Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 26, 2004.
PHOENIX (AP) - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, a psychiatrist who revolutionized the way the world looks at terminally ill patients with her book "On Death and Dying" and later as a pioneer for hospice care, has died. She was 78.

She died Tuesday of natural causes at her Scottsdale home, family members said.

Published in 1969, "On Death and Dying" focused on the needs of the dying and offered her theory that they go through five stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.

"Those who learned to know death, rather than to fear and fight it, become our teachers about life," she once wrote. In another passage, she wrote: "Dying is nothing to fear. It can be the most wonderful experience of your life. It all depends on how you have lived."

Kubler-Ross wrote 12 books after "On Death and Dying," including how to deal with the death of a child and an early study on the AIDS epidemic.

"She brought the taboo notion of death and dying into the public consciousness," said Stephen Connor, vice president of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization.

In 1979, she received the Ladies' Home Journal Woman of the Decade Award. In 1999, Time magazine named Kubler-Ross as one of the "100 Most Important Thinkers" of the past century.

Born in Zurich, Switzerland, Kubler-Ross graduated from medical school at the University of Zurich in 1957. She came to New York the following year and was appalled by hospital treatment of dying patients.

"Whoever has seen the horrifying appearance of the postwar European concentration camps would be similarly preoccupied," she said.

She began her work with the terminally ill at the University of Colorado Medical Center in Denver, and was a clinical professor of behavioral medicine and psychiatry at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville.

Kubler-Ross began giving lectures featuring terminally ill patients, who talked about what they were going through. That led to her 1969 book.

"Dying becomes lonely and impersonal because the patient is often taken out of his familiar environment and rushed to an emergency room," she wrote.

"He may cry for rest, peace and dignity, but he will get infusions, transfusions, a heart machine, or tracheostomy. ... He will get a dozen people around the clock, all busily preoccupied with his heart rate, pulse, electrocardiogram or pulmonary functions, his secretions or excretions - but not with him as a human being."

The most important thing Kubler-Ross did was bring death out of the dark for the medical community, said Carol Baldwin, a research associate professor of medicine at the University of Arizona and who worked as a nurse in one of the nation's first hospices in 1979.

"She really set the standards for how to communicate with the dying and their loved ones," Baldwin said recently. "Families learned that it's not a scary thing to watch someone die."

Kubler-Ross is survived her two children, Kenneth Ross and Barbara Lee Ross, and two granddaughters.

In a 2003 Associated Press interview, her son said that his mother, in her final months, was reaping the benefits of the movement she helped start, finding comfort in the constant companionship and dependable care of a group home.

"We get letters and e-mails from around the world," he said. "There's people who say, 'I was going to kill myself' because they've lost children or their husband or wife, and they read her book and it gave them a sense that they should go on."

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Carol Martin

July 11, 2023

"Love is the immortal essence that allows to live forever for love is the arms of God.
It is the thing that holds us into Eternity.
It never dies! It never dies!
It only becomes richer, deeper, and freer.
To be utterly God, you must utterly love, and be loved in return."
Ramtha

Baigal Team Ulambayar

April 16, 2018

Thanks for making us easier to understand the meaning of our life. I will spread your words to my classmates as much as i can.
Respect from UFE-X1795

amadeo amadeo

April 21, 2016

Acabo de leer su libro la muerte un amanecer y muy interesante, gracias.

Helen Carr Baldwin, RN

September 25, 2015

In 1974 or 1975, I attended a workshop in Natick, Massachusetts led by Dr. Kubler-Ross. What an experience! She was a wonderful person who helped shape my life! Thank you, Dr. Elisabeth.

Harry Simpson

August 24, 2015

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

dr sid apps

April 1, 2015

...godspeed dr ross...godspeed.....

Jerry Nesbit

January 5, 2015

Elisabeth changed my life for ever when I attended workshop in Portland Maine. I just wish I was able to realize then what I do now. The farm in Headwaters was a real turning point.

