Barbara McNair

Barbara McNair

Barbara McNair Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 5, 2007.
LOS ANGELES (AP) – Barbara McNair, the pioneering black singer-actress who hosted her own TV variety show and starred with Sidney Poitier in the early 1970s, has died. She was 72.

McNair died Sunday in Los Angeles after a battle with throat cancer, her sister, Jacqueline Gaither, said.

"She was very family oriented," Gaither said. "She was more than just a star or a famous personality. She was a person of her own."

Gaining fame in the 1960s as a nightclub singer, McNair graduated to film and television as opportunities were opening up for black women late in the decade. She made her Hollywood acting debut in 1968 in the film, "If He Hollers, Let Him Go."

She later starred with Elvis Presley in his 1969 film "Change of Habit" and as Poitier's wife in the 1970 film "They Call Me MISTER Tibbs!"

She found movie acting "a more rewarding kind of work than singing," she told The Washington Post in 1969. "When I'm working in a club, I must go from one song to another rapidly and I don't have much time to express myself emotionally. In a movie, you can concentrate on one scene at a time."

She hosted television's "The Barbara McNair Show," a syndicated musical and comedy program, from 1969 to 1972.

As a singer, one of her biggest hits was "You Could Never Love Him." She started out as a jazz singer but later branched out, adding show tunes and the Beatles' "Yesterday" to her repertoire.

On Broadway, McNair replaced Diahann Carroll in Richard Rodgers' "No Strings" in 1963, and 10 years later co-starred with Hal Linden in a revival of "The Pajama Game."

Gaither said her sister seemed headed for a career in show business from the time she was a girl in Racine, Wis.

"She sang from the time she was five years old in churches and then at school,'' Gaither told the Racine Journal Times. "We always encouraged her."

McNair went to the University of California, Los Angeles, before moving to New York City to pursue her dream of becoming an entertainer.

An engagement in 1957 at the Village Vanguard earned her notices that would lead to her Broadway debut in the short-lived 1958 musical "The Body Beautiful."

Reviewing a nightclub appearance in late 1965, a New York Times writer commented that the "strikingly beautiful" McNair "does not have to depend on looks alone. She is a highly knowledgeable performer who projects an aura of beauty, a warm personality and an appealing sense of fun."

As she gained notice in Hollywood in the late 1960s, she told the Post that a steamy 1968 photo spread she did for Playboy "helped my career immensely."

Also around that time, she joined a Bob Hope tour to entertain servicemen in Vietnam, saying she was thrilled to later meet men who had seen her there. "I don't believe in war for any reason," she told the Post. "I went over there to see what war was like and to comfort the men and I was appalled."

Her career was hampered in 1972, when she was accused of drug possession along with her then-husband, Rick Manzie, after she signed for a package delivered to her dressing room. She was later cleared; Manzie was shot to death in 1976.

"You can spend all this time building something and it can be destroyed in a minute," she told the Post in 1979.

But she still made TV appearances into the 1980s on such shows as "The Jeffersons" and "The Redd Foxx Show." Her sister said she sang professionally until the middle of last year, when the spreading cancer hurt her ability to perform.

Along with Gaither, McNair is survived by her fourth husband, Charles Blecka.

"She had a great resume," Blecka said. "She could have ended up conceited, but nothing ended up that way. She had a special quality that was infectious, that everybody loved."

Copyright © 2007 The Associated Press

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Russell Davis

April 26, 2025

A beautiful black queen...

R Albanese

April 14, 2024

A Beautiful Woman With A Beautiful Singing Voice-
Thank You For Your Life In Music-

R. Albanese NYC

Danna Pollack

December 21, 2023

A Beautiful Actress and singer
Rest in Peace

N. Joanne Milner

January 8, 2021

A beautiful & talented "lady"! I look back when she sang in our church & I also went to school with her, but a year younger than she was. Her brother, Horace, was in my class & he was quite the "comedian"!

Karen Mosca

November 24, 2020

She was a very special Lady and always a Lady. A Star has died but shines in the Heavens.

