Eileen Brennan

Eileen Brennan

Eileen Brennan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 30, 2013.
LOS ANGELES (AP) - Eileen Brennan, who went from musical comedy on Broadway to wringing laughs out of memorable characters in such films as "Private Benjamin" and "Clue," has died. She was 80.

Brennan's managers, Jessica Moresco and Al Onorato, said she died Sunday at home in Burbank after a battle with bladder cancer.

"Our family is so grateful for the outpouring of love and respect for Eileen," her family said in a statement. "She was funny and caring and truly one of a kind. Her strength and love will never be forgotten."

Brennan got her first big role on the New York stage in "Little Mary Sunshine," a musical comedy that won her the 1960 Obie award for best actress. Along with her "excellent singing voice," her performance was "radiant and comic," said a New York Times review.

But it was a series of sharp-tongued roles that won her fans on television and in movies, including gruff Army Capt. Doreen Lewis in 1980's "Private Benjami n," aloof Mrs. Peacock in 1985's "Clue" and mean orphanage superintendent Miss Bannister in 1988's "The New Adventures of Pippi Longstocking."

"I love meanies, and this goes back to Capt. Lewis in 'Private Benjamin,'" Brennan said a 1988 interview with The Associated Press. "You know why? Because they have no sense of humor. People who are mean or unkind or rigid - think about it - cannot laugh at themselves. If we can't laugh at ourselves and the human condition, we're going to be mean."

"Private Benjamin" brought her a supporting actress nomination for an Oscar. She also won an Emmy for repeating her "Private Benjamin" role in the television version, and was nominated six other times for guest roles on such shows as "Newhart," ''thirtysomething," ''Taxi" and "Will & Grace."

Brennan's "Private Benjamin" role led to an enduring friendship with the movie's star, Goldie Hawn. A couple of years after they filmed the movie, Brennan and Hawn had dinner one ni ght in 1982 in Venice, Calif. As they left the restaurant, Brennan was struck by a car. Her legs were smashed, bones on the left side of her face were broken, her left eye socket was shattered. Brennan said she fought her injuries with rage.

"I was no saint," she said in an interview with Ladies Home Journal. "I was angry, and anger is a powerful emotion. It increased my determination not to go under, to get well."

Brennan became dependent on painkillers, and two years after the accident she entered the Betty Ford Center to cure her addiction in 1984.

"We get addicted to dull the pain of life," she told the magazine. "But once we accept that life is tough and painful, we can move on and grow and evolve."

A decade after the accident, she said she was glad she was struck by the car.

"You learn from powerful things," she said in 1992. "Initially, there's enormous anger, but your priorities get shifted around."

Brennan was a member of the orig inal company of "Hello, Dolly" on Broadway. From the New York stage, she moved to the screen in "Divorce American Style" and "The Last Picture Show"; a pair of appearances on "Rowan & Martin's Laugh-In" and TV guest shots on everything from "All in the Family" and "McMillan & Wife" to "Kojak," ''The Love Boat," ''Murder She Wrote" and "Mad About You."

Brennan was born Verla Eileen Regina Brennan in Los Angeles. She was educated in convent schools and studied at Georgetown University and the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in New York.

She is survived by her two sons, Sam and Patrick Brennan.

DERRIK J. LANG, AP Entertainment Writer


Copyright © 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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July 24, 2025

Todd Oetken

September 17, 2016

You and your humor are greatly missed. You were a unique talent.

Grady Youngblood

July 28, 2016

Eileen Brennan is the Greatest Actress on Tv & Movies.

Lisa Weiner

May 5, 2014

to Eilleen Brennan,
You were a very talented actress. I enjoyed watching you in the movie PRivate Benjamin. My payers go to your family and friends. Lisa Weiner

March 4, 2014

Loved watching her. Our sincere sympathy to the family. May they find the comfort and hope that God gives.
LM

Jennifer Janis

November 3, 2013

Eileen was my favorite actress and I miss her dearly. She was such a sweet, kind and talented person. We were friends through correspondence. I will forever cherish our friendship.

Andy Encinas

September 9, 2013

I loved you in Will & Grace rest in peace!!!

August 26, 2013

Dearest Eileen : Exactly 32 years ago this month, I had the pleasure of watching you work in THE lead role in the film "Incident At Crestridge", in Park City, Utah.Right after lunch one day,I was jotting down suggestions for the " name the movie " contest while sitting in the shade of a tree by a mountain stream, before going back to work as one of the electricians on the shoot. Suddenly the small notebook was pulled from my hands by you.Then you proceeded to jot down your addresses in both British Columbia and L.A. insisting that I "look you up sometime".I'm sorry that I never did.Not only was that the best crew I ever worked with, but in all my years as a stagehand, you made those few weeks very, very special- the best!God Bless you, your sons and your "Stand-In" sister. Jim Miller, Salt Lake City

Robin Seitz-Hodgkins

August 13, 2013

R.I.P. You are missed

Deanna Cichowicz

August 11, 2013

God bless! R.I.P.

