Add a Memory
Make a Donation
Andrew Koenig Obituary
At a press conference in the downtown park where his body was found, police said foul play was not suspected, but would not release a cause of death because the coroner is still investigating.
The actor's father, Milton Koenig, said his son "took his own life."
Friends found the body at around noon Thursday in a heavily wooded area about 100 feet (30 meters) from a popular foot path.
Koenig, 41, was visiting friends in Vancouver when he went missing more than a week ago.
The Venice, California, native had a recurring role on the 1980s sitcom as Boner, a pal of star Kirk Cameron's character, Mike.
Copyright © 2010 The Associated Press
664 Entries
Diana Whitman
January 8, 2024
To Andrew’s wonderful family,
I feel your pain and send very belated but heartfelt condolences. My daughter Lisa and Andrew’s sister Danielle were good buddies in kindergarten and first grade attending Dixie Canyon Elementary. I’m so sorry I never had the opportunity to meet Andrew. For years I’ve had on and off bouts of clinical depression which required medication and therapy. The pain and loneliness of that affliction are just terrible. Rest In Peace, beautiful soul. Much love all around, Diana Whitman
Melissa Wall
June 22, 2023
I knew you, when I delivered your mail, you were nice and kind, and you always smiled. I loved that you were a vegan, and cared so much, for animals, the environment, and people. You will always be thought of, in a loving kind way.
Michael
May 19, 2023
Rest easy my friend.
February 13, 2020
So very sorry.
How you can show support
Jim Halloran
July 23, 2019
You were very talented.
Lisa Martocello
November 30, 2018
Hi this Lisa I use to watch Growing Pains I love Andrew that play Bonner he was a good actor he will be missed RIP Andrew.
Beki Kalk
June 3, 2016
You were great and awesome as the Joker in Batman, Dead End! In fact, you were the greatest Joker ever, it's on youtube, watch it!
Beki Kalk
June 3, 2016
You were a beautiful soul.... Rest in peace.
May 21, 2013
Rest in peace, i know you went thourh alot and i think about you ..... i hope your safe with your higher power......
Lisa Weiner
May 19, 2013
To Andrew Koenig,
You were a very talented actor. You did a great job playing Boner on the sitcom Growing Pains. It wouldv'e been nice to meet you in person and maybe take a couple of pictures with you too. My prayers are with you and your family. Lisa Weiner
October 6, 2012
RIP god bless you, i wished i could of meet you.
Chele Wright
February 20, 2012
Good actor
Lori Houchins
April 12, 2011
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
April 12, 2011
Andrew had many talents and will be missed. As we remember his life may we find comfort in the words found at John 5:28.
JOHN DODSON
March 5, 2011
Koenig family.I am sorry for your lost.We can have comfort in know that almighty God has the power to remembers the departed one and can bring him back to life in the future earthly paradise.God's word foretells: "{God} will wipe out every tear from their eyes,and death will be no more,neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore."-Revelation 21:4.How wonderful that will be because we will be able to see out love one again in paradise.I hope this will be encouraging to you and your family,our heartfelt thoughts go out to you and the family.
Wings Of Love-Jeff & Janice
Jeff & Janicee Eble
November 7, 2010
In Loving Memory Of Andrew Koenig-Jeff & Janice
Jeff & Janicee Eble
November 7, 2010
Jeffrey Bryan
June 1, 2010
I may not see you with my eyes,
or hear you with my ears...
But thoughts of you remain with
me and often dry my tears.
You whisper in the autumn leaves
that linger in the fall...
And in the gentle evening breeze
I`m sure I hear your call.
I think of all the happy times
and then I softly sigh...
For someday soon we`ll meet again
and never say goodbye...
Jeffrey Bryan
Ellen
May 7, 2010
He was beautiful, inside and out. My sympathies to his loved ones.
Jeffrey Bryan
May 4, 2010
Andrew,I am so sorry that life was
often so hard for you.You were a
wonderful actor,and a very sweet
person.
I will always remember you,buddy.
April 1, 2010
For Andrew...