March 27, 2020

I was watching recently Bob Hopes Christmas show on you tube entertaining our troops in Vietnam and saw Barbara McNair performing. What a classy beautiful lovely lady !

LeAundra B.

February 23, 2020

Just watched you on The Jefferson's and was intrigued by your acting...I never knew you were a gifted singer with such accolades. RIH

alina

September 21, 2017

I just saw Barbara in the Ed Sullivan show. Remember her dearly from so many tv show appearances. Did not know she had passed. So beautiful & gifted but never forgotten.

Marsha L.

August 23, 2017

You were so beautifully could sing and act!!!! I was young then but now in my 60's. They say you love God so now you are with him and his son Jesus!!!!!! Still see you on Mr.tibbs when they show it on TV.

Louvernia Scott

July 30, 2017

So beautiful &gifted actress. Gone to soon

July 30, 2016

Gone,but never forgotten.

Valenda Newell

June 26, 2016

A very beautiful and classy lady who mainly was known for singing jazz. In the 60's and 70's she appeared on talk shows ..MIKE DOUGLAS,,DINAH SHORE,, DICK CAVETT and MERV GRIFFIN..What a joy it was to listen to the smooth sweet sound of her voice....MISS YOU.....RIP

Jon Abrahamson

April 30, 2016

Barbara,
Watching you on Bob Hope's USO show 1967.
Silent Night really tor me up. I'm sure you really did know what your appearance on the USA USO tour meant for moral. Your truly a great American. Thank you for your service, and letting us know what were fighting for.
Rip, and much love
A Vet.

Yvonne Cousins

December 9, 2015

I'm watching you on The Flip Wilson Show and watched you last week on McMillan and Wife. Thank you for the great entertainment. You were a beautiful and graceful woman that my friends and I admired as girls. Continue to Rest In The Arms Of The Lord.

Dwayne Bickham,Sr.

November 23, 2015

In God's care, rest in peace.

Marcia B

August 29, 2015

To my doubles partner at Cambridge Racquet Club...still miss the old days of Vegas and your great forehand.

ellen galuszka

August 7, 2015

All these years gone and I only met her once at the McCarran Airport in Las Vegas.What thrilled me to meet her was I was mistaken for her so many times!Thank you Barbara you were a True Lady!

August 4, 2015

I Saw her with the Bob Hope show in Korat Thailand in 1967. She was very beautiful and wowed us all. I am sorry to hear of her passing.

P Eden

April 26, 2015

Ms McNair was such a beautiful spirit. She loved God and she was blessed by the wisdom and teachings of Pastor O. C. Smith. We miss Ms. McNair and Pastor O. C. Smith. I pray everyday that their families remain strong and know they are both in the arms of our Heavenly Father, God!

Tobi Dess

March 24, 2015

I'm watching her on Hogan's Heroes right now. Very elegant and beautiful presence she had.

Vikki Brown

November 16, 2014

Watching Ms. McNair on "Mission Impossible". I was always awed by her beauty and strength and find myself often thinking of her out of the blue.

August 21, 2014

I'm watching They Call Me MISTER Tibbs. She's beautiful. Such a talent.

Lorraine Williams

August 17, 2014

Watching her on Mission Impossible this A.M......Such a beautiful woman!.....

William Light

April 10, 2014

I played bass with Si Zentner in the middle sixties and had the gift of backing Barbara at Harvey's Wagon Wheel. What a wonderful, kind and talented lady. She was a delight. She will be sorely missed.

A G

March 8, 2014

Remembering you fondly A lovely entertainer.

Jenn

February 2, 2014

Such a beautiful, captivating singer and actress ... I still love to watch that episode of McMillan and Wife ... Barbara McNair, you will always be one in a miilion ...

December 25, 2013

Thanks for your service to our troops during Viet Nam.

J EUBANKS

June 11, 2013

Barbara, I'm watching a Change of Habit as we speak.

