Fay Wray

Fay Wray

Fay Wray Obituary

Published by Legacy.com on Aug. 9, 2004.
NEW YORK (AP) - Fay Wray, who won everlasting fame as the damsel held atop the Empire State Building by the giant ape in the 1933 film classic "King Kong," has died, a close friend said Monday. She was 96.

Wray died Sunday at her Manhattan apartment, said Rick McKay, a friend and director of the last film she appeared in. There was no official cause of death.

"She just kind of drifted off quietly as if she was going to sleep," said McKay, director of the documentary "Broadway: The Golden Age."

"She just kind of gave out."

During a career that started in 1923, Wray appeared with such stars as Ronald Colman, Gary Cooper and Spencer Tracy, but she was destined to be linked with the rampaging Kong in movie fans' minds.

"I used to resent `King Kong,'" she remarked in a 1963 interview. "But now I don't fight it anymore. I realize that it is a classic, and I am pleased to be associated with it. Why, only recently an entire issue of a French magazine was devoted to discussing the picture from its artistic, moral and even religious aspects."

She wrote in her 1988 autobiography, "On the Other Hand": "Each time I arrive in New York and see the skyline and the exquisite beauty of the Empire State Building, my heart beats a little faster. I like that feeling. I really like it!"

"King Kong" obscured the other notable films Wray made during the '30s. They included adventures "The Four Feathers" (with Richard Arlen and William Powell) and "Viva Villa" (Wallace Beery), Westerns "The Texan" (Cooper) and "The Conquering Horde" (Arlen), romances "One Sunday Afternoon" (Cooper) and "The Unholy Garden" (Colman) as well as horror films "Dr. X" and "The Mystery of the Wax Museum."

After appearing in Erich von Stroheim's 1928 silent "The Wedding March," playing a poor Viennese girl abandoned by her lover, a playboy prince, Wray became a much-employed leading lady. In 1933, the year of "King Kong," she appeared in 11 films, co-starring with Beery, George Raft, Cooper, Jack Holt and others.

In 1980, she told of her dissatisfaction with roles of that period: "In those days, the female characters never knew who their parents were. Leading ladies were not supposed to be funny but were supposed to stand there and look beautiful. That was frustrating as an actress."

In her autobiography, the actress recalled that she had been paid $10,000 for "King Kong" (budget: $680,000), but her 10 weeks' work was stretched over a 10-month period. "Residuals were not even considered, because there were no established unions to protect us," she added.

In "King Kong," she plays an unemployed actress who agrees to take a job with a movie company that is going on location to a mysterious island. Kong is the huge ape that inhabits a part of the island.

When the film company discovers him, Kong is attracted to Wray and abducts her. But he is eventually captured and brought to New York and put on display. Kong escapes and finds Wray, with terrifying results, but eventually meets his death on the Empire State Building.

She was proud that "King Kong" had saved RKO studio from bankruptcy. Of Kong she wrote: "He is a very real and individual entity. He has a personality, a character that has been compelling to many different people for many different reasons and viewpoints."

She was the guest of honor in 1991 at a ceremony marking the 60th birthday of the Empire State Building, saying that if she were mayor of New York, "I would want to run the city from this building ... and get up every morning to see the sun rise."

Although Kong appeared huge, the full figure was really only 18 inches tall. Miss Wray knew him by the arm, which was 8 feet long.

"I would stand on the floor," she recalled, "and they would bring this arm down and cinch it around my waist, then pull me up in the air. Every time I moved, one of the fingers would loosen, so it would look like I was trying to get away. Actually, I was trying not to slip through his hand."

By the late '30s, the actress was appearing in low-budget films, and she quit working in 1942 to be a wife and mother. Her first husband was John Monk Saunders, who wrote such air films as "Wings" and "The Dawn Patrol." She was 19 and he was 30 when they married. She discovered he was an alcoholic and a drug addict, and the marriage became a nightmare.

After a divorce, she married Robert Riskin, the brilliant writer of "It Happened One Night," "Lost Horizon" and other Frank Capra films. In 1950, he suffered a stroke from which he never recovered. He died five years later.

Returning to work in 1953, Wray appeared mostly in motherly roles in youth-oriented films like "Small Town Girl," "Tammy and the Bachelor" and "Summer Love." In 1979 she played opposite Henry Fonda in a TV drama, "Gideon's Trumpet."

