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Jerry Simpson Obituary
Pioneer Press
Jerry Simpson — the only boys swimming coach Woodbury High School has had in its 30-year history — died Tuesday doing what he loved. The 63-year-old apparently suffered a heart attack during his morning swim.
Simpson also coached the girls swimming team for the past four years, and on and off before then. He taught physical education and coached boys swimming at Park High School in Cottage Grove from 1970 until leaving for Woodbury in 1975. Simpson continued teaching at Woodbury until he retired four years ago.
“Jerry Simpson was a giant in the swimming program for this East Metro area. He will be sorely missed,” said John Regan, superintendent of South Washington County Schools.
The school canceled all swimming events for the rest of the week. That includes the boys Suburban East Conference meet at Cottage Grove’s Park High School on Thursday.
The South East Metro Sharks —- a multi-age, competitive swim club that Simpson was involved in — also canceled all practices Tuesday evening. Simpson was swimming with some of the group’s members around 6:45 a.m. at Woodbury High School when he had what appears to be a massive heart attack, said Principal Linda Plante.
They pulled him out of the water and called 911 immediately, she said, but paramedics were unable to revive him.
Plante said school administrators pulled all the boys and girls swimmers and divers out of class around 10:30 a.m. to break the news. Some of their parents were called in for the meeting as well.
Erica Schiffler, a senior diver and University of Minnesota recruit who won the Class AA diving championship in November, was there. "Everyone was very sad by the news,'' Schiffler said. "He was just such a positive influence to me and everyone else, inside and outside of the pool.''
Dawn Grinols, whose son Joe has been on the team for four years, said he was a great coach. He would gently give his swimmers pointers. And over the years, their scores have improved.
But winning wasn’t Simpson’s focus, Grinols said. He’d recognize his swimmers for a variety of achievements, like giving out a Most Improved award at the end of the year. Simpson also brought his team up to International Falls every year for some competition and time away from the Cities.
“He was just a really kind, compassionate man,” she said. “He had a really calm manner. You always knew your kids were in good hands.”
Brian Luke, Stillwater boys and girls swimming coach, said he was shocked by the news.
“The guy is in shape and works out all the time,’’ said Luke, Stillwater’s swimming coach since 1975. “I was just talking to him last week about his (coaching) longevity.’’
Stillwater defeated Woodbury last week with first place on the line in a Suburban East Conference meet.
“He was very knowledgeable at this sport,’’ Luke said of his longtime friend. “I always knew if I went into a meet (against) him, you would get the very best thrown at you. I always enjoyed our competition with them.’’ Simpson coached two swimmers to individual state championships. Kenji Sudoh won the 200 individual medley in 1992. Aaron Wood won the 200 IM in 1997 and '98. Wood also won the 100 butterfly in 1999.
Simpson is survived by his wife, Sharon, and two adult children, David and Ann.
Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Simpson
231 Entries
Steven Scholl
February 6, 2021
Thinking of Jerry and Family as time has moved forward. God Bless Us All.
Carol Lugg
January 21, 2020
Dear Gerry Simpson-
Beloved coach, husband, father, friend and teacher to many: I am grateful to have known you. I admired your strength and sense of humor. Thank you for all the wisdom you gave to my family. You are missed forever.
May 8, 2012
Mr. Simpson. I have officially completed my swimming career at the collegiate level. I want to attribute much of my successes to what you gave me to start with back when I was 10 and joining SEMS. I hope I have made you proud in all that I have done and you are always in my thoughts when I jump into the pool. My last 200 freestyle was for you.
-Angela Lugg
Courtney Stevens
January 25, 2007
He may not have known it at the time but Mr. Simpson was what motivated me to never give up whether it was a 500 free or in my case on the ice. I didn't know him very well but he still touched my life as well as many others. It is because of Mr. Simpson that i proudly wear #25.
Mr. Simpson you are always in my prayers and one of the greatest coaches i have met.
Joe Grinols
March 14, 2006
It has taken me awhile to fully accept the loss of Mr. Simpson. What he did on this earth will last more than a lifetime but for eternity in those who he lead to God. Either intentionally or by his good model of character, he has influenced me greatly. I found that last year was the hardest for me, not just after his death but before. I had been depressed and his compassion and patience eventually brought me to see clearly what God had set out for me to do. Mr. Simpson stands as true character, endurance and strength of heart. Till we meet again in Heaven.
Martha (Groebner) Kessens
September 12, 2005
It's such a blessing to read all these wonderful and heartfelt tributes to Jerry Simpson. Mr. and Mrs. Simpson were my first swimming teachers when I took Red Cross swimming lessons at the Woodbury Jr. High Pool in the early 1970's. They were my first coaches when I joined the St. Paul Park Sharks (now called SEMS, of course!), and Mrs. Simpson was my first boss when I became a Red Cross swim instructor and pool supervisor.
I know that I can speak for many former SPPS and SEMS swimmers out there when I say that my hopes and dreams for my own three kids are that they find the type of coaches, mentors, and friends, as I found in the Simpsons. Thanks, Jerry, for the great memories and valuable life lessons!
Jacie Fabro
March 6, 2005
Mr. Simpson, like so many others have said, was a great coach, friend, and teacher. Simpson, there is no way i can put exactly how i feel into the right words... Today I swam in my last swim meet for the season. and nothin can hit you harder than not seeing Mr. Simpsons smiling face on the deck. You just really start to realize what you had. And that you need to start appreciateing the things you have now. Mrs. Simpson you have been in my prayers. I love you so much!
JANET BAKER
February 24, 2005
Sharon and family:I still can't quite believe that Jerry won't be there to open the door for me at the next SEMS meet. Thank you for always being there for me through our 23 years of selling. You both have been great people to work with and always organized in life. We will miss your friendly smile at 6:30 a.m.and again at the end of the day when we close up and we are all heading home. You were there to help with all of the high school coaches clinics and extra advise I needed on new equipment to try. Again, thank you for 23 years of friendship.
Jim and Janet
Jill Whitney
February 22, 2005
I have been hesitant to sign the guest book because I know whatever I write will not be as eloquent as those before me, but having known Jerry & Sharon and being a part of the SEMS family for 10 years, I do feel the need to share a few thoughts.
