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May 15, 2020
God is a God of all Comfort...
jamie mckee
November 18, 2012
O Lord bless Ray Meyer.& Jim and Erma McKee.
And bless families of them both & those who knew them. From:
student of 1..
son of 2.
better man cuz of all
Rest You All Thank You
June 29, 2010
Joey,
I miss coach so much, but I miss you more.
Love, Dennis Mcguire
Bob Sandstrom
April 7, 2010
I attended Coach Meyer's Summer Camp and he always was encouraging us to be the best we could be. I remember he called me "whitey" because of my blond hair. He inspired me and taught me valuable lessons - self-motivation & confidence. These lessons I have carried with me though out my life. He will be very much missed but I know he will be coaching again and will continue to inspire individuals. He was quite a human being. My sympathy and best wishes to Joey and the rest of the Meyer family. God bless.
March 16, 2010
Dear Mr. Meyer's family, please accept my warmest sympathies and be comforting knowing Almighty God is "near to those that are broken at heart and those who are crushed in spirit he saves" (Psalm 34:18). He can give us power beyond what is normal to go on from one day to the next (2 Corin. 4:7).
Greg Henry
September 3, 2009
It's only now that I have learned of the passing of a great Coach, great family man, and great "father" to many, many who attended the Ray Meyer Boys Camp for so many years.
It is only now that, belatedly, I send my condolences and best wishes to Joey and the rest of the Meyer family.
Although some 50 years have passed, I remember fondly the 3 summers spent with Coach Ray, Joey, the Meyer family and others. Basketball was, and was never to be my forte, but the lessons learned from Coach were well taught and remembered to this day.
It's a shame I never knew that much about him. Oddly, I was blessed to follow in his footsteps in attending and graduating from Notre Dame. Who could have known that Coach would be the first ND Alum I would ever meet, at the age of 6!
I remember well the swims, the canteen, and of course the Bug Juice of daily life at the Camp. And the profound spiritual and moral guidance and wisdom of everyday life which was just as much a part of the Camp experience.
Coach Ray, God bless you always as you continue your wise counsel to all the many boys - and men - who have made it there to heaven with you!
Fred Mueller
July 14, 2009
Dear Tommy, Joey, 'Binky', and sisters-
My most sincere condolences to you for your loss.
Your dad and you all gave me and many others great memories. Names like Tom Evans and the Howlett brothers came back to me as well - always with a smile.
It was at Ray Meyer's Boys Camp where I learned that I'd never amount to much of a baketball layer, but, that I loved the game and loved to watch good teams compete.
Your dad was a lasting example to me -like once when some older guys were 'terrorizing' some younger campers. He showed me that we all have responsibilities to others - and his example was one I'll not forget.
I hope wherever this message finds you, that you are well and in good spirits.
My life is better for having had met and worked for "Coach Meyer".
An Old RMBC Camper,
Fred Mueller
Jeff (JP) Pawlowski
November 5, 2008
The best summers of my life were spent in Three Lakes learning about hoops and life from Coach. A great man gone but not forgotten.
Sam Manella
October 8, 2008
Coach I miss when you read to me when I couldn't sleep and how you didn't get mad at me when I wet my pants at your camp. Thanks so much miss you Sam
Reverend Tom Barr Catholic Preist
July 16, 2008
Coach Ray's deep religous faith inspired me to follow my heart after playing for coach in the late 70's.
IT's not the end will meet again at the fesival of freinds
Buckey Goldstein
July 16, 2008
I went to coach ray's camp for 5 years. I was never good at basketball but coach told me to follow my heart of being a cowboy and did , Thank You Coach
Dale Earnhardt
July 15, 2008
Live fast and die laughing! That's what Ray Meyer told me at his basketball camp. Those were great words.
Becky Smith
July 27, 2007
The game of basketball will never see another one like Ray Meyer. How lucky the city of Chicago was to have such an icon at DePaul. He was such a big man in all areas of his life.
len caprisecca
July 23, 2007
coach
i met you in 1968 when you brought your team to niagara u to play.i remember standing there,and knowing that there was alot of talent on the floor,i still was more impressed with you. i played freshman ball for nu,as back in the day freshman could not play varsity. god bless you
william jerry
July 8, 2007
For a great man who dared to step out and give young black men from chicago to play at Depaul taking the team down in history
Eduardo Odriozola
June 30, 2007
Dear Meyer family,
I´m interseted in sending my kids to summer camp, and remembering two incredible summers I spend with my brothers at "Ray Meyers Boys Camp", in the early 70s, I wondered if the camp was still running.
