Shelley Berman

1925 - 2017

Shelley Berman

1925 - 2017

BORN

1925

DIED

2017

Shelley Berman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 1, 2017.
NEW YORK (AP) - Comedian Shelley Berman, who won gold records and appeared on top television shows in the 1950s and 1960s delivering wry monologues about the annoyances of everyday life, has died. He was 92.

Berman died Friday at his home in Bell Canyon, California, from complications from Alzheimer's disease, according to spokesman Glenn Schwartz.

Berman was a pioneer of a new brand of comedy that could evoke laughter from such matters as air travel discomforts and small children who answer the telephone. He helped pave the way for Bob Newhart, Woody Allen, Jerry Seinfeld and other standup comedians who fashioned their routines around the follies and frustrations of modern living.

Late in his career, he played Nat David, father of Larry David, on HBO's "Curb Your Enthusiasm." With dialogue improvised by its cast, the comedy series gave Berman the opportunity to return to his improv roots and introduced him to a new generation of TV viewers.

"I'm not a standup comedian," Berman often insisted. "I work on a stool."

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Comedy was not a childhood ambition for him. He trained as an actor, with the Goodman School of Drama in his native Chicago and with the prestigious actress-teacher Uta Hagen in New York.

"I had dreams of being an actor," he said in a 1960 interview. "For 10 years I tried, picking up small jobs in summer stock and TV. I had a hard time of it."

As a last resort, he put together a 20-minute routine and auditioned at the Chicago nightclub Mister Kelly's. He was given a job, and then he had to scramble to write more material for a half-hour show.

"I was always one of those life-of-the-party boys," he admitted, "though I never stooped to wearing women's hats or lampshades. I was always making people laugh, in school and later in life."

Berman's success in Chicago led to a booking in Las Vegas. He bombed. The gamblers didn't laugh nor did they talk. Accustomed to slam-bang comics out of vaudeville and burlesque, they listened in amazement to the guy sitting on a stool and using big words with a routine that often consisted of one side of a make-believe phone call. He continued on the saloon circuit, honing his craft and deciding on which direction to go. He didn't fit any category. He wasn't a joke teller nor a "sick" comedian. He figured he was a "humanist humorist."

Berman made the first of many appearances on "The Ed Sullivan Show" in 1959. That year he issued his first album, "Inside Shelley Berman." It won a gold record and received the first-ever Grammy Award for the spoken word. Two more albums achieved gold status.

Along with his busy schedule in nightclubs and auditoriums, he fulfilled his first ambition to be an actor. He appeared in a Broadway play, "The Boys Against the Girls," in 1959 and a musical, "A Family Affair," in 1962. His film debut came in 1964 with the adaptation of Gore Vidal's hit political stage drama "The Best Man," starring Henry Fonda and Cliff Robertson.

Berman's comedy career stalled in 1963. He was performing his act before an audience for a documentary-style NBC show, "Comedian Backstage," when a telephone ringing interrupted him; it was the second night it happened. He stormed backstage and ranted at everyone in sight. His outburst, edited to make him appear temperamental, was included in the telecast.

"Once you're known as being difficult, it becomes too hard to deal with management and even fellow artists," he remarked in 1986. The bookings fell off, and Berman returned to acting, with little luck. He and his wife, Sarah, were forced to file for bankruptcy, and he began a long struggle to pay off his taxes and creditors.

He found work in television series such as "The Twilight Zone," ''Rawhide" and "Peter Gunn" and occasional movies including "Divorce American Style." He became active in regional theater and also worked his old routines before college and lecture audiences.

For more than 20 years he taught comedy at the University of Southern California.

In recent years, he landed guest roles on series including "The King of Queens," ''Boston Legal" and "CSI: NY," and appeared in the film "Meet the Fockers."

He retired from performing in 2014 after being diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease.

Sheldon Leonard Berman was born in Chicago and attended public schools. After training as an actor, he joined an improvisational company in Chicago, Compass Players, the beginning of the famed Second City. Watching his fellow performers, Mike Nichols and Elaine May, Berman said in 2000, "I learned more in two weeks than I did in four years at Goodman."

He married in 1947, and he credited Sarah with helping him to survive through his jobless period while trying to be a comedian, the bankruptcy, the rebuilding of his career and the loss of their son, Joshua. They also had a daughter, Rachel, who, along with his wife, survives him.

Berman said of his marriage: "The love we have and the way it has grown, that's what I'd like to be remembered for."

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The late Associated Press entertainer writer Bob Thomas contributed to this report.


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Marie Nixon

December 21, 2024

I know this is very late but I just want you to know that I just happened on the information that you lost your husband. Sarah, I will never forget you and all the help and support you gave me in a very hard time while my son Kevin was suffering from leukemia. Love to you forever Marie Nixon

Julia Fay Ryder

November 23, 2021

Became a fan listening to 'Inside Shelly Berman" in 1960 Sydney NSW Australia. My late brother, Maurice Featherstone, & laughed at his wry humour. Followed his later career after coming to US in 1970,s. What a hip guy!! Missed hearing from/about him. Condolences to his wife and daughter, Julia

Terrence Gillespie

October 13, 2018

You found a hook, and hung on it till it broke.

