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April 2, 2018
I remember my dad Charles Sekera campaigned for him. My mother Mary Sekera taking care of his father Dennis Carey n Margaret Carey.As well as working for his brother Martin Carey. May he RIP
Jeanne DeFazio
August 22, 2012
I met Governor Carey when he worked at WR Grace in Washington DC. He was a wonderful man and very kind to me. I will always be grateful to him for his kindness.
cecil williams
August 21, 2011
It was a New Yok under Hugh Carey where a great number of worthwhile changes were introduced. Gov Carey made a promise to the people of New York and gained the respect of many who saw him as a decent and dligent politician never shown to be corruptible or involved in activities that would ever discredit him in office. Therefore, we are saddened and know that he will be missed dearly.
August 17, 2011
To son Chris: My deepest condolence for your loss and fond memory of your father's great career. I remember well his easy election win in Nov. 1966 as we stayed up late for final results. Take Care and God bless your father.
Jim Ryan
Margaret Walsh
August 11, 2011
Condolences to all, we need more leaders like 'Himself' God Bless you. Margaret'Meg'Walsh (Staten Island)
Victor
August 11, 2011
Hugh, I respected you as a politician and appreciated you as a friend.
My wishes for Heaven to hold you; and for God to bless your family,
Victor
August 9, 2011
The family of the late Hon. Margaret U. Malone, Kings County Democratic Leader extend their sympathy to the family of Hugh. It was an honor to know him.
suzanne Iovino-Driscoll
August 8, 2011
Condolences to the Carey family. Your father and family are warmly remembered in your old neighborhood of Park Slope Brooklyn NY.
Jean Frink Hovorka
August 8, 2011
My prayers for Governor Hugh Carey and all of his families members. God bless and guide the Carey family through this time of sorrow.
August 8, 2011
I remember him as a proud father when he would come to St. Savior's elementary school to speak with the teachers or see the children perform in the auditorium. I met up with him many years later at a social gathering and was surprised he remembered my name. May Eternal Rest Grant unto him O Lord. Sincerely Margaret Coffey
Tom Brennan
August 8, 2011
Hugh Carey was a hero of mine. As a teenager in a small town outside of Rochester, I saw him charm post-Watergate/post-Rockefeller New York, and sweep to the Governorship over favored, decent, far better known competition like Howard Samuels and Malcolm Wilson. But his charm hid the most impressive things about him, the intellect and internal resources that made him stand in the way of the death penalty (respected even by those who differed with him) and do the heavy lifting needed to cope with the great fiscal and economic crisis of his time. He knew tragedy in his life, and the humor masked a complexity, and understanding of tragedy and human limits, that deepened him in a Lincolnian way. I was thinking about him recently, and guessing sadly that he was largely forgotten. It has been nice to see that I was wrong. To the Carey family, words fail at a time like this. I hope it is some help to know that there are people you don't know, as well as your friends, who are thinking about you now, and who will never forget him.
Ken Patton
August 8, 2011
So many memories of our neighbor, freind, leader and sometimes colleague.Behind his jaunty bonhommie,there lay a true leader, the quickest study in government, and a courageous man ready to take on tough issues but never afraid to share the effort witbh most talented he could attract to the effort. Ken and Helene Patton
Barbara and John Oberle
August 8, 2011
Gov. Carey was blessed with a long life and large family. As Brooklyn natives who relocated to RI in 1976, we were pleased to have the opportunity to vote for Hugh Carey before leaving NY. His life was also touched by tragedies but he is now at rest. Our condolences to his family.
August 8, 2011
Condolences to the Carey family. May the God of all comfort be with you.
Jerry Kremer
August 8, 2011
Hugh L. Carey was the brightest star in the Albany sky whose glow will never be diminished. He served our nation and our state with dignity and honor. When they made Hugh L. Carey they threw away the mold.
Nathaniel Queen
August 8, 2011
My condolences to the Carey Family on the ocassion of the death of their Father, the late Governor Hugh Carey.
Your Father was a giant amongst men. A savior of New York during those dark days of the financial crisis.
A job well done. An outstanding public servant. May He Rest in Peace, Peace Eternally.
Nathaniel f. Queen, Jr., OSJ
Fred Kast
August 8, 2011
Governor Carey, left a true legacy not only on New York State, but the Nation as a whole. He was a loving father and husband. He will be missed.
My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Carey Family. May God hold all of you in the PALM of HIS HANDS.
Frederick P Kast Jr.
Lincoln RI
GEORGIA WINTERSRICKS
August 8, 2011
REST IN PEACE UNTIL THE TRUMPET SOUNDS.
Michael Carr
August 8, 2011
My condolences to a true gentleman and consumate politician. To his son Brian, My old schoolmate (Xavier), Please pass on my regards to your Family. Rest in Peace Governor. He will be sorely missed.
Warmest regards,
Michael Carr
Laurence LeShay
August 8, 2011
Hugh Carey saved our city from financial disaster. He was an exceptional governor and congressman, a true son of Brooklyn. We will always remember him with respect and affection.
August 8, 2011
Condolences to the Carey family his service to New Yorkers was phenomenal. He took NYC from tbe brink and brought it back , He was a true statesman we all will miss...
Stephen Comency
August 8, 2011
My condolences to the Carey family. One of the most memorable days of my childhood was in 1977, watching a helicopter land at Song Mountain. Gov. Carey got out, walked passed the reporters and photographers to shake my 10 year old hand first. He was an impressive man, leader and statesman who cared about his constituents. God bless him.
Sheila Smith
August 8, 2011
Thank you for all your good work. Go in Peace Mr. Carey.
