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Spencer Cox Obituary
Cox, who was 44, died Tuesday at Allen Hospital in Manhattan of AIDS-related causes, according to his brother, Nick Cox.
Journalist and director David France said Spencer Cox can be seen in a documentary released this year about the activist group AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power called "How to Survive a Plague."
Cox joined the ACT UP group, known for its demonstrations and sit-ins and aggressive tactics seeking more resources for AIDS treatment and prevention, in 1989. He and other ACT UP members formed the Treatment Action Group, known as TAG, to focus on accelerating treatment research, in 1992.
France said Friday that Cox was "fiercely intelligent from the time he was a teenager."
"He wound up consulting with Nobel Prize winners on novel approaches to attacking viruses, rebuilding immune systems and designing drug trials," France said.
Dr. Anthony Fauci, director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, told The New York Times that Cox was always "very meticulous about getting good data rather than just screaming for getting something approved."
"It's a great loss," Fauci said. "He was part of a historic group of people."
A memorial will be held for Cox, who is survived by his brother and his mother, on Jan. 20 in New York.
Copyright © 2012 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
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Nick, Spencer and Brian....
Phillip Fisher
November 13, 2016
Suncoast AIDS Theatre Project
Garry Allan Breul
February 25, 2013
Although we have never met, your reputation and caring for those who struggle with HIV/AIDS is remembered; your legacy is our future.
Celeste
January 15, 2013
I miss you, sweetie.
Susan Perry
January 15, 2013
Spencer is my cousin, lost touch over the years. I've looked for him but never got anything until today. I wish I had known the man he had become, everything I have read today has made me proud of the man he became. Our dads were brothers. Beverly and Nick, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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David Mager
January 1, 2013
Spencer was a kind man, who also had great intellect and unending dedication to the causes he served. I hope his family, dear friends find comfort in the knowledge that he was so loved and respected.
David
jeff pultz smith
December 26, 2012
I've known you for awhile u always bought a smile to every one face and the things u did to help every one u are and always will be my big bro thru it all u was there fly wit the angels u will always live thru me I keep ur legacy alive untill we meet again my friend hold a place for me up there r.i.p
julie henley
December 26, 2012
I never met you but I'm so grateful for what you have done on earth! You will be missed dearly, my heart and prayers go out to the family! What a beautiful person. God bless.
China
December 24, 2012
For u are a peace now...you job here is done, but your memory and work shall live on. May u rest in peace.
Marie M
December 24, 2012
May the God of comfort be with you all during this time of distress.
December 24, 2012
I offer my condolences. God promises us a world without sickness. We all look forward to the day when no person suffers.
December 24, 2012
RIP Spencer.
G. Johnson
December 24, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Julie J
December 24, 2012
Sincere condolences to Spencer's family and friends. Rest in peace, Spencer!
Mary Smith
December 24, 2012
My sincere condolences to the Cox family. The God of comfort will sustain you during this sad time (1 Pe. 5:7).
December 24, 2012
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Windy Loutherback
December 24, 2012
Having had a family member of mine that had AIDS. He is in a better place now. No more pain! Always in my prayers !! Maybe he will meet my uncle up in heaven and become great friends!
December 23, 2012
May God Bless You !
December 23, 2012
May the peace promised in God's Word Second Corinthians 1.3,4 sustain all of you and help you endure. Trust in God, He is there and will provide whatever you may need to get through this very tough time of pain and sorrow. Please accept my sincere condolences, along with the prayers of my family.
Damien Baken
December 23, 2012
Please accept heartfelt condolences and prayers. May Spencer rest in peace. Having had family members and friends who suffered with AIDS, I understand.
December 23, 2012
Rest in peace ~
December 23, 2012
May you find comfort in the Hearer of prayer at this time. Psalm 65:2
lisa richter
December 23, 2012
The world is better for having had u in it..your legacy will live on and continue to make differences in peoples lives..thank u for your tireless efforts..God bless u and your family.
Paul Duseau
December 23, 2012
RIP, so many people re alive because of you
December 23, 2012
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your dear loved one. Keeping the family in our thoughts and heartfelt prayers at this difficult time. Cherish his memories. May the God who gives peace be with all of you.-RO.15:33
Mary White
December 23, 2012
Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of Spencer and may your family find comfort in John 17 vs. 28-29.
December 23, 2012
Thank you for doing the work and making a difference in the lives of so many for so long - Deepest condolences to your family, lovers and friends. May you finally be at peace. ~ SG
F.M.B.
December 22, 2012
Deepest condolences to the Cox family.
Tamara M. Tolliver
December 22, 2012
GOD Bless and watch over you. Thank you for all your hard work. May you rest in peace. With deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Mr. Cox.
Matthew Page
December 22, 2012
A powerful angel in the fight against AIDS.
The Nelson's
December 22, 2012
God bless and R.I.P Spencer
L. Ellis
December 22, 2012
Sincere condolences to the family!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Brian Glave
December 22, 2012
God bless
michael owens
December 22, 2012
Thank god for a man like this one, he worked hard and helped so many in his life, god has you know to send chirtmas in glory and peace, my prays are with this family and friends left to morn, but also celebrate his life.
December 22, 2012
Act Up/Fight Back.
Susan
December 22, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Eddie Ramsey-Lewis
December 22, 2012
HUGE loss to mankind. A true humanitarian. Dr. E. Ramsey-Lewis, St. E's Infectious Disease Clinic, NY
Marcianna
December 22, 2012
What a great man. His passing will leave a huge void in this world and hopefully his quest will continue and be carried forward by those who have benefited from his dedication to the cause.
Ivy
December 22, 2012
God Bless You, Sweet Soul
D T
December 22, 2012
Thank you. ACT UP save many lives; including mine.
Barb
December 22, 2012
With deepest sympathy to family of Spencer Cox and may you find comfort in God's inspired word the Bible (2 Timothy 3:16).
Jim Caruso
December 22, 2012
RIP, and may GOD bless you.
December 22, 2012
God bless you
December 22, 2012
My condolences to the grieving loved ones during this very difficult time. May you be comforted by the God of all comfort.
Cindy
December 22, 2012
Bless you and your family. May they find comfort in knowing that you are now whole and well again and in the presence of the Lord. Thanks for standing up for what you believe in.
Rest in peace and go with God.
Suzy
December 22, 2012
Rest in Peace...
steven stancia
December 22, 2012
thank you spencer may you rest in peace
J. G.
December 22, 2012
Sincere condolences to the family of Spencer Cox. Ps.147:1.
A Robinson
December 22, 2012
Please accept my sympathy for your loss. During this time, may all find comfort in the wonderful promise: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore, the former things have passed away."
December 22, 2012
Never met Spencer, but he sounds like a wonderful person. Your family must have been so very proud of him. May he rest in peace.
December 22, 2012
To the family of Spencer Cox - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that he will be missed by many.
Rose
December 21, 2012
Spenser I wish I would have met you before you left here to be with God. I was in a Coma, and I never stop thinking about God since I came out of it..heaven is so beautiful. My deepest prayers to your Mom and your Brother and although I did not know you, but will never forget all the wonderful things I have been reading about you, God Bless.
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