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Kay Powers

1920 - 2004

BORN

1920

DIED

2004

Kay Powers Obituary

Kay Powers bubbled and bounced through life, laughing and singing and cheering the lives of everyone she left in her zippity-do-dah wake.

Powers, a longtime reporter and beloved columnist for the Austin American-Statesman and a passionate musician, was still writing music in her head and making plans to put out another recording of original songs when she died Saturday at home after fighting cancer for more than a year. She was 84 and the proud owner of a little red sports car.

She spent a lifetime in the journalism field, breaking in by taking a job as secretary to the editor of the American-Statesman in 1960, when women had limited newsroom opportunities.

But her talents won her various editing and writing jobs in the traditional women's section and then on the news side, where she covered breaking news, crime and disasters. It was Powers and her pioneering generation who paved the way for today's modern world of female news anchors, publishers, editors and high-profile news reporters.

"In every generation of a newspaper's life, there are a handful of writers who touch readers. Kay Powers was one of those writers," American-Statesman Editor Rich Oppel said. "Her death is a loss to the newspaper and the community."

Those who knew Powers will never forget the radiant personality that made garden-variety optimists seem downright moody and the million-dollar smile that could melt a curmudgeon's curmudgeon. Powers was one of those "creative types" who consistently exploded with so many ideas her mind must have looked like the showy Fourth of July night sky.

Tens of thousands of people got to know Powers through her monthly column in the Life & Arts section. The columns began when Powers retired in 1985 and wrote a humorous piece about signing up for Social Security. An editor suggested that she chronicle her first year of retirement. But she wasn't one to go quietly into the sunset.

With her husband, Ted, a retired news photographer with 48 years at The Associated Press, Powers joined the local chapter of Friendship Force International, a goodwill group that sponsors travel and exchange programs. She regaled her readers with episodes from their trips to Germany, Yugoslavia, Russia, Italy, Brazil and other exotic locales.

And she wrote just as lovingly about the relaxing times at their home on Lake Travis, which was filled with stray animals.

She treated readers of her column like family, beginning many a tale with the intimate invitation, "Listen, Honey," as if she were whispering a secret into their ear. She liked to quote little wisdoms of her own "Mama" that had guided her life: Every cloud has a silver lining, never say never, and don't cry over spilled milk.

Ever humble, she often referred to herself in print as "the Fat Lady in the Mirror" and wrote often of her attempts to lose weight.

Powers' colleagues were in awe of her ability to win the confidences of every small-town law enforcement officer or dispatcher she met. She had them wrapped around her finger by being "alternately charming, coy, silly, motherly, grandmotherly, sweet, profane and most importantly, resourceful," former American-Statesman environmental writer Max Woodfin said.

He remembers being pulled off his beat early one morning to help report a murder-suicide-kidnapping-holdup for the afternoon edition. He had to call a Hill Country sheriff.

"The gentleman," he said, "was not pleased in the least to get a call from me. He did not know who I was and, in the tensions of the moment, was a shade on the side of rude. "I hung up the phone with a less-than-flattering comment about the high sheriff's mental capacity. Kay overheard me and asked if she could help. Within 10 minutes, the sheriff was calling me! When I answered, he said, 'Sir, why didn't you tell me you worked with Kay Powers? I would have driven to Austin to tell you what I know!'"

Powers was often sent on stories that needed a sensitive touch. In 1982, a drunken driver slammed into a New Braunfels family walking along a highway near the town's annual Wurstfest. Killed were a husband and wife, who was five months pregnant, and their 2-year-old daughter and 11-month-old son.

Grieving relatives didn't want to talk to the press, but Powers wouldn't give up. She interviewed dozens of others until she learned that the impoverished family was struggling to come up with burial costs.

"She was a go-getter and knocked on doors and tried to deal with a Spanish-speaking community with a family tragedy and it was very difficult, but she didn't give up," said Jay Godwin, now assistant chief of photography, who took photos for the story as his first assignment for the newspaper. "I was just following her lead. She set a high standard of commitment and compassion that I've carried with me and tried to emulate in my career."

In between stints at the newspaper, Powers was director of public relations for eight years at then-Seton Hospital. She handled media requests from around the world in June 1967, when President Lyndon Johnson's daughter Luci bore his first grandchild, Patrick Lyndon Nugent.

And on behalf of the Headliners Club, an Austin social club for those who make the headlines and those who write them, Powers persuaded Lucille Ball, Carol Burnett and other entertainment luminaries to star in the club's annual gala to honor the working press.