R Golay
August 7, 2011
To the the family of Hugh Carey - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that he will be missed by many.
Victoria&Andrew VZj
August 7, 2011
Our Condolences to
HUGH CAREY
For thoughts and
prayers To His Family~
Godspeed Spiritually
upon a Heavens Star
Bob Burwell
August 7, 2011
Met Gov. Carey when I was an Intern for Rep. Jim Hanley in 1973, their offices were in the same hallway in Cannon. Mr. Hanley assigned me the responsibility to sell his car, I believe a 1968 Ford. I parked the car for several days on the street next to Cannon with for sale signs on it with my telephone #. Got a call for then Rep. Carey and I met him to deliver the paper work and collect, if I remember correctly the $800.
A year later I was in NYC now working as a mgmt trainee for a bank, and I worked on his campaign for Gov. On election night met one of his sons and related my story and he told me his Dad had given him the car and he had wrecked it.
Over the years had occasion to meet Gov. Carey several times and would introduce myself with the connection to selling him the car. He would always laugh and say - "Do you know what happened to that car?" with a wink and another laugh.
A true gentleman and the type of good man we need more of in government today.
Peace be with his entire family.
Mary Steinhauser
August 7, 2011
Hugh knew what to do. God Bless Hugh. Thank Hugh for all that you did.
Michael Crowley
August 7, 2011
My prayers for Governor Carey will continue as long as I live. My name is Michael Crowley. When I was 16 years old, in 1965, I waited for several hours to see then Reresentstive Hugh Carey in his Cadman Plaza office. When he finally was able to see me, he greeted me with all the decorum and graciousness as would befit a head of state.
I told him of my ambition to win an appointment to The United States Naval Academy . I needed his nomination. He asked me why I wanted Annapolis and informed me that he took his Academy nominations very seriously, that no one he had ever nominated had ever failed to graduate. He informed me that I would have to compete for the nomination by taking a test apart from the SAT's which would indicate to him my chances of completing the Academy.
After taking the test I was called back to Congressman Carey's office where he informed me personally that while my verbal skills more than qualified me, my Math and Science credentials made it dubious that I could step into an engineering program and succeed.
I told him I'd go to any lengths to qualify for the Academy. I told him I'd quit the varsity basketball team and give up my baseball season to take Math and Physics tutelage after school, courses not emphasized at my particular high school. I took the SAT's three times and the Physics Achievement test twice before I qualified (barely) for the Academy.
I was one of 15 kids in a not well off family from Bay Ridge with a "Rudy" dream. Congressman Carey went out on a long limb ,against his better judgment, and proffered me his nomination.He gave me the chance of a lifetime.
I wish to God I could have made his bet pay off but in the middle of my second year I was separated from the Academy for academic deficiency. The bitterest disappointment of my life. A disappointment for Mr. Carey too, I'm sure. Since that last day at the Academy I've tried to live a life worthy of Mr. Carey's confidence in me. I did not have a distinguished naval career but I did put some of my hard lessons at Annapolis into building a career in the NYPD Emergency Service Unit and at the Police Academy as a supervising instructor. I raised two fine young women with professional careers, one as an attorney in the NYPD's Legal Bureau.
I didn't fulfill the dreams I spoke to Congressman Carey about that day in 1965 but I wouldn't have what I have today if he hadn't given me that chance, at the expense of stainingthe record of achievement of his other nominees of which he was so proud. None of them was more grateful than I though, and none benefitted more from the advantage "Mr. Education" gave me.
God rest his generous Irish soul.
Gratefully and Respectfully,
Michael P. Crowley
Ed Hagan
August 7, 2011
Governor Carey was one of the greatest political leaders in New York's history. At a crucial time in the State's history, he was able to bring seemingly contradictory political beliefs together in a successful effort to save New York City. He was a man with a true Irish soul that could at one moment easily lead him to sing a ballad in his distinctive tenor voice, while at other times lead him to moments of melancholy and brooding. He was a complex, intelligent, principled and introspective man. We were blessed to know him.
Brian McLane
August 7, 2011
Gov Carey was a true giant. He signed the willowbrook consent decree, reorganize the state's approach to mental hygiene and began the movement to close developmental centers in the state and move our family members into group homes. My heart goes out to his entire family.
Brian McLane
Pete Ulicny
August 7, 2011
Helping prevent bankruptcy was a tremendous achievement on Mr. Carey's part. May he rest in peace. God bless his family and friends.
james willner
August 7, 2011
May he rest in peace......
Joseph Fitzgerald
August 7, 2011
We can all wish that we had more Governor Careys on the horizon, who really care more about people than personal gain. His kind of people- oriented politician seems sadly to be a thing of the past.
August 7, 2011
i WORKED FOR NY STATE DEPT OF LABOR WHEN HE WAS GOV AND BELIEVE ME HE KNEW HOW TO MAKE THE CUTS ON EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE WE GAVE UP SOME SALARY AND IT DIDN'T HURT AT ALL MAYBE HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ELECTED PRESIDENT SOMEWHERE ALONG THE WAY AND WE WOULD NOT BE IN THIS MESS TODAY
Carl Todd
August 7, 2011
Martin-
Sorry about your loss of our brother. Let's hope that your family's long gevity genes were past on to you too. See you when I'm walking my dog down Crecent Beach Rd.-Carl
August 7, 2011
Governor Carey was that rare politician possessed of statesmanlike qualities and seemingly effortless leadership skills.
A thoroughly wise, witty, pious, and generous Governor, who shall be sorely missed. They don't make men like him anymore.
My condolences to all the Carey family, with fond affection,
M.Rhodes
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