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Michael Felsberg Obituary
Just outside were the athletic fields where Felsberg ran cross-country for four years as a student at Florida International University.
The Marine lieutenant was killed Oct. 13 in combat in Iraq. He was 27.
The FIU memorial service was delayed more than an hour by lightning and heavy rain as Felsberg's family made its way from Boynton Beach.
Marine Capt. James Lenard wept as he recalled swearing Felsberg into the Marines in the same fieldhouse. Four more impeccably uniformed Marines stood at attention behind the podium.
"You read this thing over and over and you still can't get through it," said Lenard, describing how Felsberg died.
Stopping often to get control of his voice, Lenard recounted how Felsberg mustered and protected his men under heavy fire during an ambush until he was killed by an explosive.
"Semper Fidelis, Michael," Lenard said. "I'll see you soon guarding the gates of heaven."
FIU Athletic Director Rick Mello announced that an athletic spirit award would bear Felsberg's name.
"What a special young man," Mello said. "I will miss him."
Joe Mazzeo met Felsberg 10 years ago at John I. Leonard High School, where both were cross-country runners.
"It's amazing how one person can bring so many people together," said Mazzeo, who also was Felsberg's teammate at FIU.
"We're all here today because of Mike's sacrifice for our freedom," Mazzeo said through tears. "He was a great friend and teammate, a Marine and a hero."
Felsberg graduated from FIU in 2003 with a 3.94 grade-point average, the highest for a senior athlete. As a Marine, he was awarded the Bronze Star, the Purple Heart and other honors.
Visitation will be from 1 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 7 p.m. today, followed by a funeral service at Boynton Memorial Chapel, 800 W. Boynton Beach Blvd., Boynton Beach. Burial is scheduled for 2 p.m. Friday at Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell.
Donations may be made to the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society, 4015 Wilson Blvd., 10th Floor, Arlington, Va., 22203.
Memories and Condolences
for Michael Felsberg
229 Entries
Gabriel Rodriguez
May 29, 2017
Happy Memorial Day, Fels. Thanks again for your service. Not a day goes by buddy. - Gaby
May 9, 2015
Cousin Michael---sorry I never got to know you--thank you for keeping us safe---hope we are worth the price---Cousin Mandane
Shirley Mims
April 15, 2015
We will never forget your services to protect us
Sharon Butler
May 23, 2012
God keep all of our men and women safe who keep us safe. Thank you for your selfless act.
Anna Gilliam
January 12, 2010
God Bless all our men and women defending our freedom.
Tere Cruz Cardentey
July 11, 2009
Happy Birthday Mike... hope it was a great one! You will always be remembered. We will continue to pray for you and all the wonderful men like you who paid the price for our "freedom"
Guy Jordan
July 2, 2009
Mike, never had the pleasure of meeting you. I know your Uncle Steve, a good man. I served in the Brown Water Navy during the Vietnam War. Just wanted to thank you and your family for your service to our country.
Bryan Sargent
May 26, 2009
Mike, it has been a couple years since I have entered something in here, but know that who you are and your passion for doing things the right way has helped me through several deployments. even now, in Afghanistan, I still use things that you gave to me in one way or another to help our Marines out here. You are not to far from us and will always be a part of us!
John Greer
May 25, 2009
Just thinking of you this Memorial day. Just reminiscing of the fun times we had playing baseball, high school, and cross country.
Dalia clarke
October 28, 2008
Fels!!!! Your pressence lingers on like no other! It's truly incredible how 1 person can make such an impact on the lives of others. You are sorely missed and I thank you still for being in the back of my mind from time to time. Tangent: Just this past weekend I was telling a friend of mine how punctual you were and how you left me one day at the apts. before practice. I must have been 5 minutes late and low and behold, you were gone! I remembered I laughed when it happened and shook my head saying, "man, he sure wasn't playing around". That day stays with me like a scar and I promise you, no matter where I'm going or whom I'm with, I have to make sure that I get there on time. Thank you Fels for that memory...amongst many others! I love you always!
Gabriel Rodriguez
October 27, 2008
Checking in, Mike. There is a great new video by Metallica that brought me to my knees trying to understand the stress you were under in Iraq. We will never truly know. Wish you were still here. 3 x 3200m. 10:46.
Mario Arroyave
October 13, 2008
It took a while but my passion for XC finally got the best of me and I am currently "assisting" with the team at the school I work at. I cannot tell you how many times I have wished that I had 5 Felsberg's toe'ing the line for me on Saturdays. Would we win every meet? Maybe not. But I'll tell you what brother, I'd sure as heck know that my boys gave it their all. It's been 4 years now...and let's make this a positive one..if anything i can look at it this way, I am one year closer to seeing you in heaven! It is an honor every time I get to pledge allegiance to our flag you helped protect! Love you bro.
Robbie Infante
May 27, 2008
In Munich and still thinking of you. There is nothing that I can write to express my appreciation. I love you Fels, you are stilll my inspiration.
Robbie
Charles Felsberg
May 24, 2008
Hey Cousin -
Wanted to say hi and thinking of you. Wishing you a wonderful Memorial Day. Love!
Anne Infante-Lackey
May 16, 2008
Mike,
I has been a bout a year since I have visited this page. I am so amazed but not really at how many still come here to leave you their hearts in words. you were such an amazing person that it really is not a surprise that you took a place in SO many hearts. including mine. You cross my mind often my friends. take care of your family and friends that are up there with you.
Love always.
-Anne
Dalia Clarke
March 19, 2008
I love and miss you Fels. You will forever be in my heart...
Joe Huston
March 18, 2008
Fels:
This is the first time that I have written you and still find it to be a very difficult thing to do. Its as if a part of life was put on pause in October 2004.
You are a constant source of inspiration to me and a guidepost for many of my actions. I try to reflect upon the values that you believed in and honor the many ideas and qualities that you enbody.
Your influence on all of us is a testament to your greatness; my life is forever changed for the better for having shared in yours.
My love for you is unending brother!
Alex Shaw
February 13, 2008
Fels,
In this St. Valentines Day Mary and I were thinking on how much you mean to everyones heart. You have truely touched everyone hear in one way or another.
Thank you for pulling me through the last 4 miles of my marathon. I remember thinking about you with the little energy I had left, and like always you helped me accomplish something that I never thought would be possible. Your the BEST! We Love You Man! Happy St. Valentines Day..
