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Paul O'Neill
1956 - 2017
Paul O'Neill
1956 - 2017
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BORN
1956
DIED
2017
Paul O'Neill Obituary
The cause of death was not immediately available. The band announced the death on its official Facebook page.
"The entire Trans-Siberian Orchestra family, past and present, is heartbroken to share the devastating news that Paul O’Neill has passed away from chronic illness. "He was our friend and our leader -- a truly creative spirit and an altruistic soul. This is a profound and indescribable loss for us all."
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O'Neill was born Feb.23, 1956, in New York City. He started playing the guitar with several rock bands while in high school.
He launched his professional music career during the 1970s with Slowburn, his first prog rock band, but he abandoned the project because he was displeased with the final recordings. He gained experience, however, which would serve him well during the 1980s and '90s.
He soon joined Leber-Krebs Inc., the music management company that worked with big-name bands such as Aerosmith, the New York Dolls, Def Leppard, and Joan Jett.
In the 1980s, O'Neill promoted the tours of Madonna and Sting in Japan, as well as major rock music festivals there.
Later in the decade, O'Neill co-produced Aerosmith's 1986 and 1987 albums, "Classics Live I" and "Classics Live II." Soon after, he struck up a friendship with John and Criss Oliva, the founders of the heavy metal band Savatage, and Savatage member Al Pitrelli. The band was known for its 1986 album "Fight for the Rock" among others during the late '80s and early '90s.
During the mid-90s, O'Neill formed Trans-Siberian Orchestra along with Savatage's John Oliva and Pitrelli, joined by keyboardist Robert Kinkel. The arena rock band went on to stage huge rock productions in 1999 after finishing "The Christmas Attic," the group's second album.
The Trans-Siberian Orchestra has sold more than 10 million albums.
150 Entries
Patrick Falletta
March 17, 2025
Paul, The Best of the Best.
Betty
December 17, 2023
Watched a 2019 show on YouTube, Loved the song he wrote yrs ago. Sadly missed but not forgotten....R.I.P. Paul..
Sandra
October 6, 2023
Rest in peace Paul
Barbara Kivlan Bellani
July 22, 2020
I continue to be crushed by Paul’s passing. He and I worked together at Leber Krebs and quickly became family. Paul was like a big brother to me. He took care of me always. I have so many stories and memories in my mind of all the wonderful things he did for me and everyone else. Every day he would walk in and have a New York Times newspaper to give to me and quiz me later on in the day. He gave me several books from all of his inspirations, such as Charles Dickens and beautiful short stories. He also gave me a vhs tape of his most favorite movie of all time. He was my mentor and he genuinely took me under his wing. I helped him with his cryptic notes of writing the rock opera that would ultimately become a Savatage album to which he gave me credit for on the album and I did not even know it for many years after. After I had done that for him, and trust me...he had a meager income like I did, he sent me my first dozen roses I have ever received as a little young girl at approximately 24 years old.
In my heart, I still think of him as my best friend. I miss him so much!
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Tony Costantino
December 23, 2018
Saw TSO this week. Great show as usual. They did a tribute song to their mentor.His creation will live on. 20 years already
Connie Campbell
December 11, 2018
Watching TSO dvd and so thankful for all that you left us.
Barb Levay
November 24, 2018
I have seen every show since TSO starting touring in Cleveland. Not seeing you on stage in 2017 left me heart broken. However, such a brilliant tribute to you with Safest Way Into Tomorrow. You are dearly missed.
Bonnie McDowell
January 1, 2018
I can only imagine what heavens choir sounds like now that you're there. You were missed this year on the tour, but your presence was felt. I know You are so proud of the band for the shows they did this season. RIP to a one of a kind. Alone we are finite. Collectively we are infinite.
Barbara Heyer
December 24, 2017
We were at the show last night in San Antonio. Loved it as usual. We've gone fourteen years in a row and have never been disappointed. It's a Christmas tradition for us.....We were so sad to hear of Pauls passing....Such a talented man but more importantly, from the messages I've read ,he was a wonderful human being...He definitely left this earth too early but what a legacy he's left behind..How proud his family must be of their son, brother, husband and dad.....You did a great job, Paul..no one could ask for more..
