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Bradford Crain
September 9, 2020
I followed the story of the disappearance of the Kim family in the news. I hoped against hope they would be found alive and healthy, as did thousands of people across this country. The discovery of the body of James Kim broke my heart. I didn't know James Kim and his family, but tears flowed anyway at the news of his passing. Many tragedies have occurred in Oregon through the years,
but the one that left a gaping hole in my heart was the passing of James Kim. I've heard many stories of people lost or killed in the Oregon wilderness, but for whatever reason this situation really got to me. I can't explain it, but I felt a special kinship with James Kim.
Brenda Zureick
January 28, 2020
So sorry for the loss of this great man, wonderful husband and father. Blessings to your family.
Ann
March 8, 2019
A man and Father of great courage. Love and peace to his dear family
Blake Wilson
August 9, 2016
I may not have known you in person, but you did change the way I looked at technology as well as myself. May you be at rest as a hero, and may your family find peace in knowing and loving you all those years.
From TechTV to CNET, Family & Friends in between and many fans miles away: Rest In Peace.
Valenda Newell
July 21, 2016
We live in a world where everyone puts themselves first in any situation, it was very heartbreaking to read about this story. What an HONORABLE man that lost his life to save his family......MANY PRAYERS and BLESSINGS to the family
Harry Simpson
December 4, 2015
Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.
December 8, 2014
Rest In Peace
Orlando
May 8, 2014
It's heartbreaking to read stories such like his. He was a great Father and Husband, risking his life for his family. It's being so long since he passed away and its feels like it was yesterday. So many good people are falling asleep in death, however it was never God's purpose for this to happen. That's why I'm hoping that Kati his wife and the daughters are doing better now, and that Our Heavenly Father continues strengthening them in their endurance.
Ai
August 20, 2012
I was deeply saddened to hear of James' passing in 2006 when I was following the story very closely. I have thought of him and his family often since then and came across this site tonight while doing a google search. My heart goes out to the Kim family.
Imelda McBride
January 19, 2012
Just read this story on line and I am so sorry for Kim and his family. What a wonderful man. The story really touched me.
Imelda
Houston
Dennis Bohne
December 23, 2011
"I saw the story of the kim family and I am sad for the loss of your Husband Kati , I'am also a father and I would have done the samething I would have left my family in a safe place and set out for help also. it is so sad for James to have to died after all his efforts. Such a man of incredible honor and integrity he made ultimate sacrifice to protect his family. James Kim was a true gentleman and a hero. I admire the composure his wife Kati. had during the story I' am glad his wife continues to Share memories of James with his two daughters so they won't ever forget their Dad. May God Bless the James Kim family.
olita jewett
October 4, 2011
I saw the story of the kim family and I am sad for your loss, I will forever be changed because of the ultimate sacrific James Kim made for his family I think about him everyday and continue to pray that God is always with you. I wish you the best always.
Lennon Tom
September 19, 2011
I did not know James, but I wish that I had. James made the ultimate sacrifice in order to protect and save his family. If I were stranded with my family and believed that town was only 4 miles away, I would have done the same thing. My heart goes out to the Kim family. RIP James. You're bravery shall not be forgotten.
Monica Adame
September 19, 2011
I saw the story tonight on 20/20 and thought it is so sad for James to have died after all his efforts. I admire the composure of Kati. They are (were) both very strong and commited parents and individuals, which is a treasure and example for their beautiful daughters. I also admire the efforts of all those from search and rescue teams, the results of this one in particular were so bitter-sweet. To the Kim family (parents, Kati and girls) may God give you the courage and strenght to accept the death of an extraordinary man that was part of your lives. May he live forever in your hearts!!!
Louise S.
May 8, 2011
God Bless the James Kim family.
Jennifer Bauer
February 13, 2011
a man of incredible honor and integrity to run such a risk and make such a sacrifice for his beloved family. We have truly lost a gentleman and a hero.
Naila Mah
February 12, 2011
After watching your story last night on 20/20 I cried. My heart goes out to the family. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. We will keep your family in our prayers. May God continue to give you strength.
February 12, 2011
Dear Mrs. Kim and Family,
I just saw 20/20 and was moved to tears for your loss. I admire your bravery and strength to stay alive and keep your children alive. You and James are both heroes. May God Rest His Soul and may you find Peace one day over this unbelievable tragedy.
Cynthia Vardy, Stroud, Ontario, Canada
Connie Su
February 12, 2011
There aren't enough sorries in the world for such a loss but you are in my prayers.
