Henriette "Etty" Allen

Henriette "Etty" Allen

Henriette Allen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 7, 2013.
RICHMOND, Va. (AP) - Henriette "Etty" Allen, matriarch of a famed American football family and mother to former Virginia Gov. George F. Allen, has died. She was 90.

According to a statement from the Allen family, she died Jan. 2 after a long illness. A private funeral is planned for Tuesday in California.

The daughter of anti-Nazi resistance fighter Felix Lumbroso, she lived in occupied Tunisia during World War II.

After the war, she immigrated to Sioux City, Iowa, where she met and married George H. Allen, then the head football coach at tiny Morningside College.

Over the next four decades, Allen coached winning teams with the Los Angeles Rams and Washington Redskins and earned a spot in the Pro Football Hall of Fame. He died in 1990.

Her son Bruce Allen is now the Redskins' general manager.

Etty Allen was a stabilizing force in a family in which football preoccupied not only her husband but their three sons, George, Bruce and Gregory, according to a book written by her only daughter, Jennifer Allen, and published in 2000.

In the book, "Fifth Quarter: The Scrimmage of a Football Coach's Daughter," Jennifer Allen described a bond she developed with her mother that was strengthened by their inability to crack the football fraternity the men in the family enjoyed.

Yet her mother was an avid and enthusiastic football wife and mom who could harangue opposing teams and game referees with language almost as colorful as that used in the locker rooms.

Though her husband was a friend of President Richard Nixon, it was her son George who diversified the family name when he entered the political arena.

His 1993 upset over a heavily favored Democrat in Virginia's 1993 gubernatorial election triggered the most extensive Republican expansion in Virginia since Reconstruction. Seven years later, Allen unseated Democratic Sen. Chuck Robb and was considered a serious contender for the 200 8 GOP presidential nomination. But he fumbled away his Senate re-election in a gaffe-strewn 2006 campaign against Democratic newcomer Jim Webb that brought Etty Allen briefly into the headlines.

In a debate with Webb that September, Allen denied his mother's Jewish heritage when a debate panelist asked about it. Later, Allen and his mother told The Associated Press that she told him of her Jewish ancestry only weeks before the debate.

She said she had kept it secret from the family for decades, fearing they would suffer the same discrimination she had known in Nazi-occupied Tunisia. After tearfully disclosing her secret to her son George in the summer of 2006, she said, she made him promise never to disclose it, not even to his siblings.

Last year, Allen lost a second bid to win back his old Senate seat to Democrat Tim Kaine and announced afterward that he would not seek elected office again.

BOB LEWIS, AP Political Writer


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July 9, 2014

Rest in peace until the God of all tender mercy will call, and you yourself will answer... what a day that will be!!!
Ag nc

R. Pettigrew

October 22, 2013

To The Allen Family, may you find great comfort in, Revelaion 21: 4.

October 7, 2013

With deepest sympathy to the Allen family during your time of grief...God is for you a "refuge and strength," A help that is there to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with "peace and comfort" to endure the days ahead...(Psalm 62:8).

August 12, 2013

To The Allen Family,
I did not know you or your family personally, but I am sending my condolences to wish you as much comfort as possible at a time of sorrow.

TONISHA

July 25, 2013

Sorry for your loss. May you find comfort from God, ' The God of all comfort ' during this difficult time.

July 1, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. John 5:28

M Scott

February 25, 2013

To The Allen Family May You Find Comfort During This Time of Sorrow. Psalm 68:20

February 23, 2013

May the god of comfort be a source of strength for your famiy at this dificult time. 2Corn 1:3, 4. Deepest Sympathy, Sue, Concord, NC

Mike Breon

January 22, 2013

Dear Allen Family,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom... I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts.

Lynn Harmon

January 14, 2013

To the famil of Mrs. Allen. may God give you peace and comfort through his word the Bible and his son Jesus Christ. During your time of sorrow know that she will be missed by many. May you find comfort in (Philippians 4:6,7.)

lindsey

January 13, 2013

To the family of Mrs Allen you have my codolences for the loss of your mother. From the reading it seems like she was a great person. May she rest in peace.

January 12, 2013

MAY THESE WORDS FROM THE BIBLE BRING YOU COMFORT."YOU ARE OPENING YOUR HAND AND SATISFYING THE DESIRE OF EVERY LIVING THING."..pslm.145:16..so sorry for your loss.....dg

January 11, 2013

Sorry to hear of your loss. May our Heavenly Father comfort you.

Greg Allen

January 9, 2013

Thank you all for your kind words...

January 9, 2013

Sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the Hearer of prayer. Psalm 65:2

Barbara Robinson

January 8, 2013

So sorry for your loss. She was not only a very friendly, kind-hearted lady, but a very proud mother of her children. She will be missed.

Dave Mann

January 8, 2013

To George, Greg, Bruce and Jennifer:

Condolences to you and your families on the loss of your mother. I still recall sharing Christmas dinner with all of you in 1975 and being serenaded with "Hail to the Redskins" by your mother. She was proud of each and every one of you and I still recall visiting her and your father in the home overlooking the ocean in CA and the home in Virginia.

Cherish the fond memories of her.

Bobby & Bobi Shannon

January 8, 2013

George and family, your mother was a surviver and a very proud woman from what I'm reading about her, Bobby and I are very sorry for your loss. Just be proud of your heritage and God bless all of you.

January 8, 2013

To the family & friends of Mrs Allen:
You have my deepest sympathy. Death is so painful. May God give you strength to cope. Ps. 46:1

Belinda Bird

January 7, 2013

To the Allen Family~~~I am sooo sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mom, Etty. Both of your parents were amazing people and meant the world to my Dad. We connected with Etty 2 years ago when Dad passed away. Thank God we were able to catch up!! William R, George and your Momma are probably enjoying a great football game right now. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. God Bless,
Ruthann, Susan, Cindy & Belinda Biggs
-Marshall, Michigan

Marie Hahn (Falkeis)

January 7, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. We lived across the street from you in Deerfield, Illinois. Our moms got together for coffee all the time. God bless all of you and help you through this difficult time.

January 7, 2013

so sorry for your loss.

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