Jeff
December 14, 2017
Your music will outlast us all god bless
CAROL KALINICH
November 27, 2017
You would be very proud of your proteges of TSO. You taught them well and they will remember you always. WHAT A BRILLIANT MIND . You are sadly missed.
Claudia Larsen
October 13, 2017
I was not aware until now ... don't know how I missed this. Condolences to Mr. O'Neill's family and to TSO. We plan to see the band on your winter tour, and we've enjoyed two shows in Pennsylvania in recent years. Thank you, Paul, for founding TSO, an orchestra like no other, and sharing your talents with us. Rest easy.
Pam J
August 16, 2017
Thankyou Paul for all and everything.. and Random Acts Of Kindness are how I will always try so hard to live up to your values.
You were and will continue to be an inspiration to so many.
Thankyou
Linda Thompson
July 21, 2017
Thanks for all the great concerts god bless you. Your familu band memebers you will truely missed
Lisa and David Fry
June 28, 2017
To the Entire Family: Thank you for allowing us into your lives... Paul was a brilliant human being. He worked tirelessly and gave all of himself to his passion and his work. Very little rest; it was all about his music and the magic he created. We, his audience were given the best of Paul. The sacrifices he made... he touch our lives in such an amazing way. His concerts were "productions." He managed to touch all of our senses. Our sense of sight and sound was exhilarated by the flames on stage, the "snow" falling from above touched each one of us as it touched our heads and of course he touched our hearts with the lyrics. There is no one quite like Paul. He will be missed but never forgotten. Our lives have been blessed because of him. I am proud to have known him. And I will always remember one final thing: his generosity was profound. God gained an angel on April 5th; the choir in heaven I am sure is magnificent because he is there. Until we meet again you will be forever in our hearts. We will support Desi with whatever she needs. Your neighbors... David and Lisa Fry
John Hartman
June 19, 2017
Thank you Paul!
Debbie McQueen
June 5, 2017
Our hearts are saddened by the loss of such an inspiration to us all. I was lucky enough to meet him twice when they played here in Biloxi, MS. He was charming, funny and full of spark. Well, that spark now lights up the Heavens and I can't wait to hear what you've got to sing about on that beautiful day!!
Debbe Fletcher
June 4, 2017
You're legacy is one that reaches the corners of the universe. Your humbleness and generosity inspire us, your fans. You live on in the music but more so in the love you had for your family, fans and humanity.
Till we meet you on the other side, where I know you'll be doing some awesome work with the Heavenly choir. You are and will be deeply missed but more so, you'll never be forgotten. Rest In Peace in the arms of God
Ann Lents
June 4, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with. The O'Neill family and friends at this time. Paul O'Neill was loved by all. He will be greatly missed by us all. We love you and miss you RIP Paul O'Neill.
Paul Lesser
June 4, 2017
Thank you Paul for all that you have done for those of us that love music. Your legacy will live on forever. Eternal memory Paul.
Diana Frederick
June 3, 2017
Thank you for sharing your vision, your passion & your life so others could have joy in their life. You are truly an inspiration to the entire TSO fan base.
Holly McLellan
June 3, 2017
Thank you Sir, for the joy, the music, the magic, and all the good you brought to so many of us. Your kindness and generosity made this world a better place and did, indeed, make a difference. May you rest in eternal peace. My sincere condolences to your family and friends.
Steve Leavitt
June 3, 2017
Thank you for all of the joy you brought into my family's life through he music of TSO. I had the pleasure of meeting you in person once and it left an indelible mark on me that will last forever. Rest in peace kind Sir. You were one of the really good ones.
Gail Greenwood
June 3, 2017
An Angel on Earth has gone to his Heavenly home. TSO has been a part of my life for years and what I look forward to the most every Christmas season. Going to 2 shows a year had become my ritual. His music has and still brings me so much happiness and will always and forever. Prayers for his lovely wife, daughter and TSO family. What I love the best was his love for helping and giving to others. What I wouldn't have done to sit and talk with with this gift and visionary from God for an evening. He has made me a better person. Rest in Peace Mr Paul O'Neill, you will be truly missed by the world. ❤
paul
Eletra Johansen
June 2, 2017
The man behind it all!