I'm sad to hear Mr. Meyer died.
Spending those summers with him and family has been an experience I have always remember with great joy. Those were the good times!
He treated us as his very own sons, caring much about us, the only mexicans in camp.
I remember Joe his son, Bear, Dee Dee and his other grand daughter whose name I forgot.
It was a real honor to cross in my life with Mr Meyer, a very simple, happy, enthusiastic, paternal great man.
God bless you all.
Sincerly,
Parle
June 7, 2007
Thanks for those nine Fifties summers, Coach!
Jay Troyer
February 19, 2007
I loved Ray Meyer he was my favorite basketball coach. One of the greatest things I ever saw was after the St. Joe game when they were upset. I was sick to my stomach and Ray was interviewed right after the game and I know if I was feeling the way I was he was feeling a lot worse and he said the sun will come up tomorrow. I will never forget him making me feel a little beter. What a great coach but even a better man. One of the Greatest.
Jon Harris
February 14, 2007
Thanks for everything Coachy! Much love...
Richie Manderfeld
November 27, 2006
I just said a prayer for Ray.......
........post Thanksgiving b-ball always makes me think about DePaul........and "uncle" Ray.....
.....Class act...........great soul...... 'nuf said....
richie .......fan
Jim Mangan
November 3, 2006
Coach, may God bless you and keep you.
Eric Ellis
September 7, 2006
To The Meyer Family: We are saddened for your loss. Ray Meyer did a brilliant job as a College Basketball Coach for the better part of forty years. He was second to none in the college world -- especially at DePaul. Even if the Blue Demons made it to the Final Four just once in the last thirty years or so, his squads from previous years were well-coached and well-disciplined on a consistent basis. He was larger than life at DePaul. He maintained a strong fiber of character and leadership at DePaul. His 1981 and 1982 teams -- by far -- were definitely the best squads that DePaul University maintained in the Ray Meyer Era. Need I Say More? Thanks!!
Levi Patrick II
June 24, 2006
He was like a father to me. I always received new converse with the team every year from about age 8 until 16, I had BIG feet.
He thought I was going to really tall and wanted me to play with him but I stopped growing at age 14, 6'3".
I just heard today of his death and I am very saddened I could not go to DePaul to attend his funeral.
My mom working at Roma's for many years and the Meyer family will always be in my memories.
Levi Patrick II
[email protected]
Dan Bacone
May 29, 2006
Ray Meyer was a classy man and coach. He always seemed to be in a good mood. He always had time to do interviews and talk with the fans. De Paul fans and the city will miss him. May he rest in peace.
Dane' Govedarica
May 12, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the Meyer family,My dad,Bato Govedarica was coahed by Ray and a De Paul Hall of Famer as well,and inducted in Illinois's Basketball Hall of Fame.Dad is being inducted into the Chicago Public High School Hall of Fame tomorrow and was voted one of the top 50B~ball players to ever come out of Chicago thanks to coach. My nephew wil except on his behalf with my Mom present.I know Coach would have been there with his great big smile I remember so well. Sadly,Coach and Dad are both in Heaven's Basketball Hall of fame. Dad sadly passed away 5 days before Coach and I can't tell you all the great stories of the days at De Paul Dad tolf me about and hard they trained and it paid off he was a great father and it was an honor to be his daughter and I'm proud to have called him Dad he was so devoted to his family always helped people and I try to be like Dad everyday of my life.Dad learned quite a lot from Coach as Dad lost his father at 3 years old so Coach was in a lot of ways a mentor and fine tuned dad's game and made him very displined as person.An athlete until shortly before his passing and a great golfer. I loved watching sports with Dad the last few year's living with him I learned so much from him and like everyone always wanted to be in his company.Dad admired your father so much the training he gave him and Dad passed it on to my sister, brother,and I.The love,and memories are what carry us through and all the great time's and I will never forget your Mom & Dad at our house at our annual Slava telling me how great dad was with the basketball and as a person. I would talk every year with him and he always said "Your Dad had such flair and charisma like no other player I coached" I worked for Dad and I loved when people would come in to his office and say they used to watch Dad play at De Paul there faces would light up as they described his ball handling and manuever's. Everyday is a true gift may you have strength from his love and wonderful memories of all the days of his life.May he rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Dane'
[email protected]
Edmund Jefferson
April 19, 2006
Hey Everyone
I remember not more than 6 or 7 years ago when i went to Ray Meyer's basketball and I had a great time doing all the drills running around the foorball poles doing stretches right after breakfast I greatly miss that camp and after I was done with his station Coach pull me aside and said "your gonna be something special you ugly little rascal and when you do you come back to visit" it was the second to last secession that Coach ever had I never came back to visit so this is my way of coming back to visit sorry I did't come back earlier Coach I MISS YOU
Bruce Piepho
April 5, 2006
Nice testamony
Dawn Gasior
April 1, 2006
Barbara, Tom, Pat, Joey and Bob, Thank you for sharing you Dad with us! A beautiful man with and absolutely beautiful family. What a gift!!! You are in my prayers.
