Mary Ann Trentecosta

Mary Ann Trentecosta

Mary Ann Trentecosta Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 21, 2006.
Mary Ann Berlier Trentecosta, 1928-2005

By Elizabeth Mullener
Staff writer

Mary Ann Trentecosta was a woman of great enthusiasms: for Mardi Gras, for gardening, for shopping, dancing, decorating, cats, fashion. She was a woman who knew how to have a good time.

"On one of my last visits, I remember walking down the hallway to her room and she had Fats Domino playing," said her daughter, Charlene Trentecosta, "and I walked in and there she is, jitterbugging, by herself, to a 45 record." Her lifelong friend Joyce Campiere, isn't surprised at all.

"Mary Ann was the healthiest 77-year-old I ever knew," she said. "She was youthful in her ways. She looked young, she stayed thin, she was so energetic."

A child of the Lower 9th Ward, born and reared on St. Maurice Street, Trentecosta graduated from Maumus High School and went to work as a clerk/typist for the Navy during World War II -- a government girl, as they were known -- at a discharge station at the Lakefront. Campiere worked in the office next door and the two teenagers had the time of their lives.

"We were young and all the sailors were so happy to be discharged," Campiere said. "We went on picnics and dances with them. We ate in the mess hall. That was a fun job."

The two women found fun as well on Canal Street, where they would get dressed up and spend the day.

"We were shopping buddies," Campiere said. "We'd go to town, have lunch sometimes at Holmes, go to Krauss. Once a year, we'd go to that oyster bar, Felix's, and get an oyster po-boy. Or we'd spend the day in the French Quarter, start off with coffee and beignets at Morning Call and then go to all the little shops."

Later, Trentecosta took a job at the Port of Embarkation on Poland Avenue but soon quit to marry a man who went into the wedding-reception business, as part owner of the Chiffon Room in Arabi and the Tiffany Room in Chalmette. For awhile in the late 1970s, Trentecosta opened a business of her own, a women's clothing store called Purrfect Fashions.

For most of her life, though, Trentecosta cultivated homier pursuits. Although her husband died more than 20 years ago, she had three children, three grandchildren and one great-grandchild and she ran an animated household. Outside, her lively garden was full of pass-along plants: morning glories along the wooden fence, yellow-eyed daisies, angel's trumpets, maidenhair fern, four o'clocks and banana trees. Inside, she kept the rooms spruced up with seasonal decorations: for Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentine's Day, Halloween and especially for Mardi Gras.

"Mardi Gras was one of her biggest things," says her daughter. "She was a member of Pandora. Oh my god, she was a Mardi Gras enthusiast."

Trentecosta had a taste for gambling, too, and made frequent forays to Las Vegas, where she would stay at the Mirage Hotel, play the roulette wheel and take in the big shows.

As Hurricane Katrina was bearing down on New Orleans, Trentecosta's friends and family beseeched her to leave. "She turned everybody down," Charlene said. "She didn't want to be run off by any storm. She said, 'Baby, I don't even like to drive to Baton Rouge and that's only an hour and a half.' "

Charlene talked to her mother on Sunday night and again on Monday morning. All was well, Trentecosta reported, and she thought she'd take a nap.

"I think she slept through the whole thing," Charlene said. "I pray she slept through it. The water got about 6 feet high in her house. The bed floated up and turned around and landed by the door."

Five months after the storm, when Campiere returned to New Orleans, she found her telephone among her belongings. "My daughter looked at the caller ID," she said, "and she said, 'Mama, Miss Mary Ann called on August 28th at 10-something in the morning.' She died on August 29th. I missed her last call."