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
March 31, 2010
We will all miss you forever Andrew, You were a beutiful man.
Fred
March 28, 2010
Walter, may each day bring you closer to memories of the precious gift of Andrew's life and further from the memory of his passing. Only we who have lost a child can know the anguish instilled. May life have meaning for you again. And, one day soon, may you awaken with appreciation for the LIFE you were blessed to know pushing aside the pain.
Jody Lee
March 22, 2010
Walter, Judy, Danielle, Jimmy, little Oliver,
I am so sorry. I loved Andrew. I will always love Andrew and will hold him close in my heart.
I pray Andrew will be your special Spirit Guide and help you throughout this life, until you meet again.
Andrew be at Peace and go to the Light now. You did so much good here on earth. Now it is time to rest and be rewarded.
Love, Light and Prayers
Jody Lee
myspace.com/jodysangels
(For Inspiration)
Anne M R
March 19, 2010
Rest in Peace Andrew. It's sad when someone feels there's no one to turn to. I have felt that way too. Suffering from depression is a longterm thing, it's like being in a black hole. It's so hard to get out of it. I hope you are at peace now.
Melody Siracusa
March 18, 2010
My thoughts are with Andrew's family, and those whom he was loved by.
Rich
March 17, 2010
To the entire Koenig family I wish you nothing but strength in your time of agony.
There is no greater tragedy than the loss of a child.
Melinda
March 16, 2010
Andrew,
Rest in peace.
March 9, 2010
For Andrew...
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
angela askew
March 8, 2010
I had a nephew that took his life. he was so depressed and the family never knew that it would come to him takeing his own life he couldnt find the joy in life like alot of people could and he thought the best way out was to end his .and its so sad to hear of news like this when andrew was so talented and full of life on growing pains i loved that show!May god give all of his family comfort and happiness in the days to come.
Sherry Ballestero
March 8, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for the memories and God bless
Blanca Cabrera
March 8, 2010
To the Koenig Family,
My thoughts are with you all. Always remember Andrew will be in your hearts forever.
God Bless you all!
March 8, 2010
May god be with you all
Dale and Bonnie Burns
March 8, 2010
Dear Koenig Family,
May God surround you with His Loving Arms today and comfort you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl Boyd
March 8, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
March 7, 2010
Thanks for the memories and making me laugh!!! JCR NY
March 7, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Please find some comfort in knowing that God is 'yearning to bring your loved one back to life'-
Job 14:13-15
[email protected]
Lisa Bush
March 6, 2010
May the prayers of those that feel your pain help you through this time. May the love in your hearts help you also. The Lord is with you lean on him.
Debbie Beechin
March 6, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Pam Thompson
March 6, 2010
Dear Koenig family,
I too suffer from depression and understand what Andrew was going through. I've been there many times. Some of us manage to find our way back. Know that he never meant to cause you this pain. In his mind, he only wanted to end his own.
May God bless you and help you in the days ahead.
March 6, 2010
For Andrew...
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
A R
March 6, 2010
To the Koenig Family,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I loved to watch Growing Pains and it saddens me to hear such depressing news. My prayers go out to you all at this very difficult time. May you find comfort in the words of the Psalm 34:18 where it says "God is near to those that are broken at heart; and those crushed in the spirit he saves."
March 6, 2010
RIP boner. I grew up with you on my TV. May you find the peace you couldn't find in life.
travis
March 5, 2010
my prayers and sympathy for your loss
Liz Venzor
March 5, 2010
It is hard enough to lose a child through illness, but I can't begin to understand the heartache you all are feeling....God has another Angel in heaven May God Bless you
Kim Lewis
March 5, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss.May god get your family through this difficult time!God bless your family!
Janice Woods
March 5, 2010
Dear Koening family, my prayers are with you. I lost my grandson two years ago in the same way.
God bless you and help you thru this most trying time.