Mario Arroyave
February 11, 2008
I'm sitting at my desk preparing a lesson for the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, which is an organization that I am in charge of here at school. The lesson deals with obedience and the many intricacies of what it takes to truly be obedient to a cause...in this case Christ. Many people think obedience is simply making a sacrifice, but there is such thing as an empty sacrifice done just to appease someone. I will mention you tonight Fels, because you never seemed to make empty sacrifices. Up until your last days you were being obedient to a cause you believed in and your duty as a Marine surpassed even your own right to life. I'd love to have you around, but you wouldn't be able to live with that because that'd mean you weren't obedient on that battlefield on October 13th. I love you bro!
dalia clarke
November 8, 2007
In honor of Veteran’s Day, may we find a quiet moment to reflect on our many blessings – family, friends, freedom and liberty. Let us also remember those individuals who sacrificed everything for the peace and security we enjoy.To our armed forces veterans, my deepest appreciation for all that you have done to protect the freedom we enjoy every day.You are heroes to us all. I love you Fels.
Gabriel Rodriguez
October 31, 2007
Fels,
My family participated (in one way or another) in the Marine Corps Marathon this past weekend in D.C. in memory of you.
I do have one story to share: I was working the Expo with many Marines, a vicious 3-day ordeal of non-stop 12 hour days on my feet, and I guess by the third day I was seriously dragging @ss. As I descended a stairwell, a young Marine was carrying what was about a 40 lbs box atop his head, maneuvering his way on top of debris, when he saw me and exclaimed, "Stay motivated, Sir!"
Immediatly, I perked up and have been changed since. I realized fatigue is all but mental, that it is the mindset that prevails in the attitude of the day. I couldn't help but to have a smile on my face the rest of the day, repeating the line, "Stay motivated, Sir!" in my mind, knowing that it was you all along.
Thanks, buddy, and "stay motivated."
Tere Cruz
October 13, 2007
Hi Mike:
Three years later and my thoughts and prayers are still with you and your family. Another "Noche Buena" approaches and you will be missed just as much as you were missed the first one we spent without you. We pray for all our troops not only those in Iraq but all those throughout the world who make it possible for us to live the lives we lead because of their efforts and selfless sacrifices. It was such a pleasure to have known you. God continue to bless our troops and those families like yours who have paid the ultimate sacrifice. You are definitely in a better place but you are missed in this one.
Capt Thomas Dunaway USMC
July 26, 2007
God bless the Felsberg family. A greatful nation sleeps under the blanket of peace and freedom because of the efforts and sacrifices of patriots like 2ndLt Felsberg. Semper Fidelis.
Beth Gunter
July 10, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUZ!!!
Make it a good one....
Dalia Clarke
May 30, 2007
Fels!!!! 2 years and seven months have gone by yet your impact is still making an imprint on my life. This past memorial day, I prayed for my family, friends and their families, and self and thanked you for your selfless acts. I don't think many people realize how fortunate we were and are to have worthy, unselfish people as yourself and former and fellow bretherens to continue to protect the way we are able to live freely. I want to take the time and say "THANK YOU" again, for being you and always putting your priorities first...even if those priorities were our well-being. There is always a special place for you in my heart. I love you Fels.
Roslyn Barr
May 29, 2007
Dear Felsberg Family,
I never had the honor of knowing Michael. However, I was extremely touched when I read the obituary in 2004. It is evident that he always strived to be the best person one could become. He is so loved for eternity by everyone that his life touched.
Robbie Infante
May 28, 2007
Another Memorial Day goes by and I just want to thank you for everything you did for us. I miss you Fels, you will never be forgotten.
Adrienne McWilliams
March 2, 2007
Hey Mike...
I don't think a day goes by without me thinking about you. I think about the last time I saw you and how there was ashe in the air because of the brushfires that summer. I remember hugging you and giving you a kiss and telling you that you better come back to me because we had a Vegas trip to plan....I miss you terribly and I love you very much. I just want you to know that Courtney and I are keeping the beer and chili night alive in your honor and I actually started running some local races in your honor. I got my first little metal in December for a 5 mile race. I'm going to do a 10K in the spring. I know that's nothing compared to how much you can run, but I'm surprised I even did it. Who knows, I might actually try to train for a real run like a half marathon one day. We'll see...I'm going to need your help on that one though. I love you.
Jose "zorro" Castro
February 27, 2007
Fels:
In my four years at FIU this weekend I felt the Track & Field team was together and ready to embark in a Conference Championship, it all started on Friday when the team decided to wear the FIU spirit wristbands that reads In Memory of Michael Felsberg in the back, we all wore one... Coaches, Athletes even Trainers...not only that, I thank you for giving strength on Saturday..... I had been feeling very sick all week and right after giving you a little prayer while warming up I fell and banged my knee right before the DMR. I thought I wasn't gonna be able to run, but I realize they were little obstacles and I had to do it, For Me, my Teammates and most important FIU...you came into mind while running the mile leg of the DMR, and I realized it was the same track you earned your all-conference honors, I had two laps left when my knee started to give up and I couldn’t breath, North Texas and Little Rock were coming and all I can hear was my teammates supporting me “ Let’s go Jose, Let’s go”, I knew I had to do it for everybody, I gave it my all, and ended up splitting 4:22, 4:23 for it, Little Rock finished 2 seconds behind, I couldn’t believe it, it was a great feeling…. All-conference, now I know how you must of felt then….. Thank you for being part of it…..I’ll be at the Softball game this weekend ;)
Rebecca Rodriguez
January 13, 2007
Hey Fels,
My mind at times consumes itself with the silliest things in the most unexpected moments- as I drive down I-95, on my way to work, as I begin a lecture, when a particular song comes on the radio. It in these moments that I am filled with the oddest questions: What are you doing? Are you hanging out up there? Do you sleep? Can you eat pizza up there? Can you still eat as much as you used to? Does being on time still mean up there 15 minutes prior? Or is time suspended? And not knowing the answers to these trivial questions are what add to my sense of urgency. I hate not knowing. I guess that’s a problem you being up there and me being here. The reason I even began writing this is because of one of these moments just happened now as I was listen to the frays’ how to save a life. And I think about that: how do you save a life?… I wish you could tell me… I wonder if you know how many lives you saved not only on the battlefield, or within your troops, but just with the way you modeled the importance of commitment, the way you had a way of saying things how they should be, the way you calmed ones fears, or how you commanded a situation so smoothly when it was needed. Thank you for all the moments that you saved me and for the moments that you continue to: when I’m tired of working and coaching, when I can’t see the good in things, and when I’m flying and feel turbulence, and I close my eyes and ask you to calm my fears like you used to and then I feel your presence and breath in deeply holding on tightly waiting for you to save me... once again. I love you.