Michelle Forte

August 11, 2013

The movie "Clue" brought my brother and I much joy as a kid in a time when joy was really needed. Thank you for the joy you brought us. I will miss you but will watch you over and over again on DVD and honor you each time.

jessica w

August 5, 2013

May you rest in peace!

Shirley MacKenzie

August 5, 2013

You were such a Fantastic Actress Eileen Brennan, you will be sadly missed, RIP

Al and Gayle Brown

August 5, 2013

For a wonderful actress and a great human being. May you rest in peace.

LISA CLARK

August 5, 2013

ALWAYS SUCH A NICE GAL....SHOPPED IN MY STORE IN OJAI. SHE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. REST WITH GOD EILEEN.

Diane Brinker

August 5, 2013

My prayers are with your family , you are a beautiful person who will be missed dearly !

Tony Vario

August 4, 2013

Eileen, thank you so much for years of entertainment, I will miss your presence and keeping an eye out for future projects. But, you're in peace now and I am happy knowing that you're up there on my side.

stacey smith

August 4, 2013

Love this woman and the movies she was in. What a great loss..R.I.P.

Lisa Weiner

August 4, 2013

To Eillen Brennan,
Like I said you were just a fantastic actress. You made ma laugh. I will always remember you Miss Brennan. Lisa Weiner

laura

August 3, 2013

what a talent and a good irish name. so long, eileen.

Harry Simpson

August 3, 2013

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

August 3, 2013

May the God Almighty comfort and heal your hearts during this time of grief. Jas 4:8

August 3, 2013

Eileen was the only person who could make boot camp funny! Corkey Junkin, Winters, Ca.

August 3, 2013

I liked fthe movie private benjamin. I know that your passing bought great sorry to your family and friend. Soon though all those in the memorial toms will hear. God.s voice and come out justt likr jJesus and Lazarous. Our hope your family get.s the Peace from God that excels all thought.

Dave Kathy Binkley

August 3, 2013

you were great in privet Benjamin

Anita Ennis

August 2, 2013

You were a fabulous actress in what ever you did. You will definitely be missed by all who adored you. God is enjoying your performances now.

Lisa Weiner

August 2, 2013

To Eileen Brennnan,
You were a fantastic actress. You did a wonderful job playing Captain Doreen Lewis in the movie Private Benjamin and you also great in the movie Murder by death, etc. My prayers go to you and your family and friends too. Lisa Weiner

Sharon C, Knowlton

August 2, 2013

May God Bless you Family. You were a great actress and I enjoy your acting. I felt like I had lost someone in my family. May you rest in peace.

August 2, 2013

Loved her!!!!! So very sorry for your loss.

Cheryl Mondi Utica, NY 13323

G. Freeman

August 2, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

MIKESELL, FAMILY

August 2, 2013

YOU WERE A WONDERFUL ACTRESS! YOUR PERFORMANCE ON THE SCREEN WAS ALWAYS SENSATIONAL. YOU WERE TERRIFIC IN PRIVATE BENJAMIN. MY CONDOLENCES TO YOUR FAMILY. YOU WILL BE MISSED. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.

Kelly

August 2, 2013

Wonderful Actress, So Sorry to the family and friends for their loss...

L B

August 2, 2013

Bless you...you are free of all pain now. Your friendship with Goldie Hawn must have been one of your greatest blessings while you were 'here' with us. Memories of you in Private Benjamin are intertwined with other memories for me. Like a song. Blessings to those you leave behind to miss you for this 'blink' known as life.

Carolyn

August 2, 2013

Truly enjoyed watching such a great actress in many movies. Let the Almighty God grant peace and comfort to the family at this difficult time. Romans 15:33

Tegan

August 2, 2013

The global world has lost yet another superb actress from the "GREATEST GENERATION". Ms. Brennan's performance in
" PRIVATE BENJAMIN " made the film, an all time
" CLASSIC COMEDY FILM".

My condolences to her two sons... May she rest in peace.

Mimi

August 2, 2013

One of very few true character actresses ever. No matter the role, Ms. Brennan gave to her audience.

We will miss you Ms. Brennan. With you gone, the world has one less reason to smile. God bless you. May you rest in peace.