Ananda Edmonds

April 14, 2013

"I remember watching her (Barbara McNair) on television when I was a little girl and thinking she was the most Beautiful women in the world" Peace & Blessings!!
-Ananda Edmonds (Los Angeles,CA)

karen

March 16, 2013

God bless you you are and always will be a great actress and women to me.

P Chapman

March 13, 2013

I have always loved your work. They always called me your twin. RIP

Harry Simpson

March 4, 2013

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Joeann Wiggins

January 12, 2013

I watched her in Mr Tibbs today. She was so beautiful.

Kim

January 12, 2013

Currently watching They Call Me Mr MISTER Tibbs! very talented actress. Loved her in Change of Habit!

Rochelle Bailey

November 26, 2012

I still listen to her beautiful voice on you tube. Truly one of the greats.

August 14, 2012

I saw her on an episode of McMillan and Wife and fell in love with her, I was mesmerized...I wanted to be just like her. Enjoy your next life Ms McNair.

julius casey

July 13, 2012

Missed on this one rip.

July 12, 2012

I'm so late with this, but I didn't know she was gone. Gone too young. Sad to hear of her passing.

April 1, 2010

For Barbara...

WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California

December 31, 2009

McNair Family, may you treasure your memories as they become more precious in weeks and months to come.

Psalms 147:3-He is healing the broken hearted ones; and binding up their painful spots.

Our prayers are still with you

sasiren

December 19, 2009

I am very late in this but I just found out TODAY 12/20/2009 of Ms McNairs death. As an African American, I am proud of what she has accomplished and endured. What courage she had. As a young person I had heard of her financial struggles coupled with marital woes and am glad to know she overcame much. God is good all the time.

cheri weiner

December 4, 2009

Barbara McNair:

A beautiful lady with a beautiful voice.

She will be missed.

Friday

October 7, 2009

If I could just say, I fell in love with her as a teenager. I was just so captured by her. And from that day to hearing the painful news, I have followed her work. I was priviledged to meet her on my 40th birthday. She was doing a concert in the park, in Long Beach, CA. I don't know how she knew I was dying to meet her, but she called me on stage to sing the "Name Game" song. She could not believe my name. I was nervous, eccastatic, and on cloud nine. I have pictures of the occassion, and will cherish them even more now. She complimented my voice, ( a bit generous, I think, nonetheless, thoughtfull). She wished me a happy birthday, gave me a big hug, and I floated for at least a year later. She so blessed my heart. I never thought I would meet my idol. And there she was on what thought was gonna be the saddest day of my life. Thank you for sharing her with me. God bless your hearts. Rest my dearest friend..........Much love.

Mrs. Bobbi Grant

July 13, 2009

To the Family of Barbara McNair,

I am so sorry for the loss of such a family treasure like Mrs.McNair. I know it has been over a year since her death, but she is still greatly missed.
(What a great Talent she had)!

This has to still be a hard time for the family, so I wanted to share some encouraging thoughts from the Bible.

At Matthew 5:4-"Happy are those who mourn, since they will be comforted". This comfort can be found at Psalms 37:29-"The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it".

I hope these scriptures bring the family a measure of peace.

From a Stranger who cares.

paula taylor

April 8, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Mary Jeffers

June 18, 2008

In memory of Barbara McNair: You were a very lovely and talented singer-actress. I recently saw you in "The Organization" playing the wife of Virgil Tibbbs (Sidney Poitier).
I was very young back in the 70's but remembered your popularity with other African American beauties like Judy Pace and Tamara Dobson. You made us proud! May your rest in peace.

Miracle

May 29, 2008

I'm sorry to hear about your loved one, I would love to share a scripture to the family at John11:25 Jesus said I am the resurrection and the life, he that exercises faith in me even though he dies, will come to life.