Mary Ann Sumner

October 11, 2017

He was funny and his humor was clean. He has been in my thoughts over the years, as I missed seeing him. He was great on Curb Your Enthusiasm - I'm glad that he got to work toward the end of his life. Condolences and blessings to his family. Shelly Berman made the world a better place.

Spish

September 14, 2017

I was honored and blessed to have known this man, if only for a short time. Rest easy, sir.

L Anderson

September 6, 2017

Shelley was funny and I loved seeing him on TV when I was a kid. I had sometimes wondered what became of him. I never realized he had such a rough time in his life. My sympathy to his family. RIP

September 6, 2017

May the God of all comfort be with you.

Sincerely

mike miller

September 6, 2017

I loved Shelley Berman......his routines had me on the floor. I really believe it was the good feeling I had while laughing with Shelley that led me to a life of loving to make people laugh.......sincere condolences to his family.

Robert Oines

September 6, 2017

In the late 1960's my young son and I approached Mr. Berman for an autograph before a play he was in, and he was incredibly kind and thoughtful. I was even more of a fan after that incident. He was a lovely man. My sympathies to his family.

Lee Fortner

September 6, 2017

To the Berman family, just a note on the smiles and laughter Shelley brought to our living room on Ed Sullivan nights. I was a teenager waiting for the latest British act to appear on Ed's show on Sunday night. Shelley Berman would come on and his comedy would have me look forward to seeing him, even before the British band of the night. So rest assured, his comic telephone and stool comedy was a high light of my teenage years. May God be with his family at this sad time of your life.

Carlotta

September 5, 2017

May the God of all peace bring comfort to the Berman family and friends at this difficult time.

Juanita C

September 5, 2017

Sincere condolences to the Bergman family for your loss. May God comfort you all during this difficult time.

Kay Reckord Ames

September 5, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I remember him for all his antics and loved his comedy. He could always made me laugh. He brought joy to a lot of people. Hold the wonderful memories that he left you, close, and remember the good times. He was great! My sincere condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time..

September 4, 2017

What a long and full life! So many cannot say the same. May Shelley Berman forever be in our hearts and in God's book of life.

September 4, 2017

To the family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort, continue to bless you and bring comfort to your family.

September 4, 2017

My sincere condolences to Mr. Berman's family, friends and fans. God will comfort and sustain you during this difficult time because he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6,7)

Franklin Family

September 3, 2017

We are so sorry for the loss of Shelley. He was truly an amazing and talented individual. He brought so much laughter into this world. Thank you for sharing him with everyone! May the God of tender mercies bring you the comfort and strengthen the whole family during this time of deep sorrow. Please be encouraged by Psalmist at Psalms 37:11.

September 3, 2017

Sincere condolences to all in your family for the great lost during this difficult time. Shelly was brought laughter too many over the years. May you find comfort and hope in the promise found a John 6:40

Wanda

September 3, 2017

I remember seeing him on tv. He could always make you laugh.Sorry about his passing.

September 3, 2017

Sorry for your loss. Grief can be hard, but the love from family and friends will help you cope.

Sheila

September 3, 2017

Godspeed Shelley. You will be missed.

Barb and Steve North

September 3, 2017

Sarah:
Our hearts and thoughts go out to you. Shelley was loved by many and will be greatly missed. We tried to call you, but the landline number we have for you is no longer in service. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you, and when there will be a service. (818-347-5098)
All Our Love,
Barb and Steve North.

September 3, 2017

My heartfelt condolences and prayers to Ms Sarah & daughter. I'm so sorry for your loss. Shelley was truly an amazing and talented man of integrity. May God provide comfort and strength to the family and acquaintances during this most challenging time. My God's promise to restore the human race the way he meant it to be, no sickness or death. We will always remember Shelley's legacy of compassion, intelligence and fine arts. With Love & Prayers

Harry Simpson

September 2, 2017

Godspeed Shelley, and thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Fair winds and following seas sailor.

Thank you for your service to this nation.

September 2, 2017

My condolences to the family. May the God of peace and comfort be with the family at this most difficult time.

Jaida Charles

September 2, 2017

I'm sorry for your lost, please allow me to offer my sincerest condolences to the family of Shelley Berman. Thank you for sharing his life, his thoughts and his failures with us. May the God of tender mercies bring you the comfort and strengthen the whole family during this time of deep sorrow. Please be encouraged by Psalmist at Psalms 37:11.

Stu Levin

September 2, 2017

I met Shelley when we appeared together in a play in Hollywood. He and Sarah later graciously invited us to their home. Shelley and I frequently saw each other at auditions. He appeared as a guest on my radio show. We stayed in touch for quite some time, although not for the last few years.
I always appreciated Shelley for his kindness, gentleness, intelligence and compassion.
I shall miss him greatly.
My thoughts are with his lovely wife Sarah.

Stu Levin

September 2, 2017

May you be comforted by the scriptural thought found at the 121st Psalm. Know that God will support you through this time of deep sorrow.