August 1, 2013

I KNEW EILEEN SINCE 1962, WHEN I AUDITIONED FOR THE UNDERSTUDY ROLE, COVERING JOHN MCMARTIN....IN NYC FOR "LITTLE MARY SUNSHINE"......WE WERE LONGTIME PALS & I MISS HER, DEEPLY.....JACK R.ENGLISH...WEST HOLLYWOOD

Bonnie Seme

August 1, 2013

God Bless you Eileen for all the wonderful memories you gave us. We'll miss you on the big screen.

Robles Family

August 1, 2013

You all ways made us laugh, rest in peace.

Thomas Family

August 1, 2013

Rest in Peace

Sandra

August 1, 2013

Wow, She was such a huge part of all of our lives. Thank you for all of the wonderful entertainment and memories she gave us. Eileen Brennan will be missed and never forgotten. Loved loved her in Will and Grace as Jack's Acting Teacher. She was one of a kind. God Bless.

Nancy Woodwell-Freedman

August 1, 2013

Thoughts, prayers & condolences to the family, friends & collegues of the wonderful Eileen Brennan. I still laugh out loud when she pops up with the white powder covering her blue-inked face in "Private Benjamin" no matter how many times I've seen it. She was also great in "Clue" and all her many t.v. performances. Ms. Brennan was a very talented actress and a credit to her craft. She will be missed, but she leaves a fine legacy with her outstanding body of work.

JD Cleveland

August 1, 2013

You have had me laughing until my sides hurt. Thank you for sharing your wonderful talent with us, your public. When you came back from that horrible accident you really showed the world what a fighter you truly were. An example for each of us not to let the happenings of the world stop us.
I am glad that we will always have you in the movies.
May your rest be Peaceful and may the lord bless your sons and loved ones with memories greater than the pain of your loss.

Bernie O'Brien

August 1, 2013

A model of the true Fighting Irish!

God Bless.

August 1, 2013

May God Bless Eileen Brennan.I salute you.

Mary Jane Thornton

August 1, 2013

Thank you for the fun and enjoyment you have given us over the years with your talent. You will be missed. Rest in peace.

i dixon

August 1, 2013

one of a kind rip

Bob New

August 1, 2013

I loved you in "The Sting" and "7th Heaven." May the angels lead you into Paradise, Eileen. Rest in peace!

Maryann

August 1, 2013

The loss of another great actress/comedian who will truly be missed, Private Benjamin you were the best, keep them laughing up in heaven Eileen. Condolences to your sons.

August 1, 2013

I loved her in everything she was in !!!
She is making angels laugh now . So sorry she is gone...but NOT FORGOTTEN !!

August 1, 2013

Eileen made even Basic Training seem funny... quite a job! When I get to heaven, I will be looking for her and hope to find her wearing a uniform. Corkey Junkin, Winters, Ca.

Paul Hughes

August 1, 2013

I believe she was the madam in charge of the girls in my all time favorite movie. "The Sting."

shawny jones

August 1, 2013

May the surviving ones of Eileen Brennan find comfort in "the God of all comfort".

A Streck

August 1, 2013

It's sad to lose people who can share laughter and bring joy without cussing & swearing. I enjoyed her entertainment whatever role she played. May her humor bring laughter in heaven....

A Streck

August 1, 2013

It's sad to lose people who can share laughter and bring joy without cussing & swearing. I enjoyed her entertainment whatever role she played. May her humor bring laughter in heaven....

A Streck

August 1, 2013

It's sad to lose people who can share laughter and bring joy without cussing & swearing. I enjoyed her entertainment whatever role she played. May her humor bring laughter in heaven....

Janette

August 1, 2013

One of my favorite ... loved her in Private Benjamin. Will miss her. My prayers and condolences to her family. RIP and many blessings to the family.

Mary Miller Smith

August 1, 2013

What a great loss to us all. A "classy" actress, who was so awesome! May God comfort her family and friends!

Wylie Greene

August 1, 2013

You were one of the great ones, We will miss you, Your family and friends are in our prayers. RIP

Mildred W.

August 1, 2013

Another great one lost to her adoring public. Sympathy to her sons. RIP Eileen, you will be missed.

Del Drouin

August 1, 2013

Her talent was truly a joy to watch.

Fernando DE PEÑa

August 1, 2013

Rest in peace Captain

August 1, 2013

A great actress...Rest In Peace...

V.Coates Columbus OH

August 1, 2013

My prayers are with her family. what laughter she will bring the angles,,,

Yvonne

August 1, 2013

Great Movie great actress you will truly be missed. R.I.P

Pamela Curtis

August 1, 2013

She may have been an actors; actor to some but to me she was on classy old broad as she put it on Will and Grace..the last show I saw you on Eileen ; and as always you brought a smile to my face and let me know a woman could be sweet ad bitter as hell ... RIP my friend ; I will miss you

Bill Anderson

August 1, 2013

Gutsy, poised, confident and strong willed. My kind of woman!
I would serve in your Army any day.
Rest in eternal peace.