Cindy C
February 12, 2011
I saw 20/20 last night about this story and seeing the ending of it all it hit me hard..as if james kim was my own family member. He will always be remembered as a hero and brave man who did everything in his power to save his family. rest in peace james kim
Stacy Erwin Oakes
February 12, 2011
What a man, a family, a love story. I pray for peace and love for Kati and the extended Kim family.
Monica
February 11, 2011
i just saw the 20/20 show... its so sad!!!!
Kit Sober
November 24, 2010
So sorry. Days, months, years pass, but a good man is always missed as though it were just yesterday he left. I trust his love and kindness lives with his wife, children, and other family members. In hope,
Catherine
October 16, 2010
So sorry for your loss. May God Bless you.
August 23, 2010
James' self sacrificing spirit has not gone by unnoticed. May his family treause their memories of him and may their expectation of seeing him again comfort them during this difficult time (Johm 5: 28, 29; Psalm 37: 10, 11).
Mimi Rubinelli
May 29, 2010
Hello
My Heart gose out too The Kim Family.
It was a dagget death too save his Family what a wonderful Man ture & blue he was.
I feel for the hole Family & wishing them all my Heart & prayes.
Love Mimi
Tedaira
March 29, 2010
To the family of James Kim,I am so very sorry about the loss of your dear loved family member. I really hope that in you time of grieving that you can find comfort in reading the Bible at John chapter 5 verse 28,29. Again I am very sorry about your loss.
surina wright
March 15, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. When I read your story my heart has become full. Even though some time has passed I hope you all are finding the strength to move forward.Please remember that God is always here to give us what we need in order to deal with such tragedies. He also promised that he will take away sickness,pain and tears and we won't have to suffer anymore.Revelation 21:3-4.
Elisabeth Dudek
November 25, 2009
I think I'm the only 19 year old who lives on the other side of the country that him and his families story has made such a lasting touch and impact. I didn't know him or anyone who dealt with this terrible struggle, but I'll never ever forget what happened. We all miss you.
Millissa Hollar
May 6, 2009
This man was truly a hero. It breaks my heart. I am so sorry for the loss of such a good man.
cheryl
December 19, 2008
my prayers are with the family of james kim
Connie Ware
December 2, 2008
Two years have passed, and yet I still think about James and Katie's struggle to bring their children home. No one could have tried harder; every parent in Oregon held their breath when James' family was found - every human heart broke when he was found....Katie, I celebrate your courage. May time bring your family peace during this most difficult season.
Miracle
June 21, 2008
I sorry to hear about your lost and I would like to share with the family a comforting scripture at John11:25" Jesus said I am the resurrction and the life he that exercises faith in me, even though he dies will come to life.
Carol
December 18, 2007
Thinking about you all, can't believe a year has gone by since we were all praying that James would be found.
Paula Stover
December 5, 2007
Katie, It has been a moment and it has been a lifetime since you lost James... I know that the pain eases and as it does the beautiful memories flow freely... Know that so many think of you, the girls and the ultimate sacrifice made by their wonderful father. I hope for beautiful days ahead for all of you.
Always,
Paula
Mary
May 21, 2007
What a wonderful and courageous man he was!
Elizabeth Schulz
February 16, 2007
I followed the story from my home on LI with a lump in my throat, so worried for all of you. When they found Katy and the girls I was first elated, then increasingly upset when it became clear James probably had not survived..the conditions being so harsh. It was so shocking because it could have happened to any of us. Both Katy and her beloved husband gave everything and more than they had to save their family. "What greater love.."? James Kim caught my heart and is a true hero for the ages. They both are. What a beautiful man. I am so sad for Katy because he isn't still with her and their daughters. His parents and family will be so proud of this wonderful man, but I can't imagine how tough it will be to get over his loss. The World is lessened without him.
Louise M. Smith
February 16, 2007
Although there are no words to really share the love, prayers, and care I am sending you and your loved ones, be sure they are there.
Gray Hank
February 16, 2007
My heart goes out to the Kim family.
Keith Allan
February 16, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
whinde
February 16, 2007
Katie and the girls-
We are all praying for peace for you after such a traumatic experience. James passed on as a true hero he loved his family dearly and was there for them until the end.