She was born Vina Fay Wray on Sept. 15, 1907, near Cardston in rural Alberta, Canada. Her parents moved to the United States when she was 3, first trying farming in Arizona, and eventually returning to Salt Lake City, where Wray's mother was from. Later, they settled in Los Angeles.

As a teenager she haunted studio casting offices and won an occasional bit role. Despite her mother's fears that the movie crowd was sinful, Miss Wray was allowed to accept a six-month contract with Hal Roach at $60 a week.

Wray had a daughter, Susan, from her first marriage and a daughter and son, Victoria and Robert Jr., by the second. Sixteen years after Riskin's death, she married his physician, Dr. Sandford Rothenberg.


Copyright © 2004 The Associated Press

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41 Entries

Wayne

April 13, 2023

She was great in kong

CARY gibbs

September 23, 2021

a great actress.a great star,a true legend

Faye Mathis

April 4, 2019

I was born 1930. I was named for Fay Wray.

Harry Simpson

August 8, 2016

Godspeed, and thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Tammy Shea

February 8, 2016

Vina faye wray is an ancester of mine, I regret that I never got to meet her, she touched many lives and will be remembered forever.I wish she would have accepted the role in Titanic!

October 7, 2014

Nobody could portrait her part in the King Kong movie the way that she did. In the resurrection hope she will be able to rub all the animals in the world. No more screaming in fear only in love. Isaiah 65:25

Rudy Rubio

March 30, 2011

To Fay (In Spirit) & her Family,

I wrote back in 2004 when you pasted away
peacefully. I just could not find it anymore. Two of my favorite ladies pasted
during that year. You (Fay) & my Grandma
(Celia), you both will be greatly missed!
King Kong is my most favorite old time movie, especially your screams that thundered thru the movie! As for Ms. WRay's Family take care and my condolenses to you, cause we have all been there losing a loved one. I wished I had met your mother, cause of all those decades she lived thru. What talks we could of had! (and to learn from them & her.) God bless & Take Care

Rudy M. Rubio

El Paso, Tx

Joan Plefka

September 5, 2009

Fay you surely were a wonderful actress thru the years. i loved & enjoyed so very much of mvies you starred in & KING KONG being my most favorite. May God bless you always as he has & during theupcoming years.
Sincerely Yours Ann

Paige Wray

August 24, 2009

What a pleasure it would have been to have been able to meet this wonderful person. Sadly I was never given the chance for her life ended all to soon for us all. It hit me with a sudden sadness when she died. She was an amazing and beautiful actress. I could compare her role in King Kong like baseball, she was given the pitch and she hit it out of the park. She was my second cousin and I am very proud of that. Fay is family, and I don't need to have met her to miss her with all my heart. Where ever you are right now, I hope you are happy and at peace.

Paige M. Wray

Henry Vinson

June 30, 2009

What an actress. The world is so enhanced with wonderful people such as Fay Wray. I offer my most sincere condolences and deepest sympathy. Eternal rest grant unto the soul O Lord, may the perpetual light shine upon him, may his shoul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Henry W. Vinson

as I first saw you

Thomas Hodge

October 18, 2007

I only knew you for the light through the celluloid, but I remember the fantastic "blonde" with a nervous voice stealing an apple in New York when Carl Denham asked you to star in his new feature film; then rescued again when your beauty claimed the grip of Skull Island's ape king. How many times I imagined myself as John 'Jack' Driscoll, stealing you away from the napping King Kong. How many times I thought myself as that giant ape, curious to your beauty, angry to protect you from natural assaults and other monsters.

cory taylor

November 1, 2006

You have brought us great movies. You were the best actress in KIng Kong 33. I want to say thank you for everything you have done!

Don Lee

December 11, 2005

Fay, God bless you,Dear,You were the first love of my life,I think;Yes,I was 11 years old,watching you in King Kong,and I was captivated by your natural beauty,and by your acting ability & screen presence. I was actually jealous of "Kong" ,that he was able to be with you,and I could see his love for you,too,and that he was so frustrated that his enormous size frightened you. Thanks so much,for your gifts to us,and for that special childhood memory I will keep forever;I love you, Don ..

Bernard Grafenburg

September 27, 2005

I have always loved you. I have a picture of you I carry with me when I travel. It brings me good luck. My parents died when I was 5, and I was raised by nuns. The nuns always said for me to "find someone to marry like Fay Wray" I have found my true love at last. She looks just like you.

Beverly Anne and Julio M. Sanchez

January 27, 2005

You were our inspiration of strength, grace, beauty, dignity and God-given talent not always given it's true recognition.