Eletra Johansen
June 2, 2017
My heart broke at your passing. You were a kind gentle soul with a vision and a love for your fellow man. You saw the good all around you lead us by your example. You brought a lasting legacy to all and we will all miss you very much. I am only a fan, but I pray for your family and for all your extended TSO family. I know they hurt so much. I pray you find peace and guide those left behind. Your light and shining example should never dim as we will keep your spirit alive.
Patrick Lyons
June 2, 2017
Thank you for your vision that you shared with all of us. I will surely miss you, but I'm going to continue to celebrate with the Music you gave freely to all of us! Godspeed and Godbless!
Jenny Nelson
June 2, 2017
Your heart, soul, and compassion meant the world to me and my children. Your talent, dedication, vision, and caring helped one of my daughters through a very difficult time, developed a love of learning to play the guitar and the violin in two other of my children , created wonderful memories for some of my grandchildren- even stopped a bully from harassing (and depressing) my grandson because the bully was "impressed" that my grandson saw the show, and saw it and felt the fire from the third row- and was so often my "light and the end of a tunnel." You brought hope and magic to the mundane. We'll remember you for your musical genius, your kindness, your enthusiasm, and your smile. You were a good man and the world is a better place for your having been here. It was my and my family's privilege to have met and conversed with you several times over the years, as well as to have been in attendance of your last show. You will be greatly missed, but the kindness that you witnessed a Christmas Eve long ago you expounded far and wide and reminded us to carry love, hope, compassion, and kindness forward all the days of our lives, and because of that, it will continue throughout generations to come. Well done, Mr. O'Neill. Rest now in peace in the arms of our Savior.
LeeAnn Heiden
June 2, 2017
Paul, you gave so much and never asked for anything other than the smiles you saw in the audience! That was the gratitude you were looking for, knowing you had gone above and beyond what you wanted to achieve! You always greeted your fans with generosity and respect and we all loved you! You are an amazing man! God speed my Friend, your legacy will live on!
Missy Warren
June 2, 2017
So much love for everything this man brought to so many people. You touched our lives with your magic and you will remain in our hearts through the love you shared with the world. Many blessings and love to his family & know that he was such a bright light to so many of us and we will treasure the gift of his talent always. His legacy will not be forgotten.
June 2, 2017
A single candle CAN light up the world and Paul is that candle!
Pamela Crockett
June 2, 2017
My deepest love and condolences
Teresa Alberts
June 2, 2017
Thank you Paul for your gifts of music and kindness. Your spirit will live on in your contributions to the music world and to mankind.
Annette Klatt-Puckett
June 2, 2017
Thank you so much I enjoyed your live performances. Now is time to rest.
Marlene Foisy
June 2, 2017
Thank you Paul, for sharing your dream.
Anne Sawdy
June 2, 2017
Paul,. Thank you for sharing your God given talent with the world. It's been such a joy to be a huge TSO fan for 20 years. My prayers go out to your family.
Amen
Dana Smith
May 8, 2017
Paul you were an inspiration to many and your music pure genius, but it is the spirit of selflessness and caring that will continue to inspire thru the people whose lives you so graciously touched. RIP
Vicki Swann
May 5, 2017
RIP Paul.... Thank you for the music...
Jim Crowley
May 5, 2017
Thanks.
Jim Crowley
May 5, 2017
A great man thank you
A fan and his family
Gabi Cole
May 5, 2017
Thank you for the music, thank you for your dreams and inspiration. Thank you for your kindness and your vision. Because of you TSO is a big part of my life and has given me many beautiful memories and wonderful friends. You will always have a special place in my heart
Marie Anna
May 4, 2017
Thank you many years of amazing TSO memories.. your memory will live on within the band as well as all the fans... RIP Paul O"Neil
Lynn Jarvis
May 4, 2017
Play your music for God's Angels... and we will hear it ❤
Judy Hatfield
May 4, 2017
Rest in peace Mr O'Neill
elaine hochberg
May 4, 2017
You gave me more beautiful gifts than any man I ever knew, despite the fact that I never even saw you in person. Rest well.