August 1, 2013

RIP......

August 1, 2013

Joan and I want to extend our sincere sympathy to Eileen's sons Sam and Patrick, on the passing of their beloved mother Eileen. I have fond memories of her in the elevator scene, from "All in the Family" and I still have that scene on tape which will mean so much more to me now. May she rest in peace. Joan and Dominick Prendergast, Readville, Mass.

Carrie Wilson

August 1, 2013

I always loved seeing her when she appeared in "anything" as it was such a pleasure to see her acting. May she rest in peace!! Sympathy to her sons.

jerry c

August 1, 2013

great actress,will be missed!

August 1, 2013

So sorry to hear about your loss. She was awesome...

August 1, 2013

what a shame to loose a loved one but on a brighter side consider these comforting scriptures. Ec 9:5,10
Ac 24:15.

Gwen Tock

August 1, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Petrina Bell

July 31, 2013

My heart and prayers are with the family, may the God of all comfort, comfort you in this time of sorrow.

J buckland

July 31, 2013

I met your son one night while out with friends. I have never forgot what a strong lady you are, god bless you Ma'am!

Linda Barnwell

July 31, 2013

So sorry to hear of the loss a truly great actress.

Kathleen Penelli

July 31, 2013

To the family of Eileen Brennan, may she rest in peace, she was a great actress, and I will miss her, she was great in Private Benjamin.

P. Malone

July 31, 2013

May our Creator give you comfort during this time of sorrow. Many people are emotionally and spiritually strengthen after reading the Scriptures to learn their love one is no longer suffering. (Genesis 2:7; 3:19)

Cathy Reams

July 31, 2013

I saw her in Private Benjamen,and have kept up with her .I'm so sorry to hear of her passing.May she rest in peace.Sincerely,Cathy Reams

brian

July 31, 2013

Eileen did not walk the red carpet. She was an actors actor.

Kathy & Buddy Barnett

July 31, 2013

RIP Eileen.....we love you.....talented and beautiful and feisty as hell in Private Benjamin....you were a legend......you will always be remembered.....

SANDRA ROLLINS

July 31, 2013

PIP "PRINCESS IN PEACE" I LOVED HER IN PRIVATE BENJERMIN. YOU WILL TRUELY BE MISSED

Anonymous

July 31, 2013

Be at peace now, Ms. Brennan. You brought so much joy to so many people. We hold you in our hearts, and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

gods Wisdom

Debbie

July 31, 2013

I liked every movie I saw her in Great Actress .Prayers goes out to all of her Family and Loved ones .RIP Eileen Brennan

Bob Larsen

July 31, 2013

Eileen break a leg up there...Love you
Bob Larsen
Palm Springs CA
Palm Sp

pjc

July 31, 2013

Dearest Eileen and her beloved family and friends,
One of my favorite actresses. She is one of our Lord's leading ladies now.May she rest in eternal peace.

Linda Hurt

July 31, 2013

Loved her in Private Benjamin! RIP, Eileen Brennan

Rita Hays

July 31, 2013

I really appreciated all the work she did. I will always think of her. God Bless You Ms. Brennan. Prayer to Family and Friends.

Carol Stewart

July 31, 2013

Dear Family,
I send me deepest condolences to you on the passing of your beloved Eileen.
She was a true gift to the World. Thank you ! May you rest in eternal peace.

xoxoxo

July 31, 2013

RIP (eccl 9:5)

Wanda

July 31, 2013

I remember the first time seeing Private Benjamin and laughing so hard. And every time after. She will be greatly missed. Our condolences to all who loved Ms. Brennan. "God is for us a refuge and strength." Ps 46

Christina Suarez

July 31, 2013

Ms. Brennan is one of my FAVORITE actresses. I was just thinking of her and talking about her with my daughter(on Monday),something reminded me of Ms. Brennan and I immediately chuckled and thought of her in her role in Private Benjamin. Rest in Peace Ms. Brennan. You will be missed.

Cecelia Oliver

July 31, 2013

RIP Eileen, Loved you in Private Benjamin. Great Actress gone to her final performance.

July 31, 2013

What a gal!
Thanks for the entertainment!

My thoughts go out to her family.

Donna M

July 31, 2013

Oh, what an actress this lady was! A real scene stealer on Priv. Benjamin(TV). I remember her accident.

april hedlund

July 31, 2013

To the whole family,
Eileen was a great actress. I send all my thoughts and prayers to all.

Tiffani

July 31, 2013

May you be comforted by our Heavenly Father

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