Powers was born April 11, 1920, in Bloomington, Ill. She attended Illinois State University, then moved to Texas in 1953 and enrolled at the University of Texas.

She fell in love with music as a child listening to her father play the fiddle. He could play by ear, and she inherited the ability.

Eight years of piano lessons instilled a lifelong love of music in Powers, who played piano, organ and accordion. She often shared her talent at nursing homes in honor of her favorite saint, Francis of Assisi, and his prayer: "Where there is sadness, let me bring joy."

Powers might have written as much music as news.

"I don't have a playing radio in my head — it's more like a whole symphony orchestra, and, oh, the commotion when the doubles basses are sawing away and the French horns think it's their turn," she wrote in a 1993 column. "There's no such thing as just saying 'no' to writing music if it's coming on."

In 1960, Kay and Ted, both divorced and single parents, met in an Austin piano bar where Kay played to make ends meet. Ted said, "Bet you can't play 'Hi Lili.'" She shot back: "Sure can." They were married eight months later.

For years, she played the organ at Mass for Emmaus Catholic Church in Lakeway, even though she wasn't Catholic. Finally, Monsignor Richard McCabe told her she spent so much time in church she should convert, so she did. And in honor of St. Mary Elizabeth Seton, she wrote the music for an entire Mass.

She is survived by her husband, four children, a sister, 11 grandchildren, three great-grandchildren and nine nieces and nephews.

A memorial Mass is scheduled for 11 a.m. Friday at Emmaus Catholic Church.
Published by Austin American-Statesman on Nov. 13, 2004.

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Marie O'Shaughnessy-Martin

May 2, 2025

Remembering Kay Powers! One of the greatest Austinites! A legend! What a gift to have known her!

Kristy Harris

August 10, 2009

I met Kay in 2002 when I was brand new to Texas, fresh out of college, and scared to death to be living away from home(Florida) for the first time in my life. I met this wonderful angel in church....she took me under her wing like a daughter...I sang, she played the piano. I am so sad to hear about her and Ted. They were two beautiful souls...

Kay Powers

March 28, 2007

I know this is a little late, but I just came across this site. I meet Kay when I was in the hospital in the late 60's. She saw my name and it was the same as hers, so she paid a visit to my room. We talked for a bit and she was extremely nice.I felt honored.

GEORGE & ANN DONOVAN

October 14, 2006

WE JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT TED AND KAY'S PASSING. WE KNEW THEM THRU FRIENDSHIP FORCE. WE ARE NOW IN L.A. BUT MET THEM WHEN WE LIVED IN KINGWOOD, TX. WE STAYED IN THEIR HOUSE AND TRAVELLED WITH THEM ON SEVERAL EXCHANGES. WONDERFUL WITTY FRIENDLY PEOPLE. HAVE A GOOD TRIP!!

Janet Martin

November 26, 2004

Although a dog lover, I enjoyed the tales of Tomas and everything else that Kay Powers wrote, since I, too, had a little red car. I felt privileged to have met her while rehearsing and singing in the choir for the dedication of Emmaus Church. Godspeed, Kay, and my prayers and sympathy to all those she left behind.

Maria Kypuros

November 20, 2004

KAY POWERS MORTAL REMAINS ARE ASHES BUT HER JOY FOR LIFE LIVES ON

an open letter To Friends and fans of Kay Powers:

Her memorial mass was held today , November 18, 2004 at 11AM at

Emmaus Catholic Church, with Father Mcabe presiding.

Two of her sons activily participated in music and song.

David played the flute and Randy Sang.



Many pictures and memorabila were displayed in the lobby showing many moments of her life, but we feel one picture stands out and portrays Kay as she truly was, The picture taken less than two months ago, is one where her husband of 44 years is pushing Kay in a wheel chair and she gives her signature happy smile and holds up her two arms and diplays four fingers of each hand in a victory and happy fashion ,indicating 44 years of marriage. .What a picture!!!, Ted is with her to the end and the true character and soul of Kay shines through. For us and perhaps for many of her family and other friends she has left this very happy scene and it will stay with us always, This picture says ; no need to cry and feel sorry for me, I have lived the life given to me and I am honestly happy-----Maria and Basilio Kypuros---

Dorothy Hagen

November 19, 2004

I always looked forward to reading Kays articles. I too love cats.When I finished reading her articles I always had a smile on my face. I wish I could have met this wonderful lady, now I will have to wait.