Julie Szuminski

November 6, 2014

I had the pleasure of hearing Dr. Ross in Chicago, Illinois when I was in Nursing School around 1974. She sounded like an angel and I was profoundly moved by her message of Hope and Love. Her books have helped me throughout my life in dealing with the death and the Joy of what comes next! Dr. Ross is now an Angel with her God! <

Dan D

September 4, 2014

I had never dealt with personal loss before my twins murder at the WTC on 9/11.
I found my self as the sole care taker of my mother who had Hep C and my elderly dad at 97.
After they passed I found comfort as a volunteer at Calvary Hospital in the Bronx.
I would try to relate my experiences to grieving families but would not tell them about my experience other than to say that there is a very large body of work concerning palliative care and the grieving process. This fact is unknown to most people.
One day 2 years ago the hospital was abuzz about a lecture being given. Professionals from all over came to the lecture. I stood in the back of a packed room and listened to Elisabeth Kubler Ross talking about her work.
I was fascinated with her.
When I saw her OB here I had to share this story.
While on my own journey of of tragedy and grief her life work was a beacon.
Thank you Calvary. Thank you Elisabeth Kubler Ross.

Robin Asken

August 31, 2014

Namaste

dianne gray

August 26, 2014

Thank you for your messages on Elisabeth, her teachings and her relevance in your life. It warms the hearts of her family and those of us at the Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation to read your posts. Blessings, Dianne Gray/EKR Foundation

August 24, 2014

Today it´s Elizabeth küebler-Ross´s tenth anniversary since she passed away, but her essence remains quite alive, in spite of te fact that we can not have her physical presence anymore. I was always afraid of death and I could not talk openly about our end, but thanks to Elizabeth´s books I have managed to overcome this terror and Im able to express my views on the topic, which means a great achivement for me. After reading her self-biography,"The wheel of life", I could get to know her and understand that we will all have to face many losses during our entire life, and of course, ours...
I will always thank Elizabeth for her wise words and teachings.

Marcia Jackson

June 12, 2014

I think Elisabeth has done a wonderful job sharing life and death. In reading the book I felt the same way about how we try to keep people here longer in hospitals. When my time comes I hope I am allowed to die in my home peacefully.

Karl Schindler

May 16, 2014

Through Elisabeth's writings, especially "The Tunnel and The Light", my spirituality has grown and guides me when I sit with a dying patient, as well as when I read "The Dougy Letter" to my nursing school class this past April. When our actions and words come from a position of unconditional love, hearts are opened and lives are forever changed. Thank You Elisabeth!

Chris Cutler

May 7, 2014

As i support people living cancer I think of Elizbeth Compassion and how she saw
each person.Thank s

May 6, 2014

Thank you so much for your kind message... So glad you found her work! Blessings,

Nitza Cunning

May 4, 2014

I have never heard of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross but as of today I will. I am going to buy her book on death and dying and once I am finish will give it to my son who is in nursing school. I would of love to gone to one of her lectures, she is someone who makes the world a better place even if she is no longer here her spirit is now with me as I learn from her. Thank you Elisabeth Kubler-Ross today is a much better day because of you.

January 20, 2014

Thank you for your kindness, all. The Foundation does what it can to further Elisabeth's messages. We so appreciate what you have written here... Blessings, The Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation

Vicki Rueda

January 19, 2014

Several years ago I was honored to meet Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, receiving guidance in how to function as a nurse when dealing with death and dying. It was this guidance that assisted me and my family through a tragic experience. I want to thank the foundation for it's continued support of those experiencing grief, death and dying. Elisabeth seemed to offer question... make us think and recognize....thank you.

January 11, 2014

Hi,
I will be eternally grateful for the sacrifices and the compassion that Ms. Kubler-Ross made on behalf of those who were dying. I am a Registered Nurse and first became acqainted with Dr. Kubler-Ross when her book,Death and Dying was required for one of my classes. The knowledge I have gained from her books, I use daily in the care of my patients.