Robert Lax, 2LT USAFR
November 11, 2006
Happy Veteran's Day Fels - miss you and just wanted to say hi. Its been a while but as usual nothing new lately - just going through the motions. Have a great a day baby - remember if it wasn't for you and the many others we wouldn't have the opportunity to celebrate this day.
Always in my heart
Lax
dalia clarke
November 10, 2006
On this Veteran's Day I will remember my dearest friend, Fels. Thank you for defending your country to fullest and protecting us. You are missed immensely.
Love you always,
Dalia
Maj Rick Tremble USMC
October 18, 2006
I was at the Basic School last week; I stopped by to look at the wall that has Mike’s picture memorialized with others from the Basic School. It is painful to see that wall fill up. I served with Mike when he was a Corporal several years ago. I think of him often. More often than I thought I would. Mike is the example I use when I want to describe quiet confidence and leadership by example. He was a patient leader who guided his Marines like a big brother. He did not brag or talk about what he was going to do... He just did it. I am a better man and Marine for having worked with him for even a short time. I remain deeply saddened more people will not get a chance to experience Mike’s infectious spirit, but grateful to be one of the lucky few who did.
Charles Felsberg
October 14, 2006
Hey Cousin - It's hard to believe that it has been 2 years ago yesterday. I was talking to a co-worker in the office and as we started talking about you it slowly occured to me that it had been 2 years. As you know, Mom, Dad, Beth, I and friends honored your life yesterday at the Fairgrounds by raising the flag and playing the national anthem. It was an amazing experience to see people outside of the family who were friends of Dad's there and even strangers come up to us after the flag was raised. I was glad to have been able to make the ceremony, we all felt you there with us. Continue to watch over us all, especially Uncle Paul and Aunt Arlene. Love to you, Coz!
Robbie Infante
October 13, 2006
Hey Fels. I've tried to write in here a couple of times and have been interupted to go on calls. After about the third call, I was a bit frustrated and ready to take this frustration into the call with me, when almost purposely you popped into my head and I realized I have to "make this call a great one." Fels, your are a constant reminder and inspiration for so many people to strive for their best. Today, I just wanted to write a simple thank you. Thank you for everything you did, everything you were, and everything you stood for. I looked up to you before, I look up to you now, and I will look up to you forever. Thank you Fels for making your life a great one.
El Caballo
October 13, 2006
Fels, I am honored to be the first to write in your guestbook on the 13th. I will celebrate your life today...the way you lived it, and the way you live it through so many of us. Time for a Fels memory(I was thinking about this day on my ride yesterday and I almost had to pull over on the side of the road because I began laughing so hard). I remember the trip we took to South Florida to run in one of their rinky-dink meets. jessica didnt take us to the "fast peoples" meet but we wanted to show her we were fast enough to have gone. i forgot how fast, or slow, we ran that day, but thats usually how it goes because more than that we remember the times we were "jacking" around. robbie thompson went on the trip with us and he was driving the van. we ran, changed clothes and headed home. on the way back though, you kept on having to go to the bathroom. we pulled over like 3 times and every time robbie would say "mike, didnt you drive across the U.S. without stopping?" as always you said "no, i did it 3 times!" that, of course, always go us riled up and we started yelling because we would laugh at the pride you had at not stopping. robbie then said "how the heck did you do it if we have had to pull over 3 times already for you to go to the bathroom?" then you began to tell us how you purposely didnt drink any fluid on the trip so that you wouldnt have to take bathroom breaks. anyhow, just wanted to share a nice little memory of you with those that couldnt be on that trip with you. ive got a race this weekend...the texas state championships. your picture is on my handlebar stem...so when im hurting i can dig just that much deeper. how did you like my wedding? your dad represented you well...love you fels...
Sandi Mckee
October 12, 2006
Hi Michael
Like Coach Odermatt says... it is a tough month and tomorrow is the hardest of all. Thank you for remaining such a huge inspiration to so many.
As you know by now, not a day goes by that I don't speak to you. As my family grows, every new member is inroduced to you and they embrace you as theirs.
I'm sure you saw me add to your memory tattoo today but in case you were busy: Joe and I will visit you Saturday.
I miss you so much, I know you keep us safe and I have to ask that you keep a special watch over Brooke and Matt if they go to Iraq. So please join Joe and I for dinner tomorrow. I'm making the lasagne from scratch this time.
All our love,
Sandi and Joe
Johann Odermatt
October 2, 2006
Mike,
It's Monday, Teacher's workday and I'm at Hialeah Miami Lakes strategizing. The time is 3:55PM, my lights automatically turned off since I have not moved from my chair in the last 10 minutes. The school is empty, the pratice fields too and not a sound or movement to be noticed. Many ideas are entertaining my thoughts but for some reason the month of October reminds me so much of you. I wore the FIU Cross Country shirt that reads "Make it a Great One" and one of my runners quietly pulled me to the side and questioned who is "FELS". He noticed my mood change. I became serious, my eyes slowly became watery and I replied that you are a friend of mine...a special friend of mine. With his broken up english, my Haitain quarter horse continued to question what you meant by that statement? And I replied that whatever you do, don't be good at it, BE GREAT! He replied, "WorkHard, Coach?" I nodded, smile and said yes...Just WorkHard! I noticed that he noticed I was holding unto a lot of emotions but I thought I let you know that my men, these TROJANS, are working to be as GREAT as you say to be. I dedicated this month, as my first year coaching Cross Country to you MIKE. The toughest month ever for this sport.
Robert Lax
June 28, 2006
Fels,
I did it. I got my commissioning, I have joined the ranks of great individuals like yourself. Friday 23 June 2006 I was commissioned to rank of 2LT in the USAF. It is my responsibility to watch over others and not only myself just like you did and just like you always will. I wish you were here so we could share stories, but I'm pretty sure you saw everything. I miss you Fels - and hopefully I can do as good of a job as you did.
