Peggy Alferez

Peggy Alferez

Peggy Alferez Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 22, 2006.
Peggy Alferez, 1927-2005

Doug MacCash
Staff writer


It was 1952. Margaret Mary "Peggy" Selway had come to New Orleans to visit her long-lost father, whom she hadn't seen since she was a child. Devoted to literature, music and the arts, she was naturally drawn to the French Quarter, where she happened upon a reception at Lafitte's Blacksmith Shop. Her porcelain skin, ice-blue eyes and straight blond hair shone against her black velvet dress, attracting the attention of the dark, handsome man carving the ham -- with a machete.

He was Enrique Alferez, the Crescent City's most celebrated sculptor. Mexican-born, decades older, divorced -- many times, in his telling -- he was the embodiment of bohemian ideals. She was a registered nurse, born in Harrisburg, Pa., in 1927, with a slightly patrician accent informed by the years she'd spent working in a Boston hospital.

Impulsively, Alferez asked to kiss her. Impulsively, she agreed. After a year of wooing, she accepted his proposal of marriage, and so was born one of New Orleans' legendary unions.

No one can recall Enrique without recalling Peggy by his side, and vice versa.

"I think she truly lived for him, with him and by him," said their only child, Dr. Tlaloc Alferez.

"She was a dynamo, the classic artist's wife, the keeper of the flame," New Orleans Museum of Art director John Bullard said.

"He cast a giant shadow, and she was happy to live in that shadow," friend Charlie Ferguson said.

"You couldn't separate Peggy from 'Rique. She was his protector," art benefactor Dotty Coleman said.

Once married to Enrique, Peggy never returned to nursing. Instead, in their Vieux Carre apartment, later their home in Mexico, and finally their studio-home in a church building on 8th Street, she was the artist's other self. Where he had no business sense, she was able to pinch pennies. Where he was too volatile to cultivate galleries and clients easily, she was socially adept. Where he was a room-filling raconteur, she was content to bathe quietly in his glory.

But there was another Peggy. She was the rapacious reader, consuming countless books and periodicals, feeding her insatiable need for knowledge of current events. A fiery liberal, she was a civil rights proponent, a Vietnam War protester and pro-choice supporter. She was the one who could recall every detail of the articles she'd read in The Wall Street Journal, Vanity Fair and The Times-Picayune.

After Enrique died in 1999, she dedicated her time to preserving her late husband's memory, arranging for exhibits and sales, keeping his studio just as he'd left it.

Peggy, 78, was in her small bedroom adjoining the studio on the night after Hurricane Katrina struck. She apparently fell, which caused a brain hemorrhage. When her daughter, Tlaloc, found her, Peggy was semi-comatose.

On the Wednesday after the storm, Tlaloc's fiance, James Woods, helped place Peggy on an improvised stretcher, then in the family car. She was admitted to Our Lady of the Lake Hospital in Baton Rouge, where she died Sept. 10.

Peggy was cremated as per her wishes. Her ashes will be mixed with Enrique's.
Published in The Times-Picayune.

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August 26, 2010

To the family: May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."

Hayes Ferguson

August 24, 2010

Dear Tlaloc,

It was so good to see you during the holidays. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your parents, especially your mom.

Hayes

Scottie Broome

May 28, 2007

Dear Tlaloc: You may not remember me but you were my doctor when I lived in N.O. I lost my own mother at her age 96 on April 25, 2007. I am so sorry for your loss. No one will ever know the tragedy of Katrina unless they lived or have lived in New Orleans. Unfortunately, it appears I will never return to N.O. because of old age and infirmity. When you hear the song "Do You Know What It Means, to Miss New Orleans", think first of your Mom and then of me. They wrote that song for people like us even if we are looking back from Heaven. Lo Siento. Scottie Broome

Billye Timbes

April 7, 2007

Dear
Tlaloc You probably won't remember me, I posed for Enrique in N.O. when
you were a little girl. I hadn't seen him or Peggy for many years, I
was living in N.Y.C., but I visited N.O. and City Park last week and of
course I thought of your family, and the time you all lived around the
corner from me on Frenchman Street. Anyway, my best wishes to you, I
was so sorry to hear about Peggy's death, but I know she was proud of
you. I am old too, now, but I will never forget Rique and Peggy and
that beautiful little girl, their daughter. If you would like to get in
touch with me I am in Ala. now, 251-928-1786. I live in Oaxaca part of
the year, and would love to see you either here in the States or at my
house in Maxico. Billye Timbes

Consuella F Green

August 29, 2006

Dear Tlaloc (Dr. A),



I am in shock after learning of Peggy's demise. She was truly an extraordinary woman. May God give you the strenght as you now carry on the family legacy. Please know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers. I miss you and all of the family of Touro. All my love, Connie

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