Kevin Cunningham
March 31, 2006
In so many ways Coach, you reminded me of my late father. You showed us so much about life by the way that you handled winning and loosing, and how to treat others. We will never forget you. Thank you.
Charles Mikan
March 29, 2006
To a great family friend and mentor to us all. Ray, thanks for helping making my uncle his best.Also just thanks for being part of our family. Miss you deepley Ray !!!
Jasmine L.Cummings
March 27, 2006
Ray of Hope
by: Jasmine Haynes Cummings
He was a ray of hope for Chicago,
A ray of light for all to see.
Keeping that unique smile,
Unaware that all the while,
He was the type of person we all strove to be.
Just being in his presence, for those of us blessed to be in,
His wisdom, his stories, more than all of his glories,
Made one honored to call him a friend.
The Lord made us all for a purpose,
And Coach’s purpose was so clear to me;
For no one could inspire, like our “Coach” Ray Meyer,
Our friend through eternity.
March, 2006
Brian Schiewe
March 26, 2006
some of the best memories I have as a youngster were my two trips with my triplet brothers to Coach's summer camp in Wisconsin. I can still hear Coach screaming "pick and roll" and I can remember working the three man weave at Coach's court. I also remember how kind and generous Coach was after he left DePaul whenever I saw him. He was and always will be an inspiration to me.
Jon Savin
March 26, 2006
As a former summer camper, I extend my sincere condolences to the Meyer family.
joe peterson
March 25, 2006
I loved watching Ray Meyers' mens basketball team play. he was a great coach and man, a real chicago guy. He will be missed.
Lisa Kuchar
March 25, 2006
Dear Suzannie, My deapest sympathy to you and all of your family. Your grandfather was a wonderful man and I know how much he meant to you. Please know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Your friend always, Tarzanna
Jim & Lynn Bocinsky
March 24, 2006
Coach - thanks so much for the memories you helped us create.
Lynn & Bo
Debbie Dakouzlian
March 24, 2006
Dear Coach,
Thank you for being the best a man can be!
To the Meyer family,
Coach will always be in my heart and memory as a gentle, loving and cuddable person.
He'd always have a kind and encouraging word for me while I worked out by myself at Alumni Hall during my years at De Paul trying to get into soccer shape each spring and fall.
God Bless and Godspeed,
Debbie Dakouzlian
(Class of 1980)
Jim Skrodzki
March 24, 2006
To the Meyer Family,
Sending you all the love and prayers from one of Coach's earliest players. Your Dad coached me when I was in 7th and 8th grade at St. Agatha and he was in high school.His influence and guidance stayed with me from St. Pat's to DePaul where I graduated and played 4 years of basketball,graduating the year before he arrived at DePaul.
I kept in contact with him over the years,and currently I'm a resident at the"Villa" in Wheeling, used to see him at Mass everyday and just recently visited him in his room.
God Bless to him and your family.
Jim "Jimmy" Skrodzki
DePaul Class of 1941
Mariann Janessa Hunter
March 24, 2006
Dear Coach Tom,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Thinking of you, and may his memory live on in you and your entire family.
Take care,
Mariann
Amy Flannery-Lawrynk
March 23, 2006
I happened to be in Three Lakes at my parents when my uncle called and told us that Ray Meyer died. The news saddened me, but also brought back a lot of great memories. From meeting his family while working at camp,watching him throw mail and smashing packages, dumping knuckleheads when they were tubing, becoming impatient when things in Three Lakes weren't done as fast as they would be in Chicago, to performing on camps version of Putting on the Lips when it rained, I will never forget my experiences at camp. There will always be a special place in my heart for "Coach" and I will never forget him or his family. Thanks for the memories and the honor of knowing you and the members of your family that came up to camp. You will certainly be missed.