Trudi, Dunn BSN MSN RN

Josefina lorenzo

December 30, 2013

This amazing human being changed my life forever. I did not know she has passed away... I am sad but she is the perfect example of how to handle this event,for which I am deeply grateful! God Bless Elisabeth!

han côme

November 25, 2013

I like your website and look forward to see the movie 'After the end'. We make in Belgium also a movie (who become very popular :'The Broken Circle Breakdown':it's about parents who lost a child. Next year Elisabeth Kübler-Ross is 10 year death. I hope many organizations do something for that , to remember .

M. IVANIA RAMIREZ

November 1, 2013

Thank you Doctora.
Your legacy is a international treasure.
I live in Mexico and I was born in Nicaragua, Central America.
I'm an Integrative Pshycologist, and now I'm studying "Manejo del Duelo" (How to handle Grief, etc.) And of course my first contact and learning, as many people in the world, of my own grief experience when I lost my husband -four years a go - was Dra. Kubler-Ross.

caroline scattergood

August 31, 2013

COURAGE ,,,,,, WISDOM ,,,, COMPASSION ,,AND SUCH LOVE ,, AND FUN ,,,,, I am so glad her voice was heard , love Carolinex

Melissa Miller

August 31, 2013

Forever grateful for your work On Death and Dying. You helped me understand, and brought me through my Step Father passing on. With your knowledge, I was at peace. Thank You.

June 18, 2013

Dear Dianne

Thank you very much for your kind reply. Do contact me if anything occurs to you
Best wishes
Gerald

June 13, 2013

For a very long time I have felt that Elisabeth's organisation and her work are grossly understated in Great Britain. It is my intention to rectify this. If you have any thoughts/ideas about how this may be brought about. Obviously I have my own ideas but others input would be invaluable. One thing I have thought about is a chatline ot helpline to which people could turn in time of trouble. Please do not understand the importance of your contribution. Kind Wishes
Gerald

Sister Ann Catherine Veierstahler

March 11, 2013

19 years ago on my 50th birthday I was diagnosed with stomach cancer. I faced death in a very real way. Once I accepted and surrendered to my creator, I found peace. I am expremely grateful for the mission of service and inspiration of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. Thank you.
Sister Ann Catherine Veierstahler
Sister of Charity of St. Joan Antida
www.desktopangel.com/diary

Àngels Blanch

February 16, 2013

Ha estat una sort per mi, llegir el llibre "la rueda de la vida" i conèixer l'excepcional vida i obra de l'Elisabeth.Gràcies pels que seguiu el seu camí d'amor i entrega!.

Àngels Blanch

February 16, 2013

Ahir vaig acabar el llibre "La rueda de la vida". Va ser un ser tan excepcional com la seva seva entrega humanitària. Gràcies a tots els que seguiu el seu camí d'amor!!

Char

December 14, 2012

12/14/12 today I was honored to read "On Life After Death". Disapointed to discover author has moved on - I am moving to Scotsdale area from WA state soon - hoped to meet Elisabeth - I also care for Hospice patients through end of life.

Victoria Davis

November 23, 2012

Thank God for Ms. Elizabeth, it is because of all her great work, grief therapy and one of her books on death and dying that I made it through the death of my mother in 2007. I can hear her saying the pain will hurt but over time it won't hurt as much. My love for Ms. Kubler-Ross is never ending. Thank you so much.

Rebekah Queen

November 14, 2012

I felt her peace, I felt her speak to my soul, I have her peace now, I can feel Selena with me.

J-M

October 12, 2012

An amazing woman with an amazing message that will keep her memory alive. Thank you to all who continue her work.

carsten Johansson

December 13, 2010

Many thanks Elisabeth for your work!
You touched my heart!
Hug

Ragnar Schamall

December 7, 2010

I'm amazed with the words of Dr. Elizabeth, that was presented to me through my psychologist, in an attempt to calm some of my temors about death and dying. Well, destiny gave me this book (The Whell of life) in the perfect moment and, though the primary objective was understand death, I ended the reading with a lot more lessions learned. Her words and principles are very similar to the principles of budism. But her acts are much more stronger, because touch directely the heart, the body, and, most important, the soul of all people of all religions.
Sometimes, God give gifts to the humanity. Dr. Elizabeth are one of these, for sure.