I have known Jerry as a caring and encouraging coach, as well as tough and formidable competitor in the pool. Jerry and I trained in the same lane for most of my early years with the team, and somehow always managed to push each other just a little harder & to do just a little more that what we thought we could do, although I'm sure he pushed me more than I pushed him. Several years ago we were swimming next to each other in the 100 fly at the Masters' state meet and both of us did times that neither of us had seen in a very long time. I remember looking at the scoreboard to get my time and looking at Jerry's time and then looking over at Jerry and saying, "How did we do that?" Of course, the answer is because we pushed each other and a little friendly competition can go a long way. In the last few years, Jerry had started practicing in the morning while I still was swimming at night. I would come in to practice and Sharon would tell me which set Jerry had done and on what interval. Just this past fall I remember going to a Friday night practice and looking at the choices of sets and not really liking either of them. Sharon told me what set Jerry had done that morning and I looked at the set & the intervals, which were pretty tough, and said, "OK, I guess if Jerry can do it, so can I". I got in the pool and was struggling through the set and when I was about halfway done, Jerry came in and asked me how I was doing. I told him that I was shamed into trying the set because Sharon said that he had done it in the morning. Jerry smiled and laughed and said, "Yes, Jill but I did the set with fins!" I did manage to finish the set but it was a struggle without fins and I was quite tired when I was done.
I will miss Jerry's friendship and enthusiasm for swimming, his caring encouragement & motivation and standing on the pool deck watching Jerry swim the 200 fly and saying "How DOES he do that?" I hope in some small way to keep Jerry's spirit & love of swimming alive in my life and in my swimming by continuing to ask & answer the question "What would Jerry do?"
Tara Anderson
February 16, 2005
Mr. Simpson, when I sit to write my memories of you, I am at a loss of words and yet, am overcome with emotion. I could say what others have said; how you were an amazing coach, person, father... how this community has lost something beautiful... you were the reason that I swam everyday. I swam hard at meets to make you proud because to see satisfaction on your face meant more to me than if I had won or lost the race. You listened and respected everyone without reguard. At first it upset me that the people around me didn't understand what a loss this world had recieved, but then I looked at the people who did understand... the lives that you touched and the magnitude of that influence is amazing, something that most will never have the privilage of doing. There are few people in this life who genuinely care about you... who hurt when you hurt and who rejoice in your times of glory. You were my only coach, none will ever compare and I know that it is the same for most of your swimmers. I swim now, for you. I will continue to race as if you were standing at the side of the pool, cheering me on... and at every great finish, I will close my eyes and see your smile. Thank you for everything you have done... I never told you how much you meant to me and how I have grown because of you, but now you know. Every accomplishment that is mine is because of a thought or a comment or a smile that caused a change in me years ago. Thank you for being who you were and doing it so well. You will be missed, but more importantly...you will be remembered.
Deb Abair
February 11, 2005
I have looked daily at the picture Sarah printed of Jerry from the website. I still get a tear in my eye, but a warm feeling in my heart when I think of Jerry. He was such a kind coach and person, and I will never forget the impact he had on Sarah's life. I hope someday I can be the kind of person Jerry was. My sympathy goes out to Sharon and her family.
Mike Catlin
February 10, 2005
Dear Mrs. Simpson,
A high school friend sent me the article of Mr. Simpson's passing. I am so sorry for you and your family. Mr. Simpson touched a lot of lives during his years at Park and Woodbury, and I am fortunate to be counted among those. I'll always remember his easy-going style and his encouragement. There are two moments that I will always remember, though. The first was at the first competitive meet I ever swam. When my event came up, the 100-yd. breast stroke, I asked him how I should "swim it" - pace myself or start out hard? He smiled at me and told me I had better go hard all the way. The other moment was at the team banquet after the 1977 season. Mr. Simpson said that even though I never finished better than fourth, one of those fourth-place finishes made the difference in a win which ultimately led to our championship. We had a lot of great swimmers that year, but he acknowledged everyone's contributions.
Beth Wills
February 9, 2005
Sharon, I was sadden and shocked by the news of Jerry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Beth Wills
Jerry Zappa
February 9, 2005
Dear Sharon and family, My sympathy to all of you. There are coaches that one respects for their successes, and ones you emulate because of their style. In my time as the coach of a small, rag-tag team of age-group swimmers Jerry was one coach that served as a model and a measuring stick for what I was doing. He was always friendly to me on deck, tolerant and understanding of a new coach's challenges. Occasionally on deck he would acknowledge a good performance from one of my swimmers...HUGE reward coming from him. I know, in the past, he worked with many of Hudson's finest swimmers; much to my chagrin. Last summer he coached my daughter, much to her joy. I am sorry for your loss. We will all miss him.
Sarah Abair
February 7, 2005
To know a man like Mr. Simpson, everything he was, is a rare privilage and honor. Swimming on SEMS, and having Mr. Simpson as my coach is something I will treasure always. If, during my life, I can be half the person you were and touch half as many lives as you touched, I will be truly happy. All my love and prayers to the Simpson family.
LOVE,
Sarah
Andrea Johnson (Mathers)
February 4, 2005
Like so many others, Jerry had a big impact on my life and still does to this day. Although I was always a mediocre swimmer, the years I spent with the SEMS and Woodbury teams taught me to value hard work, dedication, teamwork and fun. I only hope that my future children will be lucky enough to have role models such as Sharon and Jerry. Jerry's passion for swimming, teaching and people in general was always evident and will be remembered.
Shawn Fischer
February 2, 2005
How ironic that the most recent book I have read was "Tuesdays with Morrie", the story of the reunion of a student and his favorite teacher before that teacher's death. I have been thinking ever since then about mentors, those who have mentored me and the mentor I hope to be.
In my years of coaching, I have seen many "respected" coaches who, unfortunately, leave a trail of broken bodies and spirits in their pursuit of wins and records. But Jerry Simpson lifted everyone he ever coached. Our times and our records mattered to him only in that they mattered to us. What mattered to Jerry was each and every one of us as a person. One only had to attend one of the Park/Woodbury alumni meets to feel this personal bond with him.