Mary Torres
May 4, 2017
I wish I could tell you how much TSO has personally blessed my life. Thank you barely seems adequate. Such a terrible loss. My condolences to your family and Godspeed.
Vicki Church
May 4, 2017
Paul O'Neill was a genius ! He was the leader of a musical group that changed the hearts and minds of all that heard their music ! I have read many talk about his giving heart to them . I was fortunate enough to be able to hear TSO in concert a few times . The experience was so positive and still makes me want to see them again and again . Good music feeds our soul and certainly Paul will continue his gift in Heaven ! The music will never stop ! Thanks Paul for your work on Earth . To his family and loved ones , you will be reunited with him one day . Continue the dream !
Frank Anderson
May 4, 2017
So blessed to have discovered the message in the music of TSO......Long may they run....
Friend
April 30, 2017
To the family of Mr O'Neill, please accept our sincere condolences. We are so saddened to hear of your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" & "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. (Isaiah 61:1&2)
Rockin Randy
April 22, 2017
I am stil in disbelief that Paul is gone, such a tremendous loss , not only to family and friends, but in my opinion to the entire world! To have known him and having the opportunity to speak with him and meet with him several times over the past years I consider a great honor of having an opportunity to interact with such a great Individual
April 21, 2017
To his family I'm sorry to hear of Mr. O'Neill's passing. He has to be playing with the Angels, God bless.
Anita Richardson
April 20, 2017
I began to look at music a whole new way because of what you created. I thank you for that. You will be missed.
Alexander Choman
April 20, 2017
Paul was a gentleman, a kind and sincere person in what is sometimes a very competitive, self-serving business. I met him on the very first tour of TSI at a small theater in Wilkes-Barre, PA
After the show he stopped me on the way out of the theatre to thank me for covering the show (I was a Music Critic), for a newspaper at the time.
His congeniality led to what would become a nice friendship even when the band became huge and was subsequently playing arenas.
The business has lost a real musical innovator and me, a friend.
RIP Paul!
Alexander Choman
Music Critic
Johnny Green
April 20, 2017
You changed my life I love you and your family very much
I love you Paul
John Green
April 20, 2017
Paul O'Neill was such a huge part of my life I loved him and his wife and daughter and was so lucky to have known them meeting and knowing Paul changed my life forever he was one of a kind a true friend full of knowledge advice and ancouragemnt I will never forget him.
Jim and Rosaire Singleton
April 18, 2017
There's not enough words to describe how wonderful Paul was. I've been blessed to know the O'Neill family the pass few years. They will be in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace my friend. I will miss you.
Althea Fackrell
April 18, 2017
I am lost for words! In my humble opinion one of the greatest musicians in the world! I will always remember my first encounter with your musicianship. Thank you and good thoughts to your family. TSO forever!
Cathy Breaux
April 18, 2017
My niece, Ellie, is 3 months old. Her mother, to whom I give TSO tickets every year, has already begun playing their music for the baby. I cannot begin to fathom the loss the O'Neill family is going through, but please know that even now, Paul's musical legacy lives on and is making its way to the next generation. And for that music, I am grateful from the bottom of my heart. May he rest in peace.
Lisa & Faith Curtis
April 17, 2017
My daughter and I are keeping the family of Paul O'Neill and all the TSO members in our prayers. We greatly admire Paul for his talents and respect him for the wonderful human being he was while on this Earth. Saw him on stage several times and listen to his music year-round. Looking forward to meeting him in heaven! Many blessings of comfort and peace to all who loved him.
George Pitcher
April 17, 2017
It's been over a week and there are still no words to describe the impact of his life and the loss that his absence has left in the wake. As a fan of his work with TSO and Savatage, Paul's brilliance has left me with a lifetime of joy that I continue to revisit daily. His work will live forever and I remain grateful to Paul for his genius as well as his kindness to his fans. Thanks Paul - we miss you.
Jamie Magill
April 16, 2017
To the O'Neill family my deepest sympathies. I was greatly saddened to hear about Paul. So quickly time passes but many good memories of my youth will always remain.