Lax
Armando Cruz III
May 31, 2006
Fels, Yesterday was one of the happiest days of my life. I proposed to Christian on the beach during sunrise. It was great my parents and sister (Kika) were all involved. What a feeling to know that one has found that soulmate and mutually want to spend the rest of our lives together. I know you were watching up there with Bola looking over us and keeping us together. I just wanted to share the great news with you. Thanks for everything.
God bless,
Armando
Robbie Infante
May 29, 2006
On this Memorial Day I am honored to have known and spent great times with a man like you Fels. Thank you...Your commitment and selflessness will always be imprinted in my mind.
Armando Cruz III
May 19, 2006
Mike,
First of all I wanted to let you know that I PASSED my exams. I am officially a licensed physical therapist. It was not easy but I am so happy it is over. The great news is that I have been offered several jobs plus my company is going well.
I have been thinking about you lately. A group of us are in the process of setting up a 5K in your honor. It will probably be in Tropical Park on November 18th of this year. I know it will happen keep looking over us. I miss you.
God bless,
Jose "Zorro" Castro
April 4, 2006
Fels:
For the second time in two years I've been awarded the "Mike Felsberg Spirit Award"; just to let you know is always a very big humble honor to receive it!!!... When I am at the softball games, I always sit next to your chair and most of the times I realize all the great things you accomplished. I guess I am trying to follow some of your footsteps.... I know I can't make the Dean's list in all of my semesters, but I have one so far... and hopefully more to come. Also this weekend will be my first steeple in FIU uniform, so please guide me....
Thanks Fels
Always
Joe Michalak
March 23, 2006
You may be gone in flesh and blood, but your spirit lives on in all of us.
Roslyn
February 23, 2006
Michael was a good friend and son, and is truly loved and missed!
Rebecca Rodriguez
February 21, 2006
Hey fels, I saw the sun set this weekend and I thought of you. I don't know why, I just did. I thought about how each day the sun sets and how many times I've missed basking in its wonder. I thought about how you might be watching me amidst the clouds and merging colors. While I was thinking all of this, as I felt the glow of the sun across my face and smelled the ocean surrounding me, I tasted a salty tear pass through my lips. I touched my face and I realized that I was crying. Then I smiled as another thought occured to me: how you would probably make fun of me for crying as I watched a sunset. I miss you. I miss you especially in moments like these- moments which remind me of your beauty and the beauty you brought to others, myself and life. I have yet to feel peace since you have been gone. But as I sat there,looking across the lingering colored sky a sudden calmness filled me. Had I found you? I don't know, but I won't stop searching- i'll find you- in the orange of the sun, the red of the sky, the yellow radiating glow- in every setting sun. I love you.
Melissa Bail
December 13, 2005
To: Paul & Arlene Felsberg:
It is so hard for me to write to you. I knew Mike because he was very good friends with my cousin Armando. He spent every Christmas Eve with us at our Annual “Noche Buena.” Mike was just another one of my cousins. I know he will join us again this Christmas Eve and the others yet to come. I wanted you both to know that I appreciate all Mike has done for us and for our country. He will never be forgotten. He has inspired me in so many ways, and although I never knew him as well as Armando or anybody else, the few times I was given the chance to talk to him I truly enjoyed it. He is very well respected by all our family and we will miss his actual presence with us. I wish this coming year brings you peace. God Bless both of you, you most certainly have a guardian angel watching over you. Melissa Bail
Dalia Clarke
November 28, 2005
Hey Fels, I know you'd be excited for the Dolphins because they won last night. All I did was think of how happy you'd be. FIU also won their game against FAU and what a sweet game it was. And as a matter of fact, the Alumni demolished the current runners in the annual after turkey day football game so it was a good week for football. Anywho, this Thanksgiving I was especially thankful for our friendship and couldn't have wanted it any other way. Thanks for keeping an eye out for us and may your family continue to be blessed. MISS YOU MUCH!
Love,
D
Charles Felsberg
November 27, 2005
Hey Michael, Hope you and the family had a wonderful Thanksgiving and you didn't eat everything and the kitchen sink...LOL.
Wanted to say hello and see if you enjoyed watching Mom, Dad, Beth and Allen and I hanging out at the Tree Farm after the station wagon broke down yesterday. Another Christmas Tree memory to add including the year you joined us. Though it was a bump in the road for my day, it was nice to hang out with the family more than what I get a chance to. Today, I get to give a brunch for friends anniversary. I thought last night this is what I was thankful for this year - my family and my friends whho are here and those who are not, all I keep close to my heart. Talked to Uncle Paul briefly before Thanksgiving, I know you were with them as well. Continue to watch over us. Tell Nanny, Kakie, Papa Jack and everyone else hello and bet Nanny in a couple of card games. Love and Happy Holidays - Cuz'Charles.
mayo el caballo
November 16, 2005
as the scientist plays all i can do is think of you fels. i really dont know why, but this song got me through alot of tears and suffering when i was all alone in texas awaiting my flight to come home and be with my friends. hopefully on sat i will be engaged to a wonderful lady. im sure youve seen her already from way up on high. what do you think about her? well shes heard lots about you and knows you were a very special person. just giving you a shot out my man. hopefully sat will be a great one. help hold me up cause im gonna be real nervous, ha ha. now i want to take the time to ask you if youd walk in my wedding. you know i wouldve asked you if yuo were around, but ive got a little surprise for everyone! one.
maureen carretta
November 4, 2005
Dear Paul & Arlene,
Just wanted u to know that even though we don't always speak of it you & your family are in our thoughts. Ask God to give u strength U have a huge support group out there & that is so great. This last year was the first year that I lost my dad & every 1st event etc. was heartbreaking I prayed & prayed I had to be there for my mom it was heartbreaking watching her unable to do anything. somehow we made it through and u will to we have a lot of things to keep us busy lately.Please let us know if u need anything. Sincerely maureen & roger
Armando Cruz III
November 3, 2005
Mike, I am sitting in my room thinking about you and all my friends. As you probably know DJ Rob's dad was killed almost 2 weeks ago while riding bike. His family has been so strong. DJ Rob has maintained strength to help carry his family through this difficult time. During his burial there were so many runners and cyclists that gathered to honor and pay tribute this great man. DJ Rob ran like I have never seen. It seemed as if he was floating. I know you and Castillo are both up there in heaven watching over us and giving us that push when we need it. I still miss you and now with loss of another great friend and person I am afraid. Afraid of who will be next. I only hope that whenever I die, I will be able to positively affect as many people as you and Castillo. Well take care of Rob’s dad and do some runs with him. You know he is a runner first cyclist second. God bless you and your family. Keep us safe.