When we all get to Heaven - we'll have you with us always....

David Giardina

August 25, 2004

Dear Ms. Wray,

Ever since I first saw "King Kong" when I was 10 (that was a long time ago)-it has remained without a single doubt, my very favorite movie. The story, the beautifully executed effects that create a truly nightmarish imagery and, of course you- all make it a timeless classic. You were the perfect choice for the damsel in distress with your physical lovliness and your inimatable scream (which RKO used in countless other films for years after). "King Kong" is the only movie that I get teary eyed watching. At the end when he reaches for you after being riddled with bullets- and then plunges off the Empire State Building I can't keep from crying- no matter how many times I've seen it. How pleased I am to live right next door to this great building. How much more pleased that I got a chance to meet you a couple of years ago at Film Forum where you were seeing one of your own movies for the first time called "Mills of the Gods". You are a swell dame and true heroine. You are surely missed.

Sincerely,

David

Judy Girdner

August 17, 2004

Fay I just found out you are my family, my very close family at that, sorry I never got to know you, I have seen a few of your movies and you were wonderful in them. You will be missed by many. Judy

na

August 15, 2004

faye dear i miss u you were excellent god bless and rest in peace, king kong was my favorite film of yours to me you will always be known as the Queen of Scream!!

john hejl

August 10, 2004

Fay, I hear they are going to make another remake of King Kong, in this case the orignal is pure masterpiece, nothing will match it.

May you rest in peace and forever know that long, long ago with one epic part your have achieve inmortallity.

Marty McCrorey

August 10, 2004

You helped make King Kong the awesome movie that it became. To this day, it is still and always will be, my favorite movie.

God bless you and you familiy.

Amy Reichbach

August 10, 2004

I was vice president of the Fay Wray Fan Club in high school. We invited her to a party and she came. When I was in college, she used to take me to lunch at the Brown Derby restaurant in Hollywood. Taught me to eat Cobb Salad; Sent wedding presents when I got married. I will miss her a lot.

Johnny Daggs

August 10, 2004

A warm farwell to a legend... Thank

You for sharing a part of your life with us.

linda k bates

August 10, 2004

dennis & linda bates

jennifer, julianne

rachelle & charlie bates

charles & virginia miller

Christine Monaghan

August 10, 2004

Dear Fay Wray...you were bigger than Kong....I will miss you..sleep well (an no screaming..you did it well) Christine

George Heath

August 10, 2004

Robt. Armstrong summed it up best-"T'wasn't the planes that killed Kong/T'was Beauty killed the Beast!"

Mrs. Wray's unforgettable performance in this fantasy classic will resonate with viewers for generations to come. Godspeed.

John G.F. Ruggieri

August 10, 2004

As I have a picture of you in my home, you will be thought of often, even though gone from this life. Rest in Peace.

Keith A. Moore Sr.

August 10, 2004

May she rest in peace, for she has been blessed by The LORD!

Jacquelyn Holmes

August 10, 2004

My condolences to the Wray Family. It was blessing for her to live as long as she did. I'll bet she had some stories to tell. May she rest in peace.

marie gusler

August 10, 2004

Rest in peace God bless you and your family. You will be missed

Michael Iezzi

August 10, 2004

Fay,

May you rest in the beauty of the promised land. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

nathaniel crawford

August 10, 2004

Some say KING Kong was the greatest horror movie of all times,but I classify it as the greatest love story of all times,with one of the greatest leading ladies of all times.You will be missed greatly.

Deanda Jones

August 9, 2004

You will be missed greatly, my prayers and love are with your family at this time of sorrow.



~*Deanda*~

Aldoria Williams

August 9, 2004

Ms. Wray I loved your role in King Kong. It sent goosebumps up my arms when kong held you in his hand. God Bless

Billy Slimp

August 9, 2004

You will be remembered always.

Patty Majers

August 9, 2004

What I remember most about King Kong is how graceful your character behaved while in distress ... grace under pressure! Hope you're in heaven.

Tina Hanson

August 9, 2004

Fay, We all will miss you. When you did something you did it well. See you on the other side.

Edward Stehr

August 9, 2004

To me you was the greatest.

Mary Patterson

August 9, 2004

You are a beautiful person and wonderful actress. Thaoughts and prayers are withyou and your's.

Frances Dunbar

August 9, 2004

So long fay, You will be missed dearly

Roy Scherff

August 9, 2004

Undoubtedly the most remembered character ever. We will miss you Fay.

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