Mike Shanley

September 2, 2017

Shelley's "Father and Son" routine is one of my favorite bits of all time. It's both hilarious and touching, especially with the way it ends. And it was a big part of my rapport with my own dad. Thanks, Shelley.

Valerie Demming

September 2, 2017

My mom and dad meet him in the 60's...they loved sitting and talking with him...

Dee Fredericks

September 2, 2017

He gave us many laughs; what a nice legacy to be remembered by. We look forward to the time when we can all enjoy pure joy and happiness that will never end in a peaceful world. Psalms 37:10,11

Jennifer Petra-Potter

September 2, 2017

Such a great entertainer.

September 2, 2017

We need a cure for Alzheimer's. Although humor cures a lot of sadness, Alzheimer's needs more

Kathy Shannon

September 2, 2017

My condolences to Mr. Berman's family. His humor entertained my family for years. He was so original. He never insulted his audience or listeners. As my uncle was in Hospice the last few weeks of his life, he requested Shelly's record to listen to . This helped him get through the last two weeks of his life. I tracked down the CD and brought it to him. I will always be grateful to Shelly for sharing his sense of humor. I only have wonderful memories of him. We were blessed to be entertained by him.
Kathy
Orland Park, Il

Wells Family

September 2, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Although your hearts are filled with pain and sorrow, our prayer is that you gain comfort and hope from God's promise to reunite us with our love ones on the earth, never having to say goodbye again. For Jesus will make this earth the problem-free paradise that His Father intended it to be. We have gained comfort and strength from this promise, may your family do the same.

Carol Brockman Castro

September 2, 2017

Rest In Peace, Mr. Berman. You have earned your stool in heaven. You provided lots of joy and laughter while on earth. Thank you! Enjoy your new home!

With my deepest sympathy

DH

September 2, 2017

September 2, 2017

Sorry for your loss. May you have peace and blessings from the God of all comfort.

Darlene and Family

September 2, 2017

We mourn along with the family of
Mr. Shelley Berman.
Our condolences to his wife and
daughter who survived him.
Keep praying to our Creator for
comfort at this difficult time.
Psalms 65:2

Adrian Barnette

September 2, 2017

We'll miss you !

Carolyn Bass

September 2, 2017

To the Family of Mr. Berman, I am truly sorry for your loss. May the God of peace and comfort be with you.

Les Breese

September 2, 2017

I always enjoyed watching Shelley Berman work...He was a true original in comedic entertainment. My condolences to Mr. Berman's family, friends, and fellow fans at this sad and difficult time.

Ken

September 2, 2017

In the early 70"s Shelly approached three of us with very long hair. He made a comedy scene offering to pay for haircuts for us. He was a nice person and funny. I paid for my own hair later in 1976. Thanks for the laughs!

September 2, 2017

Sarah, Rachel, Family, Friends,

Our condolences and prayers go out the Berman Family at this difficult time. He was a very funny guy. He put us in stitches. The laughs just kept on coming. Cherish his wonderful memories. May the God who gives peace be with all of you.-RO.15:33

Norman Abess

September 1, 2017

I was so blessed to know he even knew me and I him through his brother Naaman and his lovely wife my Aunt Louise. RIP Shelly. Most sincere wishes to the family.

September 1, 2017

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your love one.

Adrian Barnette

September 1, 2017

We'll miss you!

Andrew McCabe

September 1, 2017

Shelley's humor made me laugh and helped bond my father and I together, for which I will be forever grateful. Condolences to his family and comfort in the knowledge of the good he was able to foment.

Jacob Hall

September 1, 2017

Rest in Peace Mr. Berman. I thoroughly enjoyed his work as a comedian, especially the appearances on "The Ed Sullivan Show."

I also followed his acting career,and enjoyed seeing you guest star on such shows as; "Bewitched", "Peter Gunn", and "Goodyear Playhouse".

Rod Serling was so impressed with Mr. Berman's work that he wrote a Twilight Zone episode for him. Today "The Mind and the Matter" stands out as one of the very best episodes of the 5 year run of the show.

RIP Shelley Berman 1925-2017

September 1, 2017

My deepest condolences to those who mourn the loss of this great comedian. May those affected by his death find comfort from each other and from God during this difficult time.

September 1, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ted Cornell

September 1, 2017

Great comedian always enjoyed his shows. RIP.

Nancy Woodwell-Freedman

September 1, 2017

My prayers, thoughts & deepest condolences go out to the family, friends & associates of the great Shelley Berman. I remember his many hilarious appearances on the Ed Sullivan show ( he had us rocking with laughter), and his star turns on "The Twilight Zone" and also as the lawyer in "Divorce American Style" and as Larry David's father in "Curb Your Enthusiasm". In addition to being an original & great comedian, he was also a very talented & fine actor. Although he is gone, his body of work will remain as his legacy. May his blessed memory be a comfort to his loved ones. May he rest in eternal peace and may the perpetual light shine upon him.

Steven

September 1, 2017

He was a great comedic actor! Deepest Sympathies to his beloved wife/ daughter and family. Shalom Mr. Berman!

Sue

September 1, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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