Amy Flannery-Lawrynk
[email protected]
RICK WALLS
March 23, 2006
DEAR MEYER FAMILY:
I AM A MEMBER OF THE COMMUNITY OF SAINT CECILIA IN MOUNT PROSPECT, AND IT WAS ALWAYS GREAT TO SEE THE COACH AT MASS. JOEY WAS INDEED CORRECT IN NOTING THAT THE COACH WOULD BE REMEMBERED MORE FOR THE WONDERFUL PERSON HE WAS THAN HIS GREATNESS AS A COACH. HE WAS MY INSPIRATION AT THE 9 A.M. SUNDAY MASS ALONG WITH FATHER GEHLEN AND FATHER TAPPER. MAY YOU FIND COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HE IS ONCE AGAIN WITH YOUR BELOVED MOTHER.
IN GRATITUDE FOR THE LIFE OF RAY MEYER.
RICK WALLS
Kevin Whalen
March 23, 2006
Coach, Tom It was great to see you at your dad's wake. I remember in 76 when he would come to OPRF and scout your team I remeber how kind he was to the team manager and how he told me look over you.as the losses were too hard on you. Well I can say without hesitation you were blessed to have your Dad and he tought you and your brothers and sisters well as you All have his quality of reaching out and taking time for people.
Kimberly Dwyer
March 23, 2006
Tom, Bucko, Johnny, Tommy & Christine,
Our deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. We
are so honored that we were able to meet such a Great Man.
He lived a full and unbelievable life.
Love, The Dwyer's
Lou Tenore
March 22, 2006
I am truly saddened by the loss of "Coach". He was an incredible man who was truly down to earth. I spent two summers at his basketball camp in Wisconsin and he was a joy to be around and he was very funny. Lots of good one liners about me and my ego. I still remember him and that time there and what a great man he was.
Carol Layman
March 22, 2006
Dear Meyer Family:
I just had to write to let you know how sorry I am about the passing of your wonderful father.
In the late 80's, my husband had been out of a job, and I wrote to your father, and said that I could tell from his eyes that he was a kind man, and wondered if he could help my husband find a job. The day he called to make an appointment to meet with my husband, for me, was a miracle in itself. He gave my husband several contacts, and with his support, this story does have a happy ending.
May the entire Meyer Family find peace during this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Carol J.Layman
Helen Pojman
March 22, 2006
To the family,
Ray was a friend and a classmate of my husband's (Hank Pojman) at Notre Dame. My condolences.
Bob Hallberg
March 22, 2006
Coach was a great man. He was always willing to help the young coaches on their way up the coaching ladder. In the early seventies he gave my ST. Xavier teams the memory of a life time by giving us a chace to play DePaul at Alumni Hall. I also had the privilege of coaching in an all star game with Coach Ray. A great coach , a great father, and a great man. Chicago basketball lays to rest a great legend.
I cherish the autographed Ray Meyer picture that hangs in my office.
May Coach rest in peace.
Patti Guare
March 22, 2006
To the Starzyk, Meyer, Butterfield, and McGowan Families,
My prayers and best wishes are with you as you grieve the loss of your father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. It's hard...but Marge and Dee Dee have welcomed him home.
Dino Tiberi
March 22, 2006
It was very sad when I received the news that Chicago icon Ray Meyer had passed away. I had the opportunity to meet him about 8 years ago, he was very kind in allowing me to take a picture with him. I will never forget all of the great memories that he provided all of us growing up while leading DePaul to national prominence. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Meyer family during this time.
len locascio
March 22, 2006
The Coach touched so so many people in a positive way, his "family" was Chicago. He was a grandfather to us ALL.The most decent and down to earth man I ever met in my life. He truly gave of himself to evryone, God Bless him!!
Ed & Mary Ann Martin
March 22, 2006
Dear Bucko and Tom and entire Meyer Family
So sorry to hear about your dad as Ed and the boys were at the Depaul vs ND game in Jan and saw him in the stands. Hopefully he didn't suffer. We're sorry we could not make the wake or funeral, we sure would have been there, but we were out of town. We just came back from Tucson, AZ we were attending the White Sox Spring Training Camp and we attended the White Sox vs Cubs game last Sat, Mar 18th and before the game the announcer paid tribute to your dad and announced to the whole stadium, approx 12,000 people, "A Moment of Silence for a Great Man/Coach that the city of Chicago lost." It was very special and respectful moment, with all the Chicago fans there and some not aware that he died. There were alot of sighs! So he is nationally mourned and will be missed by so many, but what a legacy and fond memories we have of him too. Our son Mike attended his camp and Brian attended DePaul and still enjoy DePaul games each season. Sorry for your major loss, but just letting you know our thoughts are with your entire family.
