Elaine Seeger

Elaine Seeger

Elaine Seeger Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 21, 2006.
Elaine Seeger, 1915-2005

David Cuthbert
Staff writer

The story that members of Elaine Seeger's family all tell is how she walked from her home on Gen. Diaz Street to St. Dominic Church on Harrison Avenue almost every morning for early Mass. "And on the way," her nephew Michael Macksey said, "she'd pick up the newspapers on lawns and throw them on the porches where she knew 'old people' lived. She was 90 but didn't think of herself as old."

"She was still driving until last February," said Toni Macksey, Michael's former wife. "A Jeep. Can you imagine this lady, 85 pounds dripping wet, driving around in a Cherokee Jeep?"

Nephew Pat Macksey can. "She was a great shot with a pistol," he said, "and a great fisherman."

Pat and Mike Macksey were raised by Elaine Seeger and her husband, Everette, after their mother died in 1952.

Their father, Milford Macksey, was Elaine's brother. She met Everette "when a friend of her father's got him a job with Delta Steamship," Pat said, "and her daddy brought him home to dinner." They married in 1940.

To the boys, the Seegers were "Nanny" or "Nan" and "Paran." They operated Qwik Cafe, a coffee machine vending business.

"Paran got up early in the morning and went to service all the machines he had around town," Mike said. "He filled them up and collected the money, and Nanny kept the books and counted the coins. When Paran had a heart attack, she got up in the dark and serviced the route, with a .22 pistol in a paper bag."

"With her finger on the trigger," Pat said. "She was the nicest lady you can imagine, but you didn't mess with Nan."

Everette died in 1980, and his grave site at St. John Cemetery on Canal Street became another daily stop for his wife. She sold real estate for more than two decades, also doing volunteer work for Pitot House.

"She was selfless," Michael said, "always helping someone out. There's no telling what would have happened to Pat and me if they hadn't raised us."

"Angola, maybe," Pat joked, "and I don't mean the country. They were both great. She had the sweetest voice and long, dark hair, which she wore up in a twist, and as she got older, colored blond."

Mrs. Seeger doted on Mike's daughter Michelle, whom she called "Angel Face."

"We'd go to City Park, eat tuna fish sandwiches and ride the train," Michelle said.

Even though her own father had drowned in Lake Catherine during the 1947 hurricane that hit New Orleans, Mrs. Seeger would not leave her home when Hurricane Katrina threatened.

"She'd gotten through Betsy and Camille," Pat said, "and didn't expect any problems from this one."

"We all begged her to evacuate with us," Mike said, "even (former Lt. Gov.) Jimmy Fitzmorris. But when she wouldn't (leave) for Michelle, I knew she was staying."

Mrs. Seeger drowned in the home and neighborhood she loved and was laid to rest beside her husband in a quiet graveside service, as she requested.

"She was very clear about that," Michael said. "She didn't want any fuss made over her."

Published in The Times-Picayune

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Beverly Shultz

August 29, 2015

So sorry for your loss that never goes away Michelle and Mike She was a sweet lady May her soul RIP Amen

LM

January 23, 2007

I was blessed to have met you. Gen. Diaz will never be the same without such a sweet woman. We will miss visiting you on our walks.

Laurie Shadle

September 6, 2006

I have read all 33 pages naming those lost in New Orleans and have come to feel as if I have known you all. I am grieving with you even though I am far away. I am in San Francisco, but I am holding you all close to my heart. Love, Laurie

Gary, Debbie, Nancy, Nicole, & Cole Acosta-Scruggs

August 29, 2006

I truly miss My Aunt Elaine and remember her life today. She listened and supported me through all of my troubles in my life. She was a great support to me. She was a loving and caring person, but stood her ground on what she believed in. The best story I have about her happend about a week before her death and hurricane katrina. I always sent photos of my son Cole to his Aunt Elaine. She would get so excited to receive them in the mail and would call me immediately to let me know "what a doll he is". Aunt Elaine came to all of Cole's birthday parites also. I was going to pick her up for Cole's 3rd birthday and she was not feeling good and told me she was going to stay home. So we scheduled a visit to go to her house after the party. Cole had not seen her since his 2nd birthday party. He heard me talk about Aunt Elaine and talk to Aunt Elaine often, but did not see her often. Cole is a child that takes a while to warm up to people also. When we went to visit Aunt Elaine, I did not tell Cole to go hug or kiss her. He went on his own. He wanted her to hold him on his lap and he hugged and kissed her so many times during our visit. He even danced with her. She played on her antique piano with hime and showed him her cuckoo clock. Cole had so much fun and so did Aunt Elaine. The last time I spoke with Aunt Elaine was on Friday before hurricane katrina. We did not even talk about the hurricane thinking it was not coming to us at this time. She talked about her visit with Cole with so much love and enjoyment. I told her I have never seen Cole get so attached to someone so fast. She said ' she has a way with men!" She was such a cute lady. We all love and miss her very much. We always called each other every week to catch up and say "I love you!" She will be in our thoughts always. Gary, Debbie, Nandy, Nicole, & Cole

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