Kristy Dawson
January 30, 2007
Dear Katie,
I was just thinking about you tonight. My husband is in heaven with James. My son was 17 months and soon to be adopted daughter was 3 months when he died very suddenly. I know you are strong, but I pray for more strength to you now. Our children had amazing Dads that we need to remind them of every single day. Love, Kristy
Alana Kyle
January 12, 2007
Dear Katie,
You have no idea how much we all feel for you. You have inspired me so much. You have come through a terrible tradgedy and continue to live with power and grace. Take care of those wonderful children who are so lucky to have you as their mom. Every time I think of James I feel incredibly sad but I marvel at his super human abilty to scale a mountain to save his beloved family. He will be remembered always for what he did.
God bless you Katie!!
Elizabeth Inks
January 5, 2007
If there was any way to take your pain away, we would. This is true, as your reality is true. I am sorry. I know that people have found peace in the worst of times, and I hope you can too.
Marie Yee
January 4, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I followed your story from day one and was devastated when I learned of the tragedy. James was a wonderful husband and father who would stop at nothing to save his family. Please take comfort in knowing that he will continue to watch over all of you from Heaven above.
Louise
January 3, 2007
Katie and the girls-
We are all praying for peace for you after such a traumatic experience. James passed on as a true hero and an example of real love for us all.
God Bless you all-
Susan Hicks
January 1, 2007
Because I wanted to actually think of what I wanted to say to you and your family, I have waited to send this. In a world so full of sadness and insurmountable problems, Mr. Kim stays in my heart and on my mind because He existed right along side the world's evils. Because of him, my belief in angels has not died.
Kim
December 28, 2006
James is a hero to us...because of his committed heroic actions for his beloved family.He tried, he followed the stream, he did everything he knew to be reunited with his girls.
Rita R. Gilmer
December 28, 2006
During this difficult time of the holiday season, and thereafter, may God continue to surround you, your children and the entire family in His infinite and tender loving care.
Lisa
December 28, 2006
Katie and girls, My family and I have been thinking of you and praying for you during this sad time. May God be with you and give you his strength, grace, and peace. You are not alone in your suffering. With love,
Lisa and Tim, Joe, Paul, Thomas, Dominic, and little Maria.
Jennifer Fisher
December 23, 2006
I was among those hundreds of thousands of strangers who watched from afar, waited and prayed from the first moment I read that 'a family is missing after Thanksgiving trip'. If the power of our prayers could not save ALL of your lives, let us hope that that energy lifted James to a very warm and comfortable place. I am hard pressed to understand why this, among many daily tragedies, struck my heart so - and struck again in a most gut-wrenching way when James was found. I think of you all still - wishing comfort for the Spencer Kims and for you, Kati and the girls.
Timothy James Birdsall
December 21, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. What a horrifying way to lose a loved one, but he did not die in vain, but to try to save his family members! His efforts really touched my heart, and I admire his perserverance.
Jo Ann Stepp
December 21, 2006
To the families of James and Kati: You are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. From the things I have read about James, there is no question that he was truly a devoted husband, father and friend. Be blessed.
Jennifer
December 20, 2006
Dear Kati,
I followed this story from day one and was so sad when I heard about the tragic ending. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this very difficult time.
Elizabeth Czarnecki
December 19, 2006
Words cannot even come close to my sadness for your family. I too followed your tragic story and hope you will be comforted by the thousands if not millions of people who share your grief.
Susan S.
December 18, 2006
Mrs. Kim
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I too prayed that you all would be found alive. I was deeply saddened by his death.
Your husband appeared to have been a very brave man and abviously loved you all very much to have sacrificed his life.
God bless you all and may James forever watch over his girls..
lizz
December 18, 2006
James touched so many people in his short time on earth. His gift to all of us is so precious.
I won't forget what he did--out of love for his family. His actions changed us all for the better.
Danielle
December 17, 2006
Dear the Kim family,
I am so sorry for your loss. San Francisco has clearly lost one of its most special and unique individuals. I hope that you can soon take comfort that you have a very special guardian angel watching over you. With sympathy,
P D
December 17, 2006
Dear Kati and family
I am so sorry for your loss. I am truly in awe of the courage of you and your husband. Your ordeal has given me pause and enabled me to take a look at what is really important. I hope it is some small comfort to you that this disgruntled person in L A has decided to make some changes in her life and is more appreciative of all she has around her. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Fragoso
December 16, 2006
Afer observing James Kim on the news I felt like he was a wonderful warm human being that I knew in my heart already and I wished that he would be found. I feel your sorrow for losing such a joyful human being who cared for others and his family. James Kim touched and caught the attention of many people. My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of someone so special.