Linda
April 15, 2017
Please draw close to God for comfort and strength during this time of sorrow. He will 3 you the needed support to endure. I am sorry for your loss. (Psalms 145:14,18) -
michelle plakas-kaiser
April 15, 2017
RIP
Patrick
April 14, 2017
God bless your new angel. Paul changed my life through his music and my schedule was dictated by TSO tours. The memories of the many times that I talked to Paul and the shows that I saw across the US plus in England, France and Germany will last forever. My thoughts and love to family, friends and all those touched in person or through your art.
Sue Ramer
April 14, 2017
My thoughts & prayers goes out to you his family . He was an amazing man, so kind & talented. One of a kind.
Julie Atkinson
April 14, 2017
Thanks for the beautiful music
Karen Doneff
April 14, 2017
The world has lost a true musical genius. TSO has been a part of my life for many many years. The music will live on as I'm sure Paul would want it to.
May God hold his newest musical angel close. RIP
April 13, 2017
I am heartbroken to hear of the loss of a true musical pioneer. My prayers to his family and friends during this time of great loss.
Joe Alvarez
April 13, 2017
My condolences to ALL the family which includes all members of the band. I was very fortunate to take my wife and kids to see them when they came to DC. They still talk about it. Thanks Paul for the memories.
April 13, 2017
Please accept my sincerest condolences on the death of Paul O'Neill. He was obviously a brilliant man who appreciated exceptional music. TSO concerts have been my favorite for years. Haven't missed on in the RI area. Thank you, Paul. God Bless the TSO family and well as the O'Neill family.
Mike Serbst
April 13, 2017
Paul, You were truly an Artistic Genius, my Wife & I have been going to TSO Shows in Providence R.I. sine 2001, RIP. TSO, Paul would want "The Show To Go On" I'm quite sure. God Bless Paul, his Family, & the entire TSO Family.
Paul Doneff
April 12, 2017
I am so heartbroken. Mr. O'Neill, and, the whole TSO family holds a special place in my heart. The band, and, their music take me back to a happier time in my life, one filled with wonderful memories, now, that's all I have left, memories. My sincerest sympathies to his family, he was well loved, and, will be greatly missed.
Len Cisternino
April 11, 2017
Thoughts and Prayers go out to the Family of Paul O'Neill - Thank you Paul for creating new Christmas Music and Traditions that many Families will share in a very special way - You are missed, but your legacy will go on forever - Rest In Peace
Jeanette Ranow
April 11, 2017
The world has lost such an amazingly multi-faceted genius. Desiree, Rachel, and Ireland were his inspiration for so many things the public will never know. He remains here with his music and writings and quite sure he and Winston are having quite the conversation. From the bottom of our hearts we cared about him on all the tours your family has been on, and it feels like we have been hit hard in the heart.
Nothing we can do but carry on, try to be as kind as he was, and miss him.
Tour Guides Jeanette and Joe
Please let us know arrangements. [email protected]
Patti Hakanson
April 11, 2017
Our deepest heartfelt sympathies and prayers to Mr. O Neill's family, and to his TSO family. What a huge loss, and Praying they all find comfort in the wonderful memories made...Rest In Peace Paul....
Jordan Gaias
April 11, 2017
Knowing Mr. Paul O'Neill for a couple years of my life has been an honor. He is and will forever be one of the kindest, most giving, most talented people I have ever met. He left a big mark on this world and made it a better place for music lovers and for those who needed a friend like him. Words cannot explain how much we will all miss him. Thank you for everything you did for me, Rachel, Ireland, Desiree, and everyone you touched. Thank you for being you. We love you and will miss you dearly!
Love, Jordan
Diane and Dave Glatzer
April 10, 2017
Our deepest regrets to the Paul's family and his TSO family. Our lives have forever changed because of Paul and the TSO. We are absolutely heartbroken, but are so blessed that our paths have crossed. He truly was an angel on earth. We share our love of the TSO by the license plates we've had for the last ten years. The plate proudly says TSO FANS. God Bless all of you, and thank you God for Paul.
April 10, 2017
May the God of comfort, the one who binds up the broken heated and comforts all who mourn, be with you all during this difficult time.(Isaiah 61:1,2)
Emily
patti davies
April 10, 2017
May the grace of God surround you all at your time of loss. Paul is the leader of the heavenly band now, but his music will live on in our hearts forever.