Honora Carlin

November 10, 2010

Elisabeth gave death the name is should have. And the honor it should have in all our lives. She was a dear friend to me, my mother and my family. So much so I named my daughter after her.
Elisabeth called my mother "amazing grace" I am so happy that she was apart of my life. I hope that she is enjoying the peace that she deserves. And that Mannie, is close by!

Love (sister rosemary,)

John

October 28, 2010

Became aquainted with Ross' work in the early '70s. Appreciate it even more today in the 21st Century. A belated Thank You for the research that has again comforted me and mine.

Nancy Vail

October 25, 2010

I just want to thank Elisabeth Kubler-Ross for all her work, she taught us how to live through her work on death. An incredible woman.

Vicky Papa

October 23, 2010

Elisabeth's theory on the 5 stages of grief has been critised. However, what I can tell you from my personal experience BEFORE even hearing of her theories, is that she was bang on. The only difference is that in my case the "bargaining" stage also involved guilt, ie. "I would have sacrificed this or that if he had lived a bit longer " + "what if I could have prevented the death and helped him live longer". Her theories offer a great insight into grief and help us understand it and cope better.

Susana Rodriguez Porto

October 1, 2010

I just want to say that reading¨"The wheel of life" has been the turning point in my life: I was cut half in two as a person, completely broken down and not only it helped me dealing with the stuff but it also gave a new perspective to my life. I will always remember the instant and the place where i began to read the book. My life has been completely different ever since. Thank tou. I will always have you in my heart and soul. With all my love, Susana. Santiago de C. Spain.

Cherie Coppins

September 27, 2010

I just wish to acknowledge how much Elizabeth's work has meant to me over 40 years of nursing and in my private life. When I first read her work it was like a life raft helping me to stay afloat in a sea of dying patients. I just knew she was so right and her guidance has help me to provide compassionate care to many. It has also helped me to ride the waves of grief associated with the loss of family and friends. Thankyou to all who keep Elizabeth's work current and fresh and readily avialble to all.

Chris Cutler

September 27, 2010

Elizabeth has been a guiding example to me in my Life for many years.Her compassion and love ever present in her work with those many who have been blessed to know of her work with thoses who have been living with a life threating illness.Thanks for being a light to thoses of us who have embraced others who where going through this journey called life and who have been honored to be present in the loving final moments.Love and blessings to All who have been there with a Loved One. Blessing's, Love and Light. Chris

Claudia Preziosi

September 25, 2010

I have really enjoined the books Elisabeth wrote. They really helped at the loss of my late husband Tom. It still was hard to accept that he was going home already at 63. I found living without even more difficult. It was hard to move on with my life, as I had promised him I would do.

Lida Hesabi

September 22, 2010

I recently learned about Elizabeth Kubler and checked out a few books of her. she is remarkable in explaining the life after death and how not to be afraid of it. She beautifully illustrated the love between families and how we need to come to term of terminally ill people and relatives and how we can comfort them. I wish I knew her earlier so I could write to her in admiration.

I highly recommend her books to all.

Regards,

Lida Hesabi

M Angel

September 13, 2010

I first read On Death and Dying when I was in college in 1970. It was interesting to me then but much more meaningful to me now as I approach the end of my life. Thank you, Elisabeth.

Marlene Cook

August 31, 2010

I recently lost my son, my beloved only son Michael, and it has been so difficult. I cannot even find the words to say - how much comfort I have found in reading only two of Elisabeth's books. I intend to read them all! I am so grateful that God gave her to us... we really needed Elisabeth Kubler-Ross.

Ellen Doody

August 23, 2010

I will never forget the three days I spent sharing with Elizabeth in the 1980's. She was such a "spit-fire" personality and at the same time, when you spoke with her one-on-one, you knew you had her intire attention and she became very still and calm. She gave me the strength and courage to fully live my life despite being given two life threatening illnesses to face. As part of her legacy I have tried to pay all she taught me forward. Thank you to her children for sharing their Mother with the world at a time when I am sure they would have liked to have her at home with them. There will never be a way to fully measure how she improved the lives of milliions-what a gift she was.

