heartfelt sympathies to the Arnold/Coley family; may you find the peace of God that will carry you through this most difficult time. I will cherish the great memories that I have of Jeff growing up in the neighborhood greeting me always with a smile.
God Bless you all.

Gem

November 7, 2007

To the immediate and extended family of Jeff:

I extend my deepest sympathy and wish you strength and comfort at this difficult time. Jeff was truly a wonderful guy and will be missed.

Gem Evans

Melissa Short

November 7, 2007

We love you daddy forever your kids Ronisha Crawley, Jeffrey Arnold, Jr., & Maniah Marie McDonald. We know your in a better place and you will NEVER be forgotten. Love you daddy and we will stick together.

KIMBERLY BO

November 7, 2007

To the Family:

May beautiful memories give you strength at this difficult time.

Love,
Kimberly Bo

Charlotte

November 7, 2007

To the Coley Family,
I am very sorry for your lost,my prayers are with you. Jeff will be truly missed. My prayers are especially with his kids.

Marcella Young Perry

November 7, 2007

To the Family

We are so sorry to hear about our neighbor, may God comfort you in your time of sorrow. We lived at #13 and loved Jeff as family. He was always good about looking out for us.

Love
Sonny, Marcella and family

Kimberly Kennedy

November 7, 2007

Jeff-

May your rest in peace. I will miss you dearly. You were truly a special friend. Until we meet again...Much Love.

Gary Williams

November 7, 2007

To the family of Mr. Arnold: My condolences to you all.

I only knew Jeff through his brother, Derrell. I knew how much Jeff meant to Derrell in his boxing career as well as in life. I know God will give you strength through this difficult time.

Clinton Caple

November 7, 2007

First of all I'd like to send my deepest sympathy to Jeff's family. I knew Jeff from Bladensburg Sr. High. My name is Clinton Caple I currently reside in Ft. Hood,Tx.{retired military] "May he rest in Peace"

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