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CHARLENE TRENTECOSTA

July 31, 2011

OH MOM! THERE'S NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU! I MISS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU! YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MANY TIMES I JUST WANT TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND HEAR YOUR VOICE. YOU ALWAYS WERE SUCH A POSITIVE PERSON AND NO MATTER WHAT DRAMA WAS HAPPENING IN MY LIFE, YOU ALWAYS REMINDED ME THAT THINGS COULD BE WORSE. YOU WERE RIGHT AND I ALWAYS REMEMBER TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT REALIZATION WHENEVER THINGS AREN'T EASY. I MISS DADDY LOTS, TOO. I KNOW Y'ALL ARE OKAY ON THE OTHER SIDE BUT I SURE DO MISS YOUR PHYSICAL PRESENCE. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL OF THE SIGNS YOU BOTH SEND ME TO LET ME KNOW YOU ARE STILL WITH ME. PLEASE KEEP WATCHING OVER AND PROTECTING ME~~YOUR BABY GIRL WHO IS NOW A SENIOR CITIZEN! UNTIL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN,
ALWAYS LOVING YOU,
YOUR ONLY DAUGHTER

Kristyn Trentecosta

October 13, 2006

My Grammie was the most amazing person in the whole wide world. She always made me happy. She has entertained me since I was born until I was 24 yrs old. Never a dull moment with her. She was the best cook ever. She was like sunshine on a cloudy day...always lifted my spirits. She loved spending time with me & Kyle (her great-grandson). Her eyes lit up when we would pull up in her driveway(she would always wait outside right before i would get there). I loved her garden, it was beautiful. She made my whole life fun & filled it with great memories. She always complimented me on everything & would just call me to say "I love you". i love her dearly and miss her so much.......

Laurie Shadle

September 6, 2006

I have read all 33 pages naming those lost in New Orleans and have come to feel as if I have known you all. I am grieving with you even though I am far away. I am in San Francisco, but I am holding you all close to my heart. Love, Laurie

Joyce Campiere

September 5, 2006

I met Mary Ann over 60 years ago when we were both just out of high school & starting our first jobs with Federal Civil Service. We rode the St. Claude streetcar to work and became good friends. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding, she intorduced me to my husband and I was honored when she asked me to be her daughter Charlene's godmother. So we have a lot of history together and I miss her very much. I miss our chats and phone calls. She was a great storyteller and always had interesting news. When my mother was ill, she loved Mary Ann's visits because Mary Ann told her funny stories that made her laugh and kept her mind off the pain. I miss our shopping trips. Mary Ann always seemed to find the bargains. Krauss was our favorite store. I will miss our all day excursions to the French Quarter, starting off with coffee & beignets and visiting all the little shops and the flea market. And there is so much more I will miss - seeing her at Mardi Gras parades, birthday parties, weddings and coffee klatches. But most of all I will miss her presence in my life and that she is not a phone call away.

Allison Babin

August 30, 2006

I will miss her happiness, enthusiasm, and cheerfulness. She was the most amazing and most caring lady. She was a great friend to everyone and definitely brought smiles to everyone! God Bless!

Rosary Udee

August 30, 2006

I miss her early-morning visits and I certainly miss her.

Rosary Babin

August 30, 2006

When I learned of Mary Ann's passing, it felt as though a light went out in my heart. She was my friend and my confidante, a remarkable woman who lived and loved with gusto. I'll think of her everytime I see twinkling Christmas lights, birthday balloons , snowflakes, sunny skies, April showers, Mardi Gras beads! God blessed us all the day Mary Ann was born.

Joanie Bosarge

August 28, 2006

I remember seeing this lovely lady around in the Tiffeny Room, it was many years back and I was a kid then. I am so sorry for your lost. I grew up in the Grove in Meraux. Katrina was a monster, so many lives lost and homes destroyed.


May you find peace and God Bless.

tim thriffiley

August 26, 2006

She was a great woman, full of life, loved her family, taken away from everyone too soon.

kelly magee

August 26, 2006

I have only the most wonderful memories of this great lady. She was so funny and full of life. I know that it would have been her choice, when her time came, to leave as fully herself, with her bright smile, her mile a minute conversations and without being slowed by some physical limitation. So, I remember her happy and carefree, and that is a gift if there is such a thing when you lose someone so special.

Kathleen Crotty Seghers

August 26, 2006

She brightened so many lives with her energy and laughter. In spite of her tragic death, thinking of her always brings back so many great memories.

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