These days, sports in general are regrettably short of true role models and gentlemen. But Jerry's legacy to the sport of swimming, in Minnesota and across the country, is to challenge us all to coach (and teach) with heart and principle.
Sharon, David, and Ann, please be comforted in some way with the knowledge of how many of us your beloved husband and father has blessed. And, God willing, we will all strive to pass his blessing on.
Jim Ertl
February 2, 2005
We in the swimming and diving world have lost a great person. Jerry and I have coached kids the past 25 years mostly in the same section. I will always remember what a class act he was and that his teams followed close behind. His programs are well known all over in the sports scene as competitive and quality. I feel very fortunate to have been associated with him and his great family. You make us all take a step back and really know what is important in life. You will be missed by us all.
Pam Price
February 2, 2005
Sharon, Ann and David...
We were so sorry to hear about Jerry's passing. We have enjoyed reading about how he touched so many people through his coaching. He was a amazing man, that left our world too soon! We pray that God helps you through this difficult time. All the best and please keep in touch.
-- Pam, Marty, Daniel, Jill Price
Carlene Koken
February 1, 2005
I don't think it has truly hit me yet that Mr. Simpson is gone. All I know is that an unsure path lies ahead of us without him. He was the strength and core of our teams and you could always count on him. I didn't realize how much Mr. Simpson meant to me until now, when I no longer see his smiling face every day at practice. He cared about every single person and always pointed out the positive. His jokes always made me laugh and could always brighten my day. Mr. Simpson touched so many people's lives and he will truly be missed. My sincerest sympathies go out to the whole Simpson family
Sarah (Walker) Craig
February 1, 2005
Unfortunately, I didn't get to know Jerry Simpson very well while I was a student at WHS. Now, as a teacher, I do know that motivation is key to student success. For Mr. Simpson to get teenagers into the pool an hour before school starting time to workout, he must have been a master. My sincere condolences to Sharon, David, and Ann.
Sincerely,
Sarah Craig
Jeff Lee
February 1, 2005
Minnesota Swimming has lost one of their greatest ambassadors. Jerry was not just a leader to his swimmers and students, but a leader to the coaches that he came in contact with. I've known Jerry and his wife Sharon for about 15 years through coaching in the metro area. In those 15 years I have had many questions about the profession and Jerry was always there to help with advice for me. I hope to be able to bring the type of passion Jerry brought to this sport after 30 years! Thanks Jerry for your guidance and leadership, it will never be forgotten.
Chuck Alfonso
January 31, 2005
Tom Landry was a very sucessful NFL coach with the Dallas Cowboys football organization. He was once quoted as saying "Leadership is getting someone to do what they don't want to do, to achieve what they want to achieve." It is clear to me from knowing Gerry and from reading these testimonials that his leadership skills were second to none. Gerry led with a gentle hand and wise advice. He was a coaches coach. He will always be remembered as a local hero and a person who made a significant contribution to the youth of our community.
Rick Krueger
January 31, 2005
I knew Jerry from my early years of coaching back in the 1970s. Several of his early high school swimmers had swam for me at either the outdoor municipal pool in Cottage Grove and/or St. Paul Swim Club.
It was always good to hear the possitive comments about Jerry from those swimmers.
Jerry and I remained friends through the years and often our teams (I still assist at Lakeville) would sit at the state meet in close enough proximity that Jerry & I would talk before, ocassionally during and after the meets.
Many may talk about how much he will be missed, which is true. However, for most of us touched by Jerry, he will be remembered for being a magnificent person.
Cheers,
Kate Mackay
January 31, 2005
When I think of all that seems so wrong in this world today, I now think of Jerry, who helped make this world seem so very right.
Swimming with the SEMS masters group changed my life in so many ways! I will be forever grateful to Jerry and Sharon for founding SEMS and for giving so much of themselves to so many. Personally, it has meant the world to me!
Jerry's loss is tragic. He was much too young and vibrant to leave us at this time, and we will miss him. I have no doubt that his incredible legacy will continue and grow in many directions.
Sharon, Ann, and Dave -- you are in my thoughts and prayers, as is Jerry. Much love to you all.
Kathryn Peterfeso
January 31, 2005
As a teacher I know that difference between success and failure in school for many kids comes down to whether or not they feel they have a group to which they belong. Swimming provided that group for my son, and the character of that group came from the coach. I am ever thankful that my kids were able to benefit from the superb role models provided by the coaches Simpson. Thanks for creating a warm, safe, and nurturing environment that allows kids to reach their potential, physically, mentally and emotionally. When Nate was in 7th grade he was deciding whether or not to be a swimmer or a skier. I hate the cold and was praying he'd choose swimming so I could cheer him on from a warm pool balconey rather than the frozen slopes of Afton Alps. My prayers were answered when he chose swimming in so many more ways than I can say. Thanks for everything. Kathy
Paul Colbert
January 30, 2005
Jerry was all that was right about sports and life. His passion for coaching and teaching is so evident - the thousands of lives he touched. I am so thankful that our daughters had the opportunity (and pleasure) to be coached by both Jerry and Sharon. They will carry the memories and teachings with them throughout the rest of their lives. May God bless Jerry!
Sue (Anderson) Brenna
January 30, 2005
The swimming community has lost a great man. As seen at his memorial, Mr. Simpson has touched so many lives in so many ways. He had a kind gentle manner towards life and swimming. And now the time has come to guide others towards the light as he has guided all of us through swimming. Mr. Simpson you will be deeply missed by all. I feel lucky to have known you all these years. Sharon, David and Ann thanks so much for sharing him to all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mariah Schisler
January 30, 2005
Mr.Simpson was a great guy and loved by so many people including me! I will miss him very much. He taught me so much like never to give up, if you work hard enough you will reach your goal, life is short so dont waste it, and try your hardest all the time.
Mr.Simpson you were a great man, and I will miss you all the time i think about swimming, you will be in my prayers forever.