August 23, 2010

per il mio manuel...

Elisa Martin

August 22, 2010

Elisabeth's quotes comfort me and sustain me through my own grief.

I want to thank all the people who have continued her work.

Jesse White

August 19, 2010

Thank you all who continue Elizabeth's work. Even in the face of eventual death, we are all heroes, bettering the world.

cindy maxion

August 16, 2010

Thank you for your wonderful writings on death and dying.

Cindy Maxion

Alexeie Vaugier

July 31, 2010

Hace 6 años ya perdí a mi tía, ella era casi mi madre, cuido de mi désde que era recien nacida, ela me recibió del hospital, cambio mis pañales, cuido enfermedades,me abrigo del frio,me recibia de la escuela, y aun estando cansada me leia un cuento. La amo y la amé demasiado, y aún no puedo superar su muerte tan repentina.
Ojalá hubiese leído antes los libros de la Dra. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, sé que me ayudarian....
Los médico no sólo especialistas en general deberían tener conocimientos tantologicos dentro de los cuidado paleativos, sería de mucha ayuda para las personas cercanas a morir.

Sé comprendiendo todo éste legado, me ayudará a superar mi situación

Gracias por sus libros y por ayudarnos a entender la muerte no como algo doloroso y temible, sinó como una espera de algo mejor para nuestra alma.

Luis Gonzalez

July 24, 2010

Luis Nicanor Gonzalez Salazar
Lawyer
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Dear Sirs:

Just to confirm what millions of peoples have stated during centuries. When you die you became free of your body, there is no force of gravity that attaches you to earth and , suddenly, you feel that something pulls you back to earth and you ask to Heaven: Why did you return me back?

Sincerely yours,

Luis Nicanor Gonzalez

July 20, 2010

Having recently lost my Mother three months ago I am again turning to your writings. Today I will begin reading "On Grief and Grieving". I first read "On Death and Dying" as a teenager. Your words will be an eternal inspiration, you have left us and future generations an invaluable gift through your compassion and insight. Thank you.

Romina Strigencz

July 16, 2010

I have just lost my beloved mother because of a pancreatic cancer. I need some relief and I am currently reading "la rueda de la vida" in Spanish since it's the only version I could get in Argentina but I will do my best to get part of her legacy in English.
thank you, Elisabeth, for your positive messages towards a controversial and taboo topic such as death". sincerely yours, romina

Tom Zychowski

July 8, 2010

All the best on your new destination.

Gladys Jaramillo

June 22, 2010

Hola, hoy es el 22 de junio de 2010, estoy leyendo "La Rueda de la Vida", y quiero decirle a Elisabeth que admiro su valentía para hacer siempre lo que consideró correcto y así ayudar mucha gente en su transición a la Vida Eterna, yo sé que ahora ella está en el Shanti Nilaya... besos Elisabeth

Nadine Guilbert

May 14, 2010

Quelle femme cette Elisabeth ! Quelle grande humaniste ! Malgré un milieu fermé et rigide elle a tout de même continué son travail anti-conformiste en écoutant son coeur et son gros bons sens.. En aimant réellement les personnes qu'elle a côtoyée et accompagnée. Je découvre sa vie à travers les livres et son parcours résonne beaucoup en moi et m'inspire à suivre ma propre voie avec sérénité et confiance. J'ai eu le privilège de côtoyer des personnes en détresse, mourantes, ayant de gros problèmes de santé mentale et bien d'autres et j'ai fait l'expérience aussi que le contact humain, l'amour, l'écoute et la compassion dépassent tout et représentent l'essentiel dans la vie. Merci Élisabeth où que tu sois.. xxx

Evelyn

January 24, 2009

To the Family: Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I have often found comfort from reflecting on what is written at John 5:28,29. I sincerely hope this thought will bring a measure of comfort and hope to your family

Silvia Fernandez

August 19, 2008

"If we make our goal to live a life of compassion and unconditional love, then the world will indeed become a garden where all kinds of flowers can bloom and grow." (By Elizabeth Kubler Ross)



I became aware of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in a reading class in college through my professor Linda Albert who not only spoke about Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's legacy but also encouraged me to read Ms. Kubler-Ross's such ispiring books. Books that gave me a better understanding and acceptance of death. I simply want to say: Thanks Dr. Kubler-Ross for the generous legacy of useful recomendations and emmotional support.