Gary W. Kelly

May 7, 2008

I was young at the time of her TV show. Also late in life getting into "the days" music back then. However, I am glad I found an album she recorded at Motown. Yes her recordings of several H-D-H and others songs are great, although seem not to be aimed at the young youth Soul music buyers. I have been searching also for the 45's too. I saw a couple of 8-tracks in the 70's.
I am a fan. I would also like to see replays of her shows.

Stephen Trindall

February 23, 2008

I cannot express my sadness at the passing of Barbara enough.
I have long been a fan of You're gonna love my baby for many many years and still have that record today.
I will play this record at a venue in Perth in memorium of Barbara to many people who share the same sentiments.
KEEP THE FAITH

Steve

John Frazier

February 28, 2007

I was totally shock to learn of the passing of Ms. McNair. When I was a child, I remember watching her show on television. To me, Ms. McNair was like Diahann Carroll, in the fact that she showed a different way to be black. What I mean by that comment, she was more than a skin color, and like, Ms. Carroll, because of her strength many people of color are now allowed to perform in areas that we once upon a time were not allowed. Ms. McNair, like Ms. Carroll, showed the world that "we" come in so many different shades/colors. Ms. McNair, I thank you and will forever remember you. I've mentioned you on my space - in hope that others will learn of another american diamond named Barbara McNair. Rest In Peace.

Betty Rose (Denton) Bussell

February 14, 2007

Dear Jackie: It is with deep regret that we have learned of the death of your beloved sister, Barbara. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that our prayers are with you and the other members of the family. Sincerely, Betty Rose and Howard Denton in Chicago, Illinois.

Angeline Butler

February 14, 2007

To The Family of BARBARA MCNAIR
She was a friend of mine since 1967 in Las Vegas when she and Jack Rafferty came in to see me perform in Las Vegas Tropicana Hotel with Count Basie. She took me under her wing and showed me how to survive the unusual life style of the performer by taking me on the tennis courts with her in the early morn. I had my first tennis lessons there. Barbara and I met many times after that and she was like my big sister in showbiz. She
took part in my "Ellington Tree" project at the University of California 1981 and I saw her through the hospitalization and death of her sister Laureen from Las Vegas in Los Angeles. There was never a greater person. I will always treasure our friendship and the wonderful ways she shared her life with me. She will always remain in my heart."Ilove You More Today Than Yesterday" was her favourite recorded song on her recorded album/Angeline Butler, [email protected]/ 212) 957-9024

carlos taxi

February 13, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Rest in Peace. The day you left us is the day we all lost.

Hagan Thomas

February 12, 2007

Barbara McNair

God love and keep you with my thanks for Change Of Habit which I did not have to.

His Grace is a marvelous gift in Christ.

Wally Champen

February 11, 2007

You are and always will be a true beauty in sight and in song. Rest sweet lady.

Guyon Williams

February 10, 2007

A beautiful "Angel of Jehovah" who will never be missed, since she left so many beautiful memories...
You will be always within our hearts and always on our minds and forever with us spiritually...
We Love You Dearly,
Guyon Williams

S Harris

February 10, 2007

Another angel for the Choir above/ God bless the family/friends of the beloved Ms McNair

RONNY KILPATRICK

February 9, 2007

YOU MAY BE "OUT OF SIGHT" BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE "OUT OF MIND". I WILL "NEVER FORGET TO REMEMBER YOU".

LOVE ALWAYS,

RONNY KILPATRICK
DOUGLASVILLE, GA.

OAKLEY JEFFERSON JR

February 9, 2007

A BEAUTIFUL AND TALENTED DIVA HAS JOINED GOD'S CHOIR.

D. Andrews

February 9, 2007

I had the pleasure of meeting and talking with this lovely lady in the 60's.Whenever she came to San Francisco I would see and speak with her again.I am very saddened by her passing as she was truly a gem...