Ben Dieffenbach
January 30, 2005
Mr. Simpson was truly one of the greats. His knowledge and passion for swimming were contagious. His passion for people and his genuine desire to see them suceed in not just swimming, but life, will stay with me for the rest of my life. Mr. Simpson will live on in my life as someone who truly desired for me to do the best that I could, and work hard doing it. Words can't express how important he was.
margaret iverson
January 30, 2005
This is my son's 1st year on the Woodbury HS swim team. I consider the short time he had with Mr. Simpson to have been such a positive influence. As I watched the happenings on the pool deck during meets I could tell that the program was excellent and in good hands. It is such a shame to lose the man behind it all! However, the legacy of coaches and swimmers who worked with Mr. Simpson is vast and his influence will endure; assuring my son and countless others the continuance of a great program.
Steve Mowery
January 30, 2005
Dear Coach,
In this decade there have been four events outside of my family that have had enough emotional impact on me in which to move me to tears.
On September 11th of 2001, as I stood in the Headquarters of US Central Command, command center, I watched two aircraft bury themselves into New York City.
The next was as I sat on the boarder of Kuwait and Iraq, and watched our men drive off accompanying the Marines as they moved into harms way.
The third was when was standing at Tampa Airport and I had the wonderful opportunity to greet the first wave of returning war veterans from Iraq.
Now - Today, as I was informed by my brother that the coach who had such impact on us had passed…………
Coach, you likely don’t realize your impact on my life. One of my most repeated stories is the time in 1973 when you told me, a mildly capable back stroke swimmer, that I was going to be your new butterfly stroke swimmer. When I responded, “But coach, I don’t know how to swim Fly.” Your answer was simple, “No problem Steve, you can swim it during laps until you are able!” You showed me how I could do things I never dreamed; you instilled a level of confidence that had not existed in a kid that up to that time had been seriously drifting astray.
One of the major regrets of my life also stems from that incident – the fact that I did not swim my senior year for you. You had showed me the importance of both commitment and confidence. When the school leadership informed me and others that our 8th, 9th and 10th grade petitions for a ski team had been answered, I came to you and spoke with you of how I felt obligated to follow through on something I had worked to see happen. Instead of making me feel bad you pointed out how important commitments were, and cemented my decision. You gave value to my decision.
You demonstrated to me dedication and organization. You set a standard that I continue to follow today. As a coach, in my personal life, I only hope that I have had some limited level of impact that you have had in yours. As a leader of men, in my professional life, I have been taught how much more important it is to be a coach than a boss.
Many strive to find immortality through the extension of life years. True immortality is drawn from the lives one has touched and molded. Coach, you are truly immortal.
.
Natalie Wrangham
January 30, 2005
Sharon, David, & Ann,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Jennry's death. Jerry was SEMS, and SEMS was family to us during our time in Cottage Grove. Take comfort in knowing that Jerry is safely in God's hands, and that he touched so many lives - ripples are still going outward. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now.
Natalie, Neil, Jennifer (Muehlenkamp), & Steve Wrangham
Jason Proulx
January 29, 2005
Jerry was more than a coach he was a life mentor for me. I will truly remember all the advice and structure he brought into my life. I will truly miss him.
With my deepest sympathy and love
Cheryl (Walker) Vatsaas
January 29, 2005
I was saddened to read the news about Mr. Simpson. These entries bear witness to what a great coach and all around good guy he was. I learned that firsthand back in the early 80's, when as team manager I watched in amazement as the goofball guys I knew from class transformed into hardworking, dedicated athletes under his guidance. Everyone gave his best for Mr. Simpson, and vice-versa. I remember a sign he put up near the pool: "Once I thought I was wrong, but I was mistaken." Make no mistake about it; Mr. Simpson, you were one of the best.
D.J. Waldera
January 29, 2005
The cost of a Speedo, $20. The cost of a room at the Kayler in Rochester for the state swim meet, $59. Having Jerry and Sharon coach, mentor, inspire and watch over our son for the past ten years, PRICELESS.
Jerry's contributions to swimming and this community can not be measured. His work over the last 35 years has created a legacy that will withstand the test of time.
Thank you for everything.
David Villafana Sr.
January 29, 2005
We have known Jerry for 22 years and he coached and influenced all our 4 chidreen. His positive influence helped shape their characters and pointed to the direction where effort, dedication and honesty are the main ingredients of success. In addition, he showed them how to react to adversity or defeat because he said"anybody knows how to win, but you really know a person when they lose".
Sharon, David and Ann our prayers are with you all and I am sure that Jerry is enjoying a place in eternity.
David Villafana
January 29, 2005
Sharon, David, and Ann:
I am so very thankful for the time I had with Jerry. I don't think I truly realized until now how much he has affected my life and especially the way I coached. Nothing can ease the pain of the loss of such a wonderful person and extraordinary coach, but the memories I wouldn't trade for the world. Jerry's love of life and enthusiasm for swimming will live on in so many that we will constantly be surrounded by his presence. I also want you all to know that it was your love for him that helped shape the husband, father, coach, and friend that we all celebrate and admire. I will never forget Jerry or any of you whose love for each other spread to so many outside your family to touch the lives of everyone you knew. The Lord will take good care of Jerry because he knows what Jerry did with his time on earth for those around him can never be justly rewarded, and that’s just how Jerry would want it.
God Bless,
Kara Straw
January 29, 2005
Mr. Simpson was inspiration to all. he will be missed a lot. He was not only a coach but an awesome friend. He motivated everyone around him to be their best. I was very honored to know him and be coached by him. I will always remember his life lessons and his advice. Thank you Mr. Simpson, for everything.
Diane (Burdorf) Thielen
January 29, 2005
I was honored to have Mr. Simpson as my childhood coach on the ST. Paul Park Sharks and then as an adult collegue some 25 years later, (He remembered me too!). The hardest part was deciding what to call him. It took months for me to become comfortable with "Jerry", (I know that was a common thread with a lot of us). My best memory is walking in on Rick Light and Jerry swimming laps in the middle of the school day. I think we startled each other. I'll always think of WHS pool as Simpson Pool from now on, and maybe I can help make that happen. I will miss him a great deal. Sharon, David, Janet and Ann, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alex Darr
January 29, 2005
Mr. Simpson made me the swimmer I am today. He taught me that with hard work, you can achieve anything. Mr. Simpson, Thank You for being such a great coach, and more importantly, an amazing person. Mrs. Simpson, I am so sorry for your loss.