Geoffrey Le
December 15, 2006
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. We've followed your story when it first broke news and have continued to keep you in our hearts and thoughts. Please know that James have touched many of us around the world without us knowing him personally. They say you can't "judge the book by its cover" but seeing james' black and white picture with Kati and Penelope I can tell what a genuine good hearted man James is. May God and James watch over you and the girls in this time of need, and may your days be filled with happy memories and knowing that James was in your lives, God bless.
Lisa
December 14, 2006
James Kim is a precious man. He Loves You Very Much. He Will Always Be With You, and he never gave up...
Mi Lee
December 14, 2006
We mourn your loss and celebrate your life. You've touched and inspired a world and we've learned from your heart, from your spirit.
L.Adam Liang
December 14, 2006
I watched James every day on Cnet. It's a terrible loss for everyone who knew him. I admired his enthusiasm and sense of humor. To his family, friends and co-workers at Cnet...I am so sorry for your loss and extend my heartfelt condolences
Faith
December 14, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been following your story and want you to know that I will not forget James Kim. I will pray for his sweet family for the rest of my days.
Kate
December 14, 2006
To all of James' family and friends,
I don't know what to say, except for that I am thinking of you all. Your and James' actions have shown the world the meaning of a man, parents, a family, and the good intentions of strangers - those searching and those supporting from afar. I hope this brings you solace. I wish you well.
michelle
December 13, 2006
I"m so sorry for your loss and you all will be in my prayers. Good bless you all.
Becky
December 13, 2006
I am very sorry to hear about Mr. Kim. I am sure he was a great father and friend. God bless him and his family.
Kristina
December 13, 2006
Dear Kati and the Kim Family: I am very sorry for your loss. I know that you may not believe this now, but THIS, too, shall pass. You'll find the strength to be there for your girls because you're strong and you're a mom. I'll keep you in my prayers. I feel your pain.
Marti Birdsall
December 13, 2006
To the Kim family: I live in Michigan and was very touched by the news of your plight in Oregon. I kept praying and hoping the searchers would find James alive. I am glad they were able to find him, but sad he passed away. I know that from now and on into the future, Jesus will be at your side, helping you through this valley of grief and helping you in the future, whenever you need Him. Just call on Him, and He will come running to you. I am sure that James is with Him in Heaven and that is a very beautiful and safe place to be. My deepest condolences to your family.
C Jamison
December 13, 2006
My deepest condolences goes out to the Kim family. James was a brave soul who attempted to save himself and his family. He did what most of us would have. He is an angel! God Bless you all.
Annette Guidry
December 13, 2006
I watched the news stories and prayed for James. I'm so sorry this happened -- the goodness of Jame's soul seemed to radiate from his CNET Reviews, and his love, courage, and heroism were obvious in his actions. I have also suffered a sudden, unexpected death of a loved one who was in the same exact situation as I. For years, I thought, "Why did I live and he die??" I couldn't understand why bad things happen to good people. I got some help and finally got through the stages of grief that are necessary for true healing. I hope that you will do whatever you need to heal from your grief and continue to be the amazing family that James loved.
Also, have you thought of setting up a scholarship fund for your daughters? I would be happy to contribute.
Take care. God is with you, and God is with James. His character and goodness has inspired so many of us.
Annette Guidry
Boise, ID
ROSALIE BRILEY
December 13, 2006
My family and friends are very sorry for your loss. Bless you and your family
Kathleen Fox
December 13, 2006
I have read and reread the tragic story of the Kim family. I have been so touched by the overwhelming desire James had to rescue his family. He truely was a hero. The strength that his wife, Kati showed in keeping her children alive is incredible. My heartfelt sympathy to all, and my prayers for strength to endure are with the Kim family and all who are so touched by this amazing story.
Dani Roth
December 13, 2006
Dearest Kim Family and Friends,
Every night as darkness falls look up and you will see James looking upon you, lighting your way. He is a true STAR of the brightest and loveliest kind. Strength to you all...
Lisa A.
December 13, 2006
How brave Kati & the whole family have been. As the Mother of two children I can not comprehend what this type of loss would do to your spirit. Thank goodness for your sweet children...you will see James everytime you look at them. They will get you through this as only children can. Good luck in your future, I will remember your family for the rest of my life. Peace be with you.
Kristin
December 13, 2006
I was deeply moved by your story. Life takes such unexpected turns. I can only hope that you will find in peace in your hearts soon. I will pray for your family,
Lisa Whalin
December 13, 2006
I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your girls in my prayers.
Rebekah Jones
December 13, 2006
Dear Kim Family I am DEEPLY pained to here about this tragedy may god be with you.
theresa
December 13, 2006
so sorry for your loss.james is a true angel.he will always be around your family.stay strong.