Brenda Jones
March 5, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
k f
March 5, 2010
''im not crying cuz i feel so sorry for ya, im crying for me''...my sympathy to the families
Carrie
March 4, 2010
Dear Koenig Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. All though I did not know Andrew personally, I did grow up adoring him. I understand how depression can take over a person. Thank you for telling us all to seek help. I know all the emotions involved and my heart and deepest sympathy go out to all of you. It is sometimes hard to feel God helping us when we are in deep pain. However this I know from experience this is when he is with us the most. All you gotta do is ask. I am praying for each and everyone of you. God Bless, a friend.
March 4, 2010
For Andrew...
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
Debby Hanoka
March 4, 2010
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God bless Andrew on his way to "The Great Hereafter."
Patti Hester
March 4, 2010
You will be missed. Thank you for sharing your young years with so many. To the Koenig family I send you my deepest regrets for you lost and pray God will comfort you in the difficult time. God Bless you, Patti F Hester, Port St Joe, FL
steven martinez
March 4, 2010
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
Crystal Benton
March 4, 2010
To The Koenig Family i loved watching Andrew Koenig on Growing Pains i was and still am a big fan of your son my heart and prayers go out your family he will be missed. MAY GOD BLESS!
Crystal Benton
L Q
March 4, 2010
To the Koenig family - You have my sincerest and deepest condolences during such a difficult time. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through at this time.
I do hope that you find a measure of comfort knowing that “the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort" will give you the kind of peace that will "gaurd your hearts and mental powers" even in your most darkest of hours. - Phill 4:7 , 2 Corinthians 1:3.
Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
SANDYE HARRISON
March 4, 2010
TO THE KOENIG FAMILY, YOUR SON GAVE MANY SMILES AND MUCH LAUGHTER TO HIS FANS ON GROWING PAINS. MAY GOD BLESS!
Dian Cooper
March 4, 2010
I always enjoyed watching your son on Growing Pains and the antics he was involved in. He was a joy to watch and was probably a joy as a son to you.
tanya KEEF
March 4, 2010
You will be missed
Rebecca Burke
March 4, 2010
To the Koenig Family. My heart and prayers go out to you in this difficult time.May god bless your family with love and healing.
S B
March 4, 2010
Sorry for your loss, we will keep your family in our prayers.Keep in mind that God "is near to those who are broken at heart...and those crushed in spirit."Psalms 34:18
Janice Lynn
March 4, 2010
My prayers go out to the Koenig family. As a parent, I hope never to experience such a loss. May all Andrew's relatives and friends remember the love shared over the years. God's blessings to you all.
Lisa Cameron
March 4, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about the lost of your son. I enjoyed watching him on Growing Pains. He was a wonderful actor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless You.
Kim Womack
March 4, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about your wonderful son. One of the newscasters that knew him talked about his love of our environments and his work to save it. She had wonderful things to say and it helped to know him a little better. I know your hearts are breaking. I am so sorry. You are in my prayers.
March 4, 2010
"Thoughts and Prayers"
Joanna Miller
March 4, 2010
To The Koenig family, I feel so deeply sorry for your lost. You will see Andrew again. I have lost most of my family, to cancer, heart failure, and diabetes... so I know what your feeling.I was in the medical field for 27 yrs, dealing with Depression,and Bipolar, etc. I want you to know what happened to Andrew was not your fault. Trust me when I say this. My sincere condolences.
Sharon Volpe
March 4, 2010
My deepest sympathies to the family. Andrew was the one who made the show! He will be missed. May God grant the family peace in their time of need.
Jay Gaskins
March 3, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Mark & Jada Leonard
March 3, 2010
Sorry for this sad loss , Maybe one day it can be explained . May Andrew have peace during current journey .
N
March 3, 2010
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God. ~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
Thanks for the memories "Boner" I loved watching Growing Pains. May God Watch over you and your family at this time and always.
March 3, 2010
I am very sorry for the loss of Andrew
“God is near to those broken at heart”Ps. 34:18
Sharing your loss...D. McKnight
D Smith
March 3, 2010
what a shame. I remember that show. he was very funny.
March 3, 2010
The Koenig Family
The path of life is different for each of us Only God knows it for sure and He is always there for us when we leave this short life here on earth your son is in His hands God Bless your family and your son Athena Irland Huger,SC
DeeJay Oconner
March 3, 2010
When someone you love becomes a memory,that memory becomes a treasure. May you find peace at this most trying time.