Derek Nordtvedt
January 29, 2005
Simpson family,
Mr. Simpson was my coach, a co-worker, a mentor and most of all a teacher. I had the privilege of swimming for him for about 9 years and working with him for about 3 years. It didn't matter what city you lived in or what team you swam for, he was always there to support and encourage you. I think the most impotant things I learned from him was to work hard, respect others and have fun in what you do. To Mrs. Simpson and your family, you will be in my prayers and he will always be in my heart. I feel honored for knowing him.
Nancy (Wellck) Nissen
January 29, 2005
Sharon,
What a sad surprise to learn of Jerry's passing. I'm delighted, however, to see what a wonderful contribution he made to so many people - I'm sure you are going to miss him greatly. Our sympathy to you and your family, and will you also extend our sympathy to Trevor and the rest of Jerry's family.
Matt Moehrle
January 29, 2005
Coach Simpson continues to teach me important lessons. Seeing the amazing number of people at the memorial service yesterday made it clear to me that success is more about encouraging and mentoring others than it is about personal achievements. Thanks for being a wise mentor and a classy adversary! PHS '98
Lonn Kohn
January 29, 2005
What a privilege it has been to know and coach with Jerry Simpson. Everyone who has come into contact with Jerry quickly recognized his integrity, class and caring presence on and off the pool deck. He always brought out the best in all of his swimmers and was a positive influence on so many individuals and the community. I truly enjoyed traveling in the van caravan up to International Falls the past four boys high school seasons. The trip was important to Jerry beyond the swimming competition. It was a chance for the boys to bond with teammates and with the International Falls swimmers and add life lessons to thier experience as a Woodbury Royal. Jerry will be remembered not only as a great swimming coach, but as a top notch mentor and role model. My thoughts and prayers go out to Sharon, Dave and Ann.
Sherry Gross
January 29, 2005
Mr. Simpson truley cared for each and everyone of his swimmers. Because of his help in saving the WSH pool, both of our children have a second home, swimming for Mr. Simpson. Both Mr. and Mrs. Simpson have had such a positive influence on both of our children. Ryan and Lizzy joined SEMS in the fall of 2002 together, never having participated in a sport before. They were welcomed into the world of swimming with open arms by two wonderful, caring, knowledgeble people. Jerry and Sharon, you both have taken the time to teach, guide, mentor and encourage our children to do their very best. Being there for them whether they DQ'd or finished first. All the while praising them for swimming to the best of their ability. No one may ever know how many lives Mr. Simpson has touched but I know the impact that he has had on our family has been a great one. This is Ryan's 3rd year on the WHS team, and has never worked harder in school and in the pool, and I credit Ryan's success to Mr. Simpson. He has definately left his mark on Ryan!! Lizzy swam her heart out everyday at every single practice this first year on the 7th grade team. Just the other day at the True Teams Sections Meet, sat Sharon quietly making a blanket while the boys swam, taking it all in. I thought to myself, she could be anywhere else right now, yet here she is by her husbands side. They must truly have a love story. I thought to myself, I hope Mr. Simpson has many years left of coaching in him, my children need him and Mrs. Simpson. Words cannot begin to express the positive impact that Mr. Simpson has had on our children. We are so thankful to have found two such wonderful people full of love for children, we truley have been blessed. Mr. Simpson has left a huge hole in our hearts but with time comes healing, his legacy will live on forever in the hearts and minds of all that knew him!!
With deepest Sympathy,
The Gross Family
Michael, Sherry, Ryan & Lizzy
Amanda Stovall
January 29, 2005
Mr. Simspon wasn't just a coach, but a mentor and friend as well. He has impacted so many lives, and his memory will forever live on in those who were fortunate enough to have known him. Thank you Mr. Simspon for the life lessons you taught, for you will always have an influence on the way I live mine. My love goes out to the Simpson family.
Mary Morales
January 28, 2005
Almost seven years ago, when our family moved from Red Wing to the East Metro area, we asked then coach Paul Windrath which swim clubs we should consider for our two young boys. There was no question in Paul's mind. He pointed us in the SEMS direction because of the well established coaching of Sharon and Jerry Simpson. We knew little of just how highly the swimming community regarded them both. Over the years, Sharon and Jerry have been wonderful examples of what commitment and caring can do for the life of a young person. It never mattered to them where you lived or which team you swam with for the high school season. They were always there with a kind word, a joke or encouragement. Jerry will be missed greatly by many as evidenced on these pages. What will live on will be the example he set of a gentle caring professionalism. Our boys will be better adults as a result of knowing him and having the wonderful priveledge of being coached by him. We will miss him greatly. Our thoughts and prayers to Sharon and family.
Mary & Jim Morales
nicholas laura
January 28, 2005
Ann and family:
I am sorry about the loss, of your dad, He was a lucky man to have such a special family. You are all in my prayers.
laura
Sofia Levinson
January 28, 2005
Dear Mrs. Simpson,
I would like to offer my heartfelt condolences at the recent passing away of your husband. You both have done so much for the young people of Woodbury through the work, time, and care you have put into the SEMS swim club. I never had the opportunity to get to know your husband very well, but I do remember how his presence at the meets and practices was always warm. I also remember how the high school girls always spoke fondly of him and how I looked forward to being coached by him, too. Your husband was a very special person and he will be remembered for his dedication, kindness, and support. It is certainly a comforting thought to know that if there isn’t a swimming school in Heaven, Mr. Simpson is starting one right now.
Sincerely, Sofia Levinson
eighth grade/ group blue
1-27-05
Michael & Heather Iannacone
January 28, 2005
Not too many people are given the huge responsibility in life to influence so many children. Jerry was one of those poeple and he assumed that responsibility with calmness, grace, humor and honesty. Our children who had the privilege of spending time with Jerry carry a part of him on into the future with them in their hearts. The world is definitly a better palce because Jerry spent time here and we are the lucky ones for having known him. Our heart felt sorrow goes out to Sharon, David and Ann for loss.