Trina Norman
December 13, 2006
To the Kim family,
I am sorry for you loss and can not imagine the sorrow that you are feeling. You and your family are in my prayers.
Connie+John
December 13, 2006
I,m so sorry about the loss of a brave and wonderful man.You are so blessed to have two beautiful children from him. Thank god you have them. Every time you look at them, you will see a wonderful part of him. Iam so sorry.
Laura Smedley
December 13, 2006
We followed your families' story on the news. It was so sad. I wanted to extend my sympathies. But, I wanted to tell you that you and your children were very courageous. Your husband also was very courageous and loved you all very much to sacrifice himself for you all. There is still a hope. It is the resurrection hope. It is found at Acts 24:15. I hope this brings you and your family some comfort.
Tamela Cooke
December 13, 2006
As a fellow Ballrd High grad class of 1982, I want to send to the Kim family my deepest sympathy in this time of sorrow.
I followed this story from day one. not as a graduate or same hometown Louisvillian but, as a person hoping the best for a family in this situation.
I will keep you in my prayers, as to I recently lost my father and I my heart goes out to the children, as the loss of their father is something hard to bare.
May God keep you safe, in the days to come.
ROSE
December 13, 2006
KIM FAMILY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. BELEIVE MY PRAYERS OUR WITH YOU. THERE IS NO WORDS TO EXPLAIN THE HEARTACHE AND PAIN YOU FEEL BUT KNOW OVER TIME GOD HEAS ALL WOUNDS. I NEVER KNEW YOU BUT I FOLLOWED YOUR STORY DAILY AND WHEN I HEARD OF THE TRAGIC NEWS MY HEART SANK AND WENT OUT TO YOU. SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND KNOW THAT I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU GUYS DAILY
Nancy
December 13, 2006
I did not know the Kim family personally, but I followed this story. My heart goes out to the Kim family. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Jan Huismans
December 13, 2006
To the Kim Family,
The picture of James shows a happy and gentle man. I am sorry for your
loss.
Mellie
December 13, 2006
To the Family of Kim: I had been following the tragic loss of this wonderful man. I did not know him, but it just touched my heart. This man showed his love for his family until death!
I just wanted to offer my condolences to all of you, I know that in the next few months things will look bad, but remember. Don't give up your trust in the Lord, for he will see you thru this. May God richly bless you and keep you safe.
Renee
December 13, 2006
God saw you growing weaker
Healing was not to be
So he slipped his arms around you and whispered "Come with me"
- Author Unknown
You and your family are in my prayers!!!
Leslie Wallace
December 13, 2006
There is no "greater love" than for a man to give his life for his family.
Mr. James Kim is resting now awaiting his reward when Jesus Christ returns.
In the meantime ... Thank God for the gifts that He has blessed you and your daughters with.
Thank God for everything that He has done, is in the process of doing now, and for what He will do in the future.
God will bless and keep you and your two daughters, for only God is able and He has promised to never leave us alone ... please call on Him and He will comfort you for He brings us "Peace Like a River that flows".
Remember that you and yours are loved by many
Respectfully,
Cliff Brown, Derek Brown, Tyrin Brown and
dm edwards
December 13, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kay Lynn Firmin
December 12, 2006
"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress. My God in Him will I trust" Psalm 91:1,2
Kati and Girls,
May you find the peace and strength that only the Almighty can give.
Rosalinda Petrisko
December 12, 2006
Dear Kati and family, I cannot imagine the utter sorrow, sadness &
devastation you've endured these days. I am so sorry.I pray you can
look upon Penelope and Sabine and smile remembering how much you both
love them. I promise the pain will go away, day by day. Hold close to
one another and reach out always. You are not alone. You have eachother to support and the love, prayers and hopes of so many around the world and that would make James proud. God bless you.
Joelle
December 12, 2006
The loss of James Kim is a symbol of super human effort. His love for his family and as well as his father, Spencer Kim RARELY exist nowadays. He's a legend and with his love, its really a good example for all. Our deepest condolences and God Bless You all at this time of sorrow
Jeff Ladner
December 12, 2006
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. James was a great man. God bless the Kim Family.
Sue and Mike Boots
December 12, 2006
Our hearts go to the Kim Family-James, you gave up your life for your wife and children-you are a great inspiration for all to follow! You will never be forgotten as our nation family hero.
Minister Spruill
December 12, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Bong Tongol
December 12, 2006
You'll forever live in our hearts.
May you rest in peace in God's love.
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