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Shane Ruthven Obituary
Shane Ruthven, 43, and Katie Ruthven, 34, had just landed some new contracts and their small business, Mountain Lion Glass, was expanding. Both have been confirmed killed.
Son Wyatt, 4, is missing, said Katie's father, retired Snohomish County sheriff's Sgt. Thomas Pszonka. Another son, Hunter, 6, has been confirmed killed.
Shane Ruthven wanted his mother and stepfather, JuDee Vandenburg, 64, and Lou Vandenburg, 71, to be close to their grandkids and moved them from Spokane to the place next door. Both have been confirmed dead. Lou, who had served in the Marines, worked for the state before retiring. JuDee had operated a bar in Spokane.
The Ruthvens had "found their dream home" along the river, "a little A-frame they rebuilt from scratch," Pszonka said. "They had 150 feet of water frontage. It was a beautiful spot where no one bothered you."
Courtesy of The Seattle Times
27 Entries
Mistie (1 of 3 Sisters)
July 26, 2018
Hi Shane, my Dear Big Brother. I'm having a hard time rt now, even years later, so I got online to look at all the amazing messages ppl wrote for u, Katie, the boys plus JuDee & Lou. And It makes me feel a little better & reminds me that I will see u again 1 day. My Dreams r still trying to save u but that will pass & I will cope. Knowing how truly Happy u were, u all were, is such a confusing emotion in my heart. But u r all together still & Thank God for that. It truly keeps my heart a lil fuller to know that. But Brother I miss u so much & I can't wait to be with u all again 1 day. So many questions & so many unanswered prayers. But doing this helps cause I feel like u will hear me! RIP Big Bro & Thank You for being You for the yrs I had u, I Love You!!!
J. Murray
May 18, 2014
Shane was a good friend to a lot of people. He always helped his friends and family when they need it. I never met a smarter individual in my life than Shane. I and many others will miss him. My heart goes out to his family especially his sister, who has had to be so strong through all this.
Dixie
May 1, 2014
Shane and Katie were a powerful couple with high values and a great sense of family. They replaced all the windows in our three story home and by the time the project was completed, I had met the entire family and we had became friends. A terrible loss. I can still hear Shane's wonderful voice.
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Pat Valentine
April 27, 2014
Shane was a customer where I work, such a nice man. He always had a smile for me, and everyone there. He will be missed, along with his two adorable boys, and sweet wife. Rest in peace Shane, Katie ,Hunter & Wyatt.
Scot Ruthven
April 22, 2014
My heart breaks for Shane Ruthvens Family.Im A Ruthven and somehow we are all Related.May God Bless The Ruthven Clan.
April 20, 2014
Prayers go out to the surviving family and friends may the God of comfort continue to bless you and yours especially after such a tragic loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. 2 Cor. 1:2,3.
Brett & Beverly Nelson
April 15, 2014
Our thoughts & prayers are with the surviving family members, as well as the citizens of Oso, Washington. Please remember the good times you had with them, and know that you will see them again someday.
In Christian Love,
Brett & Beverly Nelson
CA
Ann L.
April 12, 2014
Condolences to All of the surviving family members:
We feel your tears of grief and have shed many ourselves for the sudden and tragic loss of your loved ones. Please, please draw comfort in knowing that they are not suffering and are in God's memory. It will help you day to day in finding endurance. Draw close to family and friends for support during these difficult times.
Remember the love your dear ones had for you and allow those positive memories to keep you moving forward in the seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, and years ahead.
Grieving Your Lost
April 9, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the citizens of Oso, Washington, especially those closest to the Ruthven and Vandenburg families. Shane is remembered fondly by those who were fortunate enough to have spent time with him. His love for his family and his desire to make sure that they remained united in a bond of love, closeness, and affection was amazing during a time when family members are so divided. Surely his life course is stored indelibly in God's memory as one who is precious in His eyes.
Lori, Elizabeth & Erin Orton & Allen Burtman
April 4, 2014
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We are so sorry for the huge losses your family has suffered.
TNJK
April 4, 2014
In our hearts forever!
S Yhann
April 3, 2014
May you rest in peace surrounded by the loved ones that went with you. May be tragedy someday end with peace in the the hearts of your family.
My deepest condolences .
Marilynn
April 1, 2014
It is with sympathy that I send this message to the family of Mr. Shane Ruthven. Death is not an easy thing to go through but just know that God is waiting to heal your broken hearts.-Psalm 147:3.
L T
April 1, 2014
The family has my deepest sympathy, during this difficult time of loss.( 2 Corinthians).
Robert Barnes
April 1, 2014
To the Ruthven family, both me and my wife Yuko were former co-workers from when he was stationed in Japan. He was a nice fellow and we will keep him and his family in our thoughts and prayers.
Sharene Barrington
March 31, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends. He will be missed!!!!
christine palmer
March 31, 2014
I grew up with Shane...we walked to school every day to Sheridan......junior high and on to high school.....I loved when I found out one of my closest friends only lived 25 min. away.from me.....small world. ..he was a great dad.husband...and friend....they all will be missed so very much
Earnest Stephens
March 31, 2014
Shane and I were the best of friends all through childhood. There is not a day of my childhood that I can think of that my brother from another mother was not in. Losing him so suddenly has been a heart breaking jolt in my life. As adults we found ourselves apart but we always kept in touch via phone calls or messages on facebook. I always felt that when the time was right we would once again meet and introduce our two families to each other. Shane will be missed by not only myself but my whole family as well. Shane, I will always regret not being able to get together with you and your family one last time before we both got too old. Brother I will Pray for you and your family from the very being of my heart and soul. We all lost you way too soon. To the surviving members of your family you already know you have my heart and deepest condolences.
DStallings
March 31, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Staci Duffy
March 31, 2014
Shane and I were close friends in high school and have remained in touch over the years. He loved Katie so much and being a father was his greatest joy. I am so sorry for the loss both families must be feeling and as one of his many friends, I know how much we are missing him and wishing this terrible thing had never happened. My deepest condolences to everyone during this difficult time.
Scott Chamberland
March 31, 2014
Please accept my Deepest Sympathies
B Lucas
March 31, 2014
Peace and love to your family and friends, and to the spirit that you all show. May your fond thoughts of him bring back good memories. My sincere condolence for the loss of your dear loved one. (John 28,29)
Melody Redd
March 31, 2014
I am sorry for your loss. He will be missed.
March 30, 2014
sincere condolence to the family of Shane.God is there for you, so look to him for your strength,and comfort.....g
March 30, 2014
My condolences to the family and friends of Shane. May you find comfort in the words at Matthew 5:4.
Mrs. Robertson
March 30, 2014
My very deepest sympathy to the family. This tragedy has caused pain and suffering to so many! My heart goes out to you and may the God of all Comfort help you through the coming days.
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