Love you always,
Mandy
Anne Lackey (Infante)
October 14, 2005
Hey Mike,
I come here every time I get an e-mail that says there is a new post in this guest book. I read what your family and other friends write. It is amazing to me, how many people you had influenced in your short life.
Today, I am back at work for the first time since I left for maternity leave. Yup, I am now a mother of a beautiful little girl. Her name is Ava Larenne. (I am sure you knew that already).
Today is strange because
I had to leave her with grandma while her father and I went to work. I miss her dearly.
Also, When I found out I was pregnant it was just before Thanksgiving and it had only been a short while since you had passed. I can't beleive that yesterday marked 1 year since I heard the news. So much has changed in that time but I can't believe yo have been gone so long... already... to fast it seems.
Anyway, I am not sure how else to write what I feel so,please know that I think of you often and I will continue to visit this site as long as it is up. I will read all the notes to you and your family. I feel for them for now I know what it is to be a parent and to have that unbreakable bond with your own flesh and blood. It's truly amazing and scary. Your parents are truly strong and loving.
ok,,, well I will stop rambling on, please keep an eye on us all... I feel your presence often.
your pal,
Anne ( JIL c/o 96)
Mayito El Caballo
October 14, 2005
3 and 1/2 pints of guiness last night for you partner. it was only right that i celebrated the victory in my cycling race by toasting your favorite brew...since you pushed me to the win. i love you fels. yesterday was tough but its worth enduring because of the fact that i was able to know you.
Robbie Infante
October 13, 2005
Thank you Fels. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten. I miss you partner. Take care of us from up there.
Rob
Dalia Clarke
October 13, 2005
One year...wow, it seems just like yesterday you were visiting from South Carolina. I can tell you that I haven't stopped thinking about you since. I love you Fels and I miss you dearly...
D
Mary Lynn Felsberg
September 8, 2005
Dear Michael,
I just wanted to let you know that I remembered my dream about you this morning. In the dream, I was talking to you on the phone and told you that I didn't think I would ever hear your voice again. Then you did you signature chuckle and said you were alright. When I did remember it, I smiled with ease. Thank you for letting me have my turn with you and letting me know you are alright. It helps. But we still miss you. I can talk about you more easily now, and I don't break down as often. Thank you too for letting ME know you are alright.Give our love to everyone there and keep a little for yourself.Love, Aunt Mary Lynn
Armando Cruz III
September 6, 2005
Mike, Hey bud just thought I'd write to you since I have been thinking about you and missing you. As you probably know I am in Colorado Springs doing an internship. The running and biking is great, though I am supposed be focused on the internship you know as a runner where there are trails, roads, and mountains that is where we will be (unless you are AC that goes to Colorado and runs on the flattest roads, j/k). In Colorado Springs there are a lot of military because of the 2 army bases and air force academy in the area. I often see many of them walking around and I think about you and what you would be doing right now. If it were as previous stated by your men you would be either running many laps around the "snake pit" (I think that is what they called it), or leading your men into battle for the greater good of the nation, or trying to get some sleep only to be awaken by something going wrong. Those would be my guesses.
I read a book called the Ultramarathon man, it was great. I could see you as an ultramarathoner (though you would be better suited for the roads due to the many rocks on the trails, lol). In the book this guy ran 200 miles straight to raise money for a little girl who needed an organ transplant. It took him a little over 2 days. After I finished reading the book I was going to sign up for a 24 hr running race but the fact that I haven't been running much and that after the race I probably wouldn't be able to walk for a month I opted not to (pretty expensive too). I don't think that would have gone over well at my internship. Oh well I graduate in December so I will have time to train and complete one of those races. But know that when I do I will need all the strength you always showed to get me through. I love you man.
Godspeed,
Armando
Veronica (Kika) Cruz
August 21, 2005
Hey Mike, I miss you a lot. I think about you and what you did for me and our country all the time. Thank you! You'll never be forgotten. I started teaching this year. We've been in school two weeks, and my students already know about you. I have your picture up, and we talk about you and what you did for me and our country almost daily. You will never be forgotten. Thanks again. We miss you!
Charles Felsberg
July 19, 2005
Hey Michael - amazing to see everyone continuing to post notes and comments in here. It's nice to come in here and read that everyone continues to think about you and miss you. I, myself, stop from time to time and think about you. Your picture given to me by Uncle Paul and Aunt Arlene are with the rest of the family so I see you everyday. I know you know but I had a dream last week in which you were a part of. When I woke up I could truly feel your presence - it was amazing how comfortable and reassuring it was. I now know not only does Nanny make her presence known to me but you do as well and you both will always be there for me. Continue to look over us and make yourself known when you can. Love and miss you. Your cousin.
Javo
July 16, 2005
Hey Mike, I know I havent written to you since the first time I wrote in this guest book, but it doesnt mean i havent thought about you. You always seem to be there in my thoughts when I most need you. Even when you're gone, you're still here with us. And, not only are you here with us, but you are here in your true form, as our leader. The other day was the 4th of July, and let me tell you, Lax did a great job on the celebration. His fireworks display was amazing; you would've enjoyed it. And yes the shirts they made were awesome. "G.I. Mike: The Real American Hero!" So TRUE!! So many people take for granted the freedoms we have, but they dont realize, even I dont realize sometimes, the amount of sacrifices that are made for those freedoms we have. For example, the greatest sacrifice of all, which is what you gave, is your life, and I thank you for that. By the way Mike, just because you are up in heaven now doesnt mean you could slack off. I hope you are still training up there. Well Fels Im going to get going now, but dont worry Ill make sure to get back on this and write to you again. Ill let you know how everything is going. And by the way, Happy belated birthday. I wouldve gone to celebrate it at Gatsby's, but Im still not 21. You understand right? Take it easy Fels and Ill ttyl.....P.S. take care of my abuelas for me. Believe me, if you take care of them, they will never stop feeding you. And we all know that you love to eat ;) I LOVE YOU FELS
Robert Lax
July 12, 2005
Hey Fels, sorry I haven't written in a while, but I just want to let you know that the 4th was awesome this year. It's been a while since you were there but I know you were there in spirit. Myself and Eric made these awesome shirts in your memory - everyone wanted one they were so awesome. "G.I.MIKE" man they were great just like you.