Heather Ramaha

May 3, 2008

Recently I listened to Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's book on tape, "On Life After Death". She has given me the greatest gift, peace and knowledge that there is life beyond this one. I wanted to thank her for the love she showed others and for the answers to the many questions I pondered with everyday. I only wish I could have meet this wonderful woman.

Carolyn Lopez

March 22, 2008

i met her in 1971 when I was 23. She was to give a talk and i was in charge of decorating a huge room where she was to speak. She touched my heart then with her hopefilled words to face death. Being in the elevator to take her to the Ladies room was a "treat" and HONOR. Gracias, Elisabeth.

Steve Eklund

February 26, 2008

As my father was dying in 1987, I became aware of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross through my psychologist. "On Death and Dying" was a remarkable resource for me. Just recently, I became familiar with "On Grief and Grieving" and gave her excellent and final book to a good friend who is now a widow. I simply want to say: "Thanks so very much for the legacy of inspirational guidance and emotional support which Ms. Kubler-Ross continues to provide to us who have had the good fortune to become most acquianted with her invaluable works."

Lorraine Lefebvre

October 2, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

SUSAN FLANIGAN

September 27, 2007

In 1993 as a returning student in my late 30's, I used as references for a term paper on adult child grief for a parent, several of Ms. Kubler-Ross' writings on the subject of death and dying, and they proved invaluable. What began as a homework project evolved into a final healing process after the death of my mother 2 years previous.
Today, on a random internet search, I discovered, to my dismay, the death of this wonderful and insightful woman.
To her family I extend my deepest sympathy for their loss; for this is indeed a great loss for humanity.

Valencia Davis LPT

September 3, 2007

I thank you so much for providing the tools I needed to comfort those at the untimely death of a dear friend. Your written words are Gods blessings for so many of us who work in the health care profession.My friend was given that beautiful dignity in her final days. May God bless you.

Diana James

November 2, 2006

To Barbara and Kenneth,
I read you mother's book On Death and Dying when I was assigned to my first ward as a maternity nurse. Invaluable and life-changing, it became a resource book to use over and over both at work, and personally with my own family. Undoubtedly, your mother's grasp of unconditional love lives on. It is what I now know as eternal life. To my knowledge there are no other books or other authors with something to say so profoundly on what remains a taboo subject for mostly good reason. Dwelling on death is unhealthy in the main, but some are called to be there and when you are, it is unimaginable without faith, which is creative even in death. I am writing this in 2006 after happening upon The Wheel of Life. It made sense, following experiences at a formative age,and her words hold even more meaning. In this respect it put me mind of C.S.Lewis. The real momentum of internet communication came after Elisabeth's peak years of activity and I was delighted to see this forum of tribute to an extraordinary mother. To be the children of exceptional persons is a kind of responsibility in itself. Best wishes for the future. Blessings to you both.

Maile Rose

October 3, 2006

Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross must have been one of the bravest and most dedicated persons the Earth has known. Her later work on life after death is immeasurably valuable, and her sacrifices in this regard will not be forgotten. Aloha, Maile Rose

trina beckley

July 23, 2005

As a nurse, your book was read and followed many times. Your adviced helped others take their time and know they had permission to grieve.

You are sorely missed.

latonya turner

March 14, 2005

you have inspired me



i want to say thanks



love you

June Bourgeois

November 22, 2004

I am reading your Mother's last book "Life Lessons" and I know she is still teaching us how to live. I hope you will "be well" in knowing this.



Many blessings,

June Bourgeois

Ellie Fristensky

October 20, 2004

To Elizabeth's Family

I had to pleasure of knowing your Mother and she visited me several times in my home on Long Island.She adored the pictures I had on the walls in my den, especially those of Switzerland. We also shared a great friend in Elwood Babbitt.