Mary, Ray, and Brittany Bass

November 19, 2004

Kay Powers is responsible for our daughter's birth."Listen Honey",in truth it was the twinkle in our eyes, but I believe that the Fertility Vase Kay let us borrow played a gigantic part.

Yes, I cried crocodile tears when I had to return it because the convention of newspaper people needed for their, (pardon me), boobie prize. Kay regretfully took it back, but with a twinkle in those gorgeous baby blues of hers, promised that I'd probably be getting my bundle of joy soon. Sure enough, a year to the date, our daughter was born.

Kay was there at her first birthday and even wrote about a piece about a little donkey that our daughter met who had beaten cancer.Ted's photo of our child and the donkey that accompanied the article, made her famous in kindergarten. She hasn't been the same since they put those stars in her eyes.

Every time we saw Kay at Matt's El Rancho, we would have a great laugh about the "VASE" and how we got more than we wished for. We will deeply miss her, but I know as sure as I'm sitting here, she's leading a choir of angels in heaven, pounding out a tune, and still laughing about that vase.

Pam Baggett [Johnson]

November 18, 2004

Ted, thanks for sharing your lovely lady with us for so many years. Kay was a great friend at the paper, an hilarious contributor to the Gridiron, and a talented judge for the Anson Jones MD journalism awards. All of this in addition to the years of her columns that delighted us all.

Pam Baggett

John and Jane Auchter

November 17, 2004

To our dear Ted – Your love and dedication to Kay is an inspiration for all of us.You showed again these past weeks the courage you showed in Iwo Jima. May one of Kay's favorite hymns, "Let There Be Peace on Earth" bring you peace and joy in the certainty of her eternal reward. We know that St. Francis was first in line to welcome Kay into heaven. We love you both.

John and Jane Auchter

MARIAandKIP KYPUROS

November 16, 2004

Katee:

We will remember you always with the energy you always had even until your last days, you are an inspiration to all of us to keep living and enjoying the life God has given us. May God keep you close to him always.



Ted:

We know how much you loved her and will miss her, you too are an inspiration to us for the way you always cared for her in every way.



sincerly

Maria and Kip Kypuros

Marie Adams

November 15, 2004

I never met Kay in person but I knew her first through her columns then through my daughter Sheila. I read her column long before she and my daughter met but I grew to love both she and Ted for the kindness they showed my daughter and my grandsons.



Kay I will always treasure your book and I hope God likes your little red car as much as you did.

S Durham

November 15, 2004

Several years ago, I performed with Kay in the SPJ's Gridiron show. At one point during dress rehearsals at Austin Music Hall, Kay was onstage impersonating Barbara Bush. On the floor below, Liz Carpenter, Governor Perry and Leslie (yes, THAT Leslie) were milling around and interacting with each other. Her husband, Ted, wearing angel wings for his performance as ghost of Bob Bullock, was photographing her from the edge of the stage. That's how I will always remember her. So happy performing and enjoying the best kind of chaos. She was so special.

Sandra F. Stubbs

November 15, 2004

To The Family of Kay Powers,

The Bible says "An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up"(Proverbs 12:25).

Kay's words always cheered me up.

Her enthusiasm for life was demonstrated in each of the stories she wrote for her column. Each column only endeared me to her more.

May you be blessed by countless beautiful memories of Kay and know

that when I am thanking God for my many blessings this year I will remember Kay to the One from Whom all blessings flow!

Sandra F. Stubbs Austin, Texas

Dorothy Longacre

November 15, 2004

For many years I have had my morning coffee with Kay and you know who. Sometimes Thomas or one of the other cats nearby. My Statesman brought them to my table each morning. I could not start my day without knowing what you know who and the cat were doing. I will miss Kay so much, just knowing she is gone. But, will still be thinking about you know who and the cats every morning with my coffee and I know they will miss her too..



Dorothy longacre

cathia gantz

November 15, 2004

Kay's column let her readers know that she must have been a very interesting lady, fully involved in her life with her many activities. I have missed her column which was the only way I was acquainted with her. My sympathies go out to her family who I'm sure miss her in ways her mere readers cannot count.

Sheila Smith

November 15, 2004

I met Kay and Ted five years ago when my boys and I came to celebrate Mass at Lakeway Church. We were early and Kay and Ted were standing outside the building waiting for the Protestant service to end. Kay immediately introduced herself and Ted to me and my sons. She welcomed us with that beautiful smile! She put me at ease after packing up my kids and leaving their home of 7 years to move to Lake Travis. My sons and I will never forget how special she made us feel. I will miss her very much.