Thank You for this independence day Mike, believe me it wouldn't be here if it was for you.
Miss you,
Lax
Mayito Arroyave
July 11, 2005
Fels, as i sat in front of this computer the mouse just wandered over to my favorites page where this website is posted. i clicked on it and began to read the different posts that have gone up since i last visited. i miss you so much man. in a couple of days im going back to miami and i will know that you wouldve been there. it probably wouldve been the first time id get to see you since you left my driveway on your way to war. memorial day passed...it was not the same. the 4th of july passed...it was not the same. i fond myself not enjoying these holidays like i used to. christen sits there looking at me wondering why i am not in awe of the fireworks...just because. i am not the same, because something of me is missing. thanks for watching after me while i ride my bike. anytime i want to begin to "soft pedal" and just take it easy, you immediately start to yell at me. continue to do so fels, because i know if no one else believes in me(not even myself at times) i know that you do. one of the most extraordinary things i have ever seen anyone do is suffer as many setbacks and criticisms as you did, many times at our expense, and persevere onyl to have them thrown back in our faces when you earned all-conference honors that day indoors. im sure that to this day however everyone knows that the best man did not win. i love you.
james 1:2-3 consider it joy my brothers, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.
Armando Cruz III
July 11, 2005
Fels,
I went to go visit you yesterday for your birthday. It was the first time I had been there and I was amazed. I cannot begin to describe the feelings I had rush in and out of my body standing there. I remember driving in and noticing it is in a national forest. I am sure there are plenty of trails for you to run in. I remember how precise each stone was placed, the deafening silence, the wind rustling through the trees, and the occasional chirping of the birds.
I was worried I would have trouble finding you. Lot 402 #63 that is where you were and as always front and center. Fels, a natural leader, whether it was leading us on a long run, or taking us on a road trip, or leading your troops into battle, you always wanted the front. Protecting us from harm, whether it be the danger that lay ahead or the danger we would put ourselves in because we had no clue what we were doing, YOU were there to guide us. Thank you.
I could not help but take a knee and cry standing in front of your tombstone. I realized how great the Lord is. I looked to the left and saw a PFC that was younger than me by your side and then I looked the right and saw that there was another soldier that was my age. Fels, again I trembled knowing that it could very easily have been me there but instead you and the men around you took up arms and fought for the very freedom we enjoy. I am forever grateful. I prayed and thanked the Lord for sending us his angels (you and the men around you) to protect us.
As the days pass know you are not forgotten but remembered and ingrained in everything we do. Fels I miss you. Have a HAPPY BIRHDAY!!! Make it a great one. I love you always.
Godspeed an your new journey,
Armando Cruz
Carlos Salvat
July 10, 2005
Hi Fels. I wanted to wish you a happy birthday and tell you that no one has forgotten all you did for us. You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I forget which of your 3 birthdays was your favorite, but I figure the important one is coming up. Thank you!!!
Sandi Mckee
June 25, 2005
Hi Michael:
Guess what? Brooke got below the zone! No doubt, you inspired her yet again....
I miss you Michael. I miss your earthly presense. Somehow, you continue to transend. Your spirit is Perhaps the most dependable and valuable reality in my life. Thank You for believing in me and for your inspiration. I know you are the one who provides guidance. I'm forever grateful, I love you more than the world, more than words for eternity.
Always,
Sandi
PS can't find spell check. Hope I didn't embrasse myself. Looks like that's a 'YES----OVER'
Megumi Nakamura
June 8, 2005
This is my second message. I recently lost my love and didn't know how to deal with it. It is so hard to face to the fact the love is not around, and it is harder to accept it, and it is hardest to live with it. But my life goes on even without the love, and I'll live with him in my heart for good. It is like you live in everyone's heart. Thank you for listening to me and hope you talk to me!
Robbie Infante
May 30, 2005
Thank you Fels! We will never forget the sacrifice you made for us and our country. I love you.
Robert Lax, SrA, USAFR
May 29, 2005
Fels - Just wanted to say thank you for my freedom. Also that this Memorial Day and the many to come, you have not been forgotten.
I miss you Fels
Happy Memorial Day
Lax
Armando Cruz III
May 23, 2005
Fels, They did a tribute to you on Friday the 20th. "Fallen Hero" is the short 15 sec segment. Unfortunately I felt it was no good. It finished by saying what you wrote on one of your last emails, that on SUndays you are sad because the Dolphins suck. I am saddend by the way the media depicted you. There were so many facets to focus on and they picked so many trivial things. I am sure you saw it. Fels, They missed all the people you touched and helped become a better person, they missed what a great friend you were, they missed that you are the only one to drive from California to miami without stopping ;)
You are awesome and everyday I think about you and the sacrifice you made to make us safe. Thank you, I love you and cheers to making everyday a great one for us!
Godspeed,
Armando
dalia clarke
May 17, 2005
Hey buddy. I know you were there with me again at Outdoors when I defended my 800m title. Thanks to you, I'll be going to regionals. I really appreciate it and thank you for always inspiring me. I love you Fels. Muchos Besos!!
Big D
Jose Castro
April 15, 2005
Hello Fels;
I would like to write these words to you: “In recognition of spirit, participation and support of your fellow student-athletes throughout the academic year and for exemplifying tenacity, loyalty and service for FIU Athletics beyond the call of duty”. I am sure you are very familiar with these terms, after all the spirit award is now called the “Michael Felsberg spirit award,” Fels, I am so Honored in receiving this award, not only for the fact that I am being recognized, but most importantly is because I am very privileged to have known you; and I just want to say that this is dedicated to you. In your memorial, Coach Salvat mentioned that everytime something related to you happened, it would be in your Honor, you favorite saying of “Make it a great one” has become very motivational for me, and everytime our Cross Country and Track team is involved in something you are there with us, just as you are in every FIU sport event. Fels, no matter what you will always be remembered, I am so grateful for all that has been given to me with hard efforts, Thank you for being part of that, With love to Fels, FIU’s true fan.