James and Dena Babicki
March 22, 2006
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Ray Meyer family. Coach was such a great man that he will never be forgotten by anyone he touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless- Jim and Dena Babicki
Arilee Pollard
March 22, 2006
Ray was a great coach and a very fine man.
We loved him dearly.
We will miss him at the Hall of Fame in Springfield where we would see him every year.
love,
Arilee Pollard
(wife of the late Jim Pollard who played for Stanford and the Minneapolis Lakers)
Ted Z
March 22, 2006
Over thirty years ago, I was lucky enough to be chosen as a walk-on player for DePaul. I had the opportunity to be in the gym with Coach Ray every day for an entire season. Watching him teach, motivate, and inspire players was very special. It was incredible how much he cared about eveyone.
Coach Ray helped so many people over the years, on and off the court, one person at a time, never in too big a hurry. Thanks Coach for taking the time to help me.
My condolences to the Meyer family.
Sheel Shah
March 22, 2006
I may not have gone to DePaul, or personally known Coach Meyer, or even seen him coach in person, but all the memories that I've seen on TV or in the newspaper or other media outlets tell me that Ray Meyer was a staple in Chicago and the NCAA. He will be sorely missed.
Bob Haskin
March 22, 2006
I truly enjoyed meeting Coach Ray during camp in Wisconsin. The first year Coach Joe ran the camp because Ray's wife passed away and the next Ray was there. Not only did they teach us about basketball but they taught us about working hard to achieve. Joey threw a ball at my head and Coach Ray made us do 5 man weave until everyone got it right, 45 minutes past lunch, but it was well worth it! I wish my kids could have such an opportunity it was very special!!! God Bless!
Jeff Heidel
March 22, 2006
Coach, Thank you for the best five summers of my life. Every year I looked forward to spending a week at Three Lakes. I'll always remember the sign to the camp said "Boy's Camp" and that says it all. You let us have fun all the while teaching us more basketball in that one week than we would ever be able to get from anywhere else in a lifetime. Spending every meal with you for that week was special when you would announce the movie of the night or when you would take all of us tubing with your boat. All of it will remain as my fondest memories of growing up.
Barb & Tom Marvel
March 22, 2006
Thanks Coach for the pleasant memories we have of you coaching the DePaul Blue Demons! Our sincere sympathy to Joey and your family members. Rest in Peace.
Andrew Ogrin
March 22, 2006
In 1993, I was a freshman Cross Country runner at DePaul, and not exactly setting records. One day, Coach Meyer came through while we were stretching, and of course everyone knew who he was - except me. Still, he took the time to stop and speak to me, asked a couple of questions about how my season was going, offered some encouragement, and went off with a smile. To this day, I tell people about that moment. More than anything, it was this genuine interest in the lives of people with whom he had contact that I will always remember and admire. Thanks, Coach.
Lester Paige
March 21, 2006
Coach, thank-you for the Basketball memories and the inspirations that you gave me to become a College basketball player. Again, thank-you.
Robert Hoefler
March 21, 2006
Coach, I have fond memories of going to the early days of DePaul Basketball games with my dad. He had worked at DePaul and I believe was part of the DePaul family. We would not miss a season even in the tough years of few wins. Alumni Hall games will always provide great memories. One of my best summers was at the Three Lakes basketball camp during the mid 70's during DePaul's better basketball years. My prays are with your family.
Hoefler Family
William McCall
March 21, 2006
I was injured in an accident last June and was sent in July to the Anchorage Nursing and Rehab Center in Bensenville where I had the privilege of knowing Ray and meeting some of his family. He was a wonderful sportsman loved to talk of sports of all kinds and he was always energetic in his recuperative efforts following his surgeries. The world will miss him as a sportsman, I will miss him as a friend.
Michael "Mike" Preib
March 21, 2006
My Father, sister, and I are all DePaul Graduates. We loved attending the Blue Demon games and felt honored and proud when Coach took us to the final 4 in 1979! I remember seeing Coach at the old Alumni Hall during P. E. courses. He always had a kind word and even autographed a D.P.U. basketball poster for my father. I would like to extend my condolences to the family, and say thank you for the memories and joy that you brought to us. M. Preib Class of 1981.