Mike Kaufman
April 10, 2017
Thanks for the music, you will never be forgotten R.I.P.
April 9, 2017
My deepest sympathy to Pauls family and TSO family. He was a wonderful, caring man who will not soon be forgotten...I am sorry for your loss.
Maria Volpe
April 9, 2017
To the O'Neill Family
My deepest sympathies to Paul's family and the TSO band members & crew..Paul has given us so much though out the years, peace, love and compassion..we never know when we have an Angel among us until they are gone. May the love of family and friends help you though this most difficult time. Paul's music and legacy will live on forever in the hearts of all his fans..May God Bless each and everyone that was somehow brought together by this beautiful man and his talent.
David Nei
April 9, 2017
A heart made of gold RIP Mr Paul
Linda Thompson
April 9, 2017
Thanks Paul for all the great. Concerts. You. Will be truely missed. By all. That loved your music an concerts. God bless your family and the TSO Band. The world has lost a true. Jewiel.
hauke powers
April 9, 2017
Mr. O'Neil, your music showed so many young musicians that there was more to the art than loud rock and roll. May your family and the TSO be wrapped in God's loving arms. Send us some music from above..God bless..
THERESA MORGENTHALER
April 9, 2017
PAUL ATTENDED THE SAME HIGH SCHOOL ON LONG ISLAND AS I. I WILL MISS HIM AND HIS BEAUTUFUL MUSIC. MY CONDOLACES TO HIS WIFE AND FAMILY. MAY GOD BE WITH HIM IN HEAVEN MAKING MORE WONDERFUL MUSIC.
Mary Green
April 9, 2017
My deepest Condolences to the family of Paul O'Neil may you find comfort in knowing that others share in your sorrow with you. Take Comfort in knowing that God keeps those who dies in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. Psalm 116:15
Rose Trunk
April 9, 2017
We had the honor to meet Paul after his Dec. concert in N.J. He was the most generous and gifted people I know.
May he rest in peace.
Ray & Rose Trunk
Milton Mcmanus
April 8, 2017
May you rest in piece you will be sorely missed
I am a big ran of tso and savatsge my condolences to your family and friends
Steve Leber
April 8, 2017
Paul. You know I loved you very much Marcella and Ireland so sorry for your loss paul and I had a deep connection. We understood each other and our passion to produce
Please let me know funeral arrangements [email protected].
Susan M
April 8, 2017
TSO has always been a favorite band and a family holiday tradition. We met Paul at Detroit airport a couple years ago as he was on the same flight as us to LGA , the day after the opening TSO season show in Toledo OH, which we had attended. He was one of the most gracious and gifted entertainers ever. He was nice enough to talk with us. I still treasure the guitar pick he gave me, and I remember our conversation that day.
He will always be admired and revered.
April 8, 2017
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Debbie Harris
April 8, 2017
Paul started something amazing that will never die. R.i.p starting your new gig.
Debra Goff-Deigert
April 8, 2017
A sad day for the music industry. Prayers for his family, friend's, fellow musicians & the fans. NEVER be another. All I've read, video's seen, stories shared. Mr. O'Niell had a heart of GOLD. TSO has changed my life. Love them always will. Carry on his legacy. So blessed he prefomed at our Wilkes-Barre show 2016 tour. The crowd went crazy. SURLY will be missed. A fan for life. Much love, peace & rock 'n' roll
April 8, 2017
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
April 8, 2017
Dear Family..."Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, but Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
john morrell
April 8, 2017
Thank you for sharing your music with us all. RIP PAUL
April 7, 2017
A true genius to have created Trans Siberian Orchestra. All out of work musicians. Trans Siberian Orchestra changed my life. I wish I could go see them perform in person because I love music and never have the opportunity to see them perform. Maybe one day. RIP, Paul O'Neill. A true genius has died.
Stacey Davidson
April 7, 2017
My thoughts and prayers going out to the O'Neill family, and The Savatage band family, along with all of the fans.
Still can't believe this is real, it's so sad and devastating.
Paul brought alot of happiness to many people. I know his knowledge for the vision he had has made my life happier.
I will continue to support and share Savatage and TSO music with everyone...and Paul will live on.
R.I.P Paul...go rest now sir.
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