MIKE FELSBERG SPIRIT AWARD!!! 2004-2005 recipient Jose Castro.
Mary Lynn Felsberg
April 13, 2005
Dear Michael,
It has been six months since your dad called with the terrible news. It seems so long ago. Time has moved very slow for us. Looking at all of the messages we see you in a light that we never saw before. Being away in miles from you, we didn't know you as the kid whose favorite slogan at a baseball game was "The Ump Sucks"or how dedicated you were to your school friends and your fellow Marines. We knew you as Michael not Mike and as the little fellow that I always made a pound cake for whether it was your birthday or not. You knew us as your only aunt and uncle and your only first cousins. You were so special to us, the other son, if you will. You being gone has left such a hugh void in so many families that can never be filled. We miss you so much. We never thought that we would have you for such a short time.We just took it for granted that you would be here when we were old and gray. I know you are in a better place but it still doesn't ease the emptiness. The only comfort that I have is that you are with Nanny,and she welcomed you with open arms. Give our love to her and keep some for yourself. You will always be in our hearts.
Mario Arroyave
April 5, 2005
Fels, just the other night I got an e mail from your father and my heart dropped. Before I opened it many thoughts were running through my head as to what the e mail was about. All I hoped in that very instant was that your parents were doing OK, or at least as well as they can be doing bearing your loss. When I opened the e mail, your father explained to me that you had left me your FIU jersey. I felt honored and deeply sadened at the same time. I just want to say thanks Fels, you continue to do things that mean so much to me even though you no longer reside on this earth. I pray to my Father in Heaven each day that you be able to watch me on my rides and in my races. I have a Marine Corps watter bottle that is with me at all times on every single one of my rides! It's funny, I'm in this sport now to do the best that I can for myself and the Lord, but I'm also in it because I know you would be proud of me. I love you Fels.
Roslyn Barr
April 2, 2005
I did not know Michael, but through the "Guestbook" have come to realize what a good person he was, and how much he is missed by so many people. I read something once that is fitting: "If Tears Could Build A Stairway, And Memories A Lane, I'd Walk Right Up To Heaven And Bring You Home Again."
Charles Felsberg
April 1, 2005
It has been several months since I have looked into the guestbook. I am amazed and humbled to see how people are still coming in to speak in regards to and to Michael. I was proud to have him as my cousin and though we were so far away I feel I know him more than ever. Thank you to all who have taken the time to send their words. Our family continues to be touched. Thank you again. Semper Fi.
Gabriel Rodriguez
March 30, 2005
Fels, I'm losing too much weight. My memorial bracelet fell off the other day while running, which was absolutely crazy, but I knew you'd laugh. So many people ask me about the bracelet and at least once a day I am re-telling your legend. It has not sunk in that you are gone. It really hasn't. And it never will. Because you're not gone. You're here to stay.
carlos aka sparky diez
March 30, 2005
Hey Mike......it's amazing how many people you made an impact on. I was wearing a shirt printed up by Alex Shaw that has your name and "make it a great one" on the back. I was in the tavern one nigth (o.k. allot of nights, but one in particular last week) and I actually had to get behind the bar and help out my friend that was working alone that night. Anyways, I was walking out back to swap some kegs and this guy tapped my on my back and asked me how I knew Lutenant Fels. I told him you were one of my best friends ever and a great teamate. He simply nodded his head and said makes sense because he had met you in OCS and that you were one of the "great ones" He had heard what an incredible job you had done over in Ramadi. He shook my hand and told me that I was lucky to have had the chance to be not only your teamate but your friend.
He was absolutely right!
Bea Arroyave
March 29, 2005
Hey Fels. I just wanted to say that I think about you everyday and I still continue to pray for you and your family. I had my very first oral argument ever in law school last night and I know you were there with me...I just felt it. Your presence made me much calmer then I would've been had u not been there with me...thanks...I still feel your presence very strongly...I know ur with me in everything I do and I'm so happy that I have you to look over me and protect me..I truly believe that you are one of my guardian angels and I couldn't think of a better person for the job..thank you so much for being my "other" big brother...I love you very much and still miss you dearly...I promise that when I become a lawyer I will use my profession to help others as much as you have..you're my inspiration to do good in this world and I will never forget you...
Sandi Mckee
March 10, 2005
Hey Michael,It's Sandi. Did you hear that Iraq voted? Freedom is spreading in the middle east.
I miss you so much.
slm
dalia clarke
March 2, 2005
Hey Fels. I wanted to let you know that I ran and won my race at Indoor Conference this weekend and to let you know that you were apart of that with me. It was at the same track you recieved All-Conference Honors in the 5k two years back. I love you and thank you Fels for your inspirations:)
Roslyn
March 1, 2005
It is evident that Michael was/is a very loved person.
As I believe he would of said, God bless us all.
Armando Cruz
February 28, 2005
FELS, It is going to be 4 months since your last email to us and your presence is still felt on every run I do and with each letter I recieve from the very men you sacrificed your life for. I miss you so much. Sparky is engaged. I am sure you already knew that. In his engagement party was Shanon and Jason. Sparky commented that they were the only ones who held the honor of having you present in full uniform at their wedding. Truely what a blessing and what an honor. We miss you and love you.
Mamandrote
Robert Lax, SrA USAF
January 14, 2005
Hey Fels - I just wanted to let you know I still miss you.
Lax
Ted Baker
December 9, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Felsberg,
Though a faculty member at FIU and a loyal fan of Golden Panther athletics, I did not know Mike well: his sport was personal, required great dedication and focus, and was borne with little acknowledgement and even less fanfare. As a Jarhead and PLC product (1958-1964), I knew Mike as a brother in spirit, dedication, perseverance, loyalty and devotion to the Corps, the mission, and our great Nation.
Mike's character was measured by his relentless perserverence and his pursuit of perfection through extraordinary leadership!
Last summer, driving our youngest son to college in New Orleans, we stopped for lunch. Noticing the "Semper Fi" sticker on my car, an older retired Marine approached and handed me a business card. On it was written the following:
"Civilians cannot and will not understand us. Because they are not one of us. The Corps - we love it, live it, and shall die for it. If you have never been in it, you shall never understand it."
"The Title. It cannot be inherited nor can it ever be purchased. You and no one alive can buy it for any price. It is impossible to rent it and it cannot be lent. You alone and our own have earned it with your sweat, blood, and lives. You own it forever. The title of a United States Marine."