I last luncheoned with Elizabeth in Manhattan at the Whole Life Expo. She was a great lady, certainly in the medical profession, but her love for people and willingness to serve anyone who was in need, will make her memory everlasting. Heaven will be a better place with her there..Blessings, Ellie

Laura San Nicolás

October 3, 2004

Me fué de gran ayuda cuando murió mi padre y de nuevo ahora que ha fallecido mi madre.



Sus libros hacen que mi dolor sea más leve.



Gracias.

bernadette slocum

October 2, 2004

To the Family of Elisabeth Kubler Ross,



May God bless your family and be proud of the work done by your Mother to help us deal with the death of love ones.



My sister died last month and her words were a great source of comfort to me in my sadness and loss. I have shared her ideas with many over the years because I believe her work has opened communication between families as they work through the impending and actual death of love ones. As a Registered Nurse I have helped many deal with issues but my sister's death helped me become a better human being. I was able to support my sister during the many phases and actually spoke with her prior to her death about Acceptance. She made peace with those close to her and looked forward to being with God.



God Bless you.

Bernadette Slocum

Rodrigo Fernández Rebolledo

September 29, 2004

Se ha ido una mujer maravillosa que nos enseñó, a los que trabajamos en Cuidados Paliativos, a abordar al paciente terminal desde una óptica humanizada. Su recuerdo y enseñanzas estarán siempre presentes.

Josie Clarke

September 28, 2004

Hi, I am forever grateful to this awe-inspiring woman who changed my life and attitute to life as she did with thousands of others. I only wish i could have met her but now i know we shall meet in a far greater place than this some day. once again, Your grreatest Irish Fan, Josie.x

Mary Anne Macartney

September 27, 2004

Dr. Ross,

Thank you for your dedicated work and love for your fellow man. I learned from you how not to fear death. When my father died in 1983, you helped me accept that I had to let him go. I am eternally grateful. Rest in peace.

Joanna Strickland-McDonald

September 27, 2004

In 1972 Adair Joiner and I represented the Medical Center in Macon, GA at a Seminar in New York. One of the speakers was Dr.Ross. This was at a time when the subject was taboo in the medical field. I bought her book "On Death and Dying." My experience provided a shoulder to lean on during many years in the ER which included the death of my parents and the death of my friend Adair. I and many other nurses will try to continue her work. May she walk with God and find peace.

Michael Hainey

September 26, 2004

Sadness. Tears.

All to wiped away.

Making the way

to a beautiful day.

Revelation 21:3,4

Jean Levtzow

September 26, 2004

Dear family members, my sympathy goes out to all of you.



I had the privelege of hearing Elisabeth speak in the mid 1970's at Northern State University in Aberdeen, South Dakota and have some of her books. She made a great contribution in helping us understand the grief process and life after death.



Bless you,



Jean Levtzow, South Dakota

Jenny W

September 15, 2004

How blessed we were to have Elisabeth among us and to share of her knowledge and wisdom. Thank you and enjoy your new found freedoms dear butterfly!

Vikki

September 15, 2004

I was saddened to read that Ms. Ross had passed on. Saddened for those of us, left behind. Ms. Ross never knew how instrumental she was in my learning to cope with the deaths of those I have loved. I know that she is singing with the angels.

Mary Houden

September 15, 2004

To the Family of Elisabeth, I extent my great joy in the celebration of your mother's life and extend my sympathy in your loss. As a young RN, I was a U of Chicago Clinics when her research started there on death and dying. I was shocked at the resistence she met. Since that time I have made it a point to recognize the importance of the dying process and the people involved. Elisabeth's contribution of all of us and also to me personally and professionally knows no bounds. I thank her for all she has contributed to our knowledge of the dying process. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Linda Yost

September 14, 2004

Like so many of your guests on this site, I experienced a terrible tragedy when my youngest child and only son, John, died while scuba-diving in Gloucester, Massachusetts in July, 1996. He was only 27 years of age.