PEGGY SALLING

February 9, 2007

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.I LIVED ON THE SAME STREET IN RACINE, WIS AS HER PARENTS,ON LINDEN AVE.THAT WAS ABOUT 45YRS AGO.THAT OFCOURSE WAS A LONG TIME AGO.BUT WE REMEMBER WHEN WE WE'RE TOLD THE STORY ABOUT HER AND HER START IN HER SINGING CAREER. SHE WAS VERY TALENTED AND BEAUTIFUL,AND IT WAS VERY DIFFICULT FOR A AFRICAN-AMERICAN TO MAKE IT IN THE INDUSTRY,AND SHE DID IT!GOD BLESS HER.

CECELIA TURNER

February 9, 2007

ANOTHER FLOWER HAS BEEN ADDED TO THE MASTER'S GARDEN.

Angela McKee

February 9, 2007

I was 4th runner up in Model Pageant '75 that took place at Busch Gardens, Tampa, FLA, in May of that same year and Babara McNair and George Hamilton were the hostess and host. As I remember, she was my first up close and personal experience with a real "Black" star because during the pageant rehearsals, she shared the same space with the models, and since there were only a few black models in the pageant, it was refreshing to have her there. She was very nice, funny and down to earth. Over the years I often wondered what happened to her. May she rest in peace and my condolences to the family.

Angel-Lee A. Evans, [email protected]

February 9, 2007

I am so saddened to hear about this beautiful lady's passing. As a child, she was someone that I looked up to; I loved the movie that she did with Elvis and Mary Tyler Moore! Good night, Ms. McNair, and God Bless.

Terry Williams

February 9, 2007

My name is Terry Williams one of the original Kenny Roger and The First Edition. Barbara was a guest on our telivision show "Rollin On The River" and I never met a more wonderful down to earth and talented person and beautiful as well. I have a photograph of her and myself on the show and I cherrish it. God Bless Barbara Mcnair.

Sandy

February 9, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with you in the loss of one so dear. Her grace, talent and beauty remain a treasure to us all.

philip beasley

February 9, 2007

with love from a long time admirer. so sad that you had dropped out of sight for so long. GOD has better plans for you now. another angel singing so gloriously in heaven.

Wane McNair

February 9, 2007

As a young boy born in 1956, Barbara McNair was such an inspiration to me..Seeing such a beautiful and accomplished woman on TV made feel real proud to be a black american. Another- McNair

DEBORAH BUSH

February 9, 2007

YOU WERE A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND ENTERTAINER REST IN PEACE,TO THE FAMILY I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS.

BOB WATKINS

February 8, 2007

I ALWAYS ADMIRED HER TALENT AND GRACE.

Peggy Hunter

February 8, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

D.L ZIMMERMAN

February 8, 2007

REST IN PEACE BARBARA

Jeannine Johnson

February 8, 2007

I use to love to watch the Barbara McNair show on t.v when I was young. She was such a beautiful lady. I also saw her perform in Atlantic City and was thrilled when she dedicated a song to my husband and I. I will never forget that moment and I will never forget her. She was truly an outstanding lady of dignity.

Deborah Patterson

February 8, 2007

Rest in Peace you are now in the God arm. Love yours in Christ

Alex Riddick

February 8, 2007

I will Barbara Mc Nair so much. Her beautiful voice and laughter and her sheer beauty. There is much wonderful collection of items i have collected tied in the memories of Barbara Mc Nair. Her beauty book, recordings,TV shows and magazine covers. I waited 2 years to find her Motown recordings. I will really miss her no words can discribe.My memories of her will forever last.

Richard & Regina Brown

February 8, 2007

God Bless you and rest in peace.

LARRY O'BANNON

February 8, 2007

We've lost another giant in our black history. What a wonderful lady. She will be greatly, greatly missed by All.

Judy Temple

February 8, 2007

My condolences to the family of Barbara McNair. She was a beautiful and talented lady.

cynthia golden

February 8, 2007

Though I did not know Ms. McNair, I did experience the fond and lasting memories with her music which for me warmed,refreshed emotions and her acting which seemed so real you left the theater as if you left a friends home,knowing you will return. May our lord in heaven,
hold her close and bless those she had to leave with us.