Amanda Burks
January 28, 2005
Mr. Simpson was a kind and compassionate man. He will always be in my heart. We will miss you!
Alissa Colbert
January 28, 2005
Mr.Simpson has and will remain a great influence in my life. He taught me to believe in myself and to never give up on my goals. All the memories we shared from swim meets, to practices, to bus rides I will charish forever. I have few years left of competetive swimming. For every practice and meet that I partake in, will be devoted to his memory. I owe him a great deal of thanks, because without Mr.Simpson in my life I would not be the person I am today.
You will be missed
Love Alissa
Sinziana Cornea
January 28, 2005
I have been so lucky to have had Mr. Simpson as my coach and friend. He not only taught me how to swim well, but also to always do my best and to have fun. He always took such good care of his swimmers, making sure everyone had an equal opportunity to excel. He was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. Thank you, Mr. Simpson, for everything you've done. You will always be in everyone's hearts and minds. Rest in peace Mr. Simpson.
Love, Sinziana
Tim Walton
January 28, 2005
I would like to send my deepest condolences to the Simpson Family.
After reading all of the wonderful comments about Jerry it is obvious to see how much of difference he made in so many peoples lives. To me, Jerry always seemed calm and in control. I had the good fortune of driving with Jerry and 3 other coaches to Fort Smith Arkansas to the Zone Championships. We all got along famously. He was a true gentleman that exuded consistency and a refreshing attitude of perseverance and perspective about what is most important in life, Family. Now that I have 2 children of my own, I aspire to those very same qualities.
Thank you for the memories.
Christian Baker
January 28, 2005
Mr. Simpson,I still cant believe that such a wonderful man like you were taken away at such a young age. You should be proud to look down and see all the people that you have touched. We are all proud and honored to have been able to know you. You were my coach for many years and even during school season you always made sure to ask what I was swimming and say good swim after my race. When my team would go against your I knew I had to go in and swim great to make you proud of me. As I will soon be entering my college swimming career you will always be in my heart and head as I swim. Thank you for everythying. To Mrs. Simpson, in a time like this just remeber your husband was a great man and you and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts.
~Christian~
Dana MacCornack
January 28, 2005
I would like to thank the Simpson family for impacting my life in such a positive way. Through their coaching and friendship I learned disapline, responsability, and resiliency. I can only hope to be as good of a teacher as they have been to me. Thank you.
Nate Amidon
January 28, 2005
Mr. Simpson was one of the few people who understood the true value of competitive swimming. Not only did he help all of us to be more competitive in the pool, he taught us so many valuable lessons that still hold true in my life today. To think of the amount of people he affected in the same way he affected me should make everyone proud to have been apart of his life. Thanks for everything Mr. Simpson.
Nate Amidon
Iustin Cornea
January 28, 2005
I knew Mr. Simpson as a swim coach and a life coach. he did both extremely well and always brightend the day. At meets he always complimented you and gently told you what you should improve on. I remember at the last meet at Stillwater (I know I was Stillwater because they mispronounced my name on the underwater speakers) I swam the 100 breaststroke and got 1st out of the three guys swimming. I went to Mr. Simpson afterwards and he said,
"Great job Iustin, you were an animal." My parents laughed when I told them about it. he was always a funny and gentle man. the memorial services today were the one of the most touching and honorable services I've ever been to. My sympathy goes out to the wonderful Simpson family.
Lindsay Barker
January 28, 2005
Mr. Simpson is the kind of coach you never wanted to let down. Not because he would get upset with you, but because you knew how much he cared about you being happy with your own accomplishments. He had a heart of gold and he will never be forgotten.
Robin Carlson
January 28, 2005
Mr. Simpson was always warm and friendly with everyone. What an extraordinary legacy he has left in the many lives he has shaped. My heart goes out to the Simpson Family.
David Shapley
January 28, 2005
I have lost a good friend, Jerry. Being on dack and in the water with Jerry for a good number of years has all been my gain. I know of no one I respect more and have learned more from than Jerry. A true gentleman always.
Kirk Edlund
January 28, 2005
Sharon, David and Ann, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Coach Simpson thanks for making me a better person. For me, you will always be the ideal coach/leader.
Peter Darling
January 28, 2005
Dear Simpson Family,
Words cannot express how I feel about the loss of Mr. Simpson. I feel honored to be able to say that he was my coach. But he was more than that to me. In High School I went through some rough times. Mr. Simpson was always there for me when I was down and he could always find a way cheer me up. I just want to thank you for everything you have done for me and all your swimmers. We love you so much and we all will miss you.
Art Brandt
January 28, 2005
It has been a few years that I have been on deck with all those wonderful age group coaches but more than they may realize, it was Jerry and Sharon that shared so much of their knowledge and friendship with novices like myself. Sorry to see you go Jerry. Your smile and calm demeanor and your dedication to children of all ages will be greatly missed. Excellence was taught by an excellent man. Art Brandt, Menomonie, WI
Kathy (Sorenson) Ryan
January 28, 2005
Sharon and family:
Thank you for your wonderful friendship with our family over the years. Jerry was a super coach and mentor. May Woodbury be blessed with another coach like Jerry in the future. His impact in the swimming circle was amazing.
James Kochendorfer
January 28, 2005
I was in the pool this morning when I heard this tragic news. He has left
this world having inspired so many people in all of Minnesota, it is not
surprising that the conversation turned from what we as swimmers were going
to do today, to what a great man Jerry was. Jerry inspired me as a twelve
year old with his laughter and love for getting up for morning practice
(even when there was enough June bugs on the water to barely be able to
breath). I've taken that inspiration and turned my bride (of 17 years) and
kids into morning people (most of the time :-) that enjoy the full landscape
of what a sunrise can look like with fog on the water.
To the Simpson family I'd like to say a simple thank you for sharing a man
that was so inspirational. The entire World may not have known him, but
that is their loss. Like the ripples from a stone thrown into a pond he has
inspired so many "rings of love and passion" for the sport of swimming that
he will never fade from memory.