Wally Osterkorn
March 21, 2006
My family and I express our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family. Coach Meyer offered me a scholorship after I played for Amundsen High in the 40's. He was very sincere and really cared about his players.
Sincerely,
Wally Osterkorn
Joe Gubbins
March 21, 2006
My sincere condolences to the Meyer family; It was a true privilege to have known your legendary Dad. What a role model he was for everyone he met. I remember many great times that I was in the company of this man and have always been thankful for the encouragement he gave me when I began my coaching career. He was a famous Maguire Universty member. You will continue to be an influence Ray because you have touched so many. Rest in peace and enjoy your reunion with Marge. Joe Gubbins
Tom Rockwell
March 21, 2006
Coach Meyer was a great man, who cared for his family, friends, players and everyone he met. He is in Heaven now looking out for all of us. Tom Rockwell and Family
Ryan and Michael Wherfel
March 21, 2006
Coach Tom Meyers:
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your father. He must have been a wonderful person, because the apple does not fall far from the tree! Thank you for all your guidance, and coaching abilities.
terry mcgowan
March 21, 2006
I wrote a minute ago how Ray always reminded me of my wonderful Father...but I forgot to mention they also both had that unforgettable smile,with the gap between the front teeth.......rest in peace to both of you........the greatest generation is just about gone.....and its sad to say,none of us are as good...
terry mcgowan
March 21, 2006
A wonderful man,he always reminded me of my Dad,born about a year apart,both loved sports,both as kind and sweet as could be,and both had a beloved wife named Marge.The city lost another piece of itself that cant be filled.Best wishes to the family,and thanx Coach Ray...
Peter G McKenna
March 21, 2006
Thank you coach
Darryl Parker
March 21, 2006
I grew up in Chicago and became a fan of the college game as the result of the DePaul teams of the mid 70's that included Norwood, Garland, Ponsetto and Corzine. While I never met Coach Meyer, he has always stood out in my mind as a great man. I think Joey said it best, for all of Ray Meyers accomplishemnts on the basketball court, he will be remembered most, not for basketball, but for the type of person he was. Rest in peace Coach, you've earned it.
SISTER RITA CORKERY,R.S.M.
March 21, 2006
DEAR PATTY AND FAMILY,
I TAUGHT YOU AND MARIANNE AT ST. CATHERINE SCHOOL IN 8TH GRADE. I WELL REMEMBER YOUR FATHER AT THE PARENT TEACHER CONFERENCES. HE WAS A GENTLE AND SOFT -SPOKEN MAN.
MY PARENTS MOVED TO THREE LAKES FOR THEIR RETIREMENT YEARS. MY MOM WAS A VOLUNTEER NEWSPAPER CORRESPONDENT AMONG OTHER VOLUNTEER MEDIAS(RADIO,TV ETC.). MOM INTERVIEWED YOUR DAD. WHEN SHE ARRIVED HOME, SHE HAD NOTHING BUT COMPLIMENTS.
PRAYERS AND SYMPATHY,
SISTER CELESTE NOW SISTER RITA
Paul Handley
March 21, 2006
I went to his camp for two summers. I will always remember him popping my blisters and then putting some iodine on them. I couldnt believe that someone like him was doing this for me. I also remember him jokingly calling me a drip ball jerk when telling me to come up front to choose a team. Great guy.
jimmy naylor
March 21, 2006
COACH YOU WERE A SPECIAL PERSON WHO CHANGED MANY LIVES THAT YOU NEVER NEW EVERY TIME I SAW YOU COACH I WAS HONORD TO WATCH THE MASTER AT WORK YOU NEVER THOUGHT YOU WERE BIGGER THAN THE GAME YOU DID IT THE RIGHT WAY I WILL NEVER FORGET THE SMILE AND THE ROSE AND YOU ALWAYS HAD TIME FOR THE LITTLE GUY YOU MADE EVERYBODY FEEL IMPORTANT AT THE TIME GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY MAYBE ONE DAY I CAN PLAY FOR YOU COACH AND THIS TIME WE WILL WIN IT ALL ,MY KIDS WILL KNOW WHO COACH REY MEYER WAS AND THERE KIDS WILL KNOW TOO JIM NAYLOR
Silvano Parducci
March 21, 2006
God Bless Coach Meyer. I will never forget growing up and being riveted to the TV with my dad watching DePaul play Notre Dame, Marquette, UCLA, etc in what seemed like every weekend on national TV. The games were great, but we were watching because of Coach Meyer.