Louise Tyler

February 8, 2007

My condolences to the family. A truly great actress. A lady at all times. She will be greatly missed.

Roberta Taylor-Cooper

February 8, 2007

Christ became one of us to redeem all of us. In the loss of your loved one, may you find comfort and joy in your memories.

Ptah Ra

February 8, 2007

A long time fan. God rest your soul.

bill swoopes

February 8, 2007

What a "LADY"...sadly missed

David

February 8, 2007

Thank you Barbara, for everything you gave us.
Always,

Daniel Lewis

February 7, 2007

I had the honor and pleasure to meet and speak with her on two occasions; 1st in August 1968 while she was touring with the USO in Thailand, and again on 28 June 2003 in Washington, D.C. where she was performing at an event sponsored by The Black Academy of Arts and Letters.

A talented, beautiful, and gracious lady. May she rest in peace.

Maureen

February 7, 2007

My heart goes out the the family of Barbara - especially her nephew John and his family - I know how much Barbara meant to him and want him to know that he's in my thoughts and prayers!

Margaret McClintock

February 7, 2007

Another beautiful soul is at rest, Ms.Mcnair we will miss you but you left your mark,so take your rest, my deepest sympathy to your family. and thank you.

Diane Harvey

February 7, 2007

I had the good fortune to see Ms. McNair perform on stage with Hal Linden (a.k.a. Barney Miller) in Pajama Game. She was awesome and ever so beautiful!The entertainment world will be bereft without her.

RE-NAY SANDERS

February 7, 2007

I was a little girl when I had first heard of Ms. McNair. I don't know what type of hair style she had but I remember being at a beauty salon and hearing women saying they wanted her hair style. When I finally saw her I then understood why all the women wanted to look like her. She was a very beautiful and talented woman and she opened the door for so many. You will never be forgotten. To her family; You all have our deepest sympathy, but she will suffer no more.Take comfort in your memories but you will see her again.

CAROL CONNORS

February 7, 2007

JUST A MUISCAL NOTE 2 SAY... I AM SO SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF BARBARA MCNAIR. BUT I KNOW IN MY HEART OF HEARTS THAT HER MUSIC WILL LIVE ON FOREVER . LOVE AND MUSIC IN MY HEART FOREVER CAROL CONNORS.

N. Moton

February 7, 2007

What a wonderful talent we have lost. She was graceful and very inspirational to a generation of women of 'color'. Gone, but not forgotten. May the God of Heaven and Earth comfort her family and friends in this time of grief. (Revelation 21: 1 - 5)

Kay & Ron Masak

February 7, 2007

I had the great joy of emceeing many shows with this classy lady over the years...We got to travel to many places on this earth doing many charity events... This STAR never cared if she went on first or last..and she never failed to stop the show.My wife and I are proud to say that she was a friend.. who will be sorely missed. Our hearts go out to Charlie and her family.

DEE

February 7, 2007

GOD BLESS THE FAMILY OF A BEAUTIFUL CLASSY LADY, MAY HER SOUL R.I.P.

A fan

February 7, 2007

I would like to thank her for giving me the inspiration to believe I would be on television. Growing up in the 60"s and seeing a strong, beautiful and talented Black woman on t.v was motivating to us all.
Job well done Ms. McNair!
Thank you again.

Charlene Williams

February 7, 2007

I remember Ms. McNair when I was a little girl. We have long-time family friends that live in Racine and my mom knew Ms. McNair around the beginning of her singing career. I used to think,"Wow we knew a celebrity right there in Racine Wisc."With her flair we always knew that she would be someone remembered in show business and she was . My condolences to your family . I'll keep the up close memories of you,your flair and singing style. God Bless you.

Deniece Williams

February 6, 2007

She was an inspiration to many female artist. She will be missed but will be remembered through the legacy that she has left us! My prayers go out to her family.

s. Gibbs

February 6, 2007

I was sorry to hear of the lost of Ms. Mcnair.I have enjoyed her singing and acting for many years, to her family I would like to express my deepest sympathy.

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