Needless to say, our family was devastated - how do you go forward after something like this happens? Fortunately, we had a strong faith, and I was also blessed to be introduced to Dr. Kubler-Ross' books which I had been given to me as a gift. I absorbed them like a sponge - both her wisdom and her humor. I have since shared them and recommended them to so many others. Because I do hospice work, it gives me much pleasure to share them with families of those who are near death.



God Bless you, Elizabeth - you will forever be in my prayers and in my thoughts.

Madonna L.

September 13, 2004

My mother died young and unexpectedly in late 1973 when I was 21 years old. That summer I had been part of a para-professional counselor/study group that had read and discussed your Mother's book "On Death and Dying". I was so fortunate in having read this book only weeks befor my own mother died!



Your mother's wisdom provided me with an intellectual understanding of what I and family members were experiencing, it prepared me to make difficult decisions, and it gave me a base of understanding that has taught me how to better offer support to others who have needed to deal with the process of death.



I have always thought that your Mother's books should be recommended reading for high school students to help prepare them for their future and in dealing with their own life and death experiences.



Thank you for sharing your mother with the world for all of these years!

Linda Emmerich

September 13, 2004

I will always be so thankful for the wonderful books written by Dr. Ross. Her books have helped me through my late father's illness and continue to give me comfort now in my grieving after his recent death in July. She really helped me better understand life after death.

Laura Fajardo

September 9, 2004

Para la familia de la Sra. Kubler Ross:

Con lagrimas y emoción, leí la noticia del fallecimiento de la Dra.E Kubler Ross.

Privilegiados aquellos que la conocieron. Su fuerza, su dulzura, su don de gente plasmados en sus libros,son legados que deja para aquellos que no la conocimos personalmente. Sus consejos y experiencia serán siempre apoyo y guia para muchos.

William M. Crotty, RN

September 9, 2004

What a loss to the entire world. Her great mind and wonderful ensights will be sadly missed.

Nan Kenton

September 8, 2004

Dr. Kubler-Ross trained many people in her lifetime on dealing with the dying. One of her students was Sister Teresa Marie McIntier, CSJ, RN, MS in Phoenix. Sister Teresa passed on that education to me, and together and separately we have trained hundreds of others. Dr. Kubler-Ross will never die in our hearts and teaching, and through her courage and love, we will never fear death.

dora serans

September 3, 2004

Elizabeth will always be a light in our road in life, and I thank to God for this, all my love to her family and friends

Dora Serans M.D.

Dodie Shields

September 3, 2004

Many years ago (late 60's) your mom spoke before our Nurses Club, I remember my friend picked her up at the airport just in time to deliver her speech & commented on what a down to earth person she was. Unfortunately I missed the lecture, but have not been without her book On Death and Dying. She has helped so many people over so many years...May she now rest in peace..

Lynn Larson

September 3, 2004

To the family of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

Your mother and her teachings has meant so much in my life. I have listened to her audio tapes for over 25 years and still marvel at her wisdom and compassion. It was my honor to have known her.

LaiOni Ackies

September 2, 2004

A real pioneer in the field of medicine. I really appreciate what she has done for the terminally ill. I lost a friend yesterday who was in a hospice center. She was able to rest in peace. May the family find comfort like I did to know that the Most High God will remember those who have fallen asleep. John 5:28,29.



Sincerely,

Teresa Mahan

September 1, 2004

I learned much from this woman as did anyone who ever entered the healing professions. Her compassionate words will forever be part of conversation in this world. May she rest in peace, always.

Alexandra Leon

September 1, 2004

I learned of your mother in a understanding death and dying class in college. She inspired me to deal with my own impending death and to help prepare thoes around me. I had been given a diagnosis from my Dr. and it cut down my life expectancy and I was crushed till my college professor encouraged me to read this book. Our class spoke extensivly about her and her book and how it has paved the way for hospice care. I was sorry to hear of her passing. I only wish I had, had the opportunity to tell her in person how much she has helped me. I am sure she knows :)....May you find comfort in all the lives she has touch, I can only hope to have such a legacy. I pray you find peace.





Alexandra Leon

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