Bob Stapleton
March 21, 2006
To the coach's family, what a guy. On saturdays the coach would come in for a car wash and visit with my uncle.When I was home from college that was one of my jobs was to give the works. In my freshman year of college I when on my first trip to 3lakes to deliver "Marge's Barge". What an adventure. Binky took us around in his fast boat. The coach always wanted to know how is was doing in school and he always had good things to say about St.Mary's. He was everybody's coach and we all learned from him. Coach say hi to Charlie and dad for me. God bless you and your family.
steven salzman
March 21, 2006
god bless you coach. i grew up just a few houses down from the meyer family alomg with many other kid's in the neigbor hood , back in the earlier 70's, he would alway's show us a few pointers when we would play basketball at the reynol'd house across from his home, he would say kind word's to us, encouage us, buy us ice cream, let us mow the lawn for him, i remember every christmas, ray and marge would invite me in their home for hot choclate as i was selling christmas wreaths for cub scouts, the would just buy one, but two wreaths, and they would always give me a few extra bucks for myself, what a wonderful family man. i went by the house the other day, it has been up for sale for a while, but the exterior is still "BLUE". whoever buys that house will most likely change the color, but i will never forget it. steven salzman.
Michael Isono
March 21, 2006
I am a native Chicagoan but have lived in California for many years. In 1979? the Demons came to play San Diego State. I had a chance to talk to Coach Ray. I was impressed by how vibrant and friendly he was. Since then I have always viewed him with such respect and admiration
K. Floyd
March 21, 2006
Dear Meyer Family:
. . . Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.
So may the great comforter be with you in your time of sorrow.
--class of '99
alex
March 21, 2006
Thank you Coach for granting me an interview for a class when I was in college. You took the time to answer all my questions about basketball, coaching and DePaul. I have never forgotten that experience. Thank you for that 15 minute interview and thank you for the memeories you have given ALL basketball fans.
Rob Forsyth
March 21, 2006
Coach:
Thanks for all the wonderful memories. You were a beautiful person. Heaven is now a better place.
Bonnie Zienkiewicz
March 21, 2006
I feel so honored to have known Coach. I went out to camp one summer afternoon to help Kay and Toni with canteen and ended up being out there for 4 more summers. It was a pleasure to help Coach with camp. He loved camp and made sure that everyone there enjoyed it as much as he did. I have a lot wonderful memories and stories that will be a part of me forever. Thank you Coach and God bless you.
Michael
March 21, 2006
We could not have asked for a better man to represent Chicago basketball. You will never be forgotten, Coach. Thanks.
David Breault.
March 21, 2006
As a young coach of high school basketball Coach Ray Meyer was one of my idols in coaching styles and I used much of his philosophy - I wish to extend my condolences to his family as well as my thank you for his having been such a great role model for we coaches and for the "game" as he was one its super statesman'.
David Schmelzle
March 21, 2006
With Deepest Sympathy for the Meyer and Butterfield Families. In the few years we knew grandson John Butterfield we learned a geat deal about what a wonderful man that "Coach" truly was. All of Yorkville High School has your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Maloney
March 21, 2006
To The Ray Meyer Family:
It all started when my Dad graduated from DePaul in 1930. Then our families had the privilege of growing up together at St. Cathrine of Siena. Summers at Three Lakes, where everyone was treated like neighbors. This was before "tubbing," the Coach and Tom took the extra time to teach us all water sking. It does get better, when my son shared the Three Lakes experince, likewise. God bless all.
henry schumann
March 21, 2006
You found a way to be part of so many lives. Thank you Coach.
John Scully
March 21, 2006
Rest in peace, Coach. My summers at your camp are some of my very best memories. Thanks for teaching me how to pick and roll, and for making sure that I fell off while tubing on the lake. I'll never forget your kindness or your hilarious on-court criticisms. It was a pleasure to know you.
Adam Carl
March 21, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,
Coach Ray will never be forgotten. He was more than a coach; he was a great man. I'll never forget my father taking me to DePaul practices when I was a little boy and Ray carrying me around on his shoulders. Spending time at his basketball camp with Joey and Tommy in Wisconsin was always something I looked forward to. When my father passed last October, it was Ray who asked to sit with my family before the funeral. Although Ray was in pain, that charismatic smile and personality helped to light up the room. He told stories of my father's playing days and Aguirre's pursuit of his record. In my families darkest hour, Ray was there to help ease the pain. He had always looked after my dad, and I will never forget that. Coach Ray exhibited class and humility throughout his life, and that is what I will remember most about this great man. God Bless.