With love for what he taught us all to feel,
The Kochendorfer's
Pat Edlund
January 28, 2005
Jerry will be greatly missed. He was an inspiration to each and every swimmer whether in the pool or in life. My sympathy and prayers to his family.
Robert Burdorf
January 28, 2005
Mr Simpson was not only my teacher,swim coach ,or S.E.M.S coach ,he was also my mentor.From my experiences with Jerry I have taken up coaching competitive swimming.My children are also swimmimg on a Club Team.Jery will also be remembered as a man that cared more for the kids he taught than doing something for himself.One of my best memories is when Jerry would pick me up for the morning practices so I wouldn't skip them!!He will be missed very much by those who knew him.
Sincerely,
Bob Burdorf
Travis N. Beard
January 28, 2005
I was a latecomer to Master's swimming, having joined SEMS in my 50's, so I have known Jerry for over 10 years. He has been a steady resource, mentor and role model for me during this time. He will be dearly missed. We must all pull for Sharon now and help her and SEMS flourish as one of the USA's premier swimming programs.
Robert Coombes
January 28, 2005
I have no words that can do justice. He was a great man who is loved by all. We will miss you!
Mike Wang
January 28, 2005
What a tremendous loss for Minnesota swimming with the passing of Jerry Simpson. He was a positive presence in and out of the pool. While he will be missed, he will never be forgotten. My condolences go out to Sharon and her family.
john wendt
January 28, 2005
Jerry Simpson was the epitome of everything you want to be as a coach. He was a teacher, a mentor, a friend, a leader. Always there with a smile. He loved swimming and he loved all his swimmers. It is an honor and privilege to know him and to learn from him. He will be deeply, deeply missed.
Rocky O'Neill
January 28, 2005
Funny, I don’t remember the first time I met Jerry; I think it’s because for most of my life he has been everywhere in the MN swimming scene - Masters, HS and Club.
My first season coaching - HS in the early ‘80s - culminated with the Section Championships. We were a rag-tag group made up of chess club members, hyper-actives and guys who didn’t make the hockey team. Our squad warmed up at this meet and huddled together trying to remember what the order for the Medley Relay was when in poured Jerry’s Woodbury team. Each member was decked out in snappy bright blue warm-ups,and they proceeded to do some crazy cheer which was long, loud, intricate, and totally entertaining. They had everyone in the pool area enthralled and focused on them. Of course they also kicked all our butts in the water, but I recall thinking ‘now there’s a team’. I also learned an incredible lesson at that meet: that the lowly sport of swimming could be a school's priority, a worthwhile sport like it obviously was at Woodbury. Jerry insisted on it being no other way.
Jerry was the kind of guy who you, as a coach, could not pass on the pool deck without conversation or at least saying hello, no matter how preoccupied you were. He loved the whole swimming environment. But then, what else would you expect from a guy who was still competing in his favorite event - the 200 Fly?
Pat Carroll
January 27, 2005
Sharon, David and Ann my deepest condolences in the passing of this wonderful man. So much has been said about his infulences, his character and the lasting affect he is leaving on so many lives! I am deeply touched reading all these wonderful messages left by so many.
May God bless you.
Jim Solem
January 27, 2005
It has been 20 years since I last swam for Coach Simpson, and if you asked him on Monday he would have able to tell you what my splits were at the State Meet that year. He had a very special way of making each one of his swimmers feel like they were the only swimmer he coached. A rare gift given to a select few. I will be forever grateful and will always cherish the time I was given with Coach Simpson. My family extends our heart felt condolences to the Simpson Family.
Curt and Susan Johannsen
January 27, 2005
Sharon, Dave and Ann - Susan and I were so deeply saddened to hear about Jerry's death. Our family has had the privilege of knowing the Simpson family for over 20 years, and I even got to fish with Jerry a couple of times. Somehow I can still see him driving that old ugly Buick he thought was so great, and that David was so embarassed by. I can't imagine two people that have given more to swimming, and swimmers, than Jerry and Sharon. The positive influence they have had on so many lives, and especially my children's lives, is really just to great to measure. It seems unimaginable to even think about Woodbury Swimming and SEMS without Jerry being on deck. God Bless you Jerry. You were a good and gracious man.
Chris Babcock
January 27, 2005
I was greatly saddened to hear about Mr. Simpson's passing. I think of him often as I am coaching my teams now. I never was a swimmer, but had many friends who were. He has touched many lives probably more than he will ever know. Good work in life. Your spirit lives on.
Deborah Ries
January 27, 2005
I feel truly blessed to have worked with Jerry as a Minnesota Swim Official and to watch him in action as he coached our son Mike in both SEMS and WHS swim teams. He was not only a wonderful coach but a wonderful role model for his students, swimmers, and friends. We are very sad to hear of Jerry's death. What a wonderful gift he brought to all on earth and will continue to bring through eternal life. Our prayers go out to the Simpson family. May God Bless.
Joe O'Kane
January 27, 2005
I met Jerry and Sharon several years ago when they suffered through the process of teaching me to swim as a 35-year-old rookie of SEMS Masters program. Jerry must have wondered why someone with as little talent as a swimmer continued to show up, but I never saw a hint of it, only encouragement.
Jerry you were a wonderful role model as a person and friend, you were the best kind of coach, you amazed me with your ability in the pool, your positive demeanor, and your friendly attitude, none of which ever changed. Clearly you and Sharon share a special relationship.
Your gift of swimming has allowed me to meet wonderful people and live a better life.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for all you have done for me I will never forget you!
Joe O’Kane and the rest of the O’Kane family - Laurie, Connor, Austin and Brooke
Stephanie Lise
January 27, 2005
Mr. Simpson was an amazing mentor in my life. He was an absolute blast, and most of all taught me to love swimming and to be myself... Ill always remember our State Meet adventures,his love for 'cool jazz' and putting up with our kick/sing sets..:)He was one of Gods angels.He will be forever in my heart.I Miss you Mr. Simpson! May i swim on your team in heaven?