Terri Crawford
March 3, 2010
I am so sorry for your whole family at this difficult time. Andrew is at peace now and no more suffering. I know you would rather have him here but he is in a better place now. RIP Andrew. You are in my prayers.
Steven Hassel
March 3, 2010
I'm very sorry for your loss I'm remember your son from his TV days and he was very good at acting
shirley layton
March 3, 2010
Peace be with you at this difficult time.God Bless you all and Andrew
Viki Sarina
March 3, 2010
My heart just aches for your family. My Prayers are with you.
Sandra Kessler
March 3, 2010
So saddened. Words can not convey your loss.Life is a path that we walk on
that indeed can challange our own realities.
Hold on to your son's great kindness.
SEKessler(Pennsylvania)
Cain, Family
March 3, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
K. Henderson
March 3, 2010
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that this scripture will confort the family at this very difficult time. Revelation 21:4 "He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
M Mercado
March 3, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Marilyn Sanders
March 3, 2010
Depression, 1 of the most tragic mental illnesses there is too beat. It never goes away it just lingers in and out your life all your life. Good days and Bad days. God Bless The Koening Family.
Marilyn Sanders
North Carolina
laine lucore
March 3, 2010
May God hold your family close as your family will hold your wonderful memories. Thankyou for being part of our lives.
Sandy Martin
March 3, 2010
Working at Arkansas Children's Hospital I see parents losing their children every day. It is usually after a couragous fight against cancer or a tragic accident of some kind. Depression is more sinister. Like cancer it usually grows unseen leaving its victim in despair.
No parent should ever have to outlive their children. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that Andrew is no longer at war with the demonic forces called depression. He is at peace.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Jose Camacho
March 3, 2010
My the Lord comfort you during this tragic lost. My deepest condolences.
SSG J.A.Camacho
US ARMY
AFGHANISTAN
Ephraim Bosmans
March 3, 2010
My most sincere condolences to the Koenig Family, he will be missed...may he rst in peace.
Janet
March 3, 2010
I pray for Andrew. May he find rest.
Clare M.
March 3, 2010
Keep Jesus right in front of you at all times, He will give you strength to get thru these hard times. My condolences. We loved this show Andrew was in, one of the last few family shows on TV. God bless this family, he will be much missed...
Laura/Johnny Dean
March 2, 2010
Sorry, for your loss. Our thought's and prayer's are with you. The Dean's in Gainesville, Ga.
Juanita
March 2, 2010
God still love dear Andrew, and we still love him too. May the family gain comfort and peace in their lives. Love never fail Rev.21:1-5
Wende Moran
March 2, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Miguel Fagiani
March 2, 2010
To the Koenig family.
I am very, very sorry for your loss. It often seems that the kindest, best persons may suffer the most in life. I wish that there was something that could be done to reverse your great loss. I hope that you draw some comfort from the fact that so many others share your sadness.
Dina P.
March 2, 2010
So sorry to lose such a gifted and compassionate soul. May you rest in peace, Andrew. My deepest condolences to his family.
Mother & Father of Angel Aaron
March 2, 2010
Dear Koenig Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. We watched your plea for Andrew on TV and when the news came of his death my husband burst into tears.Two and a half years ago my husband found our son dead at the age of 29. There is no greater loss than that of a child. May God Bless You !
Renee Chambers
March 2, 2010
To the Koenig family:
Sorry to hear of your loss. Its very difficulty to loose a child. I want to share with you the comfort that has been very reassuring to myself as welll as many others who have lost loved ones. John 5:28,29 "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life" May you find comfort in this scriptural hope.
My deepest sympathy,
Jamie Sanders
March 2, 2010
My family's and my prayers to you.
Showing 1 - 100 of 664 results
Make a Donation
in Andrew Koenig's name
How to support Andrew's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Andrew Koenig's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read moreMore ways to support the family
Visit the Sympathy Shop
Sponsored