Sherry Ramsey

November 15, 2004

Kay was a great lady and wonderful human-being; she touched all of our lives. My heart felt sympathy extends to her family and many friends. Her loss will be deeply felt.

Jeanie Ponce

November 15, 2004

Ted and Family:

I never had the pleasure of meeting Kay but have read her column ever since I moved to Austin in 1984. I moved to Canyon Lake two years ago but still got the Austin paper on Sunday and always enjoyed all of her columns. As everyone has said, her columns brought much joy to all who read them. May God bless you at this difficult time.



Jeanie Ponce

Amy Roecker

November 15, 2004

Dearest Ted: You were so blessed to have this lovely lady beside you for 44 years, I was also blessed to have known, loved and cherished her as well. My prayers are with you and your family. Love Amy

Lelani Van Gundy

November 15, 2004

She will always be remembered by both her writing and music.

Frank and Lelani Van Gundy

gary thomas

November 15, 2004

Loved her column even tho I hate cats and am only 63 yrs old! But I like little red sports cars and am a half-fast musician.

Tommy Vasquez

November 14, 2004

I met her briefly when she covered the Salinas Festival in Bastrop, Texas. She was friendly and wrote a good story.

Karen Ziegler

November 14, 2004

To the Family of Kay Powers:



I never met Kay in person, yet felt she was my first friend I met when I moved to Austin via her columns in the Statesman. I enjoyed reading about her adventures both geographically and with the cats.



As everyone will say, her style of writing made you feel you were sitting down for a cup of tea and a chat with a dear friend...she will be missed.



How appropriate this book is through legacy.com, as she left behind her a powerful legacy.



My greatest condolences to her family and to all her friends she leaves behind.

Debi Austin

November 14, 2004

We've only been here in the Austin area not quite five years, but Kay helped make it a friendlier place. She helped make cancer approachable. I have lost a grandmother and stepfather to it. A year after he was diagnosed, we found out my mother had a malignant lump in her breast. With Kay, I could see that life could still be full, even if you felt drained from the treatments. It helped me deal with my own fears. She was quite a gal!



God bless you, Kay.

Janice Giovannetti

November 14, 2004

Having read Ms Powers column for many years, I was saddened to learn of her battle with cancer, moreso because I had just witnessed my mother's own battle with the same disease. I felt compelled to write to her and offer what encouragement I could. It never occured to me that she would not have wanted advice from a perfect stranger, partly because of the way she wrote that made every one feel like she was your close friend. I sent the note, never expecting a reply but several days later I received a gracious, handwritten note thanking me for thinking about her and taking the time to write. And that I think sums up alot of what she was to people who never met her...not only an incredible writer, but a friend who waited to greet you every time you opened the newspaper. I will miss her, I will truely miss her...

Olin Murrell

November 14, 2004

As a long-time Austin resident, I still check in on my former home town from time to time. I was greatly saddened to learn of Kay Powers' passing. I'm glad, though, to have known her the little I did. She was one of the special people.

Kathleen Poulter

November 14, 2004

Ted and Family, our lives were greatly enriched with the years we knew Kay. We will miss her! All our love,

Kathleen, Benjamin, & Andrew

Sandra McCumber

November 14, 2004

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Kay Powers. I did not know her personally but her column brought me so much pleasure. I loved her stories about her stray animals and the "fat lady in the mirror". I will miss her great sense of humor. I wish I could have met her. I want to extend my condolences to her husband and family. I know she will be greatly missed.

Angela Fleming

November 14, 2004

I am sure heaven is rocking now as she entertains the hosts of angel's with her songs. We will miss her smile and energy.

Debra Peters

November 14, 2004

What a lovely, spirited lady Kay Powers was...

and she played the accordion too!

I was fortunate to have known her.

God Bless her dear husband Ted and her many family and friends. What a great loss for the Austin American Stateman!

Fr. Jim McDonough, OP

November 14, 2004

Ted & Family: Nature and desease had a big fight on their hands! The "fat lady in the mirror" took them on! God gave us a wonderful gift to have known and been touched by Kay. I along with many, many friends will miss her dearly. May God's compassion for our loss be felt by the many gifts of self and talent she gave us!

Martha Kubala

November 14, 2004

I knew Kay for only 4 years--I'm sorry it wasn't longer--loved her dearly--she was such an inspiration to me--and she changed my life--my view of what people can do when they have faith & energy & talent

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