Rev. Robert Gielow
March 21, 2006
To the entire Meyer Family. I was saddened to learn of the death of Coach. He has meant so much to so many for so long. I'm honored to have worked with him. I regret that I am not able to be in Chicago for his funeral. I'm working a parish retreat in California and have no way to get there. Please be assured of my prayers and remembrance in Mass on Tuesday. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. His loss is enormous. We lost our Mom in January after 88 years and I have a good idea of your loss. Once again you have my deepest sympathy.
Fr. Bob Gielow, C.M.
212 Custer Street
Lemont, IL 60439
Daniel Blackburn
March 21, 2006
God Bless Ray Meyer. I will always remember watching his teams growning up and rooting for them. A great man has passed.
Bill (Moose) Schyman
March 21, 2006
It was an honor to be inducted in the DePaul HOF this year. I was a nervous wreck being a deaf player to meet Coach Ray Meyer the first day of practice. The first thing he said to me was to relax and be yourself. From that day on Coach Ray holds my deepest respect both as a Coach and a man with feelings to make sure that I, as a deaf player, will be on top of things.The Lord made sure that I am to be inducted in the HOF this year, so I with my children can visit Coach Ray for the final visit.When I first arrived at Chicago, I was told that Coach Ray Meyer may not be able to see me because of his physical condition, I was very disappointed. So, I made a pledge to the Lord that if He could make Coach Ray, the man who I love very much well enough to see me and my family Monday morning, I would go to the Church more often...do we have a deal?.My prayer was answered. The minute my family and I walked in your room , I was stunned that he looks the same as he was the greatest Coach I ever had back in the 50's. Coach Ray stood proudly to have our pictures taken. I was in tears when we said good-bye with a hug and kiss. My family was in such a great awe to see a great man in person..a coach with a great big heart towards his players.Now, my family realizes why for years and years how much Coach Ray did for me despite my deafness because without his coaching and guidance, I would probably be a nobody walking aimlessly through life. God Bless You Coach Ray Meyer.
Meg Zentner
March 21, 2006
My grandfather and I used to watch the DePaul games together. It is one of my favorite memories of him and I will always remember Coach Meyer walking up and down the sidelines encouraging his team and giving the refs a hard time. I want to thank the Meyer family for those memories.
Barbara (Hunt) Burke
March 21, 2006
To the family of Ray Meyer, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Many years ago I was Joe's teacher at St Catherine's. Being an Army wife, we moved often, but I always followed what DePaul was doing. May God be with all of you during these days of loss. God Speed
Jason Lohrey
March 21, 2006
My deepest and sincerest sympathies to the friends and family of "The Coach". I spent 5 summers with Coach Ray in Three Lakes and they forever changed my life. Not only did he teach me the game of basketball, he taught me about the game of life. God Speed Coach Ray, you will be dearly missed, but always in my heart and never forgoten!!
'It's the pick and roll son...not the pick and stand!'
Kay Coates
March 21, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Meyer family. It has been a pleasure to meet and to know many of you from Camp. What began as helping my sister out as lifeguard at camp, turned into 8+ years of wonderful memories and opportunities. Coach has taught me more than words can even begin to express... Thanks to Coach--I still can't buy green banana's!!! On one of my grocery store run's for Camp, Coach wanted some banana's--I bought some that were slightly green. At lunch that day, those banana's were sitting at my spot at the table--that is when Coach explained--"Cathy, you never buy green banana's because you might not be around when they turn yellow!!" Thanks for everything Coach. Enjoy being back with Marg.
Linda McBride
March 21, 2006
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Coach Ray. I had the pleasure of meeting him at St. Joseph Hospital
years ago when he came to present Sister DePaul DC with a DePaul jacket.
Michael Wedeven
March 21, 2006
Coach Ray was/is/will forever be my hero. He showed me the TRUE meaning of character. As a young boy in a small town in Michigan, Coach made me feel 10 feet tall and on top of the world with his kind actions. I will never forget you Coach. For you have helped me in more ways than I could ever have imagined. You ARE the reason I went to DePaul. May God Bless You Coach Ray!!! All of DePaul loves you!!!
Matt McBrien
March 21, 2006
Tom
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
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