Mike joins many before him who have unselfishly responded to the call to duty, a call unsullied by political rhetoric and celebrated by a grateful - but saddened - nation.
"Uncommon valor was a common virtue".
June Bradford
November 21, 2004
I read of your loss in our local paper. I am so very sorry that this happened to your family. Michael sounded like a wonderful son. I hope in the days ahead you find peace in happy memories of your son.
God Bless You.
Jim Grindey USMC/RET
November 21, 2004
Mr & Mrs Felsberg,
The late great President Ronald Reagan once said " Most people go through life wondering if they made a difference, but U.S. Marines don't have that problem". Your son Michael made a difference. I am sure the Marines your son lead in combat will never let that be forgotten.
Semper Fi and God Bless
Javier Wilson
November 21, 2004
I did not know your brave son Michael Felberg. I do know however, that he served bravely, and honored our great nation in serving our military help rid our world of terrorism, and help spread peace and democracy to the world. May his soul rest in peace. May you find confort in your memories of him.
Tom Polete
November 21, 2004
Mike, you are now with an elite group who all have the same rank, Patriot.
Karen Moya
November 18, 2004
Hey Mike, remember when we ran into each other at the Tamarac Turkey trot 5k, and you realized it was me and I realized it was you?...Better yet, remember when we stood on stage because we both won first place for our age group and we received a trophie and a basket of thanksgiving goodies? I remember, it was the last time we saw each other. Thanks for protecting us!!!
Teresa Bail
November 17, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Felsberg: Your son was an icon at our Christmas Eve dinners. I've looked back and can't remember a time when he wasn't there and when he wasn't eating. He was very polite, respectful and a part of our family (a nephew). Our family will miss Mike this year and all others to come but he will not be forgotten. This year to honor his memory, we have adopted his platoon for Christmas. My nephew Armando, his friends from FIU, all our family, my husband and I who have a school for children with special learning needs, started collecting items and getting our community involved in making sure that Mike's troop gets these Care Packets for Christmas in his memory. Although it truly saddens us that he will not be receiving one of those Care Packets, I know that his mission now is a greater one. God has bigger plans for him. It was a pleasure to have met your son. I pray he's in a better place and that he will watch & guide us from above. God Bless You both.
Gabriel Scheinbaum
November 12, 2004
Mr & Mrs Felsberg:
The weird thing is I feel like I had a dream about Mike recently, and I only found out about everyone's loss yesterday, Veteran's Day. I grew up with Mike, we played little league and soccer, but it wasn't until we headed to high school that Mike and I became good friends. Mike went off to John I. while I attended arch rival Santaluces. This was a time when John I. and the Chiefs had arguably the best runners of any schools in the area. Mike and I would sit on the track infield before races and goof-off, chat, stretch, and cheer until it was our turn. I remember I had the fortune of being a stronger runner than Mike, until...Junior year I had a race where I actually lapped Mike in one 2-mile race. I remember being very proud of myself because I ran a personal best of 10:02. I also recall wondering if I ran so fast or if Mike just ran so slow, but I remember it like it was yesterday. As I lapped him, something that most runners hate to have happen, he yelled out, "Go get 'em, Gabe." But he wasn't done yet. A few weeks later we had what would be my final meet at Olympic Heights in Boca. All day I felt like not running and Mike was ready, focused, and enthused. I ultimately ran my 2-mile almost a minute slower than the race afforementioned. I quit on myself, but Mike ran fast, he flew, he passed me, and I saw him cross that finish line proudly. I congratulated him afterward but he shook it off saying I didn't try hard and that was the only reason he beat me. That was Mike. That was my last race as I did not run Senior year, but Mike grew stronger and faster. I saw Micheal only one more time after that, at a John I. graduation night at the Lancer gym. He told me he was going into the Marines and I thought he was nuts. He was...in the best possible way. Mr. and Mrs. Felsberg, I have no idea if you remember me, but let me tell you what I know: It takes the courage you can't be taught, the conviction you can't buy, and the faith you can only muster for yourself to leave the "real world" and serve this country. Mike, from all that have told it, was a man of strong core morals and passionate leadership. As a fellow former runner who now finds myself leading 92 men in the Army, I thank Mike personally for making my job easier. Everything Mike contributed in uniform made it easier for all who follow, and that will not be forgotten. I am pissed to hear of our loss, your loss, but so very appreciative for all he gave me. I wish I could talk to him one more time and hear about the last ten years. I know I'll get that chance. All my love and prayers are with the Felsberg family.
1LT Gabriel Scheinbaum (TRP XO)
C Troop 4/14 CAV
Fort Wainwright, AK
Kevin Craig
November 10, 2004
I was deeply saddened when I learned about Michael's passing. Your son was an amazing person and a model Marine. He will be missed by all.
SSgt Kevin Craig USMC
JIL C/O 95
Joseph Alig
November 1, 2004
Dear Sir and Madam,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I attended PLC Jr. with your son and know how strong of character he was. Please accept my deepest sympathy and regret.
CJ Simmons
October 30, 2004
We are so very sorry for you loss. My husband and I greatly appreciate your sons dedication and the opportunity he has helped to give my family. It truly is men like him that makes America the wonderful place that it is.
Emily Drogo
October 28, 2004
There is just too much to say about Mike and yet not enough room to express my feelings. I do have to say that Mike was an awesome person and we will miss him dearly. The biggest memory I will have of Mike is listening to him from the bench or in the stands cheering on for every athlete at FIU. I dont think he ever missed a game. Just hearing his voice made us all happy and pushed us even more to win that game. I'll miss u Mike and you are always in my prayers.
Lydia Kozvan
October 27, 2004
To the Felsberg family. I was signing on to send my son Steven Fondersmith a note and saw the story of this incredible young man. It touched my heart so, that he gave his young life for our country to make us safe. My prayers are with you as a parent I know your grief and sadness..
Ron &Roslyn
October 27, 2004
Thank you for giving the world such an exceptional young man.
J Seman
October 27, 2004
We should be proud to have him defending the country. I'm sure he's in a better place now and in the safety of gods embrace.
Matt Anker
October 27, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Felsberg,
My deepest condolences for your loss. I attended OCS and TBS with your son. He was a fine Marine and officer. My prayers are with you.
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