Jessica Carlson
January 27, 2005
Mr. Simpson has been a strong influence in my life. He believed in me even when I didn't believe in myself. He was always smiling and he would always offer encouraging words after a bad race. I will miss the consistency that he gave all of us. Mr. Simpson made me the swimmer I am, and drove me to do my best. Although I will miss him greatly during my senior year, we are going to swim for him every single day. Mr. Simpson thank you for everything you taught us, and also we all thought you looked great in pink.
Amy Phillips
January 27, 2005
There have been so many lives Mr. Simpson has touched, so many hearts he has reached out to, and so many swimmers he has instilled a love for swimming in. He was a truly great man. Despite swimming for a rival high school team I had the honor of swimming for him through SEMS, but whether I was swimming for Park or for SEMS Mr. Simpson was always there with that grin from cheek to cheek wishing nothing but the best for you. I have learned so much from him, I have developed a love for something I can't imagine doing without him. He created champions, he created a passion for the sport, he created a family of swimmers, he was everything to our programs. He is one of the greatest assets not only to my swimming career, but to hundreds of swimming careers. I never got a chance to say a final goodbye or thank you for everything you have done Mr. Simpson, but know that you have touched so many lives and we are forever grateful for everything you have done. You have created a passion that grows inside so many of us, and now, we swim for you.
Jim Hill
January 27, 2005
The Hill family is truly saddened by the loss of a wonderful man. Mr. Simpson was a kind gentle man with passion. I was able to travel with him to International Falls over this last Christmas break. It was great to hear about his passion for the kids, swimming and his family. My son Jon was blessed to be coached by him. I just wish all of my children had that privilege.
Chris Aarseth (Mpls. Edison Swim Coach)
January 27, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones at this time. Although I knew Jerry for a short time and only saw him occasionally at the Maroon and Gold Invite, I knew he was a true coach/role model--a man of intregity, loyalty, and thoughtfulness. He always showed passion for this sport and caring for his athletes.
Paul Madson
January 27, 2005
I have swum with SEMS for over ten years and my sons also swam for SEMS.It was readily apparent to anyone that met Jerry that he was a person that cared about the person as much as he cared about the swimmer. Awhile ago,Woodbury and my son Nathan's school Tartan had one of their last dual meets. Nathan was doing the backstroke.There was the opposing coach, Jerry, flapping his arms to my son in that way coaches due to urge the backstroker to kick harder.My young son was impressed by the concern that "Mr. Simpson" showed even for an opponent. Jerry and I shared the same profession, teaching, so often are conversations were not just about swimming. I will greatly miss talking, workingout and laughing(a lot) with Jerry.We returned to swimming today for the first time since Tuesday and I kept expecting to see Jerry come out of his office and join us. It will never be the same.We love you Jerry!
Jill Ackley (Griffin)
January 27, 2005
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cliff Allen
January 27, 2005
Because of Jerry Simpson's leadership of swim programs, at specific times during my son's teenage years I REALLY knew where Nathan was and that he was involved in a positive, healthy and enriching activity with good people.
Thanks, Jerry.
Cedric Kuo
January 27, 2005
It is a great honor, for me, to have known and been coached by Mr. Simpson. His great sense of humor and talent as a great coach always inspired me to achieve more, not only in swimming but in everyday life. A thousand thanks to him and the impact he has had on me. I will miss him. My heart goes out to the Simpson family.
Matthew Struck
January 27, 2005
I didn't know Mr. Simpson for very long, or very well. I met him for the first time this last summer during SEMS season, it was my first year. Even though I did not get to know him well, he was still very friendly to me and made me feel I could always do just a little more. I remember one time, at practice, I was so tired and I felt I couldn't finish the set. So I was sitting on the side of the pool. He walked by, looked at me in the eye, and said with a smile on his face "put some fins on and do your best, you can do some more." It was difficult, but I put my fins on and finished the set. Even though I did not know Mr. Simpson very well, I still feel like I have lost something, he touched my life in just a few seconds. My prayers go out to his family, and all of the swimmers who knew him so well and have been so devestated by his passing.
Harry Dixon
January 27, 2005
Simpson thanx for being a great coach and always being there. You were wonderful, thanx for the memories. This season is for you.
Harry
Paul Burleigh
January 27, 2005
Mrs. Simpson, Our family was deeply saddened to hear of Jerry's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Burleigh Family-Paul, Renee, Marissa, and Olivia
Johanna Moore
January 27, 2005
Thank you Mr. Simpson, for being a great coach, and a genuinely wonderful person.
Richard Pursley
January 27, 2005
Two things I think of when I think of Mr. Simpson:
Swimming of course... When I was swimming in the late 70's, there were schools in our conference, Hastings and Stillwater, which had very good teams. On paper, we could easily lose to these teams if each of us swam our best events. So, for close meets, Mr. Simpson would ask us to swim different events when he thought we could beat the opponents second or third best swimmer. It's impressive, and a testament to his coaching skill, that he knew how fast we could swim before we did. And very often this was just enough to win meets we may not have otherwise won. These meets were the most fun, not only because we won, but because you swam a race you didn't normaly swim, and you proved him right by doing so.
The second thing I think of is Field Hockey. Anyone else ever see him play? He loved to play...(lest you forget he's Candadian eh?). I had the misfortune one day of standing between him and the goal after he had stick handled his way through a crowd of 3 or 4 kids. No one was going to deny him this shot... not some swimmer. When he looked up and saw me standing there... a grinch-like smile spread slowly accross his face... He wound up and let loose a slap shot sent me diving to the floor. I didn't want anything to do with a shot that came from a man that was smiling like that.
My guess is he's playing hockey somewhere now...
Pete Magee
January 27, 2005
Jerry Simpson was good friend and a wonderful person to compete with and against. His generosity and good nature made losing to him almost a pleasure. And his sportsmanship made beating him almost painful. As someone who swims the easy races (he always swam the hard ones), I admired him for his determination and will power. He will be sorely missed by me and by everyone who knew him.
Meaghan Rohde
January 27, 2005
Mr. Simpson was more than a good swim coach he was a great man. He helped his swimmers on and off the pool deck. He was truely a wonderful man. I am blessed to have had him in my life